WOE IS ME! My lovely, and huge, thread was deleted? WHY? WHY? WHHHHYYY??!?!?!?!?!

This really gets me mad, because some stupid fight caused it.


Oh well, here it is again.

WOE IS ME! My lovely, and huge, thread was deleted? WHY? WHY? WHHHHYYY??!?!?!?!?!

This really gets me mad, because some stupid fight caused it.


Oh well, here it is again.
Was it because of a fight, or because I turned it into a game of "Stump The Censor?" (I still think that's a great idea for a game. ;D)If that's the case then I apologize for getting your thread deleted.

Was it because of a fight, or because I turned it into a game of "Stump The Censor?" (I still think that's a great idea for a game. ;D)If that's the case then I apologize for getting your thread deleted.


Hmmm! Could be AL-B. Lol. That was pretty funny!  ;D

Apricot, it's great to see the thread reopen again. General threads like yours are excellent.  :)

Yeah.... it's back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  ;D

Wow.let me tell you,last night at The Starry Night Cafe for the Valentine dinner and dance was a good night to overstep my boundaries.   ;D  In the beginning,I was just a little bit disappointed cause of the same old music and the people but as soon the night continued,I just had a blast.It was great.I think I got way oversexed but hey it's Valentine's Day,romance is in the air,it's supposed to be that way.good things happened last night.I gave her my presents,I got her to sit on my lap,kissed the nape of her neck while blowing on her hair at the same time cause her Estee Lauder perfume got me so high,tickled her to death cause Robin knows she's ticklish and she told me so,got to lay my head on her legs while she was sitting down & danced with her.plus,to end it all,I asked if we could have a kiss good night and that is what we did.the first french kiss wasn't really that great cause she inhaled my mouth and almost bit my lip so we did it again(2nd time) and it was a romantic kiss I'll never forget. :)  But now,I consider her my girlfiend but Robin on the other hand wants to be special friends for now and she told me that I should still look for a job until we can further this relationship.I don't know.Is it girlfriend OR special friends? I'm not sure.I'm confused. :-\\  the romance is there(that's for sure) but I still don't know about anything else. :-\\  What does she want from me? a good paying job,money,security? It's hard to understand her.  :(


Howard

i think she wants you to be financially stable. if a woman wants that don't worry. she wants to spend the rest of her life with you and she wants that security knowing you can support the both of you.

Glad to see you back.  Now if I could get rid of this ear infection that I have everything should be fine.  I had to present a project in school today.  I hate doing that.  I think this one went pretty bad.

i think she wants you to be financially stable. if a woman wants that don't worry. she wants to spend the rest of her life with you and she wants that security knowing you can support the both of you.


I had told Robin several times.I don't have a job,I'm living off SSI(government checks),I volunteer 2 days a week so basically,I'm getting some money but just not enough to live off of.She's telling me that she wants to make MORE money,eventually to stop living with her parents and to be financially secure.She also had mentioned to me that she's afraid of going to a group home but she has nothing to fear.She has a decent part time paying job,her parents help her with the money situation,& she might be going back to college soon so I don't see anything wrong here.I guess both of us are worried for our future.I'm worried for her that she might not get what she wants and she's worried for me that I might not achieve my goal of a part time job so we got something on our hands here.My first relationship in 8 years and now this is not what I'm looking forward to hearing. :( ::)



Howard

Wow.let me tell you,last night at The Starry Night Cafe for the Valentine dinner and dance was a good night to overstep my boundaries.   ;D  In the beginning,I was just a little bit disappointed cause of the same old music and the people but as soon the night continued,I just had a blast.It was great.I think I got way oversexed but hey it's Valentine's Day,romance is in the air,it's supposed to be that way.good things happened last night.I gave her my presents,I got her to sit on my lap,kissed the nape of her neck while blowing on her hair at the same time cause her Estee Lauder perfume got me so high,tickled her to death cause Robin knows she's ticklish and she told me so,got to lay my head on her legs while she was sitting down & danced with her.plus,to end it all,I asked if we could have a kiss good night and that is what we did.the first french kiss wasn't really that great cause she inhaled my mouth and almost bit my lip so we did it again(2nd time) and it was a romantic kiss I'll never forget. :)  But now,I consider her my girlfiend but Robin on the other hand wants to be special friends for now and she told me that I should still look for a job until we can further this relationship.I don't know.Is it girlfriend OR special friends? I'm not sure.I'm confused. :-\\  the romance is there(that's for sure) but I still don't know about anything else. :-\\  What does she want from me? a good paying job,money,security? It's hard to understand her.  :(


Howard





I think you have a girlfriend on your hands.

