your oral surgeon and crew must have done an excellent job on you.  you'll be feasting on all your favorites real soon.



They really did.  The two nurses I had were super-nice to me, too.  They could tell I was nervous AND I was cold so I started shivering and they gave me a blanket. 

Psht, "Boulevard..." Only HAS a chorus and one verse


I'm not trying to defend that song, I was using it as an example of songs you don't like that it's possible to know a few lyrics of.

And it has 2 verses, really.. short, bad verses.. but still verses.

I'm not trying to defend that song, I was using it as an example of songs you don't like that it's possible to know a few lyrics of.

And it has 2 verses, really.. short, bad verses.. but still verses.


Nah, I was just saying that it's not a hard song to know all the lyrics to, is all.

you're a mess Davey, and why did you inflict injury upon thyself?  I have a friend who says she has cold sores but I think its herpes. I hope you heal fast.


I was putting up a sofit and to do that one must bang in pins upwards, without really being able to see very well where one is hitting. So you hold the pin in place and hope you don't miss.  ;D

Why is it called "Babies R Us"? Was it created by a couple of 3 month olds?



It's a store with clothes for tiny tots and babies just like Toys R Us are for kids who like toys

It's a store with clothes for tiny tots and babies just like Toys R Us are for kids who like toys

Actually, it's more analogous to Kids R Us, which SM mentioned above.


I wonder if either store evolved from Toys R US??

I'm not feeling high spirited right now. :-\\

God, this antibacterial mouth rinse tastes like sh*t.  Ugh.

I'd say I feel okay right now.

Actually, it's more analogous to Kids R Us, which SM mentioned above.


I wonder if either store evolved from Toys R US??


probably.

Robin and I are going to do another temporary separation again after her birthday next week cause she feels I have no motivation.Do you guys on here feel that she's been using me all this time I mean I want to try to keep her but she's being ridiculous already,What does she want in life? She did this to me last year with the temporary separation until I wound up getting the interview at ABP towards the end of January and got hired in February 2006.if she wants to be an asshead,fine I say go for it.Being broken-up temporarily is not a good way for motivation,It's just stupid.I just thought I'd vent since I haven't talked about her in a while. ::)

Robin and I are going to do another temporary separation again after her birthday next week cause she feels I have no motivation.Do you guys on here feel that she's been using me all this time I mean I want to try to keep her but she's being ridiculous already,What does she want in life? She did this to me last year with the temporary separation until I wound up getting the interview at ABP towards the end of January and got hired in February 2006.if she wants to be an asshead,fine I say go for it.Being broken-up temporarily is not a good way for motivation,It's just stupid.I just thought I'd vent since I haven't talked about her in a while. ::)


I say dump her and do your own thing.  You need support, not an ultimatum :P

Robin and I are going to do another temporary separation again after her birthday next week cause she feels I have no motivation.Do you guys on here feel that she's been using me all this time I mean I want to try to keep her but she's being ridiculous already,What does she want in life? She did this to me last year with the temporary separation until I wound up getting the interview at ABP towards the end of January and got hired in February 2006.if she wants to be an asshead,fine I say go for it.Being broken-up temporarily is not a good way for motivation,It's just stupid.I just thought I'd vent since I haven't talked about her in a while. ::)



Dump her ass and tell her to f*ck off.  You don't need her dramatic, histrionic bullsh*t.

Sounds like Robin doesn't know what she wants. Too bad for her, I say give her the boot!

Robin and I are going to do another temporary separation again after her birthday next week cause she feels I have no motivation.Do you guys on here feel that she's been using me all this time I mean I want to try to keep her but she's being ridiculous already,What does she want in life? She did this to me last year with the temporary separation until I wound up getting the interview at ABP towards the end of January and got hired in February 2006.if she wants to be an asshead,fine I say go for it.Being broken-up temporarily is not a good way for motivation,It's just stupid.I just thought I'd vent since I haven't talked about her in a while. ::)

I hate to tell you this, but maybe you two might need to go your separate ways. :-\\

Y'know, Howard, if you were feeling really mean at the time, you could always split with her on her birthday..

In all seriousness, you seem to be down a lot lately about this stuff, and I think we can all tell it's not your fault. If all that matters to her is that her boyfriend has a job, then she's got her priorities entirely wrong.

If after a given trial separation period you still feel down, maybe the separation idea wasn't quite right. If you feel capable of making a fresh start, you know you made the right decision. And if it makes Robin wait a while and stew in what she's trying to turn you into, maybe she deserves it.

That could just be my experience with girls named Robin talking, but there you go. Keep us informed with how it turns out.

