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Subject: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 4:09 pm

I just want to know the current status of your date life.....whether you're single, dating or married :o.

As of the making of this thread, I am SINGLE.


SHARE!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 4:14 pm

Single, and it sucks a*'s!  >:(

I wish I had a companion to share things with.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 4:16 pm


Single, and it sucks a*'s!  >:(

I wish I had a companion to share things with.

Same, I definitely feel ya!

I've never had much luck with girls and let's just say that me not being tall doesn't help my chances.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 4:20 pm


Same, I definitely feel ya!

I've never had much luck with girls and let's just say that me not being tall doesn't help my chances.
Man, that sucks! Yeah, it seems most girls like tall men, but there are some who like shorter ones though.

I hope both of us find a great relationship soon. It gets difficult as one gets older.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 4:24 pm

I've been married for 10 years.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 06/20/17 at 4:31 pm

Lee and I still date. And we enjoy it very much! I'm glad he is much younger than I am. <3

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 4:35 pm


Man, that sucks! Yeah, it seems most girls like tall men, but there are some who like shorter ones though.

I hope both of us find a great relationship soon. It gets difficult as one gets older.

I know. Thanks bro! and good luck.


I've been married for 10 years.

Awesome. When and where did you guys meet? (if you don't mind sharing)


Lee and I still date. And we enjoy it very much! I'm glad he is much younger than I am. <3

HAHA. That's great! I hope that you and Lee continue having a great relationship :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 06/20/17 at 4:41 pm

Married

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 5:20 pm


Awesome. When and where did you guys meet? (if you don't mind sharing)


We met around 1997 but didn't start dating until 2 years later.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 5:48 pm


We met around 1997 but didn't start dating until 2 years later.

Are you guys around the same age?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/20/17 at 6:11 pm

Hmm... IN SHORT: It's complicated/going steady/reluctant. I had a painful relationship in the past, and I have conservative parents (or more accurately, a conservative cultural community who would shun my family) who will never accept me being gay, and I'm not emotionally ready for that. But there is this kid that's coming on hard, and I do find some strange comfort with him, even though our personalities complement and clash in weird ways.


LONG VERSION

I hooked up with this guy about a year ago. He's a bit younger than me (19 y/o, turning 20 next month) and he's the hottest twink (you can look that up) I've ever got my hands on, and we went through a period of youthful lust (hot smex).  :-[ I didn't have any intention of starting a relationship, but he started texting me just to get to know me. Then we hung out a couple of times, playing video games or going to the movies.

The thing is... He's really immature and also has daddy issues.  :-X I'm not a picky person at all, and I can tolerate a lot of imperfections. But when he introduced me to his dad, his dad said he was too tired to make dinner, and that pissed him off big time and he started a huge argument. And when he was getting ready to put leftover spaghetti in the microwave, he slammed it so hard it broke! And then he blamed his dad for making him angry. I wasn't even hungry! When I'm on the phone with him, he bosses his dad around a lot too. I feel bad for his dad.

After that incident I was gradually talking to him less and the relationship (if you can call it that) naturally dissipated.

That lasted for a few months... then I got desperate for dat ass and called him up, and we got back together again.  :-[ :-[ :-[

He tried to re-establish the friendship/romantic side of it, but I'm extremely reluctant towards that, and I was busy with work and family (I have a little sister with disabilities). He called me out on avoiding him, and only dating him for sex (no lies detected  :-X), but I actually was really busy and wasn't avoiding him on purpose, it was just the nice side effect of me actually being busy. He became really whiny and desperate for attention; it was really insufferable and I made it clear that I never had any intention of starting a romantic relationship, and I only thought of him as a friend with benefits. This made me feel bad though because I felt I hurt him, and in my past relationship I hurt another person really badly. The guilt made me make more time for him and give him what he wanted. At some point though, I think he had an epiphany and started to accept that's how things were going to be (that I was a closed off person). He became far less whiny and was more chill to hang out with, and I started to get happy if he texted me instead of dreading it. But anyway, that's when the "relationship" started to gradually dissipate again. I hadn't talked to him in months...

... Until two weeks ago, when he texted me some strange Fire Emblem video and told me to download the mobile game (Fire Emblem Heroes). I told him I have the 3DS game, and that got him really excited and he told me to come to his house whenever, so he could borrow it. (He was so excited though, it felt fake, I think he wants to "borrow" something else ;D). Apparently he isn't doing so well at school, but the last couple of times I hung out with him, he was finally acting like a mature adult (except one other incident with his dad), so IDK what to do. I was supposed to go to his house today, but my family got in the way, so it will most likely be tomorrow.


We'll see how it goes. I'm extremely reluctant towards starting a relationship, but I've also been feeling a bit lonely the past week or so, but I don't want to do anything out of desperation. I'm not giving away Fire Emblem for free, that's for sure. ;D

Wow this post ended up being really long for a person I'm not supposed to care much about. I probably made him look really bad, but he is actually a very kind and sweet person on the whole, and I was being just as much of a prick. :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 6:27 pm


Hmm... IN SHORT: It's complicated/going steady/reluctant. I had a painful relationship in the past, and I have conservative parents (or more accurately, a conservative cultural community who would shun my family) who will never accept me being gay, and I'm not emotionally ready for that. But there is this kid that's coming on hard, and I do find some strange comfort with him, even though our personalities complement and clash in weird ways.


LONG VERSION

I hooked up with this guy about a year ago. He's a bit younger than me (19 y/o, turning 20 next month) and he's the hottest twink (you can look that up) I've ever got my hands on, and we went through a period of youthful lust.  :-[ I didn't have any intention of starting a relationship, but he started texting me just to get to know me, then we hung out a couple of times, playing video games or going to the movies.

The thing is... He's really immature and also has daddy issues.  :-X I'm not a picky person at all and I can tolerate a lot of imperfections. But when he introduced me to his dad, he got pissed off that his dad was too tired to make dinner and started a huge argument, and when he was getting to ready to put leftover spaghetti in the microwave, he slammed it so hard it broke! And then he blamed his dad for making him angry. I wasn't even hungry! When I'm on the phone with him, he bosses his dad around a lot. I feel bad for his dad.

After that incident I gradually started talking to him less and the relationship (if you can call it that) naturally dissipated. That lasted for a few months... then I got desperate for dat ass and called him up and we got back together again.  :-[ :-[ :-[

He tried to re-establish the friendship/romantic side of it, but I'm extremely reluctant towards that, and I was busy with work and family (I have a little sister with disabilities). He called me out on avoiding him and only dating him for sex (no lies detected  :-X), but I actually was really busy and wasn't avoiding him on purpose, it was just the nice side effect of me actually being busy. He became really whiny and desperate for for, it was really insufferable and I made it clear that I never had any intention of starting a romantic relationship and I only thought of him as a friend with benefits. This made me feel bad though because I thought I hurt him, and in my past relationship I hurt another person really badly so I made more time for him and gave him what he wanted. At some point, I think he had an epiphany and started to accept that's how things were going to be (that I was a closed off person). He was far less whiny and more chill to hang out with, and I'd get happy if he texted instead of dreading it. But anyway, that's when the "relationship" started to gradually dissipate again. I hadn't talked to him in months...

... Until two weeks ago, when he texted me some strange Fire Emblem video and told me to download the mobile game (Fire Emblem Heroes). I told him I have the 3DS game, and that got him really excited and he told me to come to his house whenever, so he could borrow it. Apparently he isn't doing so well at school, but the last couple of times I hung out with him, he was finally acting like a mature adult (except one other incident with his dad), so IDK what to do. I was supposed to go to his hoise today, but my family got in the way, so it will most likely be tomorrow.


We'll see how it goes. I'm extremely reluctant towards starting a relationship, but also I've been feeling a bit lonely the past week or so, but I don't want to do anything out of desperation. I'm not giving away Fire Emblem for free that's for sure. ;D

Wow this post ended up being really long for a person I'm not supposed to care much about. I probably made him look really bad, but he is actually a very kind and sweet person on the whole, and I was being just as much of a prick. :-X

Thanks for sharing!. You may have a complicated relationship but at least you have one (sort of)...unlike me :-[. I wish you luck in the future for a better relationship or relationships.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/20/17 at 6:57 pm


Thanks for sharing!. You may have a complicated relationship but at least you have one (sort of)...unlike me :-[. I wish you luck in the future for a better relationship or relationships.


Heh... Grass is always greener eh. I'm envious of people who don't have to make the choice between a strong family or a strong relationship.  :-[

But I believe in you! :) Have you tried online dating? You don't have to limit yourself to your school. A lot of my friends (who, I hate judging my friends by their looks, but for the sake of this thread, I'll say they had some work to do) and even they found dates through Tinder.  In my experience, the most important thing is putting yourself out there.  You shouldn't fear rejection, you should be emotionally resellient, if you're persistent (in a non creepy way) you'll get the girl!  8)

Either that or be rich  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 7:04 pm


Are you guys around the same age?


Oh yeah, she's only 4 months older than me.

If you're wondering, we meet when I was hanging around this record store and was wearing a Screeching Weasel shirt. She came up to me and we started talking about music and different bands we liked. I thought she was really hot but was too nervous to say anything so we stayed friends for a few years until I finally made a move two years later. :P


Hmm... IN SHORT: It's complicated/going steady/reluctant. I had a painful relationship in the past, and I have conservative parents (or more accurately, a conservative cultural community who would shun my family) who will never accept me being gay, and I'm not emotionally ready for that. But there is this kid that's coming on hard, and I do find some strange comfort with him, even though our personalities complement and clash in weird ways.


LONG VERSION

I hooked up with this guy about a year ago. He's a bit younger than me (19 y/o, turning 20 next month) and he's the hottest twink (you can look that up) I've ever got my hands on, and we went through a period of youthful lust.  :-[ I didn't have any intention of starting a relationship, but he started texting me just to get to know me, then we hung out a couple of times, playing video games or going to the movies.

The thing is... He's really immature and also has daddy issues.  :-X I'm not a picky person at all and I can tolerate a lot of imperfections. But when he introduced me to his dad, he got pissed off that his dad was too tired to make dinner and started a huge argument, and when he was getting to ready to put leftover spaghetti in the microwave, he slammed it so hard it broke! And then he blamed his dad for making him angry. I wasn't even hungry! When I'm on the phone with him, he bosses his dad around a lot. I feel bad for his dad.

After that incident I gradually started talking to him less and the relationship (if you can call it that) naturally dissipated. That lasted for a few months... then I got desperate for dat ass and called him up and we got back together again.  :-[ :-[ :-[

He tried to re-establish the friendship/romantic side of it, but I'm extremely reluctant towards that, and I was busy with work and family (I have a little sister with disabilities). He called me out on avoiding him and only dating him for sex (no lies detected  :-X), but I actually was really busy and wasn't avoiding him on purpose, it was just the nice side effect of me actually being busy. He became really whiny and desperate for for, it was really insufferable and I made it clear that I never had any intention of starting a romantic relationship and I only thought of him as a friend with benefits. This made me feel bad though because I thought I hurt him, and in my past relationship I hurt another person really badly so I made more time for him and gave him what he wanted. At some point, I think he had an epiphany and started to accept that's how things were going to be (that I was a closed off person). He was far less whiny and more chill to hang out with, and I'd get happy if he texted instead of dreading it. But anyway, that's when the "relationship" started to gradually dissipate again. I hadn't talked to him in months...

... Until two weeks ago, when he texted me some strange Fire Emblem video and told me to download the mobile game (Fire Emblem Heroes). I told him I have the 3DS game, and that got him really excited and he told me to come to his house whenever, so he could borrow it. Apparently he isn't doing so well at school, but the last couple of times I hung out with him, he was finally acting like a mature adult (except one other incident with his dad), so IDK what to do. I was supposed to go to his hoise today, but my family got in the way, so it will most likely be tomorrow.


We'll see how it goes. I'm extremely reluctant towards starting a relationship, but also I've been feeling a bit lonely the past week or so, but I don't want to do anything out of desperation. I'm not giving away Fire Emblem for free that's for sure. ;D

Wow this post ended up being really long for a person I'm not supposed to care much about. I probably made him look really bad, but he is actually a very kind and sweet person on the whole, and I was being just as much of a prick. :-X


I believe the solution here is to give Fire Emblem away for free.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 7:09 pm


Oh yeah, she's only 4 months older than me.

If you're wondering, we meet when I was hanging around this record store and was wearing a Screeching Weasel shirt. She came up to me and we started talking about music and different bands we liked. I thought she was really hot but was too nervous to say anything so we stayed friends for a few years until I finally made a move two years later. :P

Nice job man. I probably wouldn't have made a move, lol. Anyways, it's awesome that you two have been together for so long. Rock on! 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 7:10 pm


Nice job man. I probably wouldn't have made a move, lol. Anyways, it's awesome that you two have been together for so long. Rock on! 8)


Thanks! ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 7:11 pm


Heh... Grass is always greener eh. I'm envious of people who don't have to make the choice between a strong family or a strong relationship.  :-
Thanks! ;)

You're welcome!.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/20/17 at 8:13 pm

It dose suck.

I'm still yet to have a girl. I had opportunities but I took them for granted. Its even more painful when I flashback to and clearly see the obvious signs, memories constantly repeated in my head. Its pretty much torture.

To my bros, the best, least difficult time to get a girlfriend, is during your school/student years. Don't let it pass you.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 8:20 pm


It dose suck.

I'm still yet to have a girl. I had opportunities but I took them for granted. Its even more painful when I flashback to and clearly see the obvious signs, memories constantly repeated in my head. Its pretty much torture.

To my bros, the best, least difficult time to get a girlfriend, is during your school/student years. Don't let it pass you.

Yeah, I totally agree with you.

Also, yeah...those missed opportunities are really painful and the worst thing is that every time you remember something...that memory becomes even stronger and stays in your mind (even if it's a false memory) :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/20/17 at 8:57 pm


I haven't tried online dating....I'm too shy for that :-[.

Also, I've been rejected many times and it sucks. I try to keep my head up but it does make me sad a little that I don't have much luck with girls.


Damn man, that sucks to hear.  :-\\  I know it's easier said than done but it's important not take it personally, and keep at it and keep improving. You have to be resellient and not be shy; strength and confidence is what women want! /cheese

The only thing you really have to lose is time (getting older). I mean, think about it theoretically: if they rejected you, your life hasn't materially changed. Everything is still the same as it was. :-X (unless you go overboard and end up in jail or with a bruised nose, then you didn't hear that advice from me  :-X :-X :-X)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/20/17 at 9:05 pm


I believe the solution here is to give Fire Emblem away for free.


Hell no! Last time I let someone borrow a game (Mario Party 8) he traded it in for a Vita! A fricken' Vita! I mean I didn't even like that game but hey man... It was my game. And he could've bought something better than a Vita. This was at launch too, so it was completely overpriced and had zero games (same as now but worse). Mess.

I won't forget the symbolism of trading in a Nintendo item for a Sony item either. Complete betrayalton. He offended my religion. Who does that?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/20/17 at 9:15 pm


Yeah, I totally agree with you.

Also, yeah...those missed opportunities are really painful and the worst thing is that every time you remember something...that memory becomes even stronger and stays in your mind (even if it's a false memory) :(.


Like, I never even held a girl's waist, dude. I can picture it in my head and it feels great. Haha What also make me have those thoughts, I can see another girl that appeals to me tomorrow but that's probably the last time I will ultimately see her. This sh!t f's with me.

Age gaps are a b, to.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 9:17 pm


Damn man, that sucks to hear.  :-\\  I know it's easier said than done but it's important not take it personally, and keep at it and keep improving. You have to be resellient and not be shy; strength and confidence is what women want! /cheese

Thanks for the uplifting words! :).


The only thing you really have to lose is time (getting older). I mean, think about it theoretically: if they rejected you, your life hasn't materially changed. Everything is still the same as it was. :-X (unless you go overboard and end up in jail or with a bruised nose, then you didn't hear that advice from me  :-X :-X :-X)

Yeah, I know. Rejection sucks but you just got to move on....even though, it's painful.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 9:18 pm


Hell no! Last time I let someone borrow a game (Mario Party 8) he traded it in for a Vita! A fricken' Vita! I mean I didn't even like that game but hey man... It was my game. And he could've bought something better than a Vita. This was at launch too, so it was completely overpriced and had zero games (same as now but worse). Mess.

I won't forget the symbolism of trading in a Nintendo item for a Sony item either. Complete betrayalton. He offended my religion. Who does that?


https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/a/ad/WingsHaircut.jpg/235px-WingsHaircut.jpg

"hey bro what are you talking about? Aww yes the vita is sooooo sick. I got some new 50 cent songs install on it, too. nintendo is for little girls"

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 9:22 pm


Like, I never even held a girl's waist, dude. I can picture it in my head and it feels great. Haha What also make me have those thoughts, I can see another girl that appeals to me tomorrow but that's probably the last time I will ultimately see her. This sh!t f's with me.

Age gaps are a b, to.

I'm the exact same man....we sound like losers here :-". If I'm a great guy, then why not at least try to see if we'll work out, it's always "BUT"... >:( >:( >:(, it's makes me so mad.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 9:25 pm


I'm the exact same man....we sound like losers here :-". If I'm a great guy, then why not at least try to see if we'll work out, it's always "BUT"... >:( >:( >:(, it's makes me so mad.


What hobbies do you have? Going to community events and clubs catered to certain kinds of things (e.g. if you're really into the arts or running) is a great way to meet new people. Trolleypoke is totally right (for once... ::)) about things like confidence. Even if you're naturally shy, fake it until you make it! ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/20/17 at 9:28 pm


https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/a/ad/WingsHaircut.jpg/235px-WingsHaircut.jpg

"hey bro what are you talking about? Aww yes the vita is sooooo sick. I got some new 50 cent songs install on it, too. nintendo is for little girls"


The PSP FAILED! Why have you not learned from last time?! And 50 Cent is over! AHHHH

http://orig11.deviantart.net/5e45/f/2016/227/7/f/angry_waluigi_o_by_goldenaura2015-dae02ci.gif


Thanks for the uplifting words! :).
Yeah, I know. Rejection sucks but you just got to move on....even though, it's painful.


Cheer up and keep at it. I know you'll get it sooner or later ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 9:31 pm


What hobbies do you have? Going to community events and clubs catered to certain kinds of things (e.g. if you're really into the arts or running) is a great way to meet new people. Trolleypoke is totally right (for once... ::)) about things like confidence. Even if you're naturally shy, fake it until you make it! ;)

I like drawing, playing video games, and playing sports.

I have been told many times to be confident and then I try to be confident but then a girl will flat out reject me and I'll die on the inside. I'm tired of the rejection, I know that I'm only (basically) 18 but it is a bit sad.

BTW, sorry for sounding like such a big loser :-
Cheer up and keep at it. I know you'll get it sooner or later ;)

Thanks and I hope it will.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 9:35 pm


I'm the exact same man....we sound like losers here :-". If I'm a great guy, then why not at least try to see if we'll work out, it's always "BUT"... >:( >:( >:(, it's makes me so mad.



Like, I never even held a girl's waist, dude. I can picture it in my head and it feels great. Haha What also make me have those thoughts, I can see another girl that appeals to me tomorrow but that's probably the last time I will ultimately see her. This sh!t f's with me.

Age gaps are a b, to.
OMG! I know that feeling as well.  There are so many opportunities out there for a relationship, and it sucks you have to unfortunately skip them.  :( >:(

Even if a girl wasn't my type, if she were to ask me out on a date I would immediately day yes. I wouldn't want to miss that chance because I probably wouldn't be able to get another opportunity.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 9:37 pm


The PSP FAILED! Why have you not learned from last time?! And 50 Cent is over! AHHHH

http://orig11.deviantart.net/5e45/f/2016/227/7/f/angry_waluigi_o_by_goldenaura2015-dae02ci.gif


http://www1.pictures.gi.zimbio.com/World+Premiere+Disney+Channel+High+School+VHQ5yC9VY05x.jpg

"bro are you kidding me? The vita is so sick. GUH GUH GUH GUH GGGGG UUNNNNIIITTT! fiddy is da king bro"


I like drawing, playing video games, and playing sports.

I have been told many times to be confident and then I try to be confident but then a girl will flat out reject me and I'll die on the inside. I'm tired of the rejection, I know that I'm only (basically) 18 but it is a bit sad.

