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Subject: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: RockandRollFan on 04/30/02 at 05:54 p.m.

The strange post by kryllith?  I have talked to a few people here and we're all Very concerned......

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Jessica on 04/30/02 at 05:55 p.m.

Do you mean the one in the "Haiku" thread?

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: RockandRollFan on 04/30/02 at 06:03 p.m.


Quoting:
Do you mean the one in the "Haiku" thread?
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Yes....I'm very worried  ???

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Jessica on 04/30/02 at 06:04 p.m.

I know, it sounded odd. Kryllith, where are you? Let us know you're alright.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Junior on 04/30/02 at 06:07 p.m.

His name is missing under the Members List. I'm really worried now...

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: lebeiw15 on 04/30/02 at 06:14 p.m.

Yes, what worries me the most, too, is that he is not a member anymore.  That's kind of scary.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: RockandRollFan on 04/30/02 at 06:16 p.m.

I sent an e-mail to him a while ago...no answer as of yet....

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: lebeiw15 on 04/30/02 at 06:22 p.m.

I mean, it didn't sound like he had a very pleasing day at work, but still..

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Indy Gent on 04/30/02 at 06:23 p.m.

This is really starting to freak me out. Kryllith, if you're still out there, please think of all the friends you have here and at home. Just think what you'd be doing to them if you ended your life.  I hope this is only a sick joke or something that can be resolved without drastic measures. Remember, even if you reject Him, Jesus will still love you. :'(

Quoting:
I sent an e-mail to him a while ago...no answer as of yet....
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Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Hairspray on 04/30/02 at 06:46 p.m.

Let's not be so negative. Kryllith overcomes his bad days at work as well as we all do. We've come this far, right?

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Zella on 04/30/02 at 06:49 p.m.

Amen to that, J.C.

R&R, thank you for putting this post up.

Kryllith, I hope you are out there, logged on as a guest and reading this. We all love you and pray that you are alright. Please return.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: lebeiw15 on 04/30/02 at 06:52 p.m.

Yeah, Hairspray, but it's the words
"Sadness riddles me
Devoid of meaning, I go.
Forever sleep, farewell."
are scary.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Hairspray on 04/30/02 at 07:03 p.m.


Quoting:
Yeah, Hairspray, but it's the words
"Sadness riddles me
Devoid of meaning, I go.
Forever sleep, farewell."
are scary.
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Those words are disturbing indeed. Couldn't it be another Haiku?

I'm figuring he's ok because he'd never before given us any indication that he was sad or depressed.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Zella on 04/30/02 at 07:08 p.m.


Quoting:
Those words are disturbing indeed. Couldn't it be another Haiku?

I'm figuring he's ok because he'd never before given us any indication that he was sad or depressed.
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It was in the Haiku thread. It was his last post I could find and he deleted his profile. I found that very worrisome.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Indy Gent on 04/30/02 at 07:09 p.m.

It could be. But the last stanza has one too many syllables. So for me, that would mean a genuine cry for help. :'(

Quoting:



Those words are disturbing indeed. Couldn't it be another Haiku?

I'm figuring he's ok because he'd never before given us any indication that he was sad or depressed.


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Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Hairspray on 04/30/02 at 07:28 p.m.

We should not jump to conclusions and make these kinds of assumptions.

We cannot know the reasoning or true meaning behind that last post with absolute certainty. There's no way.

Realistically, there's nothing much we can do for Kryllith if he should have done an irreversible act, except for prayers.

It would be more appropriate to have positive things to say, just in case he's just on a temporary hiatus. He may just be ill and hospitalized and have no access to a computer.

Let's just hope for the best, for there's nothing we could do otherwise.  :-/

P.S. Why do you assume he deleted his profile?  ???

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: lebeiw15 on 04/30/02 at 07:32 p.m.

I think he deleted his profile because he's Not on the member list anymore.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Zella on 04/30/02 at 07:32 p.m.


Quoting:
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P.S. Why do you assume he deleted his profile?  ???
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Because all his posts now show up only as "guest." :(

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Indy Gent on 04/30/02 at 07:34 p.m.