Robin and I are going to do another temporary separation again after her birthday next week cause she feels I have no motivation.

I say dump her and do your own thing.  You need support, not an ultimatum :P


I don't know,It's hard.I've been lying to her just to get her off my back.She kept calling me thinking that I was at the mall filling out applications but I wasn't today.I just can't dump her,I'm a complete moron If I don't. :-\\

Dump her ass and tell her to f*ck off.  You don't need her dramatic, histrionic bullsh*t.



I wish I could but I'm a wuss. :(

Sounds like Robin doesn't know what she wants. Too bad for her, I say give her the boot!



She never knew what SHE wanted.All her life Robin never had a boyfriend before and now she puts an ultimatum on me again.I just can't give her the boot,I'm sorry to say.

I hate to tell you this, but maybe you two might need to go your separate ways. :-\\



After her birthday. ::)

She never knew what SHE wanted.All her life Robin never had a boyfriend before and now she puts an ultimatum on me again.I just can't give her the boot,I'm sorry to say.


Then you're just going to have to deal with it, I'm afraid.  It seems to me that she doesn't appreciate you at all though, and who really wants to live with that type of relationship?

Up to you...only YOU can prevent crazy girlfriends!  :D

Y'know, Howard, if you were feeling really mean at the time, you could always split with her on her birthday..

In all seriousness, you seem to be down a lot lately about this stuff, and I think we can all tell it's not your fault. If all that matters to her is that her boyfriend has a job, then she's got her priorities entirely wrong.

If after a given trial separation period you still feel down, maybe the separation idea wasn't quite right. If you feel capable of making a fresh start, you know you made the right decision. And if it makes Robin wait a while and stew in what she's trying to turn you into, maybe she deserves it.

That could just be my experience with girls named Robin talking, but there you go. Keep us informed with how it turns out.


Thanks a lot Bobo,I'll keep you informed with Her and I. ;)

Then you're just going to have to deal with it, I'm afraid.  It seems to me that she doesn't appreciate you at all though, and who really wants to live with that type of relationship?

Up to you...only YOU can prevent crazy girlfriends!  :D


I'm going to have to live with it but I mean do I see a pattern here where If I get fired/laid off from a job she's going to pull this crap every year with this temporary separation? I don't know but what do you guys think? ???

I'm going to have to live with it but I mean do I see a pattern here where If I get fired/laid off from a job she's going to pull this crap every year with this temporary separation? I don't know but what do you guys think? ???


I wouldn't be surprised if she were like that.  You want to be careful with this one.

I wouldn't be surprised if she were like that.  You want to be careful with this one.


She's been like that since last year

Why ask if you should break up with her if you say time and time again that you have no desire to do so?  You say you're tired of her bull and when we agree and tell you to ditch her, you keep coming up with more reasons why you can't.  Just tell her to go to hell and leave it at that.  You don't need her crap. 

It's nice to know I'm popular... Even if it's in another state. :P

It's nice to know I'm popular... Even if it's in another state. :P


It's weird when people talk about you.. and it happens relatively often.

It's weird when people talk about you.. and it happens relatively often.


XD So I've heard... Yanno, by the time I get to PA, everybody in your school will know me.

XD So I've heard... Yanno, by the time I get to PA, everybody in your school will know me.


Pretty much. For some reason, I always saw you, if you ever got to our school, faring better outside of the social circle you're acquainted with thant inside of it.. like, I always saw you making better friends elsewhere or something.. dunno why.

Pretty much. For some reason, I always saw you, if you ever got to our school, faring better outside of the social circle you're acquainted with thant inside of it.. like, I always saw you making better friends elsewhere or something.. dunno why.


It's 'cos you dun want me, huh!? THAT'S IT, ISN'T IT!? Ok.

The heat is on, but it's still cold in the computer room.  Ack.

The heat is on, but it's still cold in the computer room.  Ack.


I get the opposite effect in my house.. the whole rest of the house could be frozen in ice, but the computer room would be a constant 70 degrees. It's weird.

I get the opposite effect in my house.. the whole rest of the house could be frozen in ice, but the computer room would be a constant 70 degrees. It's weird.


Oh, same here... I'm always hot in the office, no matter what.

Saturday nights are a drag.

Saturday nights are a drag.


This whole day's been a drag.

This whole day's been a drag.


Actually, same here for me too. I had to get up early and work with my dad, then when I got off I just came home. I work and make money, but then when I get off I have to bum a ride from him to go do anything. I hate it, I have zero chance of getting any dates with no ride at my age.