BTW, sorry for sounding like such a big loser :-[.


You don't sound like a loser, just someone who feels down on their luck. You've just gotta put yourself out there and keep trying. There are so many clubs and activities for sports, video games and art that you're bound to find someone and, if you're really good at any of those things, there's no doubt you'll get the attention of some special lady who's impressed by your skills.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 06/20/17 at 9:39 pm

Anyone who knows me would know that my dating life is completely nonexistent. It really sucks being 23 having zero dating experience. The problem is that I can never tell whether or not a girl likes me. I was completely sheltered during my early adolescence, so that may be a reason why I never developed this ability. Some part of me is bitter towards those who've had those experiences, but I know those feelings won't do me any good. Still, I feel helpless. I wish I knew what do to.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 9:39 pm


OMG! I know that feeling as well.  There are so many opportunities out there for a relationship, and it sucks you have to unfortunately skip them.  :( >:(

Even if a girl wasn't my type, if she were to ask me out on a date I would immediately day yes. I wouldn't want to miss that chance because I probably wouldn't be able to get another opportunity.

Well, I'm not sure if I would do the same. The girl would have to at least possess some (not all or most) of the qualities I like in a girl but then again...it would also be a missed opportunity :-\\. Relationships are so complicated.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 9:41 pm


http://www1.pictures.gi.zimbio.com/World+Premiere+Disney+Channel+High+School+VHQ5yC9VY05x.jpg

"bro are you kidding me? The vita is so sick. GUH GUH GUH GUH GGGGG UUNNNNIIITTT! fiddy is da king bro"

That guy is Jake Ryan from Hannah Montana :-
You don't sound like a loser, just someone who feels down on their luck. You've just gotta put yourself out there and keep trying. There are so many clubs and activities for sports, video games and art that you're bound to find someone and, if you're really good at any of those things, there's no doubt you'll get the attention of some special lady who's impressed by your skills.

I hope...maybe I'll look into that.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 9:42 pm


Anyone who knows me would know that my dating life is completely nonexistent. It really sucks being 23 having zero dating experience. The problem is that I can never tell whether or not a girl likes me. I was completely sheltered during my early adolescence, so that may be a reason why I never developed this ability. Some part of me is bitter towards those who've had those experiences, but I know those feelings won't do me any good. Still, I feel helpless.

I'm (basically) 18 but I haven't had any dating experiences either and I also feel a bit helpless.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 9:42 pm

Well...I don't think I really need to say anything regarding my own date life.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 9:43 pm


Well...I don't think I really need to say anything regarding my own date life.

Well based on previous posts....your dating life is complicated. Hey, this is a no judge zone.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 9:46 pm


That guy is Jake Ryan from Hannah Montana :-[.
I hope...maybe I'll look into that.


I have no idea! I just googled "wing haircut" :P

You totally should! Just put yourself out there and even though you've been rejected before, don't give up on acting confidence.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 9:47 pm


Well based on previous posts....your dating life is complicated. Hey, this is a no judge zone.


Last autumn, I thought I was in a relationship with somebody long-distance, but it turned out to be a fraud. To say I felt depleted would be an understatement.

Early this year, I met another woman, this time definitely real, and clicked well with her, but right now she's caught in a lot of personal dilemmas and hasn't been able to reach out to me or anybody else much at all the past few months. I still think about her, and if anything, she's proof that there is hope for me in finding somebody who I'm romantically compatible with, but otherwise, I don't really know when to expect any full-on relief.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/20/17 at 9:49 pm


OMG! I know that feeling as well.  There are so many opportunities out there for a relationship, and it sucks you have to unfortunately skip them.  :( >:(

Even if a girl wasn't my type, if she were to ask me out on a date I would immediately day yes. I wouldn't want to miss that chance because I probably wouldn't be able to get another opportunity.


Think about it theoretically (IMO dating is a science just like Trump economics): you're willing to date just about anyone, even a girl who's insecure about her looks. Now think about an insecure girl, she's too shy to ask anyone out but would also say yes to just about anybody. We have two willing partners here, but they're never meeting. Why is that? And what action will it take to get these two to meet? The question is left as an exercise for the reader.  :-X


http://www1.pictures.gi.zimbio.com/World+Premiere+Disney+Channel+High+School+VHQ5yC9VY05x.jpg

"bro are you kidding me? The vita is so sick. GUH GUH GUH GUH GGGGG UUNNNNIIITTT! fiddy is da king bro"


Jake, 2005 is over! No more popped collars and no more 50 Cent, and most important of all, no more Sony! We have come so far!! Nintendo is dominating in 2012 let me tell ya.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 9:51 pm


I have no idea! I just googled "wing haircut" :P

Hannah Montana was one of my "guilty pleasure" shows growing up :-
You totally should! Just put yourself out there and even though you've been rejected before, don't give up on acting confidence.

I'll take your advice and try some more...even if there's more rejections.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 9:53 pm


Last autumn, I thought I was in a relationship with somebody long-distance, but it turned out to be a fraud. To say I felt depleted would be an understatement.

Early this year, I met another woman, this time definitely real, and clicked well with her, but right now she's caught in a lot of personal dilemmas and hasn't been able to reach out to me or anybody else much at all the past few months. I still think about her, and if anything, she's proof that there is hope for me in finding somebody who I'm romantically compatible with, but otherwise, I don't really know when to expect any full-on relief.

I can feel you somewhat...never had any luck with women (but I'm a straight male).

All I can say is that I wish you luck in with the future of your romance.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 9:54 pm


http://www1.pictures.gi.zimbio.com/World+Premiere+Disney+Channel+High+School+VHQ5yC9VY05x.jpg

"bro are you kidding me? The vita is so sick. GUH GUH GUH GUH GGGGG UUNNNNIIITTT! fiddy is da king bro"


https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg

F*** off you ignorant, Trump-exploited Ellen DeGeneres lookalike. Go find something else to waste your time with, like binge-watching the new season of Orange Is the New Black.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 9:59 pm


Jake, 2005 is over! No more popped collars and no more 50 Cent, and most important of all, no more Sony! We have come so far!! Nintendo is dominating in 2012 let me tell ya.


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/a0/64/d3/a064d32b23871dbe03aa6ab77f09187a.jpg

"hello fellow young people I couldn't help but hear you guys conversing over the rap music blasting from my new PS Vita. Yo this sh!t is sooooo sick! nintendo is for girls be men and play sony. ballers with popped collars g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g G UUUUUNNNNIIIITTTTT!"


Think about it theoretically (IMO dating is a science just like Trump economics): you're willing to date just about anyone, even a girl who's insecure about her looks. Now think about an insecure girl, she's too shy to ask anyone out but would also say yes to just about anybody. We have two willing partners here, but they're never meeting. Why is that? And what action will it take to get these two to meet? The question is left as an exercise for the reader.  :-X


If dating is a science like Trump economics then it is a crashing failure and a can of worms best left unopened!!


Hannah Montana was one of my "guilty pleasure" shows growing up :-
https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg

F*** off you ignorant, Trump-exploited Ellen DeGeneres lookalike. Go find something else to waste your time with, like binge-watching the new season of Orange Is the New Black.



http://img-cache.cdn.gaiaonline.com/78f06c179de4e9973d40ed829e4cf0b7/http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj136/hmfsoccer2495/Teen-men-hairstyle-with-long-ban-3.jpg

"orange is the new black? does that show even have any rap music? i only watch shows like pimp my ride because my main man xzibit is the host. g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g GGGG UUUUNNNITTT!!!"

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 10:02 pm


I can feel you somewhat...never had any luck with women (but I'm a straight male).


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
Don't listen to her. She's just being a melodramatic privileged white girl who knows nothing about true struggle because she chooses to conform to culturally appropriated gender conventions. The only reason she doesn't have a girlfriend is because she's a stuck-up, ignorant lazy-ass too cowardly to put herself out at the right opportunities and adapt to what is hip. The fact that her role model is a corporate-promoted pop hack from the mid-2000s proves everything about how shallow she is an how inauthentic a lesbian she is. We, the New Americana, on the other hand, are proud of our tattoos, body piercings, Orange Is the New Black fandom, booze parties, and the right to petition for anything we want against all the exploited menaces of society.

All I can say is that I wish you luck in with the future of your romance.

Luck would come in handy. Its not so pleasant when my personal experience with the lesbian community (or really the culture of my age group in general...) these past years has literally been a lot like the above.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:05 pm


Never watched it. All I know is that Zelek hates it! :P

I mean it was a show targeted at pre-teen girls and aired from March 2006 - January 2011...you were 23-28 years old, so it's expected that you didn't watch it ;D. I stopped watching it in 2009.


Chin up! You never know what you'll find out in the world. ;)

Thanks! :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:07 pm


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
Don't listen to her. She's just being a melodramatic privileged white girl who knows nothing about true struggle because she chooses to conform to culturally appropriated gender conventions. The only reason she doesn't have a girlfriend is because she's a stuck-up, ignorant lazy-ass too cowardly to put herself out at the right opportunities and adapt to what is hip. The fact that her role model is a corporate-promoted pop hack from the mid-2000s proves everything about how shallow she is an how inauthentic a lesbian she is. We, the New Americana, on the other hand, are proud of our tattoos, body piercings, Orange Is the New Black fandom, booze parties, and the right to petition for anything we want against all the exploited menaces of society.

https://d1gzo5vknddaf.cloudfront.net/uploads/post/featured_image/3690/display_Screen_Shot_2016-03-17_at_1.39.26_PM.png



Luck would come in handy. Its not so pleasant when my personal experience with the lesbian community (or really the culture of my age group in general...) these past years has literally been a lot like the above.

Well, as others have said to me on this thread...stay positive and confident and continue on!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/20/17 at 10:09 pm


I'm the exact same man....we sound like losers here :-". If I'm a great guy, then why not at least try to see if we'll work out, it's always "BUT"... >:( >:( >:(, it's makes me so mad.


Nah, dude. We're just in the loner group. I actually been waiting for someone to make this type of thread. I wanted to but I couldn't figure the right section. Lets vent this sh!t, man.

Right now, I honestly day dream my self with someone. Like, I'd go out, see a girl in my standard, save memory and respectively vision us.

Even if a girl wasn't my type, if she were to ask me out on a date I would immediately day yes. I wouldn't want to miss that chance because I probably wouldn't be able to get another opportunity.


No, dude. I hear you but never settle for less. Have standards. Hit workouts if that's all you know how to accomplish because that personality, be fun sh!t is hard.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 10:12 pm

Ugh! The loneliness, the pain, the coldness, the waiting. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:13 pm


Nah, dude. We're just in the loner group. I actually been waiting for someone to make this type of thread. I wanted to but I couldn't figure the right section. Lets vent this sh!t, man.

Right now, I honestly day dream my self with someone. Like, I'd go out, see a girl in my standard, save memory and respectively vision us.

Yeah...loners is the better word...oh and yeah let's VENT!.

I also day dream of a relationship. It's fun to day dream but...you have to come back to reality and face it's harshness :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:14 pm


Ugh! The loneliness, the pain, the coldness, the waiting. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png

What's your dating status?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 10:14 pm


https://d1gzo5vknddaf.cloudfront.net/uploads/post/featured_image/3690/display_Screen_Shot_2016-03-17_at_1.39.26_PM.png


Lol, what does a delirious Mr. Krabs have to do with SJW Sally's tirade against me for being a retro, feminine lesbian who loves Rachel Stevens?

Well, as others have said to me on this thread...stay positive and confident and continue on!


I've found that inner-optimism is really by far the healthiest thing for me right now. That's why I no longer feel any shame in embracing anything that simply puts me in a good mood...like cheesy pop from the late 20th Century!  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 10:15 pm


What's your dating status?


Red.

Seriously, though. Single and healing from stuff from adolescent!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:17 pm


Lol, what does a delirious Mr. Krabs have to do with SJW Sally's tirade against me for being a retro, feminine lesbian who loves Rachel Stevens?

I don't know....don't hurt me :(.


I've found that inner-optimism is really by far the healthiest thing for me right now. That's why I no longer feel any shame in embracing anything that simply puts me in a good mood...like cheesy pop from the late 20th Century!  :P

That's great! :)


Red.

Seriously, though. Single and healing from stuff from adolescent!

What do you mean by "healing from stuff from adolescent!"?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 10:18 pm


Well, I'm not sure if I would do the same. The girl would have to at least possess some (not all or most) of the qualities I like in a girl but then again...it would also be a missed opportunity :-\\. Relationships are so complicated.
That's what I'm feeling. I actually did have a preference of qualities I wanted in a girl, but the problem is that it's going to limit my choices on dating.


Think about it theoretically (IMO dating is a science just like Trump economics): you're willing to date just about anyone, even a girl who's insecure about her looks. Now think about an insecure girl, she's too shy to ask anyone out but would also say yes to just about anybody. We have two willing partners here, but they're never meeting. Why is that? And what action will it take to get these two to meet? The question is left as an exercise for the reader.  :-X
I think the answer is no confidence. However,  if I was dating an insecure girl,  I would definitely want to make it work.  I would tell her she's beautiful, smart and someone who knows what's right.


Early this year, I met another woman, this time definitely real, and clicked well with her, but right now she's caught in a lot of personal dilemmas and hasn't been able to reach out to me or anybody else much at all the past few months. I still think about her, and if anything, she's proof that there is hope for me in finding somebody who I'm romantically compatible with, but otherwise, I don't really know when to expect any full-on relief.
I really hope she comes back. She seems a great match for you. Damn it sucks she has a lot of personal problems to take care of. That can definitely put a block on dating.


Luck would come in handy. Its not so pleasant when my personal experience with the lesbian community (or really the culture of my age group in general...) these past years has literally been a lot like the above.
Does the lesbian community here treat you like a second class citizen?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 10:21 pm


I don't know....don't hurt me :(.
That's great! :)
What do you mean by "healing from stuff from adolescent!"?


Just stuff from anxiety/depression is traumatic in itself. I have to much emotional baggage now. Maybe once I stabilize I'll hit online dating, or whatever!  :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/20/17 at 10:21 pm


Anyone who knows me would know that my dating life is completely nonexistent. It really sucks being 23 having zero dating experience. The problem is that I can never tell whether or not a girl likes me. I was completely sheltered during my early adolescence, so that may be a reason why I never developed this ability. Some part of me is bitter towards those who've had those experiences, but I know those feelings won't do me any good. Still, I feel helpless. I wish I knew what do to.


I feel lost to, man. I'm deep in 26 and don't want a single mother. I want a girl that hasn't lost her virginity. I want to be the original.

Complication and struggle is real.


Yeah...loners is the better word...oh and yeah let's VENT!.

I also day dream of a relationship. It's fun to day dream but...you have to come back to reality and face it's harshness :(.


Just that, day dreaming helps. Its like medicine.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:22 pm


That's what I'm feeling. I actually did have a preference of qualities I wanted in a girl, but the problem is that it's going to limit my choices on dating.

Do you have strict qualities?


I think the answer is no confidence. However,  if I was dating an insecure girl,  I would definitely want to make it work.  I would tell her she's beautiful, smart and someone who knows what's right.

But....based on my experience with insecure people....they don't believe you when you tell them that.


Just stuff from anxiety/depression is traumatic in itself. I have to much emotional baggage now. Maybe once I stabilize I'll hit online dating, or whatever!  :o

OK, I gotcha! Good luck in the future with your romantic endeavors :).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 10:22 pm


No, dude. I hear you but never settle for less. Have standards. Hit workouts if that's all you know how to accomplish because that personality, be fun sh!t is hard.
Well the girls I will stay away from are those who are hoodrats and those who will take advantage of me

OTT,  I'm willing to to take an opportunity outside my preferences.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:24 pm


I feel lost to, man. I'm deep in 26 and don't want a single mother. I want a girl that hasn't lost her virginity. I want to be the original.

Well, I want the same kind of girl but it's easier for me because I'm only about to turn 18.


Complication and struggle is real.

Straight facts right here!


Just that, day dreaming helps. Its like medicine.

You're right...it's wonderful.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 10:25 pm


Anyone who knows me would know that my dating life is completely nonexistent. It really sucks being 23 having zero dating experience. The problem is that I can never tell whether or not a girl likes me. I was completely sheltered during my early adolescence, so that may be a reason why I never developed this ability. Some part of me is bitter towards those who've had those experiences, but I know those feelings won't do me any good. Still, I feel helpless. I wish I knew what do to.


I don't think you can ever know 100% unless you're psychic, or God. So we're all as vulnerable to miscommunication, rejection, and misunderstandings as you are.  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 10:26 pm


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/a0/64/d3/a064d32b23871dbe03aa6ab77f09187a.jpg

"hello fellow young people I couldn't help but hear you guys conversing over the rap music blasting from my new PS Vita. Yo this sh!t is sooooo sick! nintendo is for girls be men and play sony. ballers with popped collars g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g G UUUUUNNNNIIIITTTTT!"


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
Excuse me while I retweet my new petition to prevent gangsta rap from finding widespread promotion due to its inherently negative messages. You should get with the times and listen to Future and Desiigner's new hit songs. #trap

http://img-cache.cdn.gaiaonline.com/78f06c179de4e9973d40ed829e4cf0b7/http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj136/hmfsoccer2495/Teen-men-hairstyle-with-long-ban-3.jpg

"orange is the new black? does that show even have any rap music? i only watch shows like pimp my ride because my main man xzibit is the host. g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g-g GGGG UUUUNNNITTT!!!"


https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg
You are an absolute disgrace leeching off of black culture. I don't care if MTV aired Pimp My Ride to white suburban teens across the nation, they should be promoting shows that feature hipster-SJW blacks because that's the only way we're going to create a diverse nation.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 10:26 pm


Do you have strict qualities?
But....based on my experience with insecure people....they don't believe you when you tell them that.
OK, I gotcha! Good luck in the future with your romantic endeavors :).


Good luck 2 you 2!  8)  8)  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/20/17 at 10:27 pm


That's what I'm feeling. I actually did have a preference of qualities I wanted in a girl, but the problem is that it's going to limit my choices on dating.
I think the answer is no confidence. However,  if I was dating an insecure girl,  I would definitely want to make it work.  I would tell her she's beautiful, smart and someone who knows what's right.


That's.. deep. I like this.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:29 pm


Good luck 2 you 2!  8)  8)  8)

Thanks! 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 10:29 pm


I don't know....don't hurt me :(.


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
You better damn well understand where I'm coming from, or else you're a part of the pro-Trump patriarchy. Jacqueline is indirectly supporting Trump's rape culture by embracing her traditional femininity instead of assuming her rightful place as a lesbian, on the frontlines.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 10:31 pm

Does the lesbian community here treat you like a second class citizen?


More or less. They certainly don't see anything special or worth comforting in me. They basically treat me like a pariah for being a hopeless romantic whose style icons are more along the lines of Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, Nancy Sinatra, and Bette Davis than Tegan & Sara and post-closet Kristen Stewart.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 06/20/17 at 10:32 pm

With children

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:33 pm


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
You better damn well understand where I'm coming from, or else you're a part of the pro-Trump patriarchy. Jacqueline is indirectly supporting Trump's rape culture by embracing her traditional femininity instead of assuming her rightful place as a lesbian, on the frontlines.

https://media.giphy.com/media/l4Ki2obCyAQS5WhFe/giphy.gif


More or less. They certainly don't see anything special or worth comforting in me. They basically treat me like a pariah for being a hopeless romantic whose style icons are more along the lines of Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, Nancy Sinatra, and Bette Davis than Tegan & Sara and post-closet Kristen Stewart.

Oh noooo :\'(. That's so wrong....I think that you're a great woman. Don't let them get to you!.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:35 pm


With children

That's wonderful...congrats to you and your husband :).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 10:37 pm


Do you have strict qualities?

But....based on my experience with insecure people....they don't believe you when you tell them that.
I used to, but not anymore because it would be difficult to find the perfect girl with my requirements. That's why I'm going to branch out.

I know. I have had that same experience too. I honestly wish they would accept it. I don't even think insecure girls are ugly.


I feel lost to, man. I'm deep in 26 and don't want a single mother. I want a girl that hasn't lost her virginity. I want to be the original.
Yeah, my mom said the same thing. She can't have any children or I cant date her. However, that is much harder to find as one gets older because some women will either already have children or be taken.


