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Subject: Your New Life

Written By: southernspitfire on 03/05/03 at 05:57 p.m.

If you had a chance to do it all over again...what would you do different?  The whole Leave it to Beaver family or more the Bundys?  If you could change how your life is right now, what would you do? (Your adult life, not your childhood)

I'll post mine later

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: dagwood on 03/05/03 at 06:01 p.m.

I wouldn't get so far in debt.  The only bad decisions I have made that I remember had good results. (like the bad decision to live with an immature moron resulted in my daughter)

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: John_Harvey on 03/05/03 at 06:55 p.m.

I haven't lived long enough to have any big regrets.

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: shazzaah on 03/05/03 at 07:59 p.m.

I would have allowed myself to be "me" a long time ago, and I would not have had my first marriage at all. I lost far more than I gained from that experience.

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: princessofpop on 03/05/03 at 08:06 p.m.

Honestly, I try not to "regret" things in life.  I look at them more like "learning experiences".  I mean sure, we have ALL done things we regret, but if our lives were any different back then it might have affected the good things we have now.  And not necessarily material things.  Just the little things in life that make us truly happy.  I used to take life for granted so much growing up.  And even though I did my share of stupid things & made some dumb decisions, I am a better person now because of it.  I strongly believe that life is a journey & whatever roads we choose to take on our  journey is up to us.  So I guess what I am trying to say is, I wouldn't choose a different life.  I am just happy knowing that I do the best I can do each day & hope for better things to come. :)

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: lebeiw15 on 03/05/03 at 08:08 p.m.


Quoting:
I haven't lived long enough to have any big regrets.
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Ditto.

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: Rice Cube on 03/05/03 at 08:39 p.m.

If we didn't fall on our faces/@$$es every now and then, how would we learn?  ;)  

I look back on all the mistakes I made as learning experiences.  They shape who I am.  I wouldn't change a thing.

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: Crazy Don on 03/05/03 at 08:42 p.m.

I know that if I lived my adult life over again, I'd have a wife and children and a good job!

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: shazzaah on 03/05/03 at 08:51 p.m.

Quoting:
If we didn't fall on our faces/@$$es every now and then, how would we learn?  ;)  

I look back on all the mistakes I made as learning experiences.  They shape who I am.  I wouldn't change a thing.
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You have a point, Rice, some say that the pain is what shapes us and defines us, and who am I to argue that.... But if I could go back I would not choose to be beaten, emotionally and physically to the point of madness. I would rather skip that part.

Modified to add that if I could go back I would have kicked that guy straight in the BEEPBEEP  the first time it happened.

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: CeramicsFanatic on 03/05/03 at 11:51 p.m.


Quoting:
Honestly, I try not to "regret" things in life.  I look at them more like "learning experiences".  I mean sure, we have ALL done things we regret, but if our lives were any different back then it might have affected the good things we have now.  And not necessarily material things.  Just the little things in life that make us truly happy.  I used to take life for granted so much growing up.  And even though I did my share of stupid things & made some dumb decisions, I am a better person now because of it.  I strongly believe that life is a journey & whatever roads we choose to take on our  journey is up to us.  So I guess what I am trying to say is, I wouldn't choose a different life.  I am just happy knowing that I do the best I can do each day & hope for better things to come. :)
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Nicely said, princessofpop!  :)

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: BrianMannixGirl on 03/06/03 at 00:40 a.m.

Princess of Pop basically said it word for word that same way I would have said it !!  Freaky !!

I quite often say to people who ask me about my revolting marriage, or the time I spent 6 freezing months living on the streets of London etc etc etc that if I hadnt have experienced those moments in time other things would not have led me to where I am today.

I have a little saying taped to my puter.

"Better to regret the things you do, than the things you dont do."

It kinda sums me up.  I sure as heck wont get to 80 years old and think "gee I wish I got a tattoo when I was younger, I wonder what skydiving is like ? I wish I had the guts to stowaway on a ship when I was 15" - cos I have already done it !!

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: DJ Midas on 03/06/03 at 03:16 a.m.

I honestly wouldn't change much of anything.  I can't worry about the things I can't control.  Right now, I feel as if I'm starting a new life.  And that I have the ability to control.  I'm positive it will turn out just fine.  :)

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: Dude on 03/06/03 at 03:29 a.m.

What they said! Funny how we b!tch and moan about our little aches and pains, and trials and tribulations, but all in all, it could be a HELL of a lot worse. What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger. ;)

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: cflove on 03/06/03 at 07:10 a.m.

I'd marry for money ;D

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: princessofpop on 03/06/03 at 07:20 a.m.


Quoting:
I'd marry for money ;D
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It doesn't make you happy necessarily ;)

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: Gis on 03/06/03 at 07:35 a.m.