Actually, same here for me too. I had to get up early and work with my dad, then when I got off I just came home. I work and make money, but then when I get off I have to bum a ride from him to go do anything. I hate it, I have zero chance of getting any dates with no ride at my age.


You're making money?

Save up, get a car.

You're making money?

Save up, get a car.


Money doesn't grow on trees.

Money doesn't grow on trees.


I'm aware of that. Still, you've got money coming in. Save it up and buy a car. It's not an instant solution, but when you come up with a better way to obtain a car than purchasing one, by all means use that solution.

I'm aware of that. Still, you've got money coming in. Save it up and buy a car. It's not an instant solution, but when you come up with a better way to obtain a car than purchasing one, by all means use that solution.


Thats going to be a long time from now.

Thats going to be a long time from now.



Saving up won't hurt, might as well try.

I am in a good mood. Chris and I were able to go out tonight...we went down near Pittsburgh to a Japanese hibachi steak & sea house (where they cook right in front of you). The place was crowded (we waited over an hour)...but they paired us up with some friendly folks...and we were all chatting while we ate. It was a LOT of fun! :)

I feel freakin' awesome.  :)

I feel content, and happy that Julie just got home. Not bad, she's 17, it's 10:41 on a Saturday night, her and friends went out to dinner, a movie, then to Nations for some pie and she's in before 11pm??  what a good kid. damn I luv her.  However, nothing is ever as good as we want it to be. I  hear a boys voice in the living room.  >:( 











;D 

damn

I feel content, and happy that Julie just got home. Not bad, she's 17, it's 10:41 on a Saturday night, her and friends went out to dinner, a movie, then to Nations for some pie and she's in before 11pm??  what a good kid. damn I luv her.  However, nothing is ever as good as we want it to be. I  hear a boys voice in the living room.  >:( 











;D 

damn




Ooooooooh, Julie's got a boyfriend!  Okay Mike....this is what you do.  Go in there and pretend to be looking for something.  Really get into it.  Throw stuff on the floor, crawl around, smack the ground and say things like "now where the hell is that thing?".  The boy will make like a bread truck and haul buns.

Why ask if you should break up with her if you say time and time again that you have no desire to do so?  You say you're tired of her bull and when we agree and tell you to ditch her, you keep coming up with more reasons why you can't.  Just tell her to go to hell and leave it at that.  You don't need her crap. 


I'm ambivalent right now.I don't know what I want to do.If I break away from her permanently then I feel kind of lost and depressed on Sundays and our routine we've been having for 2 years would be gone.I also feel that something good(and you never know)might come out of this relationship.Only Her And I would know if we were meant to be.Telling her to go to hell would be wrong.Something I want to say to her that's nasty is holding me back so I'm trying to avoid it as best as I can and that's why I bite my tongue when I talk to her on the phone and in person.I'm holding on and I don't want to give up even though people are telling me to dump her and I just don't want to start over again. :-\\

Maybe I shouldn't have told her that I lost/ got laid off from my job then this whole situation wouldn't have started. :(

I feel content, and happy that Julie just got home. Not bad, she's 17, it's 10:41 on a Saturday night, her and friends went out to dinner, a movie, then to Nations for some pie and she's in before 11pm??  what a good kid. damn I luv her.  However, nothing is ever as good as we want it to be. I  hear a boys voice in the living room.  >:( 



I assure you as a teenager that they would never try anything innappropriate with parents in the house. :P

Oh man, I feel like crap.

I have some sort of throat infection (have done for about 2 weeks now - gonna see the doc tomorrow) but it's my godawful hangover that's doing the business today.

Usually by mid-afternoon I'd feel ok.. but man, I must have tied one on last night.

I can remember getting to my friends house, but how I got home (a distance of some 5 miles) is something I don't know and don't want to know. I did however find half a kebab in my pocket this morning, that made a good breakfast.

Oh man, I feel like crap.

I have some sort of throat infection (have done for about 2 weeks now - gonna see the doc tomorrow) but it's my godawful hangover that's doing the business today.

Usually by mid-afternoon I'd feel ok.. but man, I must have tied one on last night.

I can remember getting to my friends house, but how I got home (a distance of some 5 miles) is something I don't know and don't want to know. I did however find half a kebab in my pocket this morning, that made a good breakfast.


Survival of the fittest, eh? Why don't you just go lay down and drink water? And by water, I mean a few gallons of it.

mi hed hurts and my heart is going at the speed of lyt.

i luv it!