More or less. They certainly don't see anything special or worth comforting in me. They basically treat me like a pariah for being a hopeless romantic whose style icons are more along the lines of Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, Nancy Sinatra, and Bette Davis than Tegan & Sara and post-closet Kristen Stewart.
That's f*cked up! I really wish the lesbians here would give you a chance. You're a great person ever since I met you, and those ladies are clearly missing a opportunity by not giving you a chance.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:41 pm


I used to, but not anymore because it would be difficult to find the perfect girl with my requirements. That's why I'm going to branch out.

This might be stereotypical but I thought that California girls are easy. BTW, where in California are you? (you can say the county or nearest city...if you don't want to give your actual city).


I know. I have had that same experience too. I honestly wish they would accept it. I don't even think insecure girls are ugly.

Same (well...mostly).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/20/17 at 10:42 pm


With children


Wait... Are you joking? I didn't know any of this! :o Congrats!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 10:43 pm

Poke men are hot! Sssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 10:45 pm


This might be stereotypical but I thought that California girls are easy. BTW, where in California are you? (you can say the county or nearest city...if you don't want to give your actual city)
I think they still are, but I'm not entirely sure though.

And I'm close to LA County.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 06/20/17 at 10:46 pm


Cucumber children?  :(  :(


aren't we cute        that cat better watch it,  it's got a couple super combo makers to watch for besides just me

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 06/20/17 at 10:48 pm


That's wonderful...congrats to you and your husband :).


thanks

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/20/17 at 10:50 pm


I used to, but not anymore because it would be difficult to find the perfect girl with my requirements. That's why I'm going to branch out.


I think your looking too into it.

You wouldn't date any girl, man.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 10:51 pm


I think your looking too into it.

You wouldn't date any girl, man.
Not even morbidly obese girls?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 10:53 pm


I think they still are, but I'm not entirely sure though.

And I'm close to LA County.

Soo...Orange County?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 10:55 pm


Soo...Orange County?
No. SD County.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 10:57 pm


aren't we cute        that cat better watch it,  it's got a couple super combo makers to watch for besides just me


I apologize. That was rude of me.

You joke a lot on this website and it's hard for me to tell if you're joking, or being serious! Again, I'm sorry. That was rude of me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 11:00 pm


Not even morbidly obese girls?

I wouldn't date a morbidly obese girl.


No. SD County.

Oh alright. You're living the life man....lol. You should be able to get a girl out there 8).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 11:05 pm


I wouldn't date a morbidly obese girl.
Oh alright. You're living the life man....lol. You should be able to get a girl out there 8).
Why not? It is because they are mainly unhealthy?

Not exactly ;D, but I will have someone one day. Since I'm out of school, I will be going out with friends and famiy to meet women that way I have support. Doing it by yourself isn't that easy.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 06/20/17 at 11:07 pm

Yes it was >:(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 11:09 pm


Why not? It is because they are mainly unhealthy?

Yes, I wouldn't date them because they are unhealthy. Why would you date a morbidly obese woman?


Not exactly ;D, but I will have someone one day. Since I'm out of school, I will be going out with friends and famiy to meet women that way I have support. Doing it by yourself isn't that easy.

I was half joking but anyways that's great. Good luck bro!

I couldn't go out with my fam to find a girl...they would embarrass me so much.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 11:11 pm


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Excuse me while I retweet my new petition to prevent gangsta rap from finding widespread promotion due to its inherently negative messages. You should get with the times and listen to Future and Desiigner's new hit songs. #trap


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/a0/64/d3/a064d32b23871dbe03aa6ab77f09187a.jpg
"Future? You think I'm some kind of girl!? Listen up I don't listen to Justin Timberlake I listen to rap. fiddy cent, snoooooooooooooop, timbaland but none of that Justin Timberlake crap! If I had that blastin on my psp I would beat up in the locker room!"



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You are an absolute disgrace leeching off of black culture. I don't care if MTV aired Pimp My Ride to white suburban teens across the nation, they should be promoting shows that feature hipster-SJW blacks because that's the only way we're going to create a diverse nation.


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"Yo listen up lady, I don't know nothin bout orangutans attack in black but I do know that Xzibit is sooooo sick. I've downloaded pretty much every episode of pimp my ride and put them on my psp so i can watch on the go."


More or less. They certainly don't see anything special or worth comforting in me. They basically treat me like a pariah for being a hopeless romantic whose style icons are more along the lines of Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, Nancy Sinatra, and Bette Davis than Tegan & Sara and post-closet Kristen Stewart.


Tegan & Sara and Kristen Stewart are so lame. Public figures like that are nothing more than "let's pretend we're counter culture!" while pandering to the hipster trends.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 11:16 pm


Yes, I wouldn't date them because they are unhealthy. Why would you date a morbidly obese woman?
I was half joking but anyways that's great. Good luck bro!

I couldn't go out with my fam to find a girl...they would embarrass me so much.
I don't have a problem with weight anymore.

Thanks man! Same to you.

You can go with friends though. That's what I'm going to do along with family.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/20/17 at 11:19 pm


Ugh! The loneliness, the pain, the coldness, the waiting. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png


Take this song, it means a lot to me, well, my 13 year old preteen self!

_Gcrx2Ab0FM

and this is the best rejection song!

pup8OenL-L4


Red.

Seriously, though. Single and healing from stuff from adolescent!


What happened when you were an adolescent?


I think the answer is no confidence. However,  if I was dating an insecure girl,  I would definitely want to make it work.  I would tell her she's beautiful, smart and someone who knows what's right.


You didn't answer the second question!


But....based on my experience with insecure people....they don't believe you when you tell them that.


This is so true lol. I have a friend who's honestly 8/10, but he doesn't believe me and thinks he's an abomination because he has some mole on the side of his cheek that I didn't even notice until he pointed it out.


Poke men are hot! Sssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!


Oh my! I didn't know you were into that.

http://i.imgur.com/n3NWyBW.png

Tell me more. I'm listening.


Not even morbidly obese girls?


Yoooo, my brother's roommate, who was skinny as a stick (even skinnier than me), started dating a "morbidly obese" girl last year. You wouldn't believe it, he blew UP. He's HUGE now. ;D He loves his girl, and he's moving in with her, so I'm really happy for him. Don't show him pictures from before 2017 though, he really let himself go. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 11:21 pm


I wouldn't date a morbidly obese girl.
Oh alright. You're living the life man....lol. You should be able to get a girl out there 8).


I don't mind men who are like a few pounds overweight, like maybe 50, at the most. But anymore is a bit too much for me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 11:22 pm


I don't have a problem with weight anymore.

Thanks man! Same to you.

You can go with friends though. That's what I'm going to do along with family.

Thanks!

I guess I can go out with friends to try and find a girl but definitely not with my family.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 11:24 pm


This is so true lol. I have a friend who's honestly 8/10, but he doesn't believe me and thinks he's an abomination because he has some mole on the side of his cheek that I didn't even notice until he pointed it out.

Wow....I guess we really are our worst critics (at least for some of us).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 11:26 pm


I don't mind men who are like a few pounds overweight, like maybe 50, at the most. But anymore is a bit too much for me.

I don't mind women who are slightly overweight like 10-30 pounds overweight but definitely not a morbidly obese woman.


My ideal girl would be neither skinny nor overweight or obese.....she would be just right ;).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 11:29 pm


You didn't answer the second question!

Yoooo, my brother's roommate, who was skinny as a stick (even skinnier than me), started dating a "morbidly obese" girl last year. You wouldn't believe it, he blew UP. He's HUGE now. ;D He loves his girl, and he's moving in with her, so I'm really happy for him. Don't show him pictures from before 2017 though, he really let himself go. ;D
What was that question?

So he likes being morbidly obese?


Thanks!

I guess I can go out with friends to try and find a girl but definitely not with my family.
You're welcome!

Yeah, and make sure you bring friends who have good advice. If you have a friend who tells you to slap a girl in the a*s, don't listen to him because it's going to backfire.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 11:30 pm


Take this song, it means a lot to me, well, my 13 year old preteen self!

_Gcrx2Ab0FM

and this is the best rejection song!

pup8OenL-L4

What happened when you were an adolescent?

You didn't answer the second question!

This is so true lol. I have a friend who's honestly 8/10, but he doesn't believe me and thinks he's an abomination because he has some mole on the side of his cheek that I didn't even notice until he pointed it out.

Oh my! I didn't know you were into that.

http://i.imgur.com/n3NWyBW.png

Tell me more. I'm listening.


Yoooo, my brother's roommate, who was skinny as a stick (even skinnier than me), started dating a "morbidly obese" girl last year. You wouldn't believe it, he blew UP. He's HUGE now. ;D He loves his girl, and he's moving in with her, so I'm really happy for him. Don't show him pictures from before 2017 though, he really let himself go. ;D


Man, that Avril is edgy!  :o  :o  :o

I prefer this as a dating, motivation, song!

hpspGHeLOPE

I'm the girl.


Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 11:30 pm


Yeah, and make sure you bring friends who have good advice. If you have a friend who tells you to slap a girl in the a*s, don't listen to him because it's going to backfire.


And it's rude, too. 100% chance you will get slapped in the face.

If you're going up to women saying sh!t like "yo hoe make dat azz bounce lemme see dem titties" you won't ever find a suitable life companion.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 11:31 pm


Man, that Avril is edgy!  :o  :o  :o

I prefer this as a dating, motivation, song!

hpspGHeLOPE

I'm the girl.


My dating song:

pPaZ6HU-i6s

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 11:32 pm


You're welcome!

Yeah, and make sure you bring friends who have good advice. If you have a friend who tells you to slap a girl in the a*s, don't listen to him because it's going to backfire.

Luckily, I don't have chauvinist friends. It seems like you do unfortunately or is that not true? :o


And it's rude, too. 100% chance you will get slapped in the face.

If you're going up to women saying sh!t like "yo hoe make dat azz bounce lemme see dem titties" you won't ever find a suitable life companion.

You're absolutely correct.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 11:34 pm


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/a0/64/d3/a064d32b23871dbe03aa6ab77f09187a.jpg
"Future? You think I'm some kind of girl!? Listen up I don't listen to Justin Timberlake I listen to rap. fiddy cent, snoooooooooooooop, timbaland but none of that Justin Timberlake crap! If I had that blastin on my psp I would beat up in the locker room!"


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
"That's sexist, you bastard. I've already dated about 28 guys by club hopping, and they all know what true masculinity is about, hence why they opt to listen to Future, Drake, Desiigner, and Migos instead. Also, HOW DARE YOU MOCK JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE!!! HE'S SO CUTE, EVERY GIRL SHOULD LOVE HIM!  :\'( :\'( :\'("

http://img-cache.cdn.gaiaonline.com/78f06c179de4e9973d40ed829e4cf0b7/http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj136/hmfsoccer2495/Teen-men-hairstyle-with-long-ban-3.jpg

"Yo listen up lady, I don't know nothin bout orangutans attack in black but I do know that Xzibit is sooooo sick. I've downloaded pretty much every episode of pimp my ride and put them on my psp so i can watch on the go."


https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg
"Okay, first off, why don't you just watch your television shows on a Samsung instead? You're a dated jackass if you still use technology from the early 2000s instead of now. Second, calling me a lady is sexist, it assumes all women watch Orange Is the New Black and all men watch your dumb early 2000s reality show. I don't need you to remind me of 2005, 2006, or any other early 2000s year."

Tegan & Sara and Kristen Stewart are so lame. Public figures like that are nothing more than "let's pretend we're counter culture!" while pandering to the hipster trends.

I'm just personally disillusioned by them because I so can't find my voice in either of them the way I do, in fact, feel emotionally receptive towards Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, and the ilk. It wouldn't be so bad if it didn't feel like the goddamn law to express interest in stereotypical lesbian icons like Tegan & Sara and Kristen Stewart just to be considered attractive and individualistic.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/20/17 at 11:34 pm


Anyone who knows me would know that my dating life is completely nonexistent. It really sucks being 23 having zero dating experience. The problem is that I can never tell whether or not a girl likes me. I was completely sheltered during my early adolescence, so that may be a reason why I never developed this ability. Some part of me is bitter towards those who've had those experiences, but I know those feelings won't do me any good. Still, I feel helpless. I wish I knew what do to.


I had my first relationship when I was 22, so you're not too old. 23/24 is still really young!

I did hear about your middle school and high school experiences though (or lack thereof).  :-\\ Did you talk to a psychiatrist about social anxiety?  ???


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Don't listen to her. She's just being a melodramatic privileged white girl who knows nothing about true struggle because she chooses to conform to culturally appropriated gender conventions. The only reason she doesn't have a girlfriend is because she's a stuck-up, ignorant lazy-ass too cowardly to put herself out at the right opportunities and adapt to what is hip. The fact that her role model is a corporate-promoted pop hack from the mid-2000s proves everything about how shallow she is an how inauthentic a lesbian she is. We, the New Americana, on the other hand, are proud of our tattoos, body piercings, Orange Is the New Black fandom, booze parties, and the right to petition for anything we want against all the exploited menaces of society.

Luck would come in handy. Its not so pleasant when my personal experience with the lesbian community (or really the culture of my age group in general...) these past years has literally been a lot like the above.


Silly Sally, the last season of OitNB was terrible! I'm sick to death of Piper. :-X

I hope those people grow up, that's really sad how they treat people with a different outlook on life than them.  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 11:38 pm


My dating song:

pPaZ6HU-i6s


Amazing song!!!  8)  8)  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 11:39 pm


And it's rude, too. 100% chance you will get slapped in the face.


Sadly, it feels like jerkasses who do that are still overwhelmingly more likely to find success with women than I am, the way I've been treated.

If you're going up to women saying sh!t like "yo hoe make dat azz bounce lemme see dem titties" you won't ever find a suitable life companion.


https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg
"Maybe in the early 2000s you could, but this is 2017. The only way to go is to show them your Instagram albums of adventures, dogs, parties, and protests for social justice. #New_Americana"

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 11:43 pm


I had my first relationship when I was 22, so you're not too old. 23/24 is still really young!

I did hear about your middle school and high school experiences though (or lack thereof).  :-\\ Did you talk to a psychiatrist about social anxiety?  ???

Silly Sally, the last season of OitNB was terrible! I'm sick to death of Piper. :-X

I hope those people grow up, that's really sad how they treat people with a different outlook on life than them.  :(


That's part of being young. And why I don't like extremism of any kind!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/20/17 at 11:44 pm


What was that question?



"What action must be undertaken to resolve this problem?"


So he likes being morbidly obese?


No, he likes his girl. I don't think he likes his obesity.


Yeah, and make sure you bring friends who have good advice. If you have a friend who tells you to slap a girl in the a*s, don't listen to him because it's going to backfire.


You have crazy friends ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/20/17 at 11:45 pm

Silly Sally, the last season of OitNB was terrible! I'm sick to death of Piper. :-X

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
"Piper is an inspirational role model to every woman, questioning or not. If you don't like her, you're just turning a blind eye to the struggles that all women can relate to, regardless of background."

I hope those people grow up, that's really sad how they treat people with a different outlook on life than them.  :(


I just feel like I'm nobody's type within the lesbian world. I can't blame them for being who they genuinely identify themselves as, but they sure make me feel completely and utterly unattractive because of my own individuality.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/20/17 at 11:46 pm


Sadly, it feels like jerkasses who do that are still overwhelmingly more likely to find success with women than I am, the way I've been treated.

https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg
"Maybe in the early 2000s you could, but this is 2017. The only way to go is to show them your Instagram albums of adventures, dogs, parties, and protests for social justice. #New_Americana"


That's partly why some people hate the SJW movement. Not the positive Social Progressives, but the SJWs that can be militant and too forceful with their points of views.  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 11:48 pm


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
"That's sexist, you bastard. I've already dated about 28 guys by club hopping, and they all know what true masculinity is about, hence why they opt to listen to Future, Drake, Desiigner, and Migos instead. Also, HOW DARE YOU MOCK JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE!!! HE'S SO CUTE, EVERY GIRL SHOULD LOVE HIM!  :\'( :\'( :\'("


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/a0/64/d3/a064d32b23871dbe03aa6ab77f09187a.jpg
"Woah 28 guys? listen up girl I aint touchin none of dat with a 10 foot pole (not mine u hear?) LUDA warned me bout those hoes! I listen 2 LUDA, snooooooopppp, fiddy cent, my boi TONY YAYO and some usher when i got a lady over. Who are these rappers? are they even gangsta? I think every girl should love me because I'm a P.I.M.P.!"


https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg
"Okay, first off, why don't you just watch your television shows on a Samsung instead? You're a dated jackass if you still use technology from the early 2000s instead of now. Second, calling me a lady is sexist, it assumes all women watch Orange Is the New Black and all men watch your dumb early 2000s reality show. I don't need you to remind me of 2005, 2006, or any other early 2000s year."


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Samsung? Naaawww I got one of those razors. I dont mean an emo razor just the phone aint about that black hair I listen to rap. I put that sh!t on my psp though videos take up the space. My phone has a camera so I can take photos of women makin dat azz bounce 2 my boi ja rule. I don't know who these orangutans dressed in black. is this some kinda emo show? yo I don't slit my wrists or nothing so I aint gonna watch that. I will just watch the downloaded videos of the oc on my psp."


I'm just personally disillusioned by them because I so can't find my voice in either of them the way I do, in fact, feel emotionally receptive towards Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, and the ilk. It wouldn't be so bad if it didn't feel like the goddamn law to express interest in stereotypical lesbian icons like Tegan & Sara and Kristen Stewart just to be considered attractive and individualistic.


It definitely sucks that the community seems so rigid and not accepting towards things outside of their vision of what a lesbian is. :-\\ And, really, Kristen Stewart is just straight up boring and a terrible actress.


Sadly, it feels like jerkasses who do that are still overwhelmingly more likely to find success with women than I am, the way I've been treated.


Which sucks! I wish things wouldn't turn out like this...


https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg
"Maybe in the early 2000s you could, but this is 2017. The only way to go is to show them your Instagram albums of adventures, dogs, parties, and protests for social justice. #New_Americana"


https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/a/ad/WingsHaircut.jpg/235px-WingsHaircut.jpg

"naw listen up. When you at the party and some hoe shakin dat ass u jus gotta go up n grab a peice of dat like LUDA and snoooooooop rap bout. drop it like it hot boooiiiiiiii!!!"


Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/20/17 at 11:50 pm


And it's rude, too. 100% chance you will get slapped in the face.

If you're going up to women saying sh!t like "yo hoe make dat azz bounce lemme see dem titties" you won't ever find a suitable life companion.
Weren't you doing that at first?


Luckily, I don't have chauvinist friends. It seems like you do unfortunately or is that not true? :o
No. I have never done that.


Sadly, it feels like jerkasses who do that are still overwhelmingly more likely to find success with women than I am, the way I've been treated.
I know! How and why do some girls want a guy who is not only a bad boy,  but even treats them like sh!t? I would treat them better those bastards!



"What action must be undertaken to resolve this problem?"

No, he likes his girl. I don't think he likes his obesity.

You have crazy friends ;D
Oh,  I answered that with being confident, and I should also take risks.

Oh. ;D ;D

Not even. I don't have many male friends like that ;D


I just feel like I'm nobody's type within the lesbian world. I can't blame them for being who they genuinely identify themselves as, but they sure make me feel completely and utterly unattractive because of my own individuality.
Well, they need to start accepting you and embracing your individuality. It seems that some of these lesbians want a stereotypical girlfriend.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/20/17 at 11:54 pm


Weren't you doing that at first?


No. Those posts about listening to rap to see "dat azz bounce" are only jokes. :P ;D


I know! How and why do some girls want a guy who is not only a bad boy,  but even treats them like sh!t? I would treat them better those bastards!


Those girls aren't worth it. There are just as many women who want a good guy and a committed loving relationship than those who want "bad boys." Don't settle for immature women who play games and make your life hell. Save your time and care for someone who deserves it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 11:54 pm


No. I have never done that.

No, I said if you have any friends like that....not you :o.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/20/17 at 11:57 pm

Being in high school has shown me that most HS girls gravitate towards the bad boys and/or boys that have bad grades. It freaking sucks.....yet they complain about how "boys suck". When you ask them why do they go out with them even after they hurt them, they say  "....but I still love him" ::).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 12:00 am


Being in high school has shown me that most HS girls gravitate towards the bad boys and/or boys that have bad grades. It freaking sucks.....yet they complain about how "boys suck". When you ask them why do they go out with them even after they hurt them, they say  "....but I still love him" ::).