That's my point. We shouldn't assume anything. But we should hope for the best possible solution in that Kryllith didn't delete his membership and it was just the result of the messageboard hacking. And of course that he is alive, well, and conscious.
P.S.: Does anyone know if Kryllith's membership was gone before or after he posted the haiku?

Quoting:
We should not jump to conclusions and make these kinds of assumptions.

We cannot know the reasoning or true meaning behind that last post with absolute certainty. There's no way.

Realistically, there's nothing much we can do for Kryllith if he should have done an irreversible act, except for prayers.

It would be more appropriate to have positive things to say, just in case he's just on a temporary hiatus. He may just be ill and hospitalized and have no access to a computer.

Let's just hope for the best, for there's nothing we could do otherwise.  :-/

P.S. Why do you assume he deleted his profile?  ???
End Quote

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: lebeiw15 on 04/30/02 at 07:36 p.m.

I don't know  ??? I was in school all day  ???

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Hairspray on 04/30/02 at 07:42 p.m.

During the hacking of the board, a few profiles were corrupted and/or gone. His was most likely one of the affected.

Hypothetical -

If I were to do something irreversible, I wouldn't have the presense of mind to go through the trouble of logging into the net and deleting a profile from a public messageboard which contains no strings to my identity.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Zella on 04/30/02 at 07:56 p.m.


Quoting:
During the hacking of the board, a few profiles were corrupted and/or gone. His was most likely one of the affected. End Quote



He had a profile yesterday. The avatar was those little dancing pooh guys. He never got around to changing it back to the grinning skull.

Quoting:
Hypothetical -

If I were to do something irreversible, I wouldn't have the presense of mind to go through the trouble of logging into the net and deleting a profile from a public messageboard which contains no strings to my identity.
End Quote



I'm sure that's true. However, if one were simply very depressed and wanted to test the waters to see how much they were missed and/or appreciated, it would be a very logical thing to do.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: RockandRollFan on 04/30/02 at 08:41 p.m.

I just want to say that I, along with a very good friend, are continuing to try and figure this all out.  I do apologize for alarming everyone but, then again those words in the poem are rather alarming all on thier own.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: BadAngel on 04/30/02 at 09:00 p.m.


Quoting:
However, if one were simply very depressed and wanted to test the waters to see how much they were missed and/or appreciated, it would be a very logical thing to do.
End Quote


I disagree with that, J.C.  Even a depressed person would realize the undue stress he would be placing on his friends, and knowing that coming back and saying "ha ha fooled ya!" would lose a few of those friends for him.  ;)

I'm sure if Kryllith wants or needs our help, he knows we'd all be here for him and therefore open up to someone.  :)  If he doesn't want our help, then there's nothing any of us can do.

I have to agree with Hairspray that we should give him the benefit of the doubt.  Maybe he just accidentally erased his profile, or got a computer virus....I'm sure we'll find out soon. :)

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: mrgazpacho on 04/30/02 at 09:11 p.m.


Quoting:

I disagree with that, J.C.  Even a depressed person would realize the undue stress he would be placing on his friends, and knowing that coming back and saying "ha ha fooled ya!" would lose a few of those friends for him.  ;)

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However, something very similar happened last year on another online forum that I frequent, except that a message was received purporting to report their death (and, I think, of the spouse - a car crash, or something). The forum put up a memorial message and mourned  - until this person re-appeared.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Mystery Woman on 05/01/02 at 07:00 a.m.

I have reason to believe Kryllith's post was the result of a somewhat personal matter.  I will talk to him.

Sorry to everyone who is concerned.  I'm sure Kryllith will be happy to see how many friends he has here who truly care.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: DJ Midas on 05/01/02 at 07:45 a.m.

I thought Kryllith's post in the Haiku thread sounded odd also. I saw him logged in as a guest, which prompted my "hard drive" haiku.  I am concerned for him.

I just checked the haiku thread again this morning.  Kryllith's posts prior to the haiku in question talked about lunch & his day at work.  On those posts his E-mail is listed as kryllith@hotmail.com, which is what I've always known his e-mail to be.  The poem in question has his E-mail as kryllith@inthe80s.com.  I don't know if that means anything.  In any case, I pray that Kryllith is okay.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Indy Gent on 05/01/02 at 09:53 a.m.