I have a few special lady friends, but I don't play tonsil-hockey with any of them.  :P

Sorry to hear your old thread got deleted Apricot. I hope it can quickly get to where it was before.

Wow.let me tell you,last night at The Starry Night Cafe for the Valentine dinner and dance was a good night to overstep my boundaries.   ;D  In the beginning,I was just a little bit disappointed cause of the same old music and the people but as soon the night continued,I just had a blast.It was great.I think I got way oversexed but hey it's Valentine's Day,romance is in the air,it's supposed to be that way.good things happened last night.I gave her my presents,I got her to sit on my lap,kissed the nape of her neck while blowing on her hair at the same time cause her Estee Lauder perfume got me so high,tickled her to death cause Robin knows she's ticklish and she told me so,got to lay my head on her legs while she was sitting down & danced with her.plus,to end it all,I asked if we could have a kiss good night and that is what we did.the first french kiss wasn't really that great cause she inhaled my mouth and almost bit my lip so we did it again(2nd time) and it was a romantic kiss I'll never forget. :)  But now,I consider her my girlfiend but Robin on the other hand wants to be special friends for now and she told me that I should still look for a job until we can further this relationship.I don't know.Is it girlfriend OR special friends? I'm not sure.I'm confused. :-\\  the romance is there(that's for sure) but I still don't know about anything else. :-\\  What does she want from me? a good paying job,money,security? It's hard to understand her.  :(


Howard



Everytime I get the "just friends" line I realize the girl isn't through being a human pin cushion yet

My girl's account got deleted, and her letter hasn't come yet. I hope it does. My mom called this an opportunity.

GODDAMMIT! ILOST200FUCKINGPOSTS!

200 posts! Jesus Christ! What the Hell happened? Was it that bad that they couldn't just delete the posts? They had to delete the WHOLE BOARD? Take action on the WHOLE BOARD and RUIN MY RATING because you don't wanna to get rid the offensive posts? It took me 3 WHOLE MONTHS to get those 200 posts. I WORKED MY ASS OFF, AND NOW IT'S FOR NOTHING!

I officially added Valentine's Day to my list of holidays that suck for me.

I'm revitilizing this board and getting my posts back, I don't care if I have to do it myself.

Good for you Apricot!

Is there any way I can help?

Oh yeah. The best way to help is to post frequently. Don't spam post, that's not what I want. Post about how your day was, what has happened to you, how you're feeling. Just use the board, and use it often. We might be able to revive it to it's old glory.

Man.. what kind of dufus would use naughty words ::)

Answer me then dammit Apricot!

My day went pretty well today.  I can feel my ear infection breaking up and I can finally walk normally again on my ankle that I think I sprained. ;D

Superb.

How did you sprain your ankle?

Superb.

How did you sprain your ankle?

It was weird.  I was walking down the steps and stepped on the side of my foot.  It normally doesn't hurt too much but this time I heard it crack really loud.

Oooohhhh... can't be much fun

Oooohhhh... can't be much fun

It wasn't it was hard to walk through the school.  It didn't help that to go from class to class it seems like they all are on the other side of the school.

Hell.. i wouldn't have gone to school

Hell.. i wouldn't have gone to school

I had a test today and didn't want to try and remember the information another day.

Ah fair enough.

You do well?

I think you have a girlfriend on your hands.