Some of those types of girls end up on Jerry Springer or Maury!  :-X :.ducks:.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 12:02 am


Some of those types of girls end up on Jerry Springer or Maury!  :-X :.ducks:.

You're not wrong :-X.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/21/17 at 12:04 am


No. Those posts about listening to rap to see "dat azz bounce" are only jokes. :P ;D

Those girls aren't worth it. There are just as many women who want a good guy and a committed loving relationship than those who want "bad boys." Don't settle for immature women who play games and make your life hell. Save your time and care for someone who deserves it.
What about the 90s then? I remember you said you got a sandwich thrown at you.

Oh, I won't. I'll make sure the girls are not those who want bad boys.


No, I said if you have any friends like that....not you :o.
No. I don't at all. I actually answered that question to Slowpoke ;D


Being in high school has shown me that most HS girls gravitate towards the bad boys and/or boys that have bad grades. It freaking sucks.....yet they complain about how "boys suck". When you ask them why do they go out with them even after they hurt them, they say  "....but I still love him" ::).
Oh,  I know. It doesn't make sense and then you have girls who love older men all because they are mature and have lots of money compared to younger ones.


Some of those types of girls end up on Jerry Springer or Maury!  :-X :.ducks:.
Not going to lie,  those girls on those shows are very beautiful even if they are in a destructive relationship. :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/21/17 at 12:04 am


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/a0/64/d3/a064d32b23871dbe03aa6ab77f09187a.jpg
"Woah 28 guys? listen up girl I aint touchin none of dat with a 10 foot pole (not mine u hear?) LUDA warned me bout those hoes! I listen 2 LUDA, snooooooopppp, fiddy cent, my boi TONY YAYO and some usher when i got a lady over. Who are these rappers? are they even gangsta? I think every girl should love me because I'm a P.I.M.P.!"


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
"You're a filthy misogynist to call me a slut just because I've had more luck with guys (and occasionally girls) than you ever could. No woman thinks pimping is classy, that's just another unfortunate symptom of the patriarchy, and those who fall for it are either doing do against their will or are just too uneducated to realize how disgusting it is. Thank god Facebook, OK Cupid, and Instagram have since come along to emancipate us from the chains of your filthy hands. Now we can get drunk and party to any man we want, and if you don't like it, then go back to Alabama from where you came from."

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Samsung? Naaawww I got one of those razors. I dont mean an emo razor just the phone aint about that black hair I listen to rap. I put that sh!t on my psp though videos take up the space. My phone has a camera so I can take photos of women makin dat azz bounce 2 my boi ja rule. I don't know who these orangutans dressed in black. is this some kinda emo show? yo I don't slit my wrists or nothing so I aint gonna watch that. I will just watch the downloaded videos of the oc on my psp."


https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg

"Stop generalizing us, you closet-skinhead. Emo hasn't been relevant since the early 2000s. Today, there is no generally accepted culture. We are all different. Some of us wear glassless glasses, others have tattoos, and many more of us choose to express our voices through the wonders of social media photos and protests. One thing we all have in common is that we're against the terrible, backwards ways of the past. Orange Is the New Black is an absolutely gorgeous representation of every type of raw person imaginable. Humans, at the heart of it all, are rebel hearts who battle within the women's prison known as life itself, where every outsider or softy is an ignorant fool and only the most confrontational deserve to be heard."

It definitely sucks that the community seems so rigid and not accepting towards things outside of their vision of what a lesbian is. :-\\ And, really, Kristen Stewart is just straight up boring and a terrible actress.

Yeah, I feel constantly backstabbed by the shallow, hypocritical, unwelcoming nature of the lesbian community, like it's a contradiction for me to be a lesbian and present more like Rachel Stevens than Kristen Stewart. Stewart just doesn't convey the level of class that my personal heroines convey, regardless of their sexuality.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 12:07 am


No. I don't at all. I actually answered that question to Slowpoke ;D

That's good.


Oh,  I know. It doesn't make sense and then you have girls who love older men all because they are mature and have lots of money compared to younger ones.

That is true.


Not going to lie,  those girls on those shows are very beautiful even if they are in a destructive relationship. :D

Do you want one of them? ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/21/17 at 12:08 am

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/a/ad/WingsHaircut.jpg/235px-WingsHaircut.jpg

"naw listen up. When you at the party and some hoe shakin dat ass u jus gotta go up n grab a peice of dat like LUDA and snoooooooop rap bout. drop it like it hot boooiiiiiiii!!!"


https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg

"Ughhh...just...try and listen to these instead, why don't you?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HL1UzIK-flA

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzTuBuRdAyA

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0zGcUoRlhmw

Much more authentic, human, welcoming club gems, if you ask me."

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/21/17 at 12:09 am


Do you want one of them? ;D
Yeah, I'll take some of them ;) ;) ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 12:15 am

Wow....this thread exploded quickly :o.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 1:02 am


You're not wrong :-X.


I wanted to wear fishnets.....

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 1:06 am


What about the 90s then? I remember you said you got a sandwich thrown at you.

Oh, I won't. I'll make sure the girls are not those who want bad boys.
No. I don't at all. I actually answered that question to Slowpoke ;D
Oh,  I know. It doesn't make sense and then you have girls who love older men all because they are mature and have lots of money compared to younger ones.
Not going to lie,  those girls on those shows are very beautiful even if they are in a destructive relationship. :D


Yes, even bad, or destructive people, can be sexy, or beautiful, physically, sometimes.  :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Philip Eno on 06/21/17 at 4:53 am

Happily married for over 35 years, and enjoying every minute of it!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/21/17 at 7:08 am


Single, and it sucks a*'s!  >:(

I wish I had a companion to share things with.


I'm sure you'll find one.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/21/17 at 7:15 am


I wouldn't date a morbidly obese girl.
Oh alright. You're living the life man....lol. You should be able to get a girl out there 8).


I would date obese but not morbidly.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/21/17 at 7:17 am


And it's rude, too. 100% chance you will get slapped in the face.

If you're going up to women saying sh!t like "yo hoe make dat azz bounce lemme see dem titties" you won't ever find a suitable life companion.


;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/21/17 at 7:31 am

Well, here's my story, I am 43 years old and SINGLE! I used to date, one girl had Down's Syndrome her name was Annalee in 1997 and another in 2004 her name was Robin and she had autism and she was a bit of a cocktease, I was working at Pathmark at the time that we were still dating in 2007, she always told me that she had a full time job compared to me I was a part timer being a cart retriever. Her And I both lived with our parents at the time and we would always worry about each other's future and financial status and sexually I couldn't get anywhere with her cause I was just so much in love her but her love wasn't reciprocated. When we would make out, touching her top was part time and getting down there (for her) was considered full time if you know what I mean. Sorry if this was a bit too much but now I think I'll just stay single.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/21/17 at 9:02 am


Thanks!

I guess I can go out with friends to try and find a girl but definitely not with my family.


I agree with this. I wouldn't attempt to approach with my mother and sister around me. It'd throw me off.


Being in high school has shown me that most HS girls gravitate towards the bad boys and/or boys that have bad grades. It freaking sucks.....yet they complain about how "boys suck". When you ask them why do they go out with them even after they hurt them, they say  "....but I still love him" ::).


You still have college ahead, man. College girls from what I seen, like intelligence.


Wow....this thread exploded quickly :o.


It did. Some users are honestly ruining it though. Its so difficult to get away from politics.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 9:41 am


Happily married for over 35 years, and enjoying every minute of it!

That's wonderful and congrats to you and your wife. I want to be in your situation in the future :).

BTW, do you guys have any children together?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 9:43 am


Well, here's my story, I am 43 years old and SINGLE! I used to date, one girl had Down's Syndrome her name was Annalee in 1997 and another in 2004 her name was Robin and she had autism and she was a bit of a cocktease, I was working at Pathmark at the time that we were still dating in 2007, she always told me that she had a full time job compared to me I was a part timer being a cart retriever. Her And I both lived with our parents at the time and we would always worry about each other's future and financial status and sexually I couldn't get anywhere with her cause I was just so much in love her but her love wasn't reciprocated. When we would make out, touching her top was part time and getting down there (for her) was considered full time if you know what I mean. Sorry if this was a bit too much but now I think I'll just stay single.

Well, there are plenty of other woman out there and I don't think that you should give up hope just yet.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 9:46 am


I agree with this. I wouldn't attempt to approach with my mother and sister around me. It'd throw me off.

Yeah, exactly.


You still have college ahead, man. College girls from what I seen, like intelligence.

But do they like guys who are not tall (but not the shortest)?


It did. Some users are honestly ruining it though. Its so difficult to get away from politics.

Well....those guys are just posting sarcastically and pretending.

Anyways, based on how this thread exploded....relationships really are complicated and so many people have trouble with finding a companion.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 10:43 am

I'm going to marry myself one day.  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 10:54 am


I'm going to marry myself one day.  8)

Same 8).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 10:58 am


Same 8).


Maybe I'll do it in a few months!  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/21/17 at 11:52 am


But do they like guys who are not tall (but not the shortest)?


Why not shorter girls, dude? Shorter, mid height girls genetically have the best bodies and from the looks of it, you'd both be the same height. I'm not tall my self. Just about mid height, the same height as you.

I even noticed that, the girls I run into that's my height are usually my preference in appearance.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 06/21/17 at 12:29 pm


I feel lost to, man. I'm deep in 26 and don't want a single mother. I want a girl that hasn't lost her virginity. I want to be the original.

Complication and struggle is real.

Just that, day dreaming helps. Its like medicine.


Not to brag, but I guess that's one advantage I DO have. I don't care whether a girl has had sexual experience or not. I just want to find someone who truly loves me and wants to be with me, and doesn't care that I've had zero dating experience. In my opinion, whether someone is a virgin or not, does not determine how they are as people. I mean what if you met the perfect girl, who wanted to be with you, but the one catch was that she was not a virgin? Would you throw away that chance just because of that one aspect? I mean I wouldn't want a girl to reject me due to my LACK of experience. So I personally wouldn't write off a girl, simply because she's not a virgin.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 12:47 pm


Why not shorter girls, dude? Shorter, mid height girls genetically have the best bodies and from the looks of it, you'd both be the same height. I'm not tall my self. Just about mid height, the same height as you.

I even noticed that, the girls I run into that's my height are usually my preference in appearance.

The thing is that a lot of short and mid height girls aren't attracted tp guys our height either.


Not to brag, but I guess that's one advantage I DO have. I don't care whether a girl has had sexual experience or not. I just want to find someone who truly loves me and wants to be with me, and doesn't care that I've had zero dating experience. In my opinion, whether someone is a virgin or not, does not determine how they are as people. I mean what if you met the perfect girl, who wanted to be with you, but the one catch was that she was not a virgin? Would you throw away that chance just because of that one aspect? I mean I wouldn't want a girl to reject me due to my LACK of experience. So I personally wouldn't write off a girl, simply because she's not a virgin.

Well, I certainly wouldn't write of a girl who wasn't a virgin but my ideal girl would be a virgin....notice the word IDEAL.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/21/17 at 12:56 pm


Not to brag, but I guess that's one advantage I DO have. I don't care whether a girl has had sexual experience or not. I just want to find someone who truly loves me and wants to be with me, and doesn't care that I've had zero dating experience. In my opinion, whether someone is a virgin or not, does not determine how they are as people. I mean what if you met the perfect girl, who wanted to be with you, but the one catch was that she was not a virgin? Would you throw away that chance just because of that one aspect? I mean I wouldn't want a girl to reject me due to my LACK of experience. So I personally wouldn't write off a girl, simply because she's not a virgin.



Well, I certainly wouldn't write of a girl who wasn't a virgin but my ideal girl would be a virgin....notice the word IDEAL.
I wouldn't want to waste that opportunity either if a girl wasn't a Virgin. That might come out as someone thinking she's a wh*re when she's not.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/21/17 at 1:05 pm


Not to brag, but I guess that's one advantage I DO have. I don't care whether a girl has had sexual experience or not. I just want to find someone who truly loves me and wants to be with me, and doesn't care that I've had zero dating experience. In my opinion, whether someone is a virgin or not, does not determine how they are as people. I mean what if you met the perfect girl, who wanted to be with you, but the one catch was that she was not a virgin? Would you throw away that chance just because of that one aspect? I mean I wouldn't want a girl to reject me due to my LACK of experience. So I personally wouldn't write off a girl, simply because she's not a virgin.


Let me rephrase that. Girls that have kids. I commonly see this and its really intimidating. I almost could have dated a single mother in 08. We were both 18 from what I recall. She was amazing and gave me signals. I gave her signals, to. Only thing is, I asked her of his presents and she stated "He doesn't visit anymore." I can tell she was telling the truth and wasn't desperate but then, if we officially became couples, HE, would have instantly started popping up because that's how luck works. He would have hating me being around his kid. And then, I don't doubt for a second if he became active in her life, she wouldn't have suddenly left me for him. My older brother explained this to me and after he did, I'm glad I didn't do it to my self now that I look back. Its depressive but makes sense. I didn't have the support she would have needed in the long run.

I still agree to an extend though. I'd easily take a girl that lost her virginity to someone else as long as I'm the last. A girl like that has amazing debt. I want her to belong to me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/21/17 at 1:06 pm


The thing is that a lot of short and mid height girls aren't attracted tp guys our height either.


Do you work out?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 06/21/17 at 1:28 pm


Let me rephrase that. Girls that have kids. I commonly see this and its really intimidating. I almost could have dated a single mother in 08. We were both 18 from what I recall. She was amazing and gave me signals. I gave her signals, to. Only thing is, I asked her of his presents and she stated "He doesn't visit anymore." I can tell she was telling the truth and wasn't desperate but then, if we officially became couples, HE, would have instantly started popping up because that's how luck works. He would have hating me being around his kid. And then, I don't doubt for a second if he became active in her life, she wouldn't have suddenly left me for him. My older brother explained this to me and after he did, I'm glad I didn't do it to my self now that I look back. Its depressive but makes sense. I didn't have the support she would have needed in the long run.

I still agree to an extend though. I'd easily take a girl that lost her virginity to someone else as long as I'm the last. A girl like that has amazing debt. I want her to belong to me.


Oh, okay, that makes more sense. I also wouldn't want to date a single mother. I'm not at all ready to fill the role of a father/stepfather yet.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/21/17 at 1:39 pm


Oh, okay, that makes more sense. I also wouldn't want to date a single mother. I'm not at all ready to fill the role of a father/stepfather yet.
When you do find a girl you like, you should ask if she has children before you take it to the next level because as people get older, they are more likely to have kids.  However, I'm not sure if that's a personal question to ask though.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 1:40 pm


Do you work out?

A little but I'm want I call "muscular lean".

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 1:41 pm


Oh, okay, that makes more sense. I also wouldn't want to date a single mother. I'm not at all ready to fill the role of a father/stepfather yet.

Yeah, I'm not ready for that either...I'm only about to turn 18. No way am I ready to be a father figure.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 3:22 pm

I will devote my life to being a priest. Just kidding!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/21/17 at 3:27 pm


A little but I'm want I call "muscular lean".


Don't wish to be taller, man. Taller guys get girls but only the specifics. A taller man can intimidate a women just by approach, while dudes our height don't have to worry about this. In a girl's mind approached by a taller dude, she's "Ok. He knows he's way stronger than me. What do I do?"

We have a shot, to.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/21/17 at 3:58 pm


Well, there are plenty of other women out there and I don't think that you should give up hope just yet.


I'll think about it, but I try not to give up just yet.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/21/17 at 3:59 pm


I'm going to marry myself one day.  8)


for better or for worse?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 06/21/17 at 4:02 pm


I'm going to marry myself one day.  8)


Ha, that's different! :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/21/17 at 4:03 pm


Let me rephrase that. Girls that have kids. I commonly see this and its really intimidating. I almost could have dated a single mother in 08. We were both 18 from what I recall. She was amazing and gave me signals. I gave her signals, to. Only thing is, I asked her of his presents and she stated "He doesn't visit anymore." I can tell she was telling the truth and wasn't desperate but then, if we officially became couples, HE, would have instantly started popping up because that's how luck works. He would have hating me being around his kid. And then, I don't doubt for a second if he became active in her life, she wouldn't have suddenly left me for him. My older brother explained this to me and after he did, I'm glad I didn't do it to my self now that I look back. Its depressive but makes sense. I didn't have the support she would have needed in the long run.

I still agree to an extend though. I'd easily take a girl that lost her virginity to someone else as long as I'm the last. A girl like that has amazing debt. I want her to belong to me.


I was hoping to be the 40 year old virgin, and that didn't come to pass and never happened. :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/21/17 at 4:05 pm


Yeah, I'm not ready for that either...I'm only about to turn 18. No way am I ready to be a father figure.


I'm going to be 44 next year and I don't want be a Father.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 4:09 pm


I'm going to be 44 next year and I don't want be a Father.

That's OK....not every male wants to be a father.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/21/17 at 4:17 pm


That's OK....not every male wants to be a father.



I'll just take an FWB or a One Night Stand.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 5:00 pm


for better or for worse?


Yup, pretty much.  ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 5:00 pm


Ha, that's different! :D


It is.  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/21/17 at 8:35 pm


for better or for worse?


Till death do us part :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/21/17 at 9:02 pm


Well, here's my story, I am 43 years old and SINGLE! I used to date, one girl had Down's Syndrome her name was Annalee in 1997 and another in 2004 her name was Robin and she had autism and she was a bit of a cocktease, I was working at Pathmark at the time that we were still dating in 2007, she always told me that she had a full time job compared to me I was a part timer being a cart retriever. Her And I both lived with our parents at the time and we would always worry about each other's future and financial status and sexually I couldn't get anywhere with her cause I was just so much in love her but her love wasn't reciprocated. When we would make out, touching her top was part time and getting down there (for her) was considered full time if you know what I mean. Sorry if this was a bit too much but now I think I'll just stay single.


I read it. Thanks for sharing.


A little but I'm want I call "muscular lean".


That's good! Wear a tank top or something revealing, and get a masculine haircut. You have to kick their hormone production into overdrive. That's how you get 'em to say yes despite themselves ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 9:12 pm


That's good! Wear a tank top or something revealing, and get a masculine haircut. You have to kick their hormone production into overdrive. That's how you get 'em to say yes despite themselves ;D

I'm not tall though and they view me as more of the cute type than hot type (at least to some girls).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/21/17 at 10:12 pm


I'm not tall though and they view me as more of the cute type than hot type (at least to some girls).


Cute and hot are two sides of the same coin, silly! ;D You should try at least. Trust me, you can tell when eyes are on you.

If you're worried about height, don't hesitate to buy shoes with huge lift. Everyone can get away with adding 3-7 cm. I'm 175 cm (5' 9") and I have many 5cm kicks that help me hit the magic 180 (6ft). I got described as "the tall guy from Calculus" by another girl once on FB (and the other girl recognized) so I'm certain it works ;D

There are some shoes that hide it really well (especially the more expensive Nike in my experience). I heard there are some online stores for these types of shoes. You're 5' 6" right? If you add a good 7cm (about 2.8 inches) you'll be average height at least. :)

Edit: I looked it up, and some add a good 10cm and they look very convincing! Make sure to buy a convincing one though, you don't want to pull a Marco Rubio and became fodder for the fashion tabloids.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 10:14 pm

Being an outcast hurts. My fashion is out of style. The slangs are too edgy for my fragile heart. My weight is a heavy problem! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 10:17 pm

I should start gardening. It might help me fit in.

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Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 10:20 pm


Cute and hot are two sides of the same coin, silly! ;D You should try at least. Trust me, you can tell when eyes are on you.

Not to most girls. Cute means that I'm OK but hot means sexy. I'm not sexy to them.


If you're worried about height, don't hesitate to buy shoes with huge lift. Everyone can get away with adding 3-7 cm. I'm 175 cm (5' 9") and I have many 5cm kicks that help me hit the magic 180 (6ft). I got described as "the tall guy from Calculus" by another girl once on FB (and the other girl recognized) so I'm certain it works ;D

I could potentially do that.