Maybe I shouldn't have told her that I lost/ got laid off from my job then this whole situation wouldn't have started. :(



And lied to her?  If she found out and you didn't tell her, she'd be just as mad....if not more.  It's a no-win situation for you, Howard.  That's why you need to cut your losses and find someone else who isn't going to make you feel bad about yourself.

mi hed hurts and my heart is going at the speed of lyt.

i luv it!



Go to Hell.

Go to Hell.


=ooo! Bethany! Don't be so rude to the newcomer!

Survival of the fittest, eh? Why don't you just go lay down and drink water? And by water, I mean a few gallons of it.


Well.. soda and Ibuprofen and 3 hours of Motley Crue.

Ooooooooh, Julie's got a boyfriend!  Okay Mike....this is what you do.  Go in there and pretend to be looking for something.  Really get into it.  Throw stuff on the floor, crawl around, smack the ground and say things like "now where the hell is that thing?".  The boy will make like a bread truck and haul buns.
not her boyfriend, she broke up a couple weeks ago. This was just a good friend who lives nearby and there were 2 boys!  I did go out to "say hi" . They were at the dinner table talking .

not her boyfriend, she broke up a couple weeks ago. This was just a good friend who lives nearby and there were 2 boys!  I did go out to "say hi" . They were at the dinner table talking .


At least at that point in time they were...

.. nah, I just wanna make you all paranoid.

I'd hate having a daughter. I told my neice that she shouldn't be hanging around with pikey looking boys at her age, but she's nearly 14 now, dosen't seem right to me. Of course, at 14 I was doing my best to get my leg over everything that moved.

At least at that point in time they were...

.. nah, I just wanna make you all paranoid.

I'd hate having a daughter. I told my neice that she shouldn't be hanging around with pikey looking boys at her age, but she's nearly 14 now, dosen't seem right to me. Of course, at 14 I was doing my best to get my leg over everything that moved.


I'm surprised you haven't posted the battle yet on my thread...

Don't you want to put the smack down on me and a catgirl?

At least at that point in time they were...

.. nah, I just wanna make you all paranoid.

I'd hate having a daughter. I told my neice that she shouldn't be hanging around with pikey looking boys at her age, but she's nearly 14 now, dosen't seem right to me. Of course, at 14 I was doing my best to get my leg over everything that moved.
I meant she broke up with another dude. These 2 are longtime classmates, no romance, but they do get kinda close and i just try my best to not envision beheading the lads, and let her have a life and try to trust her. I don't trust boys, especially if they're like you and me at that age.

I'm surprised you haven't posted the battle yet on my thread...

Don't you want to put the smack down on me and a catgirl?


Ooooh yeah. I'll do that.

I meant she broke up with another dude. These 2 are longtime classmates, no romance, but they do get kinda close and i just try my best to not envision beheading the lads, and let her have a life and try to trust her. I don't trust boys, especially if they're like you and me at that age.


Exactly.. and you know they are.

What I would do if I had a daughter is bring home derelict after derelict and explain to her the consequences of living the sort of life you assume she wants to at that age. That'll scare the crap out of her. Also, drop something in his drink.  ;)

Ooooh yeah. I'll do that.


It wasn't exciting enough, you forgot to have both sides attack each round(which has to be done for the first 3 rounds).

And lied to her?  If she found out and you didn't tell her, she'd be just as mad....if not more.  It's a no-win situation for you, Howard.  That's why you need to cut your losses and find someone else who isn't going to make you feel bad about yourself.



I understand what you're saying but I can't.As much as it hurts deep in my heart I can't leave her permanently.Her And I right now and she did it over the phone will be taking a temporary disconnection from each other until I get this full time job whenever that'll be.My job coach and I are working on applications so this time I don't want him to rush this job.It takes time and patience.Robin can wait(that stupid girl)no matter how long this search will take,She'll wait.I'm not rushing to go back to this relationship.When the time is right and I'll get myself situated,I'll come back into her arms and we'll live happily ever after.(being sarcastic)  ;D ::)

I meant she broke up with another dude. These 2 are longtime classmates, no romance, but they do get kinda close and i just try my best to not envision beheading the lads, and let her have a life and try to trust her. I don't trust boys, especially if they're like you and me at that age.
At least she's bringing them home, it's when she doesn't you want to start worrying......................

