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Subject: i'm mad and sad

Written By: Alicia. on 09/16/02 at 06:04 p.m.

I'm mad and sad because my friends are being me to me and ignoring me because on friday I said something to my friend (giving her advice) then my other "friend" jumped down my thraot and acted like a b!tch to me when I didn't deserve it. when the bell rang and my friend I were walking and I told her her the srtory and said that "..... was acting like a B!tch to me" then that same night when that girl went over to all of my friends "sleep over" told them that I called them all B!tches and changed the whole story around. I found all of this out when my friend A told me this and told me not to tell anyone.....so what should I do? should I just confront her and say stop acting like that?    

Subject: Re: i'm mad and sad

Written By: Thursday on 09/16/02 at 06:37 p.m.

you'd be better off not saying anything to her, kinda ignoring her, and make it clear to your other friends that she is making sh*t up about you for no reason... she won't be able to affect your relationship with your other friends that way..

things like that happen and it really sucks.. but it's not too big of a deal... everything will turn out fine eventually..


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Subject: Re: i'm mad and sad

Written By: TripsMom on 09/17/02 at 10:56 a.m.

If I read your post correctly, you didn't call anyone a b*tch? Or was that in the advice somewhere? Anyway, there is some weird thing that goes on when a bunch of people (especially girls-we tend to be b*tchy) are all friends. Sort of a power play to see who "controls" more of the friends. I remember being 14, 15, 16 ,etc. and it seemed that this type of thing happened all the time. You'd have a "best" friend and then she'd be the b*tch and you'd switch over to a new "best" friend and on and on. You have two choices. Just let it blow over. And it will. Or take charge. When you're with that group of girls say something like, "I don't know what I said or did but I didn't mean to say anyone was a b*tch." If you sort of take the blame (even if you did nothing) it will smooth things out faster. Or just wait and things will work themselves out on their own. Remember, you guys are all hormonal time bombs right now.  ;)  
:-* :-*

Subject: Re: i'm mad and sad

Written By: langdon_hughes on 09/18/02 at 08:57 p.m.

I thought I was gonna get to be all wise and generous, but TMom got there before me. So now I just get to say, "Yeah, what she said."

Subject: Re: i'm mad and sad

Written By: TripsMom on 09/22/02 at 08:52 a.m.

So how is the school situation?

Subject: Re: i'm mad and sad

Written By: Alicia. on 09/22/02 at 06:20 p.m.

Ok two are talking to me almost one more and the other is holding a grudge on me still.

Subject: Re: i'm mad and sad

Written By: TripsMom on 09/22/02 at 07:35 p.m.

What'd I tell 'ya  ;) Doesn't it kind of piss you off when one of us old foagies can do the, "I told you so" to you?  ;D :D
Take care of yourself  :-*

Subject: Re: i'm mad and sad

Written By: Gis on 09/23/02 at 05:53 a.m.

I guess this is one of those painful experiences where you learn who to trust and who not too.Sometime soon she'll show herself in her true colours to the others when she does the same thing to them.I'm sure your real friends when they think about it know you well enough to know how you would really have behaved.