There are some shoes that hide it really well (especially the more expensive Nike in my experience). I heard there are some online stores for these types of shoes. You're 5' 6" right? If you add a good 7cm (about 2.8 inches) you'll be average height at least. :)

How did you know my height? Did I tell you? :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 10:22 pm


Not to most girls. Cute means that I'm OK but hot means sexy. I'm not sexy to them.
I could potentially do that.
How did you know my height? Did I tell you? :o


I remember, very blurry, that you did post it on here, somewhere on this website.  :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/21/17 at 10:22 pm

You don't wanna get too worried about things like appearance. It certainly helps and I'd say it's a good idea to do things that bring out your looks (e.g. good hygiene, neat hair, posture, staying fit) but don't make it a bigger deal than it needs to be and always try to work on who you are as a person. If you only look good but you're boring and not good at anything (not you-you but in general) then it won't really get you anywhere. Another very important thing to keep in mind is just don't show off your insecurities to girls right off the bat. Confidence is key. Act like your height is not a big deal to you because the chances are you're worrying about it way more than they are.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 10:27 pm


I remember, very blurry, that you did post it on here, somewhere on this website.  :o

I shouldn't have done that :-X.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 10:28 pm


You don't wanna get too worried about things like appearance. It certainly helps and I'd say it's a good idea to do things that bring out your looks (e.g. good hygiene, neat hair, posture, staying fit) but don't make it a bigger deal than it needs to be and always try to work on who you are as a person. If you only look good but you're boring and not good at anything (not you-you but in general) then it won't really get you anywhere. Another very important thing to keep in mind is just don't show off your insecurities to girls right off the bat. Confidence is key. Act like your height is not a big deal to you because the chances are you're worrying about it way more than they are.

I know....that's what my mother tells me all the time. So far, it hasn't worked....maybe it will in the future.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 10:34 pm

At least I'm not those anorexic teenagers that don't eat!  ::)  ::)  ::)  :(  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/21/17 at 10:34 pm


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
"You're a filthy misogynist to call me a slut just because I've had more luck with guys (and occasionally girls) than you ever could. No woman thinks pimping is classy, that's just another unfortunate symptom of the patriarchy, and those who fall for it are either doing do against their will or are just too uneducated to realize how disgusting it is. Thank god Facebook, OK Cupid, and Instagram have since come along to emancipate us from the chains of your filthy hands. Now we can get drunk and party to any man we want, and if you don't like it, then go back to Alabama from where you came from."

https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg

"Stop generalizing us, you closet-skinhead. Emo hasn't been relevant since the early 2000s. Today, there is no generally accepted culture. We are all different. Some of us wear glassless glasses, others have tattoos, and many more of us choose to express our voices through the wonders of social media photos and protests. One thing we all have in common is that we're against the terrible, backwards ways of the past. Orange Is the New Black is an absolutely gorgeous representation of every type of raw person imaginable. Humans, at the heart of it all, are rebel hearts who battle within the women's prison known as life itself, where every outsider or softy is an ignorant fool and only the most confrontational deserve to be heard."


LOL, you're way too funny! ;D


Yeah, I feel constantly backstabbed by the shallow, hypocritical, unwelcoming nature of the lesbian community, like it's a contradiction for me to be a lesbian and present more like Rachel Stevens than Kristen Stewart. Stewart just doesn't convey the level of class that my personal heroines convey, regardless of their sexuality.


She definitely doesn't have any class. Kristen Stewart is a horrible actor that only appeals to the lowest common denominator and it sucks the community you've tried so hard to reach out too and fit in with can't see this and appreciate your more interesting tastes.


I was hoping to be the 40 year old virgin, and that didn't come to pass and never happened. :(


Wait, Howard... You wanted to stay a virgin til 40!? ???


What about the 90s then? I remember you said you got a sandwich thrown at you.


No! :P That happened because I was "going out" with this girl in middle school but then she found out I "wasn't cool enough" and had to prove to her friends we "weren't together." Kind of a stupid story. ;D


I know....that's what my mother tells me all the time. So far, it hasn't worked....maybe it will in the future.


Just remember what I said before: join some clubs, get involved in community events, do really well at your hobbies and be an interesting person. Don't be afraid of rejection and don't let it affect your confidence. Hell, there's also tons of quiet shy girls at bookstores and libraries, that also don't have the best of luck with the opposite sex, who you could talk too as well.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 10:39 pm


Just remember what I said before: join some clubs, get involved in community events, do really well at your hobbies and be an interesting person. Don't be afraid of rejection and don't let it affect your confidence. Hell, there's also tons of quiet shy girls at bookstores and libraries, that also don't have the best of luck with the opposite sex, who you could talk too as well.

I'll just see what happens.......with life.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/21/17 at 10:44 pm


Not to most girls. Cute means that I'm OK but hot means sexy. I'm not sexy to them.


Dude, I'm gay; I'm pretty sure I'm using the same definitions as straight girls lol. :P

Cute = good looking but makes you comfortable and all cuddly and warm inside (I guess the female equivalent would be that dorky shy girl that's good looking)

Hot = Eye catching, high sex appeal, makes you feel a bit intimidated but you still want it (female equivalent would be some babe bombshell)

Cute segues into hot in a pretty seamless way.


I could potentially do that.


Okay, I was just throwing that out there.  :-\\ I have friends who're the same height as you and they did get girls. So don't lose hope or feel too down. :)


How did you know my height? Did I tell you? :o


"5 foot 6" popped in my head instantly the very first time you mentioned it in this thread, so I guess you did at one point.  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 10:53 pm




Dude, I'm gay; I'm pretty sure I'm using the same definitions as straight girls lol. :P

Cute = good looking but makes you comfortable and all cuddly and warm inside (I guess the female equivalent would be that dorky shy girl that's good looking)

Hot = Eye catching, high sex appeal, makes you feel a bit intimidated but you still want it (female equivalent would be some babe bombshell)

Cute segues into hot in a pretty seamless way.

You're correct...they are similar not the same. They don't bring out the same reaction.


Okay, I was just throwing that out there.  :-\\ I have friends who're the same height as you and they did get girls. So don't lose hope or feel too down. :)

I'm already a bit hopeless but I'll try to keep my head up.


"5 foot 6" popped in my head instantly the very first time you mentioned it in this thread, so I guess you did at one point.  :-X

FUDGE BUCKETS!!!! >:(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 10:55 pm

Uh oh!  :(  :(  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/21/17 at 11:01 pm

Reignman, I want you to know that 5'6 actually isn't that short because the National average height for guys is 5'9. It would be anything closer to 5'0 that guys would be considered short.


No! :P That happened because I was "going out" with this girl in middle school but then she found out I "wasn't cool enough" and had to prove to her friends we "weren't together." Kind of a stupid story. ;D
So she thought you were worthless?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/21/17 at 11:02 pm


So she thought you were worthless?


She just thought I was lame. Boy, how wrong was she! ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/21/17 at 11:05 pm


Being an outcast hurts. My fashion is out of style. The slangs are too edgy for my fragile heart. My weight is a heavy problem! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png


<3 I'm your friend!

Time to buy new clothes!  :-X You don't have to know the slang lol.

I've never battled with weight before, but my brother did. He ate healthy and went to the gym three times a week. He checked his weight on Saturdays, and if he hit his target weight, then he'd let himself have a cheat day for that day only (he'd usually go out with friends to celebrate). I don't think there's any secrets.  :-X He was like 250 and dropped to 150 in a bit over a year (not a long time if you think about it). I wish I had more advice to give on this front, but I don't know any trick other than sheer willpower unfortunately :(

In the meantime, black clothes will make you look slimmer than other colours. Grey is a more sporty/athletic colour than the others too, depending on the shirt you're wearing.


At least I'm not those anorexic teenagers that don't eat!  ::)  ::)  ::)  :(  :(


Oi, that's me! ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 11:06 pm


Reignman, I want you to know that 5'6 actually isn't that short because the National average height for guys is 5'9. It would be anything closer to 5'0 that guys would be considered short.

Yeah but my father is 5' 10" and I wish that I got his height. My mother who is 5' 2" gave me more of her height (damn it genetics >:().


She just thought I was lame. Boy, how wrong was she! ::)

Hell yeah she was wrong 8).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 11:07 pm

BTW, Futurepoke....are you prepping for Canada 150?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/21/17 at 11:10 pm


Hell yeah she was wrong 8).


Thanks! 8) ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/21/17 at 11:12 pm


BTW, Futurepoke....are you prepping for Canada 150?


Woah, you know? I might go to Montreal or the local parade that takes place in the park right across the street from me. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 11:13 pm


<3 I'm your friend!

Time to buy new clothes!  :-X You don't have to know the slang lol.

I've never battled with weight before, but my brother did. He ate healthy and went to the gym three times a week. He checked his weight on Saturdays, and if he hit his target weight, then he'd let himself have a cheat day for that day only (he'd usually go out with friends to celebrate). I don't think there's any secrets.  :-X He was like 250 and dropped to 150 in a bit over a year (not a long time if you think about it). I wish I had more advice to give on this front, but I don't know any trick other than sheer willpower unfortunately :(

In the meantime, black clothes will make you look slimmer than other colours. Grey is a more sporty/athletic colour than the others too, depending on the shirt you're wearing.

Oi, that's me! ;D


I ate the whole bucket of ice cream.  :-X  :-X  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/21/17 at 11:16 pm


I ate the whole bucket of ice cream.  :-X  :-X  :-X


Wait... Then what was I eating?  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/21/17 at 11:18 pm


Wait... Then what was I eating?  :-X


You weren't.  ;D  ;D  8)  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/21/17 at 11:18 pm


Thanks! 8) ;)

You're welcome ;).


Woah, you know? I might go to Montreal or the local parade that takes place in the park right across the street from me. :)

Yeah, I know about it, lol. That's cool...enjoy your self. Last year, we celebrated America's 240th birthday 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/22/17 at 8:57 am

I just remembered, recent I was at my niece's college. I was mainly in the student center and for good reasons. Haha It was on a Friday and unexpectedly dead so there wasn't much too see. I left, took a walk around the campus and eventually headed straight back to the center. As I was walking to one of the entrances, this girl that looked ridiculous appealing to me was just exiting. It hit me hard so I attempted to make the best of the time I had to speak. Before I could though, there was suddenly this other dude, already close enough and smiled at each other, then went their separate ways. My turn to speak came but she apologized and went for the bus. I looked back in massive hopelessness as she was exiting on to the city bus that made finishing the rest of the day difficult. I was seriously f'd up. I watched as she slipped away from me and didn't know what to do. I just ended up wanting to destroy everything.

She looked in her early 20s.

No made up story. This sh!t really happened to me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 06/22/17 at 12:17 pm

You know what, most of you just haven't found "the one". Just be patient and you will.

I didn't think I would find anyone for myself either, but found Lee. We have been a couple almost 2 years now(it will be 2 years in October). We met on October 16th, 2015 on OKcupid.com.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 12:22 pm


You know what, most of you just haven't found "the one". Just be patient and you will.

I didn't think I would find anyone for me either, but found Lee. We have been a couple almost 2 years now(it will be 2 years in October). We met on October 16th, 2015 on OKcupid.com.

I'm soon about to turn 18...so I'm not even necessarily looking for "the one".....I'm just looking for "someone"....a companion. However, you're right that I (and others) have to be patient....even if it hurts and feels like we'll never find one.

Anyways, congrats to you and Lee :).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 06/22/17 at 12:31 pm


I'm soon about to turn 18...so I'm not even necessarily looking for "the one".....I'm just looking for "someone"....a companion. However, you're right that I (and others) have to be patient....even if it hurts and feels like we'll never find one.

Anyways, congrats to you and Lee :).


Thank you! And yes, you're still very young you have your entire life to find someone.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/22/17 at 3:32 pm


I'm not tall though and they view me as more of the cute type than hot type (at least to some girls).


I'm considered handsome to most girls and resemble Tom Cruise.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/22/17 at 3:35 pm


LOL, you're way too funny! ;D

She definitely doesn't have any class. Kristen Stewart is a horrible actor that only appeals to the lowest common denominator and it sucks the community you've tried so hard to reach out too and fit in with can't see this and appreciate your more interesting tastes.

Wait, Howard... You wanted to stay a virgin til 40!? ???

No! :P That happened because I was "going out" with this girl in middle school but then she found out I "wasn't cool enough" and had to prove to her friends we "weren't together." Kind of a stupid story. ;D

Just remember what I said before: join some clubs, get involved in community events, do really well at your hobbies and be an interesting person. Don't be afraid of rejection and don't let it affect your confidence. Hell, there's also tons of quiet shy girls at bookstores and libraries, that also don't have the best of luck with the opposite sex, who you could talk too as well.


I was hoping to score with the right girl when I reached 40 years of age but at this point I don't care if I ever have sex at all.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/22/17 at 3:41 pm


She just thought I was lame. Boy, how wrong was she! ::)


The girl I used to date, her parents thought I was retarded and didn't live up to her potential. With her full time and me as a part timer it didn't work out well financially. We broke up a few days before Valentine's Day 2008. She virtually cheated on me looking for a new guy on a Jewish dating site afterwards.  >:(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/22/17 at 3:43 pm


You know what, most of you just haven't found "the one". Just be patient and you will.

I didn't think I would find anyone for myself either, but found Lee. We have been a couple almost 2 years now(it will be 2 years in October). We met on October 16th, 2015 on OKcupid.com.



I think I'll just take a one night stand or an FWB anytime. ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 3:57 pm


I'm considered handsome to most girls and resemble Tom Cruise.

You're doing better than me in that aspect ;).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/22/17 at 4:08 pm


You're doing better than me in that aspect ;).


I shave every day to keep that babyface look.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/22/17 at 4:20 pm


I shave every day to keep that babyface look.


You look fresh!  8)  8)  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/22/17 at 5:22 pm


The girl I used to date, her parents thought I was retarded and didn't live up to her potential. With her full time and me as a part timer it didn't work out well financially. We broke up a few days before Valentine's Day 2008. She virtually cheated on me looking for a new guy on a Jewish dating site afterwards.  >:(


Wow that's terrible. You shouldn't take that personally, she and her parents sound like horrible people. You dodged a bullet honestly.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/22/17 at 5:36 pm


I didn't know whether to post it here or in the rants thread. But update on my... Erm... relationship status?

And a trigger warning for lonely people  :-X


I met with my friend yesterday and we had a lot of fun. I apologized for being distant, and he was really sweet about it. He still seems a bit insecure though, apologizes a lot for the smallest mistakes or things I barely notice. It makes me feel guilty, and that's the feeling I hate most.  :-[

We went outside for a walk since the weather was amazing, and he tried to hold my hand, but I slapped it away like Melania Trump, and instead rubbed his head and put it against my shoulder. That was the cutest moment of the day. ;D


I "forgot" Fire Emblem at home (on purpose  :-X) so I was supposed to go give it today instead, but my parents went shopping and now I have to take care of the kids. Mess!  >:(


I don't understand what a Fire Emblem is.

Anyways, it sounds like you have a potential boyfriend. Good job!  8)  8)  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/22/17 at 5:38 pm


Wow that's terrible. You shouldn't take that personally, she and her parents sound like horrible people. You dodged a bullet honestly.


Something like that would ruin me, for like, a week. That's how bad mental health is sometimes!  :P  :P  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/22/17 at 5:48 pm


I don't understand what a Fire Emblem is.

Anyways, it sounds like you have a potential boyfriend. Good job!  8)  8)  8)


I moved that post to the other thread ;D

Fire Emblem is a video game series!  Play it!  :D

You think so? I like to think of him like that, and I'm sure he thinks of me like that.  :-[ That's the conundrum though, it's a weird flux state between FWB and official dating. He wants the latter but I'm reluctant, I don't think I can guarantee him the relationship he wants.  :-X (it's a complicated story, and probably best explained in the LGBT thread than this one)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/22/17 at 7:08 pm


I moved that post to the other thread ;D

Fire Emblem is a video game series!  Play it!  :D

You think so? I like to think of him like that, and I'm sure he thinks of me like that.  :-[ That's the conundrum though, it's a weird flux state between FWB and official dating. He wants the latter but I'm reluctant, I don't think I can guarantee him the relationship he wants.  :-X (it's a complicated story, and probably best explained in the LGBT thread than this one)


Laying one's head on someone's shoulder. Trying to hold hands. Sounds like he likes you!  ;D

Also, you're an Aquarius. Things like emotions and feelings are foreign to you!  :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/22/17 at 8:57 pm


Laying one's head on someone's shoulder. Trying to hold hands. Sounds like he likes you!  ;D

Also, you're an Aquarius. Things like emotions and feelings are foreign to you!  :o


LOL wow I don't even believe in that stuff but ain't that the truth ;D

He's a Cancer (his birthday is soon), and some of those traits sound right for him too. :o


Strengths: Tenacious, highly imaginative, loyal, emotional, sympathetic, persuasive
Weaknesses: Moody, pessimistic, suspicious, manipulative, insecure
Cancer likes: Art, home-based hobbies, relaxing near or in water, helping loved ones, a good meal with friends
Cancer dislikes: Strangers, any criticism of Mom, revealing of personal life


The "good meal with friends" explains the microwave LOL

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/22/17 at 9:17 pm


LOL wow I don't even believe in that stuff but ain't that the truth ;D

He's a Cancer (his birthday is soon), and some of those traits sound right for him too. :o


The "good meal with friends" explains the microwave LOL


Slapping his hand away is kind of funny!  ;D  ;D  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/22/17 at 9:33 pm


Slapping his hand away is kind of funny!  ;D  ;D  ;D


I learnt from the best!

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Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/22/17 at 9:42 pm


I learnt from the best!

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https://fellowshipofminds.files.wordpress.com/2017/05/melania-swats-away-trumps-hand.gif


Is the pope one real? Holy God!  :o  :o  :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/22/17 at 9:54 pm


Is the pope one real? Holy God!  :o  :o  :o


Unfortunately no ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/22/17 at 10:06 pm


Unfortunately no ;D


It looked borderline um.....homoerotic.  :-X  :-X  :-X

That's why I suspect that it might have been fake.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 10:15 pm

I'm a Cancer 8).  The Sun transits between the 90° to 120° of the zodiac and between the 90° and 120° of celestial longitude from today (June 22nd) and until July 22nd 8).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/22/17 at 10:17 pm


I'm a Cancer 8).  The sun started it's transit between the 90° to 120° of the zodiac and between the 90° and 120° of celestial longitude from today (June 22nd) and until July 22nd 8).


Are you very emotional and clingy/loyal too?  :-X

I'm reading this stuff and it's pretty interesting, even though I don't believe in it. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 10:23 pm


Are you very emotional and clingy/loyal too?  :-X

I'm reading this stuff and it's pretty interesting, even though I don't believe in it. ;D

I'm not emotional and clingy but I am loyal ;).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/22/17 at 10:30 pm


I'm not emotional and clingy but I am loyal ;).


Aquarius is better, sorry.  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/22/17 at 10:38 pm


Aquarius is better, sorry.  :-X


>:(  >:(  >:(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/22/17 at 10:48 pm


>:(  >:(  >:(


What's your sign?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 11:06 pm


What's your sign?

He's a Sagittarius (November 23 - December 21) since he was on born on November 29th.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 11:09 pm


Aquarius is better, sorry.  :-X

Excuse me?
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Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 1999 Baby, 2000s Kid on 06/22/17 at 11:15 pm

I'm 18, I've never had a girlfriend, and it honestly doesn't bother me.

A lot people have thought I'm asexual (I'm straight though) since I rarely show interest in anyone, it's just that I've never been interested in starting a relationship. It probably wouldn't work out with how my lifestyle is anyways, lol.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 11:18 pm


I'm 18, I've never had a girlfriend, and it honestly doesn't bother me.

A lot people have thought I'm asexual (I'm straight though) since I rarely show interest in anyone, it's just that I've never been interested in starting a relationship. It probably wouldn't work out with how my lifestyle is anyways, lol.

Interesting. Would you ever be interested in starting a relationship?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 1999 Baby, 2000s Kid on 06/22/17 at 11:29 pm


Interesting. Would you ever be interested in starting a relationship?


Yeah, eventually I want to start one, it's just something I'm not interested in currently if that makes sense.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 11:32 pm


Yeah, eventually I want to start one, it's just something I'm not interested in currently if that makes sense.

Of course that makes sense. Don't sweat it man :).

