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A girl that smokes cigarettes!
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This is what really turned me off.

Last Saturday night, I was with this chick at her house and everything was going alright so far.  We started making out and I started to take her shirt off.  I get half way up and she tells me, "Just because I'm not a virgin doesn't mean I'm having sex with you."  So I got up and left.

Michigan girls are so damn uptight.  Give me a California chick anyday!
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Men who act just like this!!!!

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Men who act just like this!!!!
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Great comback! LOL! ;D

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men that cannot or will not say what is on their minds...I hate trying to read someone

and men that have no conception that woman are real people too...not just toys to be played with
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....I was just gonna say body odour......now it seems so...trivial ;)

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men that cannot or will not say what is on their minds...I hate trying to read someone

and men that have no conception that woman are real people too...not just toys to be played with
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This is one more thing that we have in common, sis!!!  ;D

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and men that have no conception that woman are real people too...not just toys to be played with
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You mean they're not??

Damn!  I must look closer at the instructions on the packaging next time


Things I dislike about the opposite sex?  Take the following two statements:
"You haven't finished that DIY job until you've tidied up and hoovered up the dust"
"I cooked that meal, you clean up and wash up"
...only a woman could think the above are entirely consistent with each other

Phil

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A girl that smokes cigarettes!
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Ditto!  Also:

Tattooed women  :P

Body piercings on women  :P

Too much makeup on women  :P

Women who are too damn skinny! http://www.inthe00s.com/smilies/puke.gif

And most of all:

Shapely women with ugly faces! http://www.inthe00s.com/smilies/puke.gif http://www.inthe00s.com/smilies/puke.gif http://www.inthe00s.com/smilies/puke.gif http://www.inthe00s.com/smilies/puke.gif http://www.inthe00s.com/smilies/puke.gif

I hate women whose faces don't match their bodies!  If you gotta have a beautiful body, girls, make sure you have a face to match!

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Hairy pits!!!
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Ditto!  That and women who look like they don't eat!

Conversely, women who wear bare midriffs/bikinis that really shouldn't...     :-X

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men that cannot or will not say what is on their minds...I hate trying to read someone

and men that have no conception that woman are real people too...not just toys to be played with
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Women who are the same way. Frankly I find that women tend to be this way more than men (at least for the first point, the second is about 50/50).

I also dislike fakes...

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Men who act just like this!!!!
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Touche, Goldie!  I was thinking the same thing.   ::) ::)

Add that comment to my list.

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LOL!  I guess you don't see the point behind my story.  To make it more clearer for you, women who play games.  

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Hmm

Men who wear Y-fronts. Erghh I can't stand briefs they are the most horrible things. Lads, it's not cool, ok :)

Men with overly hairy chests - I hate too much hair.

Guys who go constantly flirt with other girls when they are with someone else.

I also hate guys who are too eager. I once went out wit a lad who called me every night for the month when we were going out. It drove me crazy - he was so overly eager! The only thing worse would be if he told me he loved me a month into it! That would scare me off straight away! I'm 17 and scared of commitment, and that's how I wanna be for a while :)
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Ok,So I guess you wouldn't wanna date me. :( I'm overly hairy.Let's just say I'm hirsuite.back,chest,legs,enispay ;D :-X

-howard-

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LOL!  I guess you don't see the point behind my story.  To make it more clearer for you, women who play games.  
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I saw the point of your story very clearly...like I said, men who act like you!!

Also men who lie, are verbal abusive and especially men who whine. I'd rather be alone than to have someone who does these things. I guess that's obvious since I'm divorcing my husband now!!

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Well, females with facial hair is not a plus.
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So, you won't marry the bearded lady? ;) ;D

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Ok,So I guess you wouldn't wanna date me. :(
-howard-
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And I guess you wouldn't want to date some of us either!  I think I qualify for the chest comment.     :P

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Ok,So I guess you wouldn't wanna date me. :( I'm overly hairy.Let's just say I'm hirsuite.back,chest,legs,enispay ;D :-X

-howard-
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Aww :)

I'm just not a hairy man lover. I think I've told this story before, but I went to see a play with college with nudity in it. This one guy had such a hairy back that at first, we all thought he had dirt all over his back! Certainly wouldn't want to date that guy! There are other reasons beside that for me not wanting to date him, as he's like 40 and I'm not even half his age yet, but still - the hair factor takes over! ;D

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Women who wear make-up (Usually WAY to much) who look so beautiful without any.....
Smokers
Women who are so blinded by greed that they don't stop and really enjoy life :( That works both sexes though..
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100% correct but also I get turned off by a female swearing.

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And I guess you wouldn't want to date some of us either!  I think I qualify for the chest comment.     :P
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I would have to think about it.what do you mean about the chest comment? -howard-

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I would have to think about it.what do you mean about the chest comment? -howard-
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Well, basically that I'm not well-endowed.....you said you don't like that.    ;) ;D

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 I like me perfectly fine the way I am, thank you, and many others do too.  If you want me, you take me as I am.
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ok....... :o

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ok....... :o
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That means clothed or unclothed as well!

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That means clothed or unclothed as well!
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uh huh...even better!!

and you know....I have moved...so I think I deserve a new run by at this house!!!