Thanks for the explanation, BA. But it was Zella's post you were referring to. Was there another post you had an issue with? ???

Quoting:
I disagree with that, J.C.  
End Quote

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Zella on 05/01/02 at 03:12 p.m.


Quoting:
I have reason to believe Kryllith's post was the result of a somewhat personal matter.  I will talk to him.

Sorry to everyone who is concerned.  I'm sure Kryllith will be happy to see how many friends he has here who truly care.
End Quote



Thank you so much M.W. It is good to know that someone is in touch with him, and I assume from your post that he is okay. I didn't mean to be an alarmist, but I felt that the odd post ought to be addressed. I was just getting ready to log off (as I had an appointment) when I discovered it, and I asked R&RF to please post a query. So I'm afraid the fuss was all my fault.  :(  Please tell Kryllith that we all miss him, and are glad that he is alright.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Tarzan Boy (Guest) on 05/01/02 at 07:07 p.m.

I don't know. I thought the haiku was good, but reading the reaction and responses from the rest of the board, I don't think it's so good now...

Tarzanboi

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Indy Gent on 05/01/02 at 07:12 p.m.

Please don't blame yourself, Zella. I was the one that assumed the worst. You are okay, and we hope Kryllith is too.

Quoting:


So I'm afraid the fuss was all my fault.  :(  End Quote

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Banasy on 05/01/02 at 07:19 p.m.

His last haiku was very cryptic...

I just wish somebody would tell me what the heck happened...

I am concerned for everybody right about now...

I hope Kryllith is OK....

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Mystery Woman on 05/01/02 at 07:34 p.m.

A post like the one Kryllith made IS cause for concern.  I'm not saying anyone should overreact, but please don't ever just ignore something that may be a cry for help.  You were all correct to express your concern like this.  This board has a fabulous support net of people who truly care about each other, and none of us should ever be afraid to talk about something that's bothering us.    

Anyone who has managed to get to know Kryllith well would realize that he would have the presence of mind about him, in any situation, to log on, send PMs, write such a poem, and delete his account (if that is indeed what happened to it).

But the fact is, until Kryllith chooses to come back and read our posts, and see just how concerned everyone here is about him, there is very little we can do for him.

Hang in there, guys.  And be good to each other, like always.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Banasy on 05/01/02 at 07:36 p.m.

MW, I agree with you totally...I just miss Kryllith and his wacky sense of humor...Be well, Kryllith.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Indy Gent on 05/01/02 at 07:39 p.m.

And I second that. Thanks MW and Banasy.

Quoting:
MW, I agree with you totally...I just miss Kryllith and his wacky sense of humor...Be well, Kryllith.
End Quote

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: BadAngel on 05/01/02 at 09:12 p.m.


Quoting:
Thanks for the explanation, BA. But it was Zella's post you were referring to. Was there another post you had an issue with? ???

End Quote


Oh!!  lol  DUH!!!  No, I meant Zella's statement, J.C.  I must have been reading yours, too, and got confused.  Sorry about that!!  What I meant by that was, I don't think Kryllith would post something like that just to see what reaction he would get. ;)


 

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Hideous Twit on 05/02/02 at 04:51 p.m.

Ok, first off, my haiku sucked (specifically, I refer to the extra syllable in the last line).  Sadly, as a guest, I've no way of editting my posts, so the bad poetry had to stand (actually, this is just an assumption since I didn't try to modify the post to fix the last line... but I figure I'm pretty much on the mark in regards to my inability to edit it).

Secondly, as Hairspray suggested, I've been unable to access a computer the past couple of days because I was placed in protective care for threatening to commit suicide. Before anybody reacts to this, let me simply say that I am doing quite well, and, as a result, have been discharged early as a result. The depth of the reasons behind my threat is not something I really want to go into, especially since I was required to divulge them numerous times over the past couple of days. Simply know that I feel much better after I had a chance to release my pent emotions about various internal and external strifes which had riddled me with stress and occasional feelings of depression.

I'm sorry to have been a source for recent concern, but I'm thankful that I'm lucky enough to have people that care about me. It is a great comfort.