BTW, what's your ideal type of girl? (for when you do want to start a relationship)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/22/17 at 11:34 pm


What's your sign?


What Reign said!!!  :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 11:36 pm


What Reign said!!!  :o

I got your back! ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 1999 Baby, 2000s Kid on 06/22/17 at 11:42 pm


Of course that makes sense. Don't sweat it man :).

BTW, what's your ideal type of girl? (for when you do want to start a relationship)


I've never put too much thought into it, do you mean personality wise or physically? For personality, I guess I'd want someone who's intelligent, nice, but not to the point where she won't point out if I'm doing things she doesn't like, someone who could be my best friend, I guess.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 11:45 pm


I've never put too much thought into it, do you mean personality wise or physically? For personality, I guess I'd want someone who's intelligent, nice, but not to the point where she won't point out if I'm doing things she doesn't like, someone who could be my best friend, I guess.

Cool....a girl like that would be nice. Now, what's your ideal girl...physically?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/22/17 at 11:46 pm


I'm 18, I've never had a girlfriend, and it honestly doesn't bother me.

A lot people have thought I'm asexual (I'm straight though) since I rarely show interest in anyone, it's just that I've never been interested in starting a relationship. It probably wouldn't work out with how my lifestyle is anyways, lol.


When or if it eventually hit you, it a feel suckish. Like a void is opening in the left side of your chest.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 11:47 pm


When or if it eventually hit you, it a feel suckish. Like a void is opening in the left side of your chest.

Just today, I saw 3 attractive females and it sucked knowing that I'll never see them again.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/22/17 at 11:53 pm


Just today, I saw 3 attractive females and it sucked knowing that I'll never see them again.


I edited my post too late. Haha I meant the left chest where your heart is.

Yeah, dude. I was just in the kitchen and it struck me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 1999 Baby, 2000s Kid on 06/22/17 at 11:57 pm


Cool....a girl liek that would be nice. Now, what's your ideal girl...physically?


Lol, well, I'm not too sure. A girl with a pear shaped body? I'm not even too sure what that is, but if it's what I think it is, then that.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 11:58 pm


Lol, well, I'm not too sure. A girl with a pear shaped body? I'm not even too sure what that is, but if it's what I think it is, then that.

LOL, don't worry. I like girls with a pear shaped body as well.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/22/17 at 11:59 pm


I edited my post too late. Haha I meant the left chest where your heart is.

Yeah, dude. I was just in the kitchen and it struck me.

It strikes you like a freight train.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/23/17 at 12:14 am

It's because I can't find love that I pretty much threw away all of my serious life ambitions. I'm not motivated to do anything if I don't amount to anything special or heartwarming. It pains me to the bone to hear and read about how goddamn wonderful people's lives are because they're in a loving relationship, whereas I'm still left basically being told I'm rude, wrong, and into all the dumbest things. F*** my life, I don't want to live like this anymore, I'm hurt, I just want a woman to share my love with right now and not constantly feel like I'm wrong for this world and all my compassion amounts to nothing and I mean nothing and I have nothing to give I'm hurting pointless nothing right about me bad for me I wish I could find love help help help can't take it I'm at fault all the time just need love I'm so lonely and just want to share my heart and it laves me in tears all the time.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 12:22 am


It's because I can't find love that I pretty much threw away all of my serious life ambitions. I'm not motivated to do anything if I don't amount to anything special or heartwarming. It pains me to the bone to hear and read about how goddamn wonderful people's lives are because they're in a loving relationship, whereas I'm still left basically being told I'm rude, wrong, and into all the dumbest things. F*** my life, I don't want to live like this anymore, I'm hurt, I just want a woman to share my love with right now and not constantly feel like I'm wrong for this world and all my compassion amounts to nothing and I mean nothing and I have nothing to give I'm hurting pointless nothing right about me bad for me I wish I could find love help help help can't take it I'm at fault all the time just need love I'm so lonely and just want to share my heart and it laves me in tears all the time.

Well, that was very emotional and heartfelt. I have no words.

All I want you to know is that you are deeply loved by me and all of us on here. I find many of your "weird" and "quirky" interests to be cool and also a bit informative. Those other women just can't see how wonderful you are but don't let them get to you. Stay strong!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/23/17 at 12:32 am

All I want you to know is that you are deeply loved by me and all of us on here. I find many of your "weird" and "quirky" interests to be cool and also a bit informative. Those other women just can't see how wonderful you are but don't let them get to you. Stay strong!


I just need a woman who truly gets me, who sympathizes with my dreams and finds beautiful value in all that matters to me. The fact that that's so hard is just an inescapable drain on my self-confidence. I just wish I would melt into my lovergirl's arms and pour all my truest love to her whenever she needed it, and she would warm my heart in return whenever I myself feel broken and useless. All I can do is dream. </3

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 12:34 am


I just need a woman who truly gets me, who sympathizes with my dreams and finds beautiful value in all that matters to me. The fact that that's so hard is just an inescapable drain on my self-confidence. I just wish I would melt into my lovergirl's arms and pour all my truest love to her whenever she needed it, and she would warm my heart in return whenever I myself feel broken and useless. All I can do is dream. </3

Well, sometimes I feel the same way and I can only dream as well. It is painful and it definitely sucks but you have to continue and hope for the best. I have no doubts that you will find love someday :).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/23/17 at 7:49 am


You look fresh!  8)  8)  8)


and people say I don't look my age.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/23/17 at 7:56 am


Wow that's terrible. You shouldn't take that personally, she and her parents sound like horrible people. You dodged a bullet honestly.


Her parents liked me when I was at her house but when I went home for the evening after spending a couple of romantic hours at her house, I would always call her up on the phone to give her a "courtesy call" just to let her know I'm home safe, she would always tell me in private on the phone that my (her) parents told me that I need to break up with you just because I didn't live up to her financial status or that I wasn't the right one, her parents were backtalkers. >:(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/23/17 at 7:59 am


Just today, I saw 3 attractive females and it sucked knowing that I'll never see them again.


can you send them to me when you get a chance? ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/23/17 at 8:00 am


LOL, don't worry. I like girls with a pear shaped body as well.


I like girls with boobs and butt.  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 11:18 am


can you send them to me when you get a chance? ;)

Nah....they were too young for you :-X.


I like girls with boobs and butt.  ;D

Yes ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/23/17 at 12:00 pm


I just need a woman who truly gets me, who sympathizes with my dreams and finds beautiful value in all that matters to me. The fact that that's so hard is just an inescapable drain on my self-confidence. I just wish I would melt into my lovergirl's arms and pour all my truest love to her whenever she needed it, and she would warm my heart in return whenever I myself feel broken and useless. All I can do is dream. </3


I don't like saying this in the slightest but your posts are starting to be a bit unpleasant to read. There's a better way to express your situation. Find a coping method because its badass.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/23/17 at 12:31 pm


I don't like saying this in the slightest but your posts are starting to be a bit unpleasant to read. There's a better way to express your situation. Find a coping method because its badass.


Thanks, my entire life has been about coping with gut-wretching heartsickness for 13 straight years. Sorry my complaints are unacceptable.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/23/17 at 1:01 pm


Nah....they were too young for you :-X.
Yes ;D.


nobody's too young for me, I'm sure that I'll give them a good time and have them leave knowing they had a pleasant experience.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 1:03 pm


nobody's too young for me, I'm sure that I'll give therm a good time and have them leave knowing they had a pleasant experience.

Wait...are you serious? :o :o :o :-\\ :-\\ :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/23/17 at 1:12 pm


Wait...are you serious? :o :o :o :-\\ :-\\ :-\\


I was just kidding, I don't want to be "robbing the cradle" so they say.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 1:14 pm


I was just kidding, I don't want to be "robbing the cradle" so they say.

OH OK....thank goodness.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/23/17 at 1:54 pm


I don't like saying this in the slightest but your posts are starting to be a bit unpleasant to read. There's a better way to express your situation. Find a coping method because its badass.


You shouldn't shun her for writing about her feelings in a thread specifically meant for posts about these kinds of things. What she's written is no different than other posts here expressing their feelings of loneliness.


nobody's too young for me, I'm sure that I'll give them a good time and have them leave knowing they had a pleasant experience.


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Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 06/23/17 at 2:10 pm


I'm 18, I've never had a girlfriend, and it honestly doesn't bother me.

A lot people have thought I'm asexual (I'm straight though) since I rarely show interest in anyone, it's just that I've never been interested in starting a relationship. It probably wouldn't work out with how my lifestyle is anyways, lol.


I use to be like that. Until one day I realized I was getting older and felt lonely.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 2:25 pm

Honestly, I'm more interested in making friends than a partnership, right now.

With health issues and stuff, it's hard to keep up with friends, and even keep them.

But as I get healthier, I'm easier to be around  :-X and can keep up with people more.

I'll probably get lonely one day and want a partner, but for now, I just don't feel lonely, or sad, despite never having
been on a proper/real date with a lover.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/23/17 at 2:28 pm


I'm 18, I've never had a girlfriend, and it honestly doesn't bother me.

A lot people have thought I'm asexual (I'm straight though) since I rarely show interest in anyone, it's just that I've never been interested in starting a relationship. It probably wouldn't work out with how my lifestyle is anyways, lol.


That sounds like me when I was 18 (and even a bit now at 24) ;D


Lol, well, I'm not too sure. A girl with a pear shaped body? I'm not even too sure what that is, but if it's what I think it is, then that.


Now I'm just imaging a girl walking around in a pear costume in various sexual poses ;D


Just today, I saw 3 attractive females and it sucked knowing that I'll never see them again.


Hmm I don't understand. Do you know these people?


I just need a woman who truly gets me, who sympathizes with my dreams and finds beautiful value in all that matters to me. The fact that that's so hard is just an inescapable drain on my self-confidence. I just wish I would melt into my lovergirl's arms and pour all my truest love to her whenever she needed it, and she would warm my heart in return whenever I myself feel broken and useless. All I can do is dream. </3


This was really difficult to read, and I can only imagine the pain you must be going through. All I can say is relationships are not all sunshine and roses or "someone who sympathizes with my dreams and ". You need to first love and respect yourself in that way before you can demand it from others.  :( I know you'll find that love and security one day, from yourself and from the one you love. Keep fighting and stay strong Infinity.  :-\\

nobody's too young for me, I'm sure that I'll give them a good time and have them leave knowing they had a pleasant experience.


:o


I don't like saying this in the slightest but your posts are starting to be a bit unpleasant to read. There's a better way to express your situation. Find a coping method because its badass.


Hey now... This is a place to vent and post that sort of thing. You don't have to reply to it if you don't want to. It's a good thing that she and others feel comfortable enough to tell us something so personal. This is an accepting place. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 2:32 pm

I want friends with benefits, like their money, credit card, making a name for themselves, and their spirit essences. Just suck the soul out of them!  :-X  :-X  :-X  :-X  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 2:34 pm


Now I'm just imaging a girl walking around in a pear costume in various sexual poses ;D

Is that a joke or are you serious?


Hmm I don't understand. Do you know these people?

No, I don't know them. You don't have crushes on strangers? :o


This was really difficult to read, and I can only imagine the pain you must be going through. All I can say is relationships are not all sunshine and roses or "someone who sympathizes with my dreams and ". You need to first love and respect yourself in that way before you can demand it from others.  :( I know you'll find that love and security one day, from yourself and from the one you love. Keep fighting and stay strong Infinity.  :-\\

I agree with this wholeheartedly.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/23/17 at 2:35 pm


Honestly, I'm more interested in making friends than a partnership, right now.

With health issues and stuff, it's hard to keep up with friends, and even keep them.

But as I get healthier, I'm easier to be around  :-X and can keep up with people more.

I'll probably get lonely one day and want a partner, but for now, I just don't feel lonely, or sad, despite never having
been on a proper/real date with a lover.


That sounds a bit like me, and I love this mentality! :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 2:40 pm


That sounds a bit like me, and I love this mentality! :)


When I am ready for a relationship though I'm pretty intense about it. Not 'psycho, jealous, abusive' boyfriend intense, but I'm not too open on open marriages and things that are too flexible. But I am pretty vanilla when it comes to marriage and relationships! I'm not vanilla about sex though. ;D  ;D

I guess I'm kind of traditional when it comes to relationships, but very open and flexible about other stuff.  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/23/17 at 2:50 pm

This was really difficult to read, and I can only imagine the pain you must be going through. All I can say is relationships are not all sunshine and roses or "someone who sympathizes with my dreams and ". You need to first love and respect yourself in that way before you can demand it from others.  :( I know you'll find that love and security one day, from yourself and from the one you love. Keep fighting and stay strong Infinity.  :-\\

You know, I often am able to build up joy and self-esteem when I let go of the world and remind myself why I love the things I cherish, even if they're as uncool as S Club 7 and 80s dance-pop. However, people in the real world, especially the lesbian community as I've so far experienced it, are deviously skilled at obliterating the confidence I've mustered with their empty promises, indifferent treatment towards me, and ostracization of me for my retro, conventionally straight female/gay male traits combined with my non-sequitur intellect. It's pretty awful. Pride month for me has truly been anything but prideful for me personally.


You shouldn't shun her for writing about her feelings in a thread specifically meant for posts about these kinds of things. What she's written is no different than other posts here expressing their feelings of loneliness.

Hey now... This is a place to vent and post that sort of thing. You don't have to reply to it if you don't want to. It's a good thing that she and others feel comfortable enough to tell us something so personal. This is an accepting place. :)

I agree with this wholeheartedly.


Thank you so much for the support, I really needed it. I won't scold SpyroKev or anything because I know he's just trying to help, but he didn't realize just where my insecurities lay.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 2:56 pm


Thank you so much for the support, I really needed it. I won't scold SpyroKev or anything because I know he's just trying to help, but he didn't realize just where my insecurities lay.

You're very much welcome :).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 3:02 pm

When it comes to dating, I really don't care about the background of the girl. However, I contemplate if I should be in an interracial relationship everyday. Yes, the overwhelming majority of Americans today don't have any problem with it but there is still a stigma against it. I don't want to be viewed as a "race traitor" or "hating women of my own race" just because I like girls of pretty much all backgrounds. I don't want to put my partner or potential children in that situation with that burden and stigma on them. I don't know....am I over thinking this issue? :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/23/17 at 3:55 pm


When I am ready for a relationship though I'm pretty intense about it. Not 'psycho, jealous, abusive' boyfriend intense, but I'm not too open on open marriages and things that are too flexible. But I am pretty vanilla when it comes to marriage and relationships! I'm not vanilla about sex though. ;D  ;D

I guess I'm kind of traditional when it comes to relationships, but very open and flexible about other stuff.  :)


It's good to know what you want, then you can be focused and not waste your time.  8)

I'm actually very liberal when it comes to this stuff, since I see relationship as more like a partnership than a romantic/emotional thing. If a third person (whether that's a new partner, an escort/fling or what have you) only strengthens our partnership, then I'd be okay with it, if not actively pursue it. But I'm still conservative in that I'm cautious! I'm taking it on a case by case basis. :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/23/17 at 4:20 pm

I was talking to Infinity about relationships yesterday, and it sucks how no one gives us a chance all because they see what they don't like about us first while overlooking the qualities that we have. There are so many opportunies these people are missing out on that they might not get that chance ever again.


She just thought I was lame. Boy, how wrong was she! ::)
She sure was. ;D ;D ;D


Yeah but my father is 5' 10" and I wish that I got his height. My mother who is 5' 2" gave me more of her height (damn it genetics >:().
Oh, now I see. Yeah, that tends to happen with some people; however, don't beat yourself over it. At least you're not 5'0 or even 4'10.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 4:24 pm


Oh, now I see. Yeah, that tends to happen with some people; however, don't beat yourself over it. At least you're not 5'0 or even 4'10.

But in the eyes of a lot of women...5' 6" is basically the same as 5' 0" or 4' 10". Oh well...whatever.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/23/17 at 4:35 pm


But in the eyes of a lot of women...5' 6" is basically the same as 5' 0" or 4' 10". Oh well...whatever.
I think that's because they're unaware the American average height is 5'9, not 5'5.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 4:39 pm


I think that's because they're unaware the American average height is 5'9, not 5'5.

No, it's because I'm not at least 6' 0" tall.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 06/23/17 at 4:40 pm

I'm only 4'9

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 4:47 pm

I'm 7'9" tall.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/23/17 at 4:49 pm


You know, I often am able to build up joy and self-esteem when I let go of the world and remind myself why I love the things I cherish, even if they're as uncool as S Club 7 and 80s dance-pop. However, people in the real world, especially the lesbian community as I've so far experienced it, are deviously skilled at obliterating the confidence I've mustered with their empty promises, indifferent treatment towards me, and ostracization of me for my retro, conventionally straight female/gay male traits combined with my non-sequitur intellect. It's pretty awful. Pride month for me has truly been anything but prideful for me personally.


In the words of one of the wisest philosophers of our times (Taylor Swift): "haters gonna hate". You shouldn't care at all about what they have to say.
You're a VERY intelligent lady with unique and sometimes quirky interests, and if they can't appreciate you for who you are, well then, TOUGH. You should give zero thought to what those people have to say. If these people can't love you and appreciate you for who you are, when so many other people can, then they're the ones with the problem, not you. You're a good person Infinity, and if there's one thing everyone deserves, it's to be loved by themselves and close others. Don't let anyone take that away from you. Some constructive criticism can be okay and even necessary, but if people are actively telling you you're being selfish or rude for wanting to be loved, then they're not trying to understand or help you. I'm so sorry that you had to deal with people saying things like that.  :(



Thank you so much for the support, I really needed it. I won't scold SpyroKev or anything because I know he's just trying to help, but he didn't realize just where my insecurities lay.


It's good that you and others felt comfortable enough to share such personal feelings. We should all be able to feel comfortable in doing that and receiving support. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 4:51 pm

Futurepoke, how do you feel on this?


When it comes to dating, I really don't care about the background of the girl. However, I contemplate if I should be in an interracial relationship everyday. Yes, the overwhelming majority of Americans today don't have any problem with it but there is still a stigma against it. I don't want to be viewed as a "race traitor" or "hating women of my own race" just because I like girls of pretty much all backgrounds. I don't want to put my partner or potential children in that situation with that burden and stigma on them. I don't know....am I over thinking this issue? :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 4:52 pm


In the words of one of the wisest philosophers of our times (Taylor Swift): "haters gonna hate". You shouldn't care at all about what they have to say.
You're a VERY intelligent lady with unique and sometimes quirky interests, and if they can't appreciate you for who you are, well then, TOUGH. You should give zero thought to what those people have to say. If these people can't love you and appreciate you for who you are, when so many other people can, then they're the ones with the problem, not you. You're a good person Infinity, and if there's one thing everyone deserves, it's to be loved by themselves and close others. Don't let anyone take that away from you. Some constructive criticism can be okay and even necessary, but if people are actively telling you you're being selfish or rude for wanting to be loved, then they're not trying to understand or help you. I'm so sorry that you had to deal with people saying things like that.  :(


It's good that you and others felt comfortable enough to share such personal feelings. We should all be able to feel comfortable in doing that and receiving support. :)

I totally agree 100%..couldn't have said it better myself.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/23/17 at 4:53 pm


When it comes to dating, I really don't care about the background of the girl. However, I contemplate if I should be in an interracial relationship everyday. Yes, the overwhelming majority of Americans today don't have any problem with it but there is still a stigma against it. I don't want to be viewed as a "race traitor" or "hating women of my own race" just because I like girls of pretty much all backgrounds. I don't want to put my partner or potential children in that situation with that burden and stigma on them. I don't know....am I over thinking this issue? :-\\


You know they say things like that to discourage you from interracial dating, and you're only giving them what they want?  :-X You live in New York City! Making those farmers angry at the coastal liberal elite should fill you with pride. I say go get 'em!  :D

Your potential kids would be fine. I think they'll be joining an ever increasingly large group.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 5:02 pm

A lot of farmers are even too conservative for my taste. Like dude, lighten up! No one's going to jump you! It's also partly they grew up very sheltered too.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/23/17 at 5:03 pm


I totally agree 100%..couldn't have said it better myself.


Even the Taylor Swift stuff? ;D


A lot of farmers are even too conservative for my taste. Like dude, lighten up! No one's going to jump you! It's also partly they grew up very sheltered too.