I have a few special lady friends, but I don't play tonsil-hockey with any of them.  :P



See,I would've thought that going out for 2 months would've meant that I would be her girlfriend by now BUT the Valentine card she gave me Sunday said "special friend"so,I really don't know which one it is?  :-\\ I mean,the romantic french kissing,her sitting on my lap while I blow into her hair and sniff her Christian Dior perfume wouldn't that be considered boyfriend/girlfriend-ish? I just don't understand. :(


Howard

Everytime I get the "just friends" line I realize the girl isn't through being a human pin cushion yet


See,what I want is a  girlfriend someone who I can spend my life and grow old with but maybe not marriage that's not one of my important priorities right now it's getting a decent part time/full time paying job,making good money & trying to get my life back together.I kinda feel we're both worried about each other.She's still worried about me not getting a part-time paying job and my government checks(SSI) and volunteering + I'm worried about her from what she had mentioned that she doesn't want to live in a group home & live like an old and decrepit lady but she's going back to college,she has a decent job,has her family to help her with her finances so what is she complaining about? I think Robin has some expectations(security,money and a good future) but she can't worry about me right now,I got my whole life ahead of me so let ME worry about me for the moment.It's only going to bother her to death.I hope this is not what I have to look forward to in the near future. :(


Howard

My son just fell asleep on the recliner and he looks so cute.  :)

My son just fell asleep on the recliner and he looks so cute.  :)


Ah! Bless.  :)

Our cat has fell asleep on his furry Felix mat thing and he looks pretty cute too.  :)

Thought you wanted the cat dead?

I'll spare him tonight as he looks cute. See? Dennis Leary was correct, we only want to save the cute animals.  ;D

i was wrestling with my son and he sacked me in the nuts. i guess that was his way of saying no siblings. fatherhood is dangerous... ;D

Ah! Bless.  :)

Our cat has fell asleep on his furry Felix mat thing and he looks pretty cute too.  :)


Aww...I love to watch cats when they're curled up sleeping.  :)

I ate too much for dinner and now I'm feeling ill :(


Ooh! Sorry to hear that. Take some indigestion tablets and a lie down.

That will be $10 for the advice.  ;D

I ate too much for dinner and now I'm feeling ill :(

Oh, I hate when I do that. I think I'm really hungry and pig out, then feel like crap when I'm finished  :P

i was wrestling with my son and he sacked me in the nuts. i guess that was his way of saying no siblings. fatherhood is dangerous... ;D


Ouch! Them kids don't hold back either. My eyes are watering for you, mate.  ;D

I ate too much for dinner and now I'm feeling ill :(



Know the feeling. We went out to eat for Valentine's Day (a day late thanks to a snow storm we had yesterday). I pigged out on the appetizers and now I have a whole meal sitting in the refrige for another day.



Cat

Man.. what kind of dufus would use naughty words ::)

Answer me then dammit Apricot!


I know. I wasn't playing "Beat the Censor", I was getting something off my chest.

I got really mad today after I realized that what may possibly be my last contact with Laura was stopped by my mother before a minute. Couldn't even tell her I loved her. I hope we get to talk again. I got even angrier when I realized I'd lost a quarter of my posts, and that it was gonna take a lot of work to get em back. So I took it out on everyone and everything possible. This is how I was before I got sent to the psychiatrists. I gotta calm down before I hurt myself.

I'm calming down a bit, but it's only for right now.

meh...i'm bored and i need a cigarette.

I'm calming down a bit, but it's only for right now.


Yes, calm down.  You don't want to lose any progress you have made.  Don't take the thread thing personal, some things in it got out of hand.  It had nothing to do with you. 

Wow, busy day.

I slipped in the bathroom and banged the back of my head on the radiator which put me out for a little while.

Had a crappy day at work.

Exchanged some money at the Buerea de change. changed a hundred and so odd pounds in to about $200.

Feel.. CRAP!

darn!  Lucy only charges a nickel (or is it a dime?  Fuss?) ;)


Yeah, well I work in the health industry, Dr Phil style.  ;D

More like Dr Nick

More like Dr Nick


It could be worse, Dr Shipman.  ;D

I wasn't taking anything to heart, I was just mad that I lost so many posts because someone else wanted to play a game.

By the way, what does making a board "sticky" do? What does "lock" do? I might use something to temporarily freeze the board if crap like that happens again.

Sticky makes it at the top of the list of topics on that board.
Lock means nobody else can post in it.. i think

Sticky makes it at the top of the list of topics on that board.
Lock means nobody else can post in it.. i think


correct.

Clever Me!

Can I unlock?

I had a fairly good day today.  Math teacher said she is grading homework by how many you get right instead of if you do it or not. >:(

I had a fairly good day today.  Math teacher said she is grading homework by how many you get right instead of if you do it or not. >:(


I thought that was like the idea of homework.