Hideous Twit (aka Kryllith)

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Banasy on 05/02/02 at 05:01 p.m.


Quoting:
Ok, first off, my haiku sucked (specifically, I refer to the extra syllable in the last line).  Sadly, as a guest, I've no way of editting my posts, so the bad poetry had to stand (actually, this is just an assumption since I didn't try to modify the post to fix the last line... but I figure I'm pretty much on the mark in regards to my inability to edit it).

Secondly, as Hairspray suggested, I've been unable to access a computer the past couple of days because I was placed in protective care for threatening to commit suicide. Before anybody reacts to this, let me simply say that I am doing quite well, and, as a result, have been discharged early as a result. The depth of the reasons behind my threat is not something I really want to go into, especially since I was required to divulge them numerous times over the past couple of days. Simply know that I feel much better after I had a chance to release my pent emotions about various internal and external strifes which had riddled me with stress and occasional feelings of depression.

I'm sorry to have been a source for recent concern, but I'm thankful that I'm lucky enough to have people that care about me. It is a great comfort.

Hideous Twit (aka Kryllith)

End Quote



I am so glad that you are OK....we do love ya, you know.....

My hearts weeps for you...please know that I care.

Baby, please know that any or all of us will let you vent any time you need to...be well...

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: RockandRollFan on 05/02/02 at 05:02 p.m.

Quoting:


I'm sorry to have been a source for recent concern, but I'm thankful that I'm lucky enough to have people that care about me. It is a great comfort.

Hideous Twit (aka Kryllith)

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Let me be the first to say..oh alright the 2nd (Edit)..unless someone replies before I finish typing this....You will ALWAYS have a friend in me, and I'm Sure a lot of others here, if not everyone feels the same as I do.  We were all very concerned but I am so happy that you are back.  If you EVER want or need to talk to anyone I am here. ;)

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Jessica on 05/02/02 at 05:10 p.m.


Quoting:
Ok, first off, my haiku sucked (specifically, I refer to the extra syllable in the last line).  Sadly, as a guest, I've no way of editting my posts, so the bad poetry had to stand (actually, this is just an assumption since I didn't try to modify the post to fix the last line... but I figure I'm pretty much on the mark in regards to my inability to edit it).

Secondly, as Hairspray suggested, I've been unable to access a computer the past couple of days because I was placed in protective care for threatening to commit suicide. Before anybody reacts to this, let me simply say that I am doing quite well, and, as a result, have been discharged early as a result. The depth of the reasons behind my threat is not something I really want to go into, especially since I was required to divulge them numerous times over the past couple of days. Simply know that I feel much better after I had a chance to release my pent emotions about various internal and external strifes which had riddled me with stress and occasional feelings of depression.

I'm sorry to have been a source for recent concern, but I'm thankful that I'm lucky enough to have people that care about me. It is a great comfort.

Hideous Twit (aka Kryllith)

End Quote


I'm glad you're doing better, and I'm glad you're back :)! We all missed you! If you ever want to talk or vent or whatever, you know you have tons of people here to listen to you, including me!!!

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: southernspitfire on 05/02/02 at 05:14 p.m.

One thing I have learned ...is that NO MATTER WHAT....the people have your back....we all stick together...no matter what...you are loved here...and cared about....and we will ALWAYS be here for you..Take care... ;)

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: DJ Midas on 05/02/02 at 05:17 p.m.

I am happy you are okay, Kryllith.  We're glad you're back.  You have so much to offer this forum and the world around you.  Take care, and if you ever need to talk, I'll listen.

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Crazy Don on 05/02/02 at 05:33 p.m.


Quoting:
Ok, first off, my haiku sucked (specifically, I refer to the extra syllable in the last line).  Sadly, as a guest, I've no way of editting my posts, so the bad poetry had to stand (actually, this is just an assumption since I didn't try to modify the post to fix the last line... but I figure I'm pretty much on the mark in regards to my inability to edit it).

Secondly, as Hairspray suggested, I've been unable to access a computer the past couple of days because I was placed in protective care for threatening to commit suicide. Before anybody reacts to this, let me simply say that I am doing quite well, and, as a result, have been discharged early as a result. The depth of the reasons behind my threat is not something I really want to go into, especially since I was required to divulge them numerous times over the past couple of days. Simply know that I feel much better after I had a chance to release my pent emotions about various internal and external strifes which had riddled me with stress and occasional feelings of depression.