I understand what you're saying but I can't.As much as it hurts deep in my heart I can't leave her permanently.Her And I right now and she did it over the phone will be taking a temporary disconnection from each other until I get this full time job whenever that'll be.My job coach and I are working on applications so this time I don't want him to rush this job.It takes time and patience.Robin can wait(that stupid girl)no matter how long this search will take,She'll wait.I'm not rushing to go back to this relationship.When the time is right and I'll get myself situated,I'll come back into her arms and we'll live happily ever after.(being sarcastic)  ;D ::)
Howard have you sat down with her and asked her to explain, clearly, why it's such a big deal that you are out of work at the moment? Is it coming from her or her parents? You have said they don't really like you in the past so maybe it's them pressuring her about it.

I understand what you're saying but I can't.As much as it hurts deep in my heart I can't leave her permanently.Her And I right now and she did it over the phone will be taking a temporary disconnection from each other until I get this full time job whenever that'll be.My job coach and I are working on applications so this time I don't want him to rush this job.It takes time and patience.Robin can wait(that stupid girl)no matter how long this search will take,She'll wait.I'm not rushing to go back to this relationship.When the time is right and I'll get myself situated,I'll come back into her arms and we'll live happily ever after.(being sarcastic)  ;D ::)

Howard.. there are two ways I can see of looking at this.

On the one hand, yes, it is important to have a job, be it part time or full time so you can earn money, maintain independance, etc, etc, etc. I think that Robin also believes this and is trying to help you.. BUT! here is the thing. I don't think her threatening to break up with you if you don't have a job she thinks is acceptable is the right way to go. Maybe you need to talk with her, explain that you want to get a good job and are trying, but the best way for you to do that would be for her to encourage you, not punish you.

I'm a little discouraged that I'm having a difficult time finding work.  Who knew that ad agencies in Atlanta weren't hiring entry-level people right now?  Ugh.

Quite chilled, our p.c at home died on saturday so we spent a quite day yesterday reading and watching t.v while eating pastries and cupcakes. I'm sure that will all change very soon now i'm at work.  ::)

I'm a little discouraged that I'm having a difficult time finding work.  Who knew that ad agencies in Atlanta weren't hiring entry-level people right now?  Ugh.
and of course they want you to have experience, but how do you get any unless somebody hires you. it's a tough cycle, but someone will hire you, just keep your eyes and ears open.

I just heard this morning that Elizabeth's friend needs to have radiotherapy followed by chemotherapy for about a year.

I just heard this morning that Elizabeth's friend needs to have radiotherapy followed by chemotherapy for about a year.
I will keep her in my prayers & hopefully she'll be good about taking all of her treatments and will get better.

I just heard this morning that Elizabeth's friend needs to have radiotherapy followed by chemotherapy for about a year.


Unfortunate, but so much better than what could have happened.

I'm a little discouraged that I'm having a difficult time finding work.  Who knew that ad agencies in Atlanta weren't hiring entry-level people right now?  Ugh.
Is there anywhere you can do a period of volutary work for? I know it's a bummer cos you don't get paid, but it gives you the vital experience employers clamour for and it looks good on your C.V (resume). 

Is there anywhere you can do a period of volutary work for? I know it's a bummer cos you don't get paid, but it gives you the vital experience employers clamour for and it looks good on your C.V (resume). 



I've done the internship search, but no ad agencies are looking for any right now.  In fact, I don't even think I've seen any for marketing firms.  I'm not giving up hope, it's just so damn frustrating.

I've done the internship search, but no ad agencies are looking for any right now.  In fact, I don't even think I've seen any for marketing firms.  I'm not giving up hope, it's just so damn frustrating.
I'm sorry to hear that, it must be so frustrating. I hope something comes up for you soon.

I've done the internship search, but no ad agencies are looking for any right now.  In fact, I don't even think I've seen any for marketing firms.  I'm not giving up hope, it's just so damn frustrating.


Taco Bell is calling.  ;D

I'm sorry to hear that, it must be so frustrating. I hope something comes up for you soon.



So do I.....I'm sick of my family. 



I totally mean that in a good way, though.

Taco Bell is calling.  ;D



I'd rather have no money.

I'd rather have no money.
I know what you mean! Mind you my best friend cleaned toilets for awhile it was actually better than you would think and weirdly interesting. She's a mega bucks buisness woman now...................

Actually, it's more analogous to Kids R Us, which SM mentioned above.


I wonder if either store evolved from Toys R US??
ummmm.....both of them did, hence the "R Us" in the name ::)  Toys 'R' Us is mostly toys, while Kids 'R' Us & Babies 'R' Us focuses mostly on clothing.  They all have things like diapers, strollers, stuff like that.

I'm feeling blah..sick in my stomach. :-\\

I know what you mean! Mind you my best friend cleaned toilets for awhile it was actually better than you would think and weirdly interesting. She's a mega bucks buisness woman now...................