I thought that was like the idea of homework.

Yeah but she shouldn't take points off just because you didn't get the right answer.

You are kidding right?

No homework is supposed to be a helping tool not a way to lower your grade.  If you don't get the right answers at home it is ok because you come in the next day and ask for help on the ones you missed.

hmmm...

Well here in England homework is just an extension of the class.

If you get the wrong answers then you are marked down. The idea is you learn it all in class and then use that knowledge independantly.

At least that's what I have always thought.  But it still makes me mad because there are some ones that you almost have to have the teacher help you with.

hmmm...

Well here in England homework is just an extension of the class.

If you get the wrong answers then you are marked down. The idea is you learn it all in class and then use that knowledge independantly.

Ok I guess that makes sense.  I stand corrected.

I feel sad.  A friend's husband had cancer last year and had been given the all clear.  They've just been told he has lung cancer, bone cancer and various others.  He'll be lucky if he sees Easter :\'(

ummmm....is there something you're not telling us Howard ???  Maybe she has different views on girlfriend/boyfriend....I say just enjoy the time you spend together and don't get caught up in labels :)


I guess being a special friend is ok for now but hopefully,Robin will let me know when she wants to become an item.We have been seeing each other for about 2 months going places like restaurants,parks,ice cream parlors and diners.I've been going out more often and meeting exciting new people and let me tell you Robin is great to talk to.I'm happy that I found her and both of us are water signs so that's an even better compatibility. :)


Howard

I feel sad.  A friend's husband had cancer last year and had been given the all clear.  They've just been told he has lung cancer, bone cancer and various others.  He'll be lucky if he sees Easter :\'(


I'm very sorry to hear this Jaytee.  :(

Robin has been telling me that she's fat and her parents are always on her case about so lately I've been giving her a confidence boost saying that"you're not fat,it's all in your mind,and don't even listen to them,I think you're beautiful,you're attractive,In my eyes,you're eye candy and you got a great figure and I love you just the way you are.I was also talking dirty to her for another boost of confidence letting Robin know what I'm going to do with her naked body and to pour whipped cream all over it.  ;D I thought I was a big help that day. :)



Howard

Robin has been telling me that she's fat and her parents are always on her case about so lately I've been giving her a confidence boost saying that"you're not fat,it's all in your mind,and don't even listen to them,I think you're beautiful,you're attractive,In my eyes,you're eye candy and you got a great figure and I love you just the way you are.I was also talking dirty to her for another boost of confidence letting Robin know what I'm going to do with her naked body and to pour whipped cream all over it.  ;D I thought I was a big help that day. :)


You know what I would say Howard; 'You go to a gym and I will down the job centre.'  ;)

You know what I would say Howard; 'You go to a gym and I will down the job centre.'  ;)


I don't understand what you're talking about? ???


Howard

I don't understand what you're talking about? ???


Call it a compromise, Howard. Even though you may not see it, she has something to work on as well (her weight). If you can both try to improve yourself for each other, at least it won't be quite as one-sided as just you getting nagged at to get a job. There is motivation on both sides of the relationship then.  :)

See what I mean?

Call it a compromise, Howard. Even though you may not see it, she has something to work on as well (her weight). If you can both try to improve yourself for each other, at least it won't be quite as one-sided as just you getting nagged at to get a job. There is motivation on both sides of the relationship then.  :)

See what I mean?


Thanks Bob. :) What about talking dirty to her? Would that help boost her confidence? I wanted to let her know that I want to be the one to love your body and not your parents. :)



Howard

Thanks Bob. :) What about talking dirty to her? Would that help boost her confidence? I wanted to let her know that I want to be the one to love your body and not your parents. :)



Howard


Give the dirty talk a miss.  Just say complimentary things to her - that would be more of a confidence boost than the dirty stuff. 

Give the dirty talk a miss.  Just say complimentary things to her - that would be more of a confidence boost than the dirty stuff. 


yes, save the dirty talk for foreplay (when you get to that stage). be a gentlemen and compliment her.