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Well, basically that I'm not well-endowed.....you said you don't like that.    ;) ;D
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wait a minute....I said I didn't like what?I don't understand!  ??? -howard-

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Of course that doesn't turn me off as such - it just makes me laugh uncontrollably

FB  :)
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Especially when you are walking behind them and you accidentally ( ;) ;)) trip and grab onto the leg of their pants for balance. ;D

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And on males :

The pants that are 18 sizes too big, and where the crotch hangs half way down below the knees

Of course that doesn't turn me off as such - it just makes me laugh uncontrollably

FB  :)
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That's hilarious, Fuss!  I couldn't agree with you more! ;)

One positive thing about this is that I guess these fellows don't have to worry about a low sperm count! :P ;D ;D

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-flat-chested women.

 -howard-
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There you go!  Wasn't that you?     ::)

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I thought this was a thread on the things that turn you off, not just the opposite sex.
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Sorry IG, if you read Natalie's post, it says "opposite sex"!

I don't think anyone here is taking this so seriously as to be insulted or insulting.  We're just putting down what we don't like - w/o benefit of knowing what other posters are like!  (Of course, if you object to my disliking spitting - well, tough!)   ;)

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Sorry IG, if you read Natalie's post, it says "opposite sex"!

I don't think anyone here is taking this so seriously as to be insulted or insulting.  We're just putting down what we don't like - w/o benefit of knowing what other posters are like!  (Of course, if you object to my disliking spitting - well, tough!)   ;)
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Oh Howard, do I have to spell it out?


There you go!  Wasn't that you?     ::)
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Oh,Ok,Thank You.now I remember!*duh* ;D-howard-

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Oh yeah, I don't like arrogance...or domineering attitudes either :P  A woman can be absolutely beautiful, but if she's like that I can't get within a mile of her.
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We are at different ends of the spectrum. I'll take domineering and arrogant any day over someone who needs a man to feel "safe and protected." She'd have to be extraordinarily good-looking for me to overlook such a character flaw. I wonder if this rationale has anything to do with my cold, small, soft hands... Hm-hahaha! I'm projecting again!

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This is appropriate considering the other thread we have going ;)  BUMP!

Oh yeah, I don't like arrogance...or domineering attitudes either :P  A woman can be absolutely beautiful, but if she's annoying like that I can't get within a mile of her.
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Yeah?  I don't like domineering, arrogant men either.   :D :D :D

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MEN THAT SMELL AND SNIFF THEY'RE FINGERS ALL DAY AT WORK.
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Forgot about that one.  My sister's boyfriend, later husband, used to do that.  Stick his hand under his shirt, rub his underarm and sniff it.  Very annoying, especially if we were preparing dinner.

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MEN THAT SMELL AND SNIFF THEY'RE FINGERS ALL DAY AT WORK.
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Oh my, that is really nasty!


What turns me off: (in no particular order)

Abusive men.
Men who do not know how to respect a woman.
Men who are always late.
Men who talk to my chest & not to my face.
Leaving the toilet seat up.
Men who cheat.
Men who lie.
Men with mullets.
Bad breath.
Yellow teeth.
Dirty fingernails.
Picking/Biting of fingernails and or toenails.
B.O.
Men who wear acid washed jeans.
Men who wear baggy jeans with their underwear hanging out.
Men with small hands or feet.
Men who shove their tongue down your esophagus.
Men who ask you on a date, then tell you they are broke!
Hairy backs.
Unibrows.
Men who wear make-up.
Chewing with your mouth open.

I could think of a thousand others, but I don't want to offend anyone!  ;)

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How is this for a compromise?  Everybody, boy and girl, has to close the lid over the seat after every use?

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Bad breath.
Yellow teeth.
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Icky, but I've known a couple of people with those conditions and they really couldn't help it.  Stomach issues can cause bad breath that's hard to control, and some people are just born with darker teeth.  In those cases, it doesn't bug me that much.

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We are at different ends of the spectrum. I'll take domineering and arrogant any day over someone who needs a man to feel "safe and protected." She'd have to be extraordinarily good-looking for me to overlook such a character flaw. I wonder if this rationale has anything to do with my cold, small, soft hands... Hm-hahaha! I'm projecting again!
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Ah yes...but methinks there is a difference between confidence and arrogance, would you not agree?  ;)

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Forgot about that one.  My sister's boyfriend, later husband, used to do that.  Stick his hand under his shirt, rub his underarm and sniff it.  Very annoying, especially if we were preparing dinner.
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Oh my, that is really nasty!


What turns me off: (in no particular order)

Abusive men.
Men who do not know how to respect a woman.
Men who are always late.
Men who talk to my chest & not to my face.
Leaving the toilet seat up.
Men who cheat.
Men who lie.
Men with mullets.
Bad breath.
Yellow teeth.
Dirty fingernails.
Picking/Biting of fingernails and or toenails.
B.O.
Men who wear acid washed jeans.
Men who wear baggy jeans with their underwear hanging out.
Men with small hands or feet.
Men who shove their tongue down your esophagus.
Men who ask you on a date, then tell you they are broke!
Hairy backs.
Unibrows.
Men who wear make-up.
Chewing with your mouth open.