Now what is it my friend Soo says'If you can't be a good example be a terrible warning !'
I think the one regret I do have is wasting my time at college so I didn't get good enough grades to go on to university,but that is something I can still do at some point in time and I don't regret what I learnt about myself,it's made me the weird and wonderful person I am today !?! No I've thought of another I would have saved myself for someone better instead of the tosser I did first sleep with !

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: cflove on 03/06/03 at 08:25 a.m.


Quoting:


It doesn't make you happy necessarily ;)
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--Sorry, I was being facetious. :)
*hangs head in shame and slithers away*

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: CatwomanofV on 03/06/03 at 09:42 a.m.

I probably wouldn't change anything. I have gone through hell and back but it has made me the person I am today. One of my favorite saying is-That which does not break you makes you stronger. I am stronger today than I have ever been in life. And life at the moment is REALLY GOOD! Sure, there are some things that I would like to change but overall I wouldn't change all those decisions (good and bad) I have made.



Cat

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: jamminoldies on 03/06/03 at 07:52 p.m.

I would change my habits.My Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.I wish I never had that but I was diagnosed with it 10 years ago and now it seems that I might be stuck with it.

Howard

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: Thunderbolt on 03/06/03 at 08:47 p.m.

I would have been more sociable when I was little and hoped such habits would have followed me through my life. I'm quite shy.

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: XenaKat13 on 03/06/03 at 11:10 p.m.

I would have taken control over my own life at a much younger age, instead of drifting along, letting things happen to me.

Specifics?

I'd have gone to college right after high school and learned some actual job skills so I'd've had a better pool of jobs to choose from.

I'd have moved out of mom's house and into my own apartment, with or without roomates, years before I actually did.

I'd never have allowed myself to 'drift' into the bad marriage I got into.  Looking back, it seems the only reason I got married was because I had nothing better to do at the time, why not?

I now have full control over my own life, but not the freedom to do whatever I want.  I have a child to think about and take care of.  I would not trade her away for anything, but I have to take her needs into consideration with every decision I make.

Admittedly, it helps me make wiser decisions.  But I think that if I had taken more of an active role in my own life before she was born I'd not only have more experience, but she'd have a different (and hopefully better) father.

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: 80s_cheerleader on 03/07/03 at 06:21 a.m.


Quoting:
I would change my habits.End Quote



This pretty much sums it up for me.  It's nothing that would've changed my life as it is now, but might make it a little easier.  Oh, and I wish I had gained less weight when I was pregnant with my oldest, or worked harder to get it off then so it didn't bother me so much now.

Sometimes, I think I would like to go back to college and study harder, but then I think that I might not have met my husband and had 3 wonderful children.  Besides, I can always go back. ;)  As far as bad relationships, I would not be the way I am now, had I not learned from them what NOT to do.

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: Jessica on 03/07/03 at 08:53 a.m.

I would have lost weight sooner. I feel terrific and I don't know why I didn't do this years earlier. Only 70 more lbs. to go...
I wouldn't have gotten involved in something that broke my heart, but I guess I learned from it.
I would have done something with my life. Actually, I have decided to go back to school, so there's a start.

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: Layla on 03/07/03 at 09:29 a.m.

If I could change one thing in my life.  It would be to not have married my ex husband and married my first love instead.

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: jamminoldies on 03/07/03 at 08:06 p.m.

I wish I still had my girlfriend with me. :(

Howard

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: Tarzan Boy on 03/08/03 at 03:29 a.m.

Quoting:
I would have lost weight sooner. I feel terrific and I don't know why I didn't do this years earlier. Only 70 more lbs. to go...
I wouldn't have gotten involved in something that broke my heart, but I guess I learned from it.
I would have done something with my life. Actually, I have decided to go back to school, so there's a start.
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I don't know, but 23 seems... kind of young to be thinking like that. Unless you're also one of those "old spirits trapped in a young person's body." Hehe.

Hey! I'm back in school too! It's kind of a culture shock being the oldest one in a group instead of being the youngest, which has always been the case with me when I attended Uni my first two years. The cool thing is that you can bullsh*t the kids and they'll think you're "wise" since they're still in the idealistic phase of their lives. It's kind of funny and cool. One thing I learned this time around: Having lived in the real world for some time has given me perspective on the school thing; I can see how Uni reflects the real world so well. It is not about what you know, but who you know (i.e. you can have crappy grades and know more than someone who has good grades because they have "connections"). This is so blatant, it's not mentioned by anyone :P

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: Jessica on 03/08/03 at 11:14 a.m.


Quoting:
I don't know, but 23 seems... kind of young to be thinking like that. Unless you're also one of those "old spirits trapped in a young person's body." Hehe.
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I am, according to my friends. ;D

Subject: Re: Your New Life

Written By: jamminoldies on 03/08/03 at 03:34 p.m.

I wish I was still working at Genovese.
By now,I would've been there 10 years this coming June if it hadn't been for my OCD. >:(  :(

Howard