Thanks Bob. :) What about talking dirty to her? Would that help boost her confidence? I wanted to let her know that I want to be the one to love your body and not your parents. :)



Howard
Try playing her some Steve Perry songs  ;)

Give the dirty talk a miss.  Just say complimentary things to her - that would be more of a confidence boost than the dirty stuff. 



Yeah jaytee Thanks. :) I'm just way oversexed that I just can't help myself of what comes out of my mouth. :( I'll try to keep the dirty stuff for another time.


Howard

Try playing her some Steve Perry songs  ;)



Uh...No.I don't think Steve Perry will work. ;D something sentimental will do.


Howard

Uh...No.I don't think Steve Perry will work. ;D something sentimental will do.


Howard
He has lots of fans...just ask most of the ladies around here ;)

I feel sad.  A friend's husband had cancer last year and had been given the all clear.  They've just been told he has lung cancer, bone cancer and various others.  He'll be lucky if he sees Easter :\'(


I'm so sorry to hear that.  I know it'll be hard for you to not show your sadness, but your friend needs you to be strong for her right now.  Give her your shoulder to cry on, offer her your hand when she's down and doesn't have the strength to get up and just listen to her.  After she leaves, then you can be sad.

He has lots of fans...just ask most of the ladies around here ;)


No.I don't think she knows who Steve Perry is.her music is basically late 80's and today & as for me,I'm an oldies buff.


Howard

No.I don't think she knows who Steve Perry is.her music is basically late 80's and today & as for me,I'm an oldies buff.


Howard
I understand, Howard :)

I understand, Howard :)


Thanks. :)  but I think she listens to mostly classic rock & the new stuff today but she's not as sentimental as I am.


Howard

I'm so sorry to hear that.  I know it'll be hard for you to not show your sadness, but your friend needs you to be strong for her right now.  Give her your shoulder to cry on, offer her your hand when she's down and doesn't have the strength to get up and just listen to her.  After she leaves, then you can be sad.


Thanks.  Why does all this sh!t happen to really good people :(

It's hard to be strong especially when you think about their two kids but like you said she needs strength and support,  not more tears.

Thanks.  Why does all this sh!t happen to really good people :(


I have no answer to that question!  I honestly don't think there is one.  The best I've come up with is just because it can, just because it's a part of life, just because there is no rhyme or reason, just because there is no real justice.  I would make myself crazy trying to contemplate on that question for very long, so I choose to put the "why" aside and just concentrate on trying to offer help and support where I am able.

Thanks Bob. :) What about talking dirty to her? Would that help boost her confidence? I wanted to let her know that I want to be the one to love your body and not your parents. :)


The trouble with dirty talk, Howard, especially when you have just started out, is that it is implying to your girlfriend that you just want to ravage her body. I know this is what you want to do but to openly say this may not have the effect you want.

Jaytee said it best (being a woman who knows what a woman wants  ;)). Give the girl some light compliments. Don't go crazy or do this wierd stuff about saying 'your eyes twinkle like sparkling stars in the night sky' because it all sounds a bit phoney. Just say occassionally, and in various ways, that she looks beautiful. All this must be said in utter confidence, murmuring these words are not going to have an effect.

Hope this helps - though admittedly, you are not asking the right man, Howard. The first thing I said to my girlfriend (and she's only 4'11) is 'are you wearing any shoes?'  ;D

Try playing her some Steve Perry songs  ;)


Yeah, Howard. Change your girlfriend's name to Sherrie.  ;D

The trouble with dirty talk, Howard, especially when you have just started out, is that it is implying to your girlfriend that you just want to ravage her body. I know this is what you want to do but to openly say this may not have the effect you want.

Jaytee said it best (being a woman who knows what a woman wants  ;)). Give the girl some light compliments. Don't go crazy or do this wierd stuff about saying 'your eyes twinkle like sparkling stars in the night sky' because it all sounds a bit phoney. Just say occassionally, and in various ways, that she looks beautiful. All this must be said in utter confidence, murmuring these words are not going to have an effect.

Hope this helps - though admittedly, you are not asking the right man, Howard. The first thing I said to my girlfriend (and she's only 4'11) is 'are you wearing any shoes?'  ;D



Thanks Bob. :) you're a big help :) just stick with the easy talk and nothing X Rated. ;D


Howard

Yeah, Howard. Change your girlfriend's name to Sherrie.  ;D


Sherrie Brody? ;D


Howard

Back hurts.