I'm sorry to have been a source for recent concern, but I'm thankful that I'm lucky enough to have people that care about me. It is a great comfort.

Hideous Twit (aka Kryllith)

End Quote



What a relief!  We were really worried about you.  

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Zella on 05/02/02 at 06:16 p.m.

Kryllith,

I am soooo glad you are okay! We all love you and miss you here. When you feel up to coming back online please know that we will be waiting with open arms. Take care, and hope you will be back with us soon.  :)

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: langdon_hughes on 05/02/02 at 06:44 p.m.

Okay, look, you got all these other people here giving you support and love, the least I can give you is what I offer...been there, done that. I'd send a PM, but, well, you know. So I offer up a bit of my callused and sarcastic anonymity as a sacrifice and if you want to compare notes, then let me know. We can swap medication side-effect stories! We can compare scars! It'll be a grand ol' time!

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: goldie on 05/02/02 at 07:01 p.m.

I am glad to find out that you are ok. You gave us all quite a scare. Just remember that you have lots of friends here and I'm sure that any of us will be more than glad to lend an ear or shoulder when you need to vent.  :)

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: dagwood on 05/02/02 at 07:24 p.m.

Welcome back.  We missed you...remember if you ever need to vent, we will listen.  

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: RockandRollFan on 05/02/02 at 07:58 p.m.


Quoting:
Ok, first off, my haiku sucked (specifically, I refer to the extra syllable in the last line).  Sadly, as a guest, I've no way of editting my posts, so the bad poetry had to stand (actually, this is just an assumption since I didn't try to modify the post to fix the last line... but I figure I'm pretty much on the mark in regards to my inability to edit it).

Secondly, as Hairspray suggested, I've been unable to access a computer the past couple of days because I was placed in protective care for threatening to commit suicide. Before anybody reacts to this, let me simply say that I am doing quite well, and, as a result, have been discharged early as a result. The depth of the reasons behind my threat is not something I really want to go into, especially since I was required to divulge them numerous times over the past couple of days. Simply know that I feel much better after I had a chance to release my pent emotions about various internal and external strifes which had riddled me with stress and occasional feelings of depression.

I'm sorry to have been a source for recent concern, but I'm thankful that I'm lucky enough to have people that care about me. It is a great comfort.

Hideous Twit (aka Kryllith)

End Quote


Well...I opened a topic welcoming you back but it's too late because everyone is coming here...so I'm deleting it, okay?  Welcom Back (Again!) ;)

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Hairspray on 05/02/02 at 08:16 p.m.

It wasn't easy trying to get this bunch to stay calm.  ::)

;)

Welcome Back! Evidently you do add something special to our line-up.  :D ;D :)

We've all had our moments. Listen to your buds here. We all have something to share....

Sympathetic ears and good hearts.

Take care of yourself. Next time, vent in PM's if necessary....K!  :)

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: XenaKat13 on 05/02/02 at 08:22 p.m.

Kryllith, buddy, I was worried for you too.  I'm glad you are feeling better, and are starting to get the help and support you need.

I know you don't care to explain in detail, as you've done it over and over and over.  I just went through something similar with my daughter.  But if you do feel like talking, we are here.

I'm glad your recovery is coming along quickly, too. It must have helped quite a bit to be told you can go home sooner than expected.

You'll be in my prayers for a speedy recovery. :-* :-*

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: lebeiw15 on 05/02/02 at 08:27 p.m.

Glad you are back!! We we were worried, but we're just glad you are ok :)

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Indy Gent on 05/02/02 at 08:44 p.m.

Kryllith, I am glad you are back. We've had a trying past three days wondering where you were. If you need a shoulder to cry on, let one of us know. And if you want to become a member again, we will welcome you with open arms and fingers. I hope you are on your way to your recovery. :D

Subject: Re: Anybody Else Notice....

Written By: Junior on 05/02/02 at 08:57 p.m.

You scared me, Kryllith. Thank the Lord you are safe and in good health. And Welcome Back!