Scrubbing sh.it (or being a shi.t tart as I affectionatly refer to them) would indeed give you the inclination to bust ass.

Not feeling very good. As soon as Jason's naptime rolls around, I'm zonking out.

I also feel bad because I was supposed to take the little man to the library for storytime, but I feel like I'm going to hurl. Not that he cares. He hates other kids. :P

Howard have you sat down with her and asked her to explain, clearly, why it's such a big deal that you are out of work at the moment? Is it coming from her or her parents? You have said they don't really like you in the past so maybe it's them pressuring her about it.



No I haven't Gis.All she wants in this relationship is a good solid job that can help me and help the both of us so maybe one day in the future Her And I can get an aprtment together but that could take many years.I can't see her and I being married but I think just maybe with a little help and support Her And I can scrap up some money to get a small apartment cause I think we both need the independence.All our lives It has been tough for the both of us living with our parents.Me for 32 years and her 27.I'm hoping this could get done not now but years from now.

I think basically this is coming from HER parents.

Howard.. there are two ways I can see of looking at this.

On the one hand, yes, it is important to have a job, be it part time or full time so you can earn money, maintain independance, etc, etc, etc. I think that Robin also believes this and is trying to help you.. BUT! here is the thing. I don't think her threatening to break up with you if you don't have a job she thinks is acceptable is the right way to go. Maybe you need to talk with her, explain that you want to get a good job and are trying, but the best way for you to do that would be for her to encourage you, not punish you.



But this temporary separation is ridiculous.Is she afraid that she doesn't want to be seen with an unemployed boyfriend? She's been a big help up to now and I appreciate everything that she's did for me like encouraging me to fill out applications,giving me the motivation that I needed and some support here and there.But all this punishment is getting us nowhere.Maybe I need to talk to her either over the phone or the next time I see her again whenever that'll be.I want us to have a good life not a bad one.

But this temporary separation is ridiculous.Is she afraid that she doesn't want to be seen with an unemployed boyfriend? She's been a big help up to now and I appreciate everything that she's did for me like encouraging me to fill out applications,giving me the motivation that I needed and some support here and there.But all this punishment is getting us nowhere.Maybe I need to talk to her either over the phone or the next time I see her again whenever that'll be.I want us to have a good life not a bad one.

I dunno what to tell ya. :-\\

I dunno what to tell ya. :-\\



How would you feel if you had an unemployed girlfriend? ???

How would you feel if you had an unemployed girlfriend? ???

Depressed. But right now I don't have any steady. :-\\

Depressed. But right now I don't have any steady. :-\\



What about the support and love?

How would you feel if you had an unemployed girlfriend? ???
I honestly wouldn't care (and don't think hubby would either ;)). 

Seriously, though.  If this is how she "punishes" you, what is she going to do IF you ever end up "together" in an apartment?  When things get rough is she going to run back home to mommy & daddy and leave you stuck with the bills and everything?  I know it's easier said than done because you have a history and are in your "comfort zone" with her, but it's really not healthy to be in a relationship like this and you have to get out of it.  Not just temporarily, either.  You have bent over backwards trying to please her and all she does is sh!t on you if you don't do exactly as she says.  It's not like you got fired because you goofed off or something like that, they simply didn't have enough work for you to do.  It happens.  It's happened to me and almost everyone I know.  Some day mommy and daddy aren't going to be around to tell her what to do and what is she going to do then? ???

^^^

Bravo, bravo, bravo. 



My doggie has conjunctivitis.  :(  My sister and I had to rush him to the vet at 8:30 this morning because his eye was real red and it had a discharge of some kind.  Fortunately it's treatable and we have stuff to give him, but that gave us quite a scare. 

^^^

Bravo, bravo, bravo. 



My doggie has conjunctivitis.  :(   My sister and I had to rush him to the vet at 8:30 this morning because his eye was real red and it had a discharge of some kind.  Fortunately it's treatable and we have stuff to give him, but that gave us quite a scare. 
poor little guy

poor little guy



He handled himself well.  Whenever he has appointments at the vet, our dad takes him in the Land Rover, but my sister and I had had to take him in her car....which is considerably smaller.  He behaved like a little gentleman, so we had no problems.  Neither my mom, sister nor I noticed what was wrong with his eye, but my dad did.  He told my sister to go over there after class to see when this week we could get him in, but as soon as we told the vet what was going on, the vet said we had to bring him over ASAP.  \

He's a trooper.  :)

He handled himself well.  Whenever he has appointments at the vet, our dad takes him in the Land Rover, but my sister and I had had to take him in her car....which is considerably smaller.  He behaved like a little gentleman, so we had no problems.  Neither my mom, sister nor I noticed what was wrong with his eye, but my dad did.  He told my sister to go over there after class to see when this week we could get him in, but as soon as we told the vet what was going on, the vet said we had to bring him over ASAP.  \

He's a trooper.  :)
glad to hear it, sounds like he had the very best care available.

glad to hear it, sounds like he had the very best care available.