NAME CHANGE!

Sherrie Brody? ;D


Howard
I highly recommend "Oh Sherrie" by Steve Perry :D ;)

Sherrie Brody? ;D


Howard

Howard here are some suggestions we can probably all profit from!

Cherie Byrd, a psychotherapist who teaches kissing, thinks Americans should use their lips to speak to their sweethearts:

Slowing way down is really helpful, getting really focused, really feeling into your own heart," she said.

Step two: Make eye contact and deliver a message — perhaps of love or tenderness.
"Whatever that message is, it needs to be carried into the quality of the kiss," she said.

Step three: Forget multitasking; pay attention.
"Focusing is essential and it means all of you, right down to the curling of your toes needs to be engaged in this," she said.

Step four: The  smooch :-*. And with this gift, it's definitely the thought that counts.


http://images.usatoday.com/news/_photos/2005/02/13/kissing-inside.jpg

Jaytee, I'm so sorry to hear this.  I know how devastating cancer can be as my mom is battling it.  I will keep you and the family in my thoughts {{{HUGS}}}


My oldest is still running a fever from the strep & now has diarrhea from the medication.  Looks like I'll be calling the doctor again today :(


Thanks crazymom.  I think the worst thing is that my friend's husband Neil looks well.  It's hard to believe he will deteriorate that quickly (maybe the Doctor has got in wrong).  Cancer is a horrible disease which claimed my sister.  I hope your mum is winning the battle.

Hope your oldest is feeling better soon.  Don't you just hate it when the medication just adds to the misery.  My eldest always gets thrush when they give her antibiotics :P

I highly recommend "Oh Sherrie" by Steve Perry :D ;)


Class song that, Mark.  ;)

Thanks Bob. :) you're a big help :) just stick with the easy talk and nothing X Rated. ;D


No worries, Howard. Remember, it's got to feel natural. Don't force it.  :)

I had an episode of depression today. Froze up and felt horrible. My friend got one so bad later he needed a hug.

I highly recommend "Oh Sherrie" by Steve Perry :D ;)


No.you have any other songs in mind besides "Oh Sherrie"?



Howard

Howard here are some suggestions we can probably all profit from!

Cherie Byrd, a psychotherapist who teaches kissing, thinks Americans should use their lips to speak to their sweethearts:

Slowing way down is really helpful, getting really focused, really feeling into your own heart," she said.

Step two: Make eye contact and deliver a message — perhaps of love or tenderness.
"Whatever that message is, it needs to be carried into the quality of the kiss," she said.

Step three: Forget multitasking; pay attention.
"Focusing is essential and it means all of you, right down to the curling of your toes needs to be engaged in this," she said.

Step four: The  smooch :-*. And with this gift, it's definitely the thought that counts.


http://images.usatoday.com/news/_photos/2005/02/13/kissing-inside.jpg





Thanks BJ.I think I'll send this to Robin via e-mail.very good advice from this psychotherapist. :)



Howard

I had an episode of depression today. Froze up and felt horrible. My friend got one so bad later he needed a hug.

Hope everything is all right now.

Hey the thread hit 100 ;D

Forgot the fireworks.. sorry

Now just a lot more posts and the thread will be back.

This might take some time.

Robin still doesn't know after 2 1/2 months of dating each other if we are boyfriend/girlfriend,friends,special friends OR aquaintances? I guess she still has things to work out with me in order for us to become a couple but I understand that she wants a man who can take care of her and be able to support her financially.I may not be Donald Trump or Mr.Moneybags but I am working but not being paid right now,I volunteer.If she wants a man with money & a bank account then she can find some other boyfriend cause right now at the moment,I'm not the one. >:(


Howard

Robin still doesn't know after 2 1/2 months of dating each other if we are boyfriend/girlfriend,friends,special friends OR aquaintances? I guess she still has things to work out with me in order for us to become a couple but I understand that she wants a man who can take care of her and be able to support her financially.I may not be Donald Trump or Mr.Moneybags but I am working but not being paid right now,I volunteer.If she wants a man with money & a bank account then she can find some other boyfriend cause right now at the moment,I'm not the one. >:(


Howard

Hey man if she really likes you it won't matter if you have money or not.