I didn't mean it literally with the farmer stuff. It's true that the more rural and isolated areas tend to not interact with people of different ethnicities and tend to be more xenophobic though.  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 5:05 pm

Some young farm guys are very buff and attractive though.  :-[
Blue eyes and hard pecs. Um...

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 5:07 pm


Even the Taylor Swift stuff? ;D

No, lol. The rest of your comment ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 5:08 pm


Even the Taylor Swift stuff? ;D

I didn't mean it literally with the farmer stuff. It's true that the more rural and isolated areas tend to not interact with people of different ethnicities and tend to be more xenophobic though.  :-X


I was just having dirty thoughts.  :-X  :-X  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 5:09 pm


You know they say things like that to discourage you from interracial dating, and you're only giving them what they want?  :-X You live in New York City! Making those farmers angry at the coastal liberal elite should fill you with pride. I say go get 'em!  :D

Your potential kids would be fine. I think they'll be joining an ever increasingly large group.

Well, thanks for your answer. I'll try to ignore those people.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/23/17 at 5:10 pm


Some young farm guys are very buff and attractive though.  :-[
Blue eyes and hard pecs. Um...


I don't know if this is a Toronto/Hamilton only saying, because no one online seems to know what I'm talking about, but over here, saying "He/she'd bang a farmer" is a way of saying that someone has no standards. ;D

I'd bang a lumberjack though.  :-[

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 5:12 pm


I don't know if this is a Toronto/Hamilton only saying, because no one online seems to know what I'm talking about, but over here, saying "He/she'd bang a farmer" is a way of saying that someone has no standards. ;D

I'd bang a lumberjack though.  :-[


;D  ;D  ;D  :(  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 5:16 pm

Most people on this site are at least 18.  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/23/17 at 5:16 pm


No, it's because I'm not at least 6' 0" tall.
Well they need to know that most guys are not even 6'0. In fact, it's actually less common for men to be over that height.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 5:49 pm


Most people on this site are at least 18.  :(

98% of the people on this site are 20 and over.


Well they need to know that most guys are not even 6'0. In fact, it's actually less common for men to be over that height.

What you're saying is true but that doesn't mean that they care.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 5:58 pm


98% of the people on this site are 20 and over.
What you're saying is true but that doesn't mean that they care.


Yeah, I suspect that.  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 6:02 pm

The average height for an American woman is 5'4". You should be glad you're at least taller than the average woman. I know that doesn't necessarily help though.  :(

Average American man is somewhere between 5'9" and 5'10".

The three personality traits 'popular guys' had in high school, that researchers gave, that made a guy popular was...

1.Stature (height and bigness)
2. Athleticism
3. Humor

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: DesiredUsernameWasTaken on 06/23/17 at 6:07 pm

I'm 19 years of age, heterosexual, and I have never once my life had any form of romantic interaction with any girl at all.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 6:09 pm


I'm 19 years of age, heterosexual, and I have never once my life had any form of romantic interaction with any girl at all.

I'm the same....only a year younger.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 6:11 pm


Yeah, I suspect that.  8)

The youngest active person on this site is Sir Rothchild, who is 17 (born 12/21/99).


The average height for an American woman is 5'4". You should be glad you're at least taller than the average woman. I know that doesn't necessarily help though.  :(

Average American man is somewhere between 5'9" and 5'10".

The three personality traits 'popular guys' had in high school, that researchers gave, that made a guy popular was...

1.Stature (height and bigness)
2. Athleticism
3. Humor

There it is :-\\.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: DesiredUsernameWasTaken on 06/23/17 at 6:12 pm


I'm the same....only a year younger.


To tell you the truth, I don't really want a relationship, and probably never will. I think I might be aromantic.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 6:15 pm


To tell you the truth, I don't really want a relationship, and probably never will. I think I might be aromantic.

Well, if that's who you are and what you want then...you do you.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: DesiredUsernameWasTaken on 06/23/17 at 6:18 pm


The youngest active person on this site is Sir Rothchild, who is 17 (born 12/21/99).
There it is :-\\.


Wait, is Sir Rothchild the same person as "NewYorkRaven"? I thought he left the forum.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 6:20 pm


Wait, is Sir Rothchild the same person as "NewYorkRaven"? I thought he left the forum.

Yes, they are the same person. He came back like a few days after.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 6:27 pm


The youngest active person on this site is Sir Rothchild, who is 17 (born 12/21/99).
There it is :-\\.



Also, don't forget, women (and people in general) can sense insecurity. It's almost like an animal sixth sense.
I'm not going to kid you and say that height, and build, doesn't matter. That is delusional. But trust me, confidence will go a long way with women. I have a friend who is only 5'7", but has a really hot girlfriend. I mean hot as in at least an 8/10!

Women find macho men attractive. Confidence is very attractive. I've seen guys that look like goons get dates by decent looking women! Good luck.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: DesiredUsernameWasTaken on 06/23/17 at 6:32 pm


Well, if that's who you are and what you want then...you do you.


Why, does it seem odd for someone to not want to date?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 6:34 pm



Also, don't forget, women (and people in general) can sense insecurity. It's almost like an animal sixth sense.
I'm not going to kid you and say that height, and build, doesn't matter. That is delusional. But trust me, confidence will go a long way with women. I have a friend who is only 5'7", but has a really hot girlfriend. I mean hot as in at least an 8/10!

Women find macho men attractive. Confidence is very attractive. I've seen guys that look like goons get dates by decent looking women! Good luck.

I have confidence (sometimes) but keep getting rejected.


Why, does it seem odd for someone to not want to date?

I don't have any problem with it. I said "you do you"....I didn't mean anything bad by it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/23/17 at 6:40 pm


I have confidence (sometimes) but keep getting rejected.
I don't have any problem with it. I said "you do you"....I didn't mean anything bad by it.



:D  :D  :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: DesiredUsernameWasTaken on 06/23/17 at 6:41 pm


I have confidence (sometimes) but keep getting rejected.
I don't have any problem with it. I said "you do you"....I didn't mean anything bad by it.


This might seem completely random, but I once read this article someone wrote and I was quite saddened by it. What would you say to the guy who write this?
http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Have-Never-Had-A-Girlfriend/743685

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/23/17 at 6:47 pm


This might seem completely random, but I once read this article someone wrote and I was quite saddened by it. What would you say to the guy who write this?
http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Have-Never-Had-A-Girlfriend/743685

Well, I'm the same as him except that I don't have Asperger's syndrome. I would say that "Woman just don't know what they missed out on".

The part I connected with the most was this part:

"I’ve tried numerous Internet dating sites (7 years), but never even had 1 person look at my profile (maybe I am ugly). What does a woman want from a guy? I mean I don’t smoke, drink or do drugs – I never have and I never will. I’m a Christian and I don’t consider myself to be unattractive, nor do I have bad hygiene. I’m kind and considerate to everyone and yet, I have never had a girlfriend. I’ve been told that I’m a very funny, extremely intelligent and that I’m very nice and polite, but what good is that?"

With the exception of the dating sites experience, I'm exactly the same and have been told the same things :( :( :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/23/17 at 7:02 pm

On the age gap topic, I'm 26 but I'd honestly let a younger girl date me depending on how much she appeals to me. I'd definitely make sure if she really wants this though. Then, she can have the rights to my status easily. If she suddenly decide to part ways, she can. All I know is, I like to experiment.

Your only what you make of your self.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/23/17 at 11:56 pm


Is that a joke or are you serious?


This is the first image that came to my head when he said "pear shaped body"

http://images.buycostumes.com/mgen/pear-costume-for-adults-bc-808599a.jpg?zm=1600,1600,1,0,0


No, I don't know them. You don't have crushes on strangers? :


I think a few are hot but I'm not sure if I get depressed. You can't bang every person you pass!



Also, don't forget, women (and people in general) can sense insecurity. It's almost like an animal sixth sense.
I'm not going to kid you and say that height, and build, doesn't matter. That is delusional. But trust me, confidence will go a long way with women. I have a friend who is only 5'7", but has a really hot girlfriend. I mean hot as in at least an 8/10!

Women find macho men attractive. Confidence is very attractive. I've seen guys that look like goons get dates by decent looking women! Good luck.


I know plenty of people with Reignman-kun's height who have relationships. It's the farthest thing from impossible. Keep trying!


Well, I'm the same as him except that I don't have Asperger's syndrome. I would say that "Woman just don't know what they missed out on".

The part I connected with the most was this part:

"I’ve tried numerous Internet dating sites (7 years), but never even had 1 person look at my profile (maybe I am ugly). What does a woman want from a guy? I mean I don’t smoke, drink or do drugs – I never have and I never will. I’m a Christian and I don’t consider myself to be unattractive, nor do I have bad hygiene. I’m kind and considerate to everyone and yet, I have never had a girlfriend. I’ve been told that I’m a very funny, extremely intelligent and that I’m very nice and polite, but what good is that?"

With the exception of the dating sites experience, I'm exactly the same and have been told the same things :( :( :(.


Try online dating and report back.  :-X



On the age gap topic, I'm 26 but I'd honestly let a younger girl date me depending on how much she appeals to me. I'd definitely make sure if she really wants this though. Then, she can have the rights to my status easily. If she suddenly decide to part ways, she can. All I know is, I like to experiment.

Your only what you make of your self.




My friend, er, partner is 19 (almost 20) and I'm 24 and the age gap is painfully noticeable sometimes. He's done a lot of maturing over the past year, though. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/24/17 at 12:00 am

You guys should watch Fast Times at Ridgemont High. Damone has the best advice!

KZSPYdJxCVc

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/24/17 at 12:05 am

Advice #2 is complete jail bait.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 12:07 am




This is the first image that came to my head when he said "pear shaped body"

http://images.buycostumes.com/mgen/pear-costume-for-adults-bc-808599a.jpg?zm=1600,1600,1,0,0

LOL, you're funny ;D.
Here's an example of a pear shaped woman:

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/45/78/40/457840c1389c1fea8ac0c342fc24b1e2--beautiful-curves-beautiful-women.jpg


I think a few are hot but I'm not sure if I get depressed. You can't bang every person you pass!

I don't want to bang everyone I pass and I don't get depressed but sometimes I get a painful feeling called loneliness :(.


I know plenty of people with Reignman-kun's height who have relationships. It's the farthest thing from impossible. Keep trying!

Not impossible but very, very hard.


Try online dating and report back.  :-X

The guy tried it for 7 years and it didn't work. Also, I'm way too shy for that.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/24/17 at 12:09 am


Advice #2 is complete jail bait.



http://fampz.abroaderperspect.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/chris-hansen.jpg


The guy tried it for 7 years and it didn't work. Also, I'm way too shy for that.


Don't let these extreme stories on the net psych you out. You're still so young and got an entire life ahead of you. Just try, try, try. Better yourself for you and then, when you're happy with who you see in the mirror, people will see your confidence and be attracted to you.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 12:12 am


Don't let these extreme stories on the net psych you out. You're still so young and got an entire life ahead of you. Just try, try, try. Better yourself for you and then, when you're happy with who you see in the mirror, people will see your confidence and be attracted to you.

People told him the same thing and he's still single (now in his 50s) :-X.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/24/17 at 12:17 am


People told him the same thing and he's still single (now in his 50s) :-X.


But that's just one guy out of millions on the planet. There are people who were lonely at first and ended up finding someone. Don't give up, yet. :P

Think about all the things he didn't post, too. I know he said he has Aspergers that only tells you a little bit. Maybe he's really lazy and unmotivated? What if his only passion is god? There are tons of unattractive traits he might have that he didn't write about; some people just aren't very self-aware. It sounds like he spent his 20's hoping a girl would magically land on his lap and didn't try and work for it until his 30's and 40's when he desperately turned to internet dating in hopes of finding someone to marry. In the end, he didn't really elaborate on who he is as a person and it doesn't shine much light his problems. Don't let it get to you, these are extreme cases. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/24/17 at 12:19 am


LOL, you're funny ;D.
Here's an example of a pear shaped woman:

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/45/78/40/457840c1389c1fea8ac0c342fc24b1e2--beautiful-curves-beautiful-women.jpg


It's the Iggy Azalea body :o Is she wearing a corset?


I don't want to bang everyone I pass and I don't get depressed but sometimes I get a painful feeling called loneliness :(.


Oh I understand now.


Not impossible but very, very hard.
The guy tried it for 7 years and it didn't work. Also, I'm way too shy for that.


Don't be shy, man. You only have one shot in life, you can't be too shy to live it!  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 12:20 am


But that's just one guy out of millions on the planet. There are people who were lonely at first and ended up finding someone. Don't give up, yet. :P

Think about all the things he didn't post, too. I know he said he has Aspergers that only tells you a little bit. Maybe he's really lazy and unmotivated? What if his only passion is god? There are tons of unattractive traits he might have that he didn't write about; some people just aren't very self-aware. It sounds like he spent his 20's hoping a girl would magically land on his lap and didn't try and work for it until his 30's and 40's when he desperately turned to internet dating in hopes of finding someone to marry. In the end, he didn't really elaborate on who he is as a person and it doesn't shine much light his problems. Don't let it get to you, these are extreme cases. :)

Nah man....I think that he was pretty truthful. Also, like I said....I'm too shy for that.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/24/17 at 12:24 am


Nah man....I think that he was pretty truthful. Also, like I said....I'm too shy for that.


My point was that when I read the post, I didn't feel like really elaborated on what he's like as a person. If you're feel you're too shy then the only thing to do is work on it! Concurring those fears is the only way, dude. There is no easy way out, but if you're willing to do the work to be a more confident person the end results are very much worth it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 12:25 am




It's the Iggy Azalea body :o Is she wearing a corset?

Um....I guess. Not every pear shaped woman is as voluptuous as Iggy or the woman I showed though. The woman I showed is not wearing a corset. I can explain to you why they are deemed "pear shaped".


Oh I understand now.

Great!


Don't be shy, man. You only have one shot in life, you can't be too shy to live it!  :-X

It's mostly my personality.....I'm not nearly as shy as I was as a kid but I can't do much about it. Also, online dating is just not for me (but I won't rule it out)....despite my age In more traditional when it comes to dating.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 12:27 am


My point was that when I read the post, I didn't feel like really elaborated on what he's like as a person. If you're feel you're too shy then the only thing to do is work on it! Concurring those fears is the only way, dude. There is no easy way out, but if you're willing to do the work to be a more confident person the end results are very much worth it.

I break out of my shyness and get embarrassed and rejected....all the time :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/24/17 at 12:28 am


I break out of my shyness and get embarrassed and rejected....all the time :(.


Well... What are some examples? Like, how exactly do you approach these kinds of situations?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 12:31 am


Well... What are some examples? Like, how exactly do you approach these kinds of situations?

In 10th grade, I wrote to a crush that I liked her and if we could go out....all she did was say "That's so sweet" and gave me a hug. No I'm not forcing anyone to like me or date me but similar situations happend 2 more times later on :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/24/17 at 12:45 am


In 10th grade, I wrote to a crush that I liked her and if we could go out....all she did was say "That's so sweet" and gave me a hug. No I'm not forcing anyone to like me or date me but similar situations happend 2 more times later on :(.


https://unobtainium13.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/mike-damone.png?w=486

Hmmmm....

There are better ways to go about getting the ladies. :P Next time you talk to a girl you like, just appear confident and friendly. Try not to let on that you think she's the best looking girl in the room, even if she is, but appear interested in what she's saying. Allow her to talk about herself a lot (which is good for date ideas if she mentions movies or restaurants she likes!) and pay attention to what she says. Say she's really into... I dunno, comic books, right? If that's something you know a lot about, you can share your knowledge and it shows you're both passionate about your interests and that you guys have things in common. Just remember Damone's advice, never let off how much you like a girl right off the bat! It might make you look kinda clingy and/or weird her out. The more you guys hang out and the more she seems receptive to you is when you start making the real commitments and letting her know how you feel. If you wanna ask her out on a date after you're done having a conversation, say things like "so, I was just wondering if you're free next weekend. I heard they're playing this cool movie at the theater" or something similar. It's worth a shot!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 12:58 am


https://unobtainium13.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/mike-damone.png?w=486

Hmmmm....

There are better ways to go about getting the ladies. :P Next time you talk to a girl you like, just appear confident and friendly. Try not to let on that you think she's the best looking girl in the room, even if she is, but appear interested in what she's saying. Allow her to talk about herself a lot (which is good for date ideas if she mentions movies or restaurants she likes!) and pay attention to what she says. Say she's really into... I dunno, comic books, right? If that's something you know a lot about, you can share your knowledge and it shows you're both passionate about your interests and that you guys have things in common. Just remember Damone's advice, never let off how much you like a girl right off the bat! It might make you look kinda clingy and/or weird her out. The more you guys hang out and the more she seems receptive to you is when you start making the real commitments and letting her know how you feel. If you wanna ask her out on a date after you're done having a conversation, say things like "so, I was just wondering if you're free next weekend. I heard they're playing this cool movie at the theater" or something similar. It's worth a shot!

Nice advice....thanks. I'll potentially try it in the future.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 06/24/17 at 1:13 am


In the words of one of the wisest philosophers of our times (Taylor Swift): "haters gonna hate". You shouldn't care at all about what they have to say.
You're a VERY intelligent lady with unique and sometimes quirky interests, and if they can't appreciate you for who you are, well then, TOUGH. You should give zero thought to what those people have to say. If these people can't love you and appreciate you for who you are, when so many other people can, then they're the ones with the problem, not you. You're a good person Infinity, and if there's one thing everyone deserves, it's to be loved by themselves and close others. Don't let anyone take that away from you. Some constructive criticism can be okay and even necessary, but if people are actively telling you you're being selfish or rude for wanting to be loved, then they're not trying to understand or help you. I'm so sorry that you had to deal with people saying things like that.  :(


It's virtually my entire "dating pool" that treats me like a rotten turd. I shouldn't have to care what these jackasses tell me, but I NEED a girlfriend. NEED one. Otherwise, I'm just miserable. I'm also far too unlucky to have anything that starts positively end up working out; either the woman is fake or fate just keeps me away from her.

It's good that you and others felt comfortable enough to share such personal feelings. We should all be able to feel comfortable in doing that and receiving support. :)


I just wish my mood didn't waver up and down so much. Right now, I feel completely hideous once again, reminded of how normal and standard it is for other people to have found love by this point in their lives, then spewing those venomous words "my boyfriend/girlfriend" casually in front of me, not realizing that they immediately ruin my mood just by hearing them. All I can ever think about is how they're so lucky to have a romantic partner, whereas I'm beaten to a pulp for even wishing I had a girlfriend.

My life is a rotten waste, clearly I'm unwelcome and unfit for this planet and I'll never be able to find romance. I'm just despised, unwelcome, manipulated, and lampooned for the stupid loser faced failure at life I am in every respect. I really don't have any way out.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/24/17 at 1:42 am


Nice advice....thanks. I'll potentially try it in the future.


You definitely should!


It's virtually my entire "dating pool" that treats me like a rotten turd. I shouldn't have to care what these jackasses tell me, but I NEED a girlfriend. NEED one. Otherwise, I'm just miserable. I'm also far too unlucky to have anything that starts positively end up working out; either the woman is fake or fate just keeps me away from her.

I just wish my mood didn't waver up and down so much. Right now, I feel completely hideous once again, reminded of how normal and standard it is for other people to have found love by this point in their lives, then spewing those venomous words "my boyfriend/girlfriend" casually in front of me, not realizing that they immediately ruin my mood just by hearing them. All I can ever think about is how they're so lucky to have a romantic partner, whereas I'm beaten to a pulp for even wishing I had a girlfriend.

My life is a rotten waste, clearly I'm unwelcome and unfit for this planet and I'll never be able to find romance. I'm just despised, unwelcome, manipulated, and lampooned for the stupid loser faced failure at life I am in every respect. I really don't have any way out.


It's just not right. Everyone deserves a chance at love, especially someone intelligent and thoughtful like yourself.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/24/17 at 2:02 am

Why don't you all buy a pony? It'll help with all your loneliness.

https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRll0by3mw-Sj9cbE776R9sfsyrKcmXJAJwnVEFOOUMt0saNB3k

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/24/17 at 9:48 am


LOL, you're funny ;D.
Here's an example of a pear shaped woman:

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/45/78/40/457840c1389c1fea8ac0c342fc24b1e2--beautiful-curves-beautiful-women.jpg


I literally saved this image as a long time ago. Haha Also just to put this out there, I'd date a girl with a stiffed ankle, eternally crippled to an extend if she appeals to me. I seen a few in my life and its sexy to me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 10:34 am


I literally saved this image as a long time ago. Haha Also just to put this out there, I'd date a girl with a stiffed ankle, eternally crippled to an extend if she appeals to me. I seen a few in my life and its sexy to me.