He does.  This animal hospital is great.....the vets are super-friendly and the staff that work there are really nice.  Our cat is really, REALLY skittish around strangers.  If you come up to her, she'll hiss and then run and hide.  Dr. Kennedy (the kitty doctor) is the only person outside our immediate family she'll let touch her.  It's weird.  My dad's best friend, who catsits whenever we go out of town, can't get near her, but the vet can.  Cats are so strange sometimes. 

We did get admonished for his weight, though.  He weighs 80 lbs and he's supposed to weigh near 60.  So, all of us are getting more exercise....my sister and I are taking him walking in Webb Bridge Park every day. 

^^^

Bravo, bravo, bravo. 



My doggie has conjunctivitis.  :(   My sister and I had to rush him to the vet at 8:30 this morning because his eye was real red and it had a discharge of some kind.  Fortunately it's treatable and we have stuff to give him, but that gave us quite a scare. 


Heh... When my cat got conjunctivitis, we ended up having to put it to sleep. 6 months of suffering, basically.

I honestly wouldn't care (and don't think hubby would either ;)). 

Seriously, though.  If this is how she "punishes" you, what is she going to do IF you ever end up "together" in an apartment?  When things get rough is she going to run back home to mommy & daddy and leave you stuck with the bills and everything?  I know it's easier said than done because you have a history and are in your "comfort zone" with her, but it's really not healthy to be in a relationship like this and you have to get out of it.  Not just temporarily, either.  You have bent over backwards trying to please her and all she does is sh!t on you if you don't do exactly as she says.  It's not like you got fired because you goofed off or something like that, they simply didn't have enough work for you to do.  It happens.  It's happened to me and almost everyone I know.  Some day mommy and daddy aren't going to be around to tell her what to do and what is she going to do then? ???


Mama,It's really hard for me to get out of this relationship.I'm just so fixiated on her,I don't know what to do.I was just thinking the very same thing that what if we did get an apartment together and wound up having major problems What if her mother and father aren't there is she going to run to her younger or older sister maybe her best friend,god only knows,I've never lived with her before,It's kind of scary since We've been living with our Parents all our lives.We both want this relationship to work but what is she gaining from all this doing the punishment routine on me? I don't know about you and Sister but you might be mad at me but I'm going to get myself situated first and then when the time's right,her And I will date again,whenever that'll be.

:( Sad for a friend.

November sucks balls.

Matt just called me and I broke into tears. I miss him so much. He started his new job Sunday and the hours are so crappy, I'll only be able to see him Thurs-Sat. But he might come over tonight around 3am. That makes me happy.

I should be doing my English rough draft right now.

I had a bad day at "school" today. Almost had to walk home, but Shawn and her boyfriend Nick (whom I've been trying to avoid because I'm nothing but a bum to them) were like, "No, we'll take you home." Every night when I get home, I can see that my 3 year old cousin Leianna, AKA the Beast, has been in there screwing with my stuff. I can't ever have anything beause she's getting into it and/or breaking it. I have no door, by the way. I've been beating my laptop because I'm so damn angry. I used to cut (yeah, I don't care who knows, that's all over with), but the idea sounds very tempting right now. But Matt would see and I'd hate myself forever and ever amen.

I've been yelling at people for mostly no apparent reason, and I'm too pissed to say sorry right now. You know who you are.

We were talking about out majors on my first Year Connections class tonight, and it made me realize that I have no idea what I want to do with my life. Well, I do, but my goal is too far-fetched to ever reach it. I'll never write books and be an editor for SPIN magazine. Great, I can hear the laughing.

November sucks balls.

Matt just called me and I broke into tears. I miss him so much. He started his new job Sunday and the hours are so crappy, I'll only be able to see him Thurs-Sat. But he might come over tonight around 3am. That makes me happy.

I should be doing my English rough draft right now.