Hey man if she really likes you it won't matter if you have money or not.



Hey,it matters to her but she has to be very patient with me.I haven't had a paying job in 12 years so I'm still trying to get my life back together again and by April OR May,I will be going to supportive employment.She tells me she takes the bull by the horns but as for me,I let the bull get lazy. ;D


Howard

LOL>.. That's a great Motto.. let the bull be lazy

LOL>.. That's a great Motto.. let the bull be lazy



I'm more of a lazy bull.And she has some goddamn nerve to call me"lazy"?  >:(  At least I'm volunteering and getting out and doing something.So what if I come home after 4 hours? It may not be the best routine every Thursday & Friday but it works for now until I can find something else to do with my time after the 4 hours,if not well she just has to be patient with me.



Howard

I'm more of a lazy bull.And she has some goddamn nerve to call me"lazy"?  >:(  At least I'm volunteering and getting out and doing something.So what if I come home after 4 hours? It may not be the best routine every Thursday & Friday but it works for now until I can find something else to do with my time after the 4 hours,if not well she just has to be patient with me.


Howard, it's admirable what you do, i work 5 hours a day and get paid, you work 4 and don't. If anything you dererve more respect.

Howard, it's admirable what you do, i work 5 hours a day and get paid, you work 4 and don't. If anything you dererve more respect.

I totally agree.

Howard, it's admirable what you do, i work 5 hours a day and get paid, you work 4 and don't. If anything you dererve more respect.


Thank You. :) See,she doesn't know me well,from what she's seen,knows and told,I gave her all this information about myself and she gathered a small summary about me.maybe she's demanding too much. :(


Howard

Thank You. :) See,she doesn't know me well,from what she's seen,knows and told,I gave her all this information about myself and she gathered a small summary about me.maybe she's demanding too much. :(


Howard


Well, I can't blame her for "encouraging" you to get a paying job, but to say that you are lazy is inappropriate.  Like it or not, women by nature look for a husband who can "provide" for a family, so her desire to see you get a paying job is understandable.

That said, it is YOUR life and you have to do things at a pace that is right for YOU.

:)

LB

Actually, I'm a little better now. I myself got a hug. I haven't really had one for years. No exaggeration. Someone asked me for one, but there was nothing in it. This actually made me happier. Wow...

Well, I can't blame her for "encouraging" you to get a paying job, but to say that you are lazy is inappropriate.  Like it or not, women by nature look for a husband who can "provide" for a family, so her desire to see you get a paying job is understandable.


I agree with LyricBoy.  Howard, she just wants what everyone wants......the American Dream.  You know.......house in suburbia, white picket fence, 2 cars, dog named Spot, 2.5 kids.  If she's not able to attain that for herself alone, and you're not able to attain that for yourself alone, then the idea is for you both to pool your resources and attain it together.  She just wants to be sure that you can keep up with your end of that bargain.

Wow... my posts are coming back quickly.

I need me some Dramamine and cough syrup.

I feel I don't deserve all the love I get :( I'm trying to be a nicer person, though :)

I feel I don't deserve all the love I get :( I'm trying to be a nicer person, though :)


What do you mean? You seem like a nice guy.

What do you mean? You seem like a nice guy.


I guess I'm pretty selfish.  I'm nice to people usually, but sometimes I think its to help myself and not me.  I'm a bit irritable too, but it's not about the things I should be irritable about.  But I'm tired of it, and I'm trying to become a nicer guy all the way round. :)

Sometimes I feel that selfishness is pretty unescapable, that is you are or you aren't.  I mean if you wish you weren't selfish, isn't that selfish in itself?

I feel happy now because my new video card finally came in and my computer looks right again. :)

I mean if you wish you weren't selfish, isn't that selfish in itself?



There's nothing selfish about wishing to better yourself.

There's nothing selfish about wishing to better yourself.



Thanks for the encouraging words :) I used to be pretty insane, but I think I was sorta an a*shole too.  I'm changing now for the better.  :)  This board helps me do that :)

Thanks for the encouraging words :) I used to be pretty insane, but I think I was sorta an a*shole too.  I'm changing now for the better.  :)  This board helps me do that :)


I feel the same way. But I don't think I'm getting better. I think I'm still an a**hole, though. I have a kinda self-hating thing.

