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Subject: Wants family back

Written By: richsmaiden on 10/10/03 at 05:22 p.m.

I just had my  baby named Brianna and my dad was mad at my husband for not being able to keep a job.  He was raised in a bad family.  Dad left when he was a baby. Step-dad was not there for him.  Has 3 step-brothers and another was murdered.  He has never known his real dad .  My dad was there for him though for a while.  Until my husband kept loosing his jobs. However though my husband is a great father, husband, brother-in-law, fun to be around, funny smart and caring.  My point is...  when Brianna was born and he lost his job my dad had had it with him and told him to go live with his family, who lives in Utah.  Until he can be a man.
What should I do.

Subject: Re: Wants family back

Written By: Rice_Cube on 10/10/03 at 05:36 p.m.

Hmmm...I've read through some of the posts about your situation.

Since he's living with his family now, perhaps he could take advantage of this opportunity to get back on track by first, continuing his education, and second, getting a steady job.  

There is really no way he can support a family unless he can get a stable income to feed all your mouths and put a roof over your head.  That's what every parent has to deal with, really.  

Until then, at least you are taken care of in your father's home, and so is your baby.  And you can take heart in knowing that he is doing everything in his power to make your family whole again, and that he loves you.  However, love is not enough: he has to be able to support you too.

Good luck.

Subject: Re: Wants family back

Written By: Fred on 10/10/03 at 08:39 p.m.

It seems like your dad doesn't want what happened to him happen to you.

But once your husband finds a good job, I beleive he should be able to support you.