I had a bad day at "school" today. Almost had to walk home, but Shawn and her boyfriend Nick (whom I've been trying to avoid because I'm nothing but a bum to them) were like, "No, we'll take you home." Every night when I get home, I can see that my 3 year old cousin Leianna, AKA the Beast, has been in there screwing with my stuff. I can't ever have anything beause she's getting into it and/or breaking it. I have no door, by the way. I've been beating my laptop because I'm so damn angry. I used to cut (yeah, I don't care who knows, that's all over with), but the idea sounds very tempting right now. But Matt would see and I'd hate myself forever and ever amen.

I've been yelling at people for mostly no apparent reason, and I'm too pissed to say sorry right now. You know who you are.

We were talking about out majors on my first Year Connections class tonight, and it made me realize that I have no idea what I want to do with my life. Well, I do, but my goal is too far-fetched to ever reach it. I'll never write books and be an editor for SPIN magazine. Great, I can hear the laughing.

I like your far fetched goal and don't see it as impossible. I had wanted to be a writer of fiction or biographies and never did, but I'm glad I at least wanted to. hang in there Ashley, you've probably heard this but it's a good saying and comes in handy. some days are better than others.

Heh... When my cat got conjunctivitis, we ended up having to put it to sleep. 6 months of suffering, basically.
I'm baffled, how on earth does having conjunctivitis end up in euthanasia? it's very contagious but it's not life threatening, I'm assuming the cat's immune system was shot and he/she developed other things?

donuts are yummy

donuts are yummy
I bet they are  >:( 

I bet they are  >:( 



*finds jelly munchkin*

*finds jelly munchkin*
wishing I had 2 donuts

I hate credit card companies >:( >:(  Just as an FYI, don't screw up and pay even $1 short of your balance if you don't want to be charged interest on the previous charges (twice) AND any additional charges until your next payment is due (i.e. no grace period).  According to my credit card company, if you don't pay your balance IN FULL each month, not only are you charged interest on the remaining balance that isn't paid, you're also charged interest on the amount you DID pay as well as interest on all new charges (even if it's before they're due).  >:(

I hate credit card companies >:( >:(  Just as an FYI, don't screw up and pay even $1 short of your balance if you don't want to be charged interest on the previous charges (twice) AND any additional charges until your next payment is due (i.e. no grace period).  According to my credit card company, if you don't pay your balance IN FULL each month, not only are you charged interest on the remaining balance that isn't paid, you're also charged interest on the amount you DID pay as well as interest on all new charges (even if it's before they're due).   >:(


That varies from company to company.  My husband got caught with the same thing when he paid the deposit on his car.  He paid off half but got charged interest on the full amount.  "It's in the small print"

I like your far fetched goal and don't see it as impossible. I had wanted to be a writer of fiction or biographies and never did, but I'm glad I at least wanted to. hang in there Ashley, you've probably heard this but it's a good saying and comes in handy. some days are better than others.


Thanks, Mike. I just noticed that I only write in these Feel Any Way threads when I'm really sad or frustrated. I need to start writing good things...


I lost 5 pounds. That's good news to me!

That varies from company to company.  My husband got caught with the same thing when he paid the deposit on his car.  He paid off half but got charged interest on the full amount.  "It's in the small print"
The thing that really pisses  me off about all of this is I pay the account online and always use the "pay statement balance" option, but somehow my payment was short so it obviously was a problem with THEIR system ???

I suggested more money, instead I was given the option of working 7 days a week. Working 7 days a week on top of going to school 5 days a week isn't going to happen. I'd like to remember my youth as at least a semi-enjoyable period in my life. Now I have to really start looking for a new job by the end of this month. I like it here, but it just doesn't pay enough.

I suggested more money, instead I was given the option of working 7 days a week. Working 7 days a week on top of going to school 5 days a week isn't going to happen. I'd like to remember my youth as at least a semi-enjoyable period in my life. Now I have to really start looking for a new job by the end of this month. I like it here, but it just doesn't pay enough.



In the long run, Beth...it will be a better decision. ;)

I was talking with my therapist this morning and I was telling her that I call Robin every day but If her And I are separated temporarily and we still call each other every day then you would say that we're still dating in a way.She was thinking that If I called her once a week then I would give Robin a chance to miss me.Talking to her every day when there's really not much to say.Maybe it's best for me to call her once a week to keep her updated with me.I was just thinking about that.

I suggested more money, instead I was given the option of working 7 days a week. Working 7 days a week on top of going to school 5 days a week isn't going to happen. I'd like to remember my youth as at least a semi-enjoyable period in my life. Now I have to really start looking for a new job by the end of this month. I like it here, but it just doesn't pay enough.


WHAT THE FECK IS WRONG WITH TIM!? Soooo money hungry, it seems. I agree with Erin, though. You won't regret it in the future.