I could think of a thousand others, but I don't want to offend anyone!  ;)




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B!tching women.
Women who don't respect men.
Women who are always late.
Women who talk to my wallet and not my heart.
Leaving unmentionables hanging all over the bathroom.
Women who cheat.
Women who lie.
Women with buzz cuts.
Bad breath.
Yellow teeth.
Dirty fingernails.
Fake fingernails or toenails.
B/O
Women who wear too tight clothes when their body doesn't suit them.
Women who have brastraps showing.
Women with flat butts or big feet.
Women who stick their tounge down your esophagous.
Women who automaticlly expect the man to pay for everything
Hairy upper lips.
Hairy legs.
Women who wear too much makeup.
Talking and never shutting your mouth.

I could think of a thousand others but I wouldn't want to offend anyone. ;) ;D

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Ah yes...but methinks there is a difference between confidence and arrogance, would you not agree?  ;)
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It really doesn't take much to go from one to the other, so I'm willing to deal with both aspects of someone's personality. I think I can tolerate a lot from a girl if she has enough good qualities that outweigh the bad ones. Hey, she's willing to overlook mine (and won't try to change my ways as I will not try to change hers), so that's a plus right there. Nobody is perfect, right? To me, everyone is on a case by case basis depending on the time period of my life. I can easily come up with a list, but it soon goes out the window once I come face-to-face and fall head-over-heels for the exception. Strange things do happen.

I would be more than satisfied with an arrogant girl (or woman) who would not mind... my small, manicured, delicate hands. The hands of an amateur student chemist. The hands of an avid reader and art lover. The hands of a responsible boy. The hands of a person who will be loyal and honest and appreciative of every quality that a friend has - the good and the bad. Attitude can change with time if one chooses to do so, but I cannot change my hands; you wouldn't believe how many times I've been insulted for that one by girls who aren't arrogant. If it weren't for my arrogance, I'd actually feel bad about that.

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I would be more than satisfied with an arrogant girl (or woman) who would not mind... my small, manicured, delicate hands. The hands of an amateur student chemist. The hands of an avid reader and art lover. The hands of a responsible boy. The hands of a person who will be loyal and honest and appreciative of every quality that a friend has - the good and the bad. Attitude can change with time if one chooses to do so, but I cannot change my hands; you wouldn't believe how many times I've been insulted for that one by girls who aren't arrogant. If it weren't for my arrogance, I'd actually feel bad about that.
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Nothing wrong with hands.  Girls dig a guy who knows what to do with his hands ;)  I actually have very large hands for a person my size (I can palm a basketball pretty easily) so that helps a lot in playing the violin or the piano, if I were better at it :P  It kind of confuses me why girls would go out of their way to insult your hands though.  Maybe they're just b!tches 8)

Have fun womanizing, dude :D

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Women who thinks they're god's gift.Anyone agree? :)

Howard :)
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You know, Howard, there are plenty of guys who act like this too.

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You know, Howard, there are plenty of guys who act like this too.
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I agree!  But then again, (And I am not preaching in any way shape or form when I say this) aren't we ALL god's gifts?

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It kind of confuses me why girls would go out of their way to insult your hands though.  Maybe they're just b!tches 8)
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Kind of like, how guys say girls' bad fingernails are turn-offs?  Maybe it's just me (and I have TERRIBLE fingernail-related problems), but I don't notice hands too much, period, and certainly don't spend time eyeing fingernail details.

Only thing I notice sometimes is whether the hands generally are thin-long-fingered or short-stubby.

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Kind of like, how guys say girls' bad fingernails are turn-offs?  Maybe it's just me (and I have TERRIBLE fingernail-related problems), but I don't notice hands too much, period, and certainly don't spend time eyeing fingernail details.

Only thing I notice sometimes is whether the hands generally are thin-long-fingered or short-stubby.
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There are more important things "on" a person that we should probably focus on...mostly relating to personality, in my case.  

:)

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People who smell like cigarette smoke  >:(
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See,I don't mind if my old friend Robert smokes.I was used to it.It turned me off after a while,But I didn't say anything.

Howard

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Pit stains are bad! but the number one bad thing would have to be them (men) spitting huge loogies on the side walk, out the car window (when you are in the car next to them). That is gross!!!
(I'll go barf now) hee hee
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LOL this is exactly what I wrote about way earlier!

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ROFL - too funny!

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When someone who you're talking to has disgusting body odor.Did anyone tell him/her to take a shower? Do they even know what hygiene is? :P >:(

Howard
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I know I know...hygiene is how you greet your friend Gene! ;) ;D

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Bigger is not necessarily better (breast-wise) ;)  Anything more than a handful is too much.

That was from "Weird Science" wasn't it?

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Bigger is not necessarily better (breast-wise) ;)  Anything more than a handful is too much.
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Which is why those of us with smaller ones appreciate smaller hands on a guy ;)

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Which is why those of us with smaller ones appreciate smaller hands on a guy ;)
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To borrow a phrase:  It's not the size of the hands, but how the guy uses them ;)