I feel the same way. But I don't think I'm getting better. I think I'm still an a**hole, though. I have a kinda self-hating thing.


I have the self-hate thing too.  I can't stand looking in the mirror.  I think I can get better, but I don't know if I can in other people's eyes.  In The Power(s) that Be's eyes, yes, but in my peers?  I don't know.

have you guys ever considered body alterations? my ex and a few friends of mine suffer from low self-esteem and after a piercing or a tattoo, they feel great.

have you guys ever considered body alterations? my ex and a few friends of mine suffer from low self-esteem and after a piercing or a tattoo, they feel great.


No, but I have an alter-ego.  ;D

have you guys ever considered body alterations? my ex and a few friends of mine suffer from low self-esteem and after a piercing or a tattoo, they feel great.


Considered it. But I'm not of age.

Yes you do :) {{HUG}}


Thank you :)

have you guys ever considered body alterations? my ex and a few friends of mine suffer from low self-esteem and after a piercing or a tattoo, they feel great.


It's true.. the pain is a rush

I feel a little sad because the secretary in my office (she gets in crabby moods) just yelled for me to "Quit singing >:(!

I feel a little sad because the secretary in my office (she gets in crabby moods) just yelled for me to "Quit singing >:(!


Only because you were singing "Afternoon Delight" by the Starland Vocal Band for the 86th time BJ !  ;D

Come to think of it, WHY were you  singing THAT song ?  ;D

Try singing something more cheery for her like "In The Ghetto" or "Eve Of Destruction"  ;)

Only because you were singing "Afternoon Delight" by the Starland Vocal Band for the 86th time BJ !  ;D

Come to think of it, WHY were you  singing THAT song ?  ;D

Try singing something more cheery for her like "In The Ghetto" or "Eve Of Destruction"  ;)



What about Revolution #9?  ;)



Cat

lol, thanks for cheering me up yoos guys ;D, I was actually trying to sing like Black Francis of the Pixies.

I have the self-hate thing too.  I can't stand looking in the mirror.  I think I can get better, but I don't know if I can in other people's eyes.  In The Power(s) that Be's eyes, yes, but in my peers?  I don't know.


If I may butt in here:  Walk over to your drawer and grab a permanent marker, walk back over to that mirror that you can't stand looking into and write the following quote by Shakespeare:

To Thine Own Self Be True

Now look into your mirror as often as possible!!  ;)

Ooooh... I just slept soooo well... That's rare for me.

If I may butt in here:  Walk over to your drawer and grab a permanent marker, walk back over to that mirror that you can't stand looking into and write the following quote by Shakespeare:

To Thine Own Self Be True

Now look into your mirror as often as possible!!  ;)


Ah... excellent advice 80s Lady.

You only get one chance, so you might as well make the BEST of it. Don't worry be happy! ;D

as Prince (insert symbol here) would say:

Dearly beloved
were gathered here today 2 get through this called life
electric world life, it means forever and that’s a mighty long time
but I’m here 2 tell u
there’s something else...
the afterworld
a world of never ending happiness
u can always see the sun
day or night
so when u call up that shrink in Beverly Hills
u know the one, dr. everything’ll be all right
instead of asking him how much of your time is left
ask him how much of your mind baby
Cause in this life things much harder
than in the afterworld
in this life you’re on your own
and if de-elevator tries 2 bring
u down
go crazy
punch a higher floor

if u don’t like
the world you’re living in
take a look around
AT LEAST U GOT FRIENDS!

I guess I'm pretty selfish.  I'm nice to people usually, but sometimes I think its to help myself and not me.  I'm a bit irritable too, but it's not about the things I should be irritable about.  But I'm tired of it, and I'm trying to become a nicer guy all the way round. :)

Sometimes I feel that selfishness is pretty unescapable, that is you are or you aren't.  I mean if you wish you weren't selfish, isn't that selfish in itself?


A friend and I were discussing this subject philosophically about a year or two ago and came to the conclusion that there is no such thing as a selfless deed - even if the motivation is merely to make you feel better. You feel good from doing it and therefore this is your selfish motivation for doing it. Everybody has motives for doing everything. We should just consider our actions and not the thoughts that go behind them all the time.