I don't even know what a "stiffled ankle" is. Anyways....I'll just keep quiet about the rest of the stuff you said :-X.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 06/24/17 at 10:36 am

TBH, I feel like your problems with dating are my problems with socialization.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 11:30 am


TBH, I feel like your problems with dating are my problems with socialization.

WDYM? You don't have good social skills?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/24/17 at 1:29 pm

I always liked girls with slopey shoulders and bone wings.  :o  :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/24/17 at 2:25 pm


I don't even know what a "stiffled ankle" is. Anyways....I'll just keep quiet about the rest of the stuff you said :-X.


Limping is the right word for it. This was the only specific image I could find. See how she has difficulties standing? Now just imagine an older woman like this.

http://eorthopod.com/sites/default/files/images/child_limping_intro01.jpg

At certain times, girls like this need people to hold them by their arm as they walk unevenly. Woman like this that appeal to me are incredibly beautiful. Their rare as sh!t though. Haha

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 2:31 pm


Limping is the right word for it. This was the only specific image I could find. See how she has difficulties standing? Now just imagine an older woman like this.

http://eorthopod.com/sites/default/files/images/child_limping_intro01.jpg

At certain times, girls like this need people to hold them by their arm as they walk unevenly. Woman like this that appeal to me are incredibly beautiful. Their rare as sh!t though. Haha

Um....OK :-\\.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/24/17 at 2:38 pm


Um....OK :-\\.


Don't be down, man. That was just the only exact image I know of.

We all different attractions.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 3:01 pm


Don't be down, man. That was just the only exact image I know of.

We all different attractions.

Did I say anything other than "Um....OK"? No, I didn't. Anyways, people can find certain attractions to be weird (it's an opinion).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/24/17 at 3:25 pm


Did I say anything other than "Um....OK"? No, I didn't. Anyways, people can find certain attractions to be weird (it's an opinion).


Isn't this a no judge zone? Your emoji gave me a different impression.

Not being a smart ass, man. I'm already depressed. I don't need to be feeling dissed right now.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 3:51 pm


Isn't this a no judge zone? Your emoji gave me a different impression.

Who was judging you? You're depressed so you're being a bit sensitive.


Not being a smart ass, man. I'm already depressed. I don't need to be feeling dissed right now.

Who dissed you? I literally just said "Um....OK". The emoticon means "Undecided" not "Disgusted" or anything else.

Anyways, why are you depressed? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/24/17 at 4:20 pm


Who was judging you? You're depressed so you're being a bit sensitive.
Who dissed you? I literally just said "Um....OK". The emoticon means "Undecided" not "Disgusted" or anything else.

Anyways, why are you depressed? ???


*Shakes my head* There you go again, ReignMan.

I thought you caught on to the obviousness of it in my first post in this topic. Yes. I'm depressed as f but I know how to handle it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Sir Rothchild on 06/24/17 at 4:36 pm


I thought you caught on to the obviousness of it in my first post in this topic. Yes. I'm depressed as f but I know how to handle it.


All ReignMan wanted to know is why are you depressed. It's like you're hiding something, unless it's against your privacy.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/24/17 at 5:28 pm


*Shakes my head* There you go again, ReignMan.

There I go again with what?


I thought you caught on to the obviousness of it in my first post in this topic. Yes. I'm depressed as f but I know how to handle it.

I didn't know that you were depressed....I thought that you just feel lonely sometimes. There's no need to ne depressed.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/24/17 at 6:37 pm


All ReignMan wanted to know is why are you depressed. It's like you're hiding something, unless it's against your privacy.


This post is hard to respond to. I'm not hiding anything. If I was, I told you. I'm depressed.

There I go again with what?

My mistake, man. I misunderstood.

I didn't know that you were depressed....I thought that you just feel lonely sometimes. There's no need to ne depressed.


L'll be alright.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 06/25/17 at 6:31 am


TBH, I feel like your problems with dating are my problems with socialization.
I mean, like, everyone else here in general who's ranting.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/25/17 at 7:35 am


OH OK....thank goodness.


The only girl I dated was the one that was younger than me just by a few years.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/25/17 at 7:37 am


That sounds like me when I was 18 (and even a bit now at 24) ;D

Now I'm just imaging a girl walking around in a pear costume in various sexual poses ;D

Hmm I don't understand. Do you know these people?

This was really difficult to read, and I can only imagine the pain you must be going through. All I can say is relationships are not all sunshine and roses or "someone who sympathizes with my dreams and ". You need to first love and respect yourself in that way before you can demand it from others.  :( I know you'll find that love and security one day, from yourself and from the one you love. Keep fighting and stay strong Infinity.  :-\\
:o

Hey now... This is a place to vent and post that sort of thing. You don't have to reply to it if you don't want to. It's a good thing that she and others feel comfortable enough to tell us something so personal. This is an accepting place. :)


Me too.  ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/25/17 at 7:38 am


I want friends with benefits, like their money, credit card, making a name for themselves, and their spirit essences. Just suck the soul out of them!  :-X  :-X  :-X  :-X  :-X


have sex for one night then leave them, good idea. O0

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/25/17 at 7:40 am


No, it's because I'm not at least 6' 0" tall.


I'm 6 ft tall.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/25/17 at 7:42 am


Well they need to know that most guys are not even 6'0. In fact, it's actually less common for men to be over that height.


I'm 6 ft. tall.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/25/17 at 7:43 am


I'm 19 years of age, heterosexual, and I have never once my life had any form of romantic interaction with any girl at all.


Why not? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/25/17 at 7:45 am




This is the first image that came to my head when he said "pear shaped body"

http://images.buycostumes.com/mgen/pear-costume-for-adults-bc-808599a.jpg?zm=1600,1600,1,0,0

I think a few are hot but I'm not sure if I get depressed. You can't bang every person you pass!

I know plenty of people with Reignman-kun's height who have relationships. It's the farthest thing from impossible. Keep trying!

Try online dating and report back.  :-X


My friend, er, partner is 19 (almost 20) and I'm 24 and the age gap is painfully noticeable sometimes. He's done a lot of maturing over the past year, though. ;D


or speed dating.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/25/17 at 7:48 am


I don't even know what a "stiffled ankle" is. Anyways....I'll just keep quiet about the rest of the stuff you said :-X.


;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/25/17 at 7:48 am


I always liked girls with slopey shoulders and bone wings.  :o  :o


I like girls with boobs and butt. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 06/25/17 at 9:39 am


TBH, I feel like your problems with dating are my problems with socialization.
What do I need a social life for? I just need proof that not everyone in the world is like the people in my past. And TBH, if you were to tell me, "OMG, like, not everyone in the world is like the grotsky little byotches you used to know," it wouldn't be enough, I need actual concrete proof. TBH, I'm talking about it here because I see the similarities between people wanting a love life and wanting a social life. Hell, I even listen to songs about this kind of theme because I see the similarities to my own situation despite not being quite the same, as you could see here. http://www.inthe00s.com/index.php?topic=49247.0

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 06/25/17 at 11:47 am

why do you need proof?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/25/17 at 12:40 pm


It's virtually my entire "dating pool" that treats me like a rotten turd. I shouldn't have to care what these jackasses tell me, but I NEED a girlfriend. NEED one. Otherwise, I'm just miserable. I'm also far too unlucky to have anything that starts positively end up working out; either the woman is fake or fate just keeps me away from her.

My life is a rotten waste, clearly I'm unwelcome and unfit for this planet and I'll never be able to find romance. I'm just despised, unwelcome, manipulated, and lampooned for the stupid loser faced failure at life I am in every respect. I really don't have any way out.


I see why you need a partner, but you definitely don't need those people as your partners. If they're not criticizing you for one thing, they'll be criticizing you for another, that's just how some people are. Someone like you shouldn't be changing for people like them. You deserve better. You shouldn't have to feel the way you do, it's very difficult to read you talking about yourself like that. You're a great person and I want you to know that. :(


I just wish my mood didn't waver up and down so much. Right now, I feel completely hideous once again, reminded of how normal and standard it is for other people to have found love by this point in their lives, then spewing those venomous words "my boyfriend/girlfriend" casually in front of me, not realizing that they immediately ruin my mood just by hearing them. All I can ever think about is how they're so lucky to have a romantic partner, whereas I'm beaten to a pulp for even wishing I had a girlfriend.


I think this more or less stems from the former problem. You hear that other people are doing well, so you think there's something wrong with you, when there really isn't. You're a very likeable person. I hope one day you realize that, and that you also find that someone else who realizes that.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/25/17 at 12:43 pm


Nice advice....thanks. I'll potentially try it in the future.


Mess.


I always liked girls with slopey shoulders and bone wings.  :o  :o


Wings?

Bone wings?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/25/17 at 2:28 pm


What do I need a social life for? I just need proof that not everyone in the world is like the people in my past. And TBH, if you were to tell me, "OMG, like, not everyone in the world is like the grotsky little byotches you used to know," it wouldn't be enough, I need actual concrete proof. TBH, I'm talking about it here because I see the similarities between people wanting a love life and wanting a social life. Hell, I even listen to songs about this kind of theme because I see the similarities to my own situation despite not being quite the same, as you could see here. http://www.inthe00s.com/index.php?topic=49247.0

Why are you replying to yourself? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/25/17 at 2:29 pm


I like girls with boobs and butt. ;D

90sBreath is a gay man and his comment was a joke ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/25/17 at 2:33 pm


90sBreath is a gay man and his comment was a joke ;D.


I was referring to women, sorry but I don't swing that way. ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/25/17 at 2:35 pm


90sBreath is a gay man and his comment was a joke ;D.


You caught it!  ;D  ;D  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/25/17 at 2:36 pm


Mess.

Wings?

Bone wings?


Uh oh.  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/25/17 at 2:36 pm


I was referring to women, sorry but I don't swing that way. ::)

Yeah I know that. I was just telling you that 90sBreath is gay and his comment was obviously a joke.


You caught it!  ;D  ;D  ;D

I did ;) ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: DesiredUsernameWasTaken on 06/25/17 at 2:47 pm


Why not? ???


Lack of interest for the most part. I always thought dating and romance was overrated.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/25/17 at 4:36 pm


have sex for one night then leave them, good idea. O0


Oh wow, Howard. What a jerk you are! ::) ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 06/25/17 at 9:37 pm

This video made me angry. People like this are ignorant fools. If anyone were to openly insult me for my lack of dating or sexual experience I would punch them in the face.

PBiPcKfMmfw

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/25/17 at 10:07 pm


This video made me angry. People like this are ignorant fools. If anyone were to openly insult me for my lack of dating or sexual experience I would punch them in the face.


Hmm, I thought that was a light hearted video and not too insulting. They dissed him for liking anime, but him being a nerd and shy was supposed to elicit a sympathetic response, I think.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/25/17 at 10:09 pm

I need to work on my breathy, feminine, and sexy, Marilyn Monroe voice, for the mens to come to my yard.  http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Ripley on 06/26/17 at 3:18 am


We met around 1997 but didn't start dating until 2 years later.

So you've actually been together a really long time. Cool 😊

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Ripley on 06/26/17 at 3:19 am


Oh yeah, she's only 4 months older than me.

If you're wondering, we meet when I was hanging around this record store and was wearing a Screeching Weasel shirt. She came up to me and we started talking about music and different bands we liked. I thought she was really hot but was too nervous to say anything so we stayed friends for a few years until I finally made a move two years later. :P

I believe the solution here is to give Fire Emblem away for free.

I like how you two met!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Ripley on 06/26/17 at 3:27 am


Happily married for over 35 years, and enjoying every minute of it!

Awesome!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Ripley on 06/26/17 at 3:42 am

It would take a while to go into details of my past relationships and I'm not saying how many I have dated nor have slept with. But for years, off and on, I was a player. At least I was honest with people about it. Some I got with on more than one occasion. And yes there were some I hardly knew or didn't know. You can say that I was a sllut if you want, I don't care. But I wasn't a hooker or anything. I just love sex lol. I'm not ashamed of the way I was though. As far as seeking a relationship, I do want one. But I have high standards and I'm not ashamed lol. Aside from that, around here where I live most people are a holes and I don't go to bars and stuff. So.... But someday I will find someone. I want marriage. I am unsure about kids but there is a strong possibility that I can't even have them anyway. 😕

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/26/17 at 7:31 am


Lack of interest for the most part. I always thought dating and romance was overrated.


just watch porn and stay single  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/26/17 at 7:33 am


Oh wow, Howard. What a jerk you are! ::) ;D



But why get tied down, no commitments nothing whatsoever, just love them and leave them.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/26/17 at 9:05 am


Lack of interest for the most part. I always thought dating and romance was overrated.


Romance isn't overrated. It feels good as f.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Ripley on 06/26/17 at 9:29 am



But why get tied down, no commitments nothing whatsoever, just love them and leave them.

Just be honest and tell them it's just for sex. It's the right thing to do.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Ripley on 06/26/17 at 9:30 am


Romance isn't overrated. It feels good as f.

Walking on the beach and gazing at the stars are very romantic. 💙

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/26/17 at 1:31 pm


Just be honest and tell them it's just for sex. It's the right thing to do.


There's websites for that option, it's where you can send an email to them requesting just for the sex, they come over and you bang them for the amount of money they want for the sex, you pay them and they leave, You never have to see them again.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/26/17 at 1:41 pm


There's websites for that option, it's where you can send an email to them requesting just for the sex, they come over and you bang them for the amount of money they want for the sex, you pay them and they leave, You never have to see them again.


Oh.  :o  :o  :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/26/17 at 2:03 pm


There's websites for that option, it's where you can send an email to them requesting just for the sex, they come over and you bang them for the amount of money they want for the sex, you pay them and they leave, You never have to see them again.


I did this with an app (except with no money involved), and I've slept with quite a number of people (/notsostealthbrag).  It's actually how I met my current partner. I don't know if there's a straight version of hookup apps, but I know people who use Tinder pretty much just for that (hookups).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 06/26/17 at 2:52 pm


Hmm, I thought that was a light hearted video and not too insulting. They dissed him for liking anime, but him being a nerd and shy was supposed to elicit a sympathetic response, I think.


Maybe I was taking it a bit too seriously. I was in a really bad mood that day. Still, it's a bit frustrating when people have such a low opinion of people who are still virgins/never had a girlfriend/never been on a date/etc. It's bad enough that I feel like no one desires me. But to have people insult me for it is really aggravating. This is something that people have given me crap for since I was 15. And it really didn't help my self-esteem. What's worse is that my parents really sheltered me, so I wasn't even allowed to date until I was about 16. Also, I never had anyone give me any tips or advice. The worst part is that there are people who constantly tell me how much harder dating gets as a person gets older. And now I figure, girls my age have already had their fill of dating. Why would they be interested in someone like me? I'm not sure what to do. All I know is that I do NOT want to be single forever.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/26/17 at 3:52 pm


So you've actually been together a really long time. Cool 😊


I like how you two met!


Thanks, Ripley! :)


It would take a while to go into details of my past relationships and I'm not saying how many I have dated nor have slept with. But for years, off and on, I was a player. At least I was honest with people about it. Some I got with on more than one occasion. And yes there were some I hardly knew or didn't know. You can say that I was a sllut if you want, I don't care. But I wasn't a hooker or anything. I just love sex lol. I'm not ashamed of the way I was though. As far as seeking a relationship, I do want one. But I have high standards and I'm not ashamed lol. Aside from that, around here where I live most people are a holes and I don't go to bars and stuff. So.... But someday I will find someone. I want marriage. I am unsure about kids but there is a strong possibility that I can't even have them anyway. 😕


You should give Howard some tips on playing the field! :P ;D


just watch porn and stay single  ;D


You mean like you do on your PS3 with that "Crackle" app? ::)



But why get tied down, no commitments nothing whatsoever, just love them and leave them.


I like being married, personally.


Maybe I was taking it a bit too seriously. I was in a really bad mood that day. Still, it's a bit frustrating when people have such a low opinion of people who are still virgins/never had a girlfriend/never been on a date/etc. It's bad enough that I feel like no one desires me. But to have people insult me for it is really aggravating. This is something that people have given me crap for since I was 15. And it really didn't help my self-esteem. What's worse is that my parents really sheltered me, so I wasn't even allowed to date until I was about 16. Also, I never had anyone give me any tips or advice. The worst part is that there are people who constantly tell me how much harder dating gets as a person gets older. And now I figure, girls my age have already had their fill of dating. Why would they be interested in someone like me? I'm not sure what to do. All I know is that I do NOT want to be single forever.


So many of you guys have really sad stories. :-\\ I hope things start to look up for all of you guys here.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/26/17 at 4:58 pm


Maybe I was taking it a bit too seriously. I was in a really bad mood that day. Still, it's a bit frustrating when people have such a low opinion of people who are still virgins/never had a girlfriend/never been on a date/etc. It's bad enough that I feel like no one desires me. But to have people insult me for it is really aggravating. This is something that people have given me crap for since I was 15. And it really didn't help my self-esteem. What's worse is that my parents really sheltered me, so I wasn't even allowed to date until I was about 16. Also, I never had anyone give me any tips or advice. The worst part is that there are people who constantly tell me how much harder dating gets as a person gets older. And now I figure, girls my age have already had their fill of dating. Why would they be interested in someone like me? I'm not sure what to do. All I know is that I do NOT want to be single forever.

I really connected with the last part of your statement (starting from "Also, I never had..."). It really does suck....:(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/26/17 at 8:59 pm

I never had.....a red corvette! But that's not changing anytime soon, eh?  :P  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/26/17 at 9:04 pm

The world needs more love. More Amour! https://i.imgur.com/Ujrq7wt_d.jpg

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/26/17 at 9:06 pm

Why's Negative Man getting it on with himself?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/26/17 at 9:07 pm


Why's Negative Man getting it on with himself?


Oh, so that's his name, or title!  ;D  ;D  ;D

Um, I thought he was a sponge.  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/26/17 at 9:17 pm


Oh, so that's his name, or title!  ;D  ;D  ;D

Um, I thought he was a sponge.  :-X


Nope! That's Negative Man from Mother 3. :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/26/17 at 10:58 pm


Maybe I was taking it a bit too seriously. I was in a really bad mood that day. Still, it's a bit frustrating when people have such a low opinion of people who are still virgins/never had a girlfriend/never been on a date/etc. It's bad enough that I feel like no one desires me. But to have people insult me for it is really aggravating. This is something that people have given me crap for since I was 15. And it really didn't help my self-esteem. What's worse is that my parents really sheltered me, so I wasn't even allowed to date until I was about 16. Also, I never had anyone give me any tips or advice. The worst part is that there are people who constantly tell me how much harder dating gets as a person gets older. And now I figure, girls my age have already had their fill of dating. Why would they be interested in someone like me? I'm not sure what to do. All I know is that I do NOT want to be single forever.


I strongly agree with the bolded. People make such a big deal out of nothing. Not everyone judges their self worth by how much sex they're getting, it's very degrading when people judge others using this criteria. It says more about them than anyone else, and not in a good way.

Also, I don't see why dating would get harder as you get older. Older men have more money, more job experience, more education, are more mature, usually better looking and more muscular, the whole package. Unless by older you're talking 50+

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/27/17 at 7:42 am


Thanks, Ripley! :)

You should give Howard some tips on playing the field! :P ;D

You mean like you do on your PS3 with that "Crackle" app? ::)

I like being married, personally.

So many of you guys have really sad stories. :-\\ I hope things start to look up for all of you guys here.


I don't want any pointers on how to play the field. ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/27/17 at 1:54 pm


I don't want any pointers on how to play the field. ::)


Why not? ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Ripley on 06/28/17 at 6:29 am


There's websites for that option, it's where you can send an email to them requesting just for the sex, they come over and you bang them for the amount of money they want for the sex, you pay them and they leave, You never have to see them again.

Prostitution?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Ripley on 06/28/17 at 6:32 am


Why's Negative Man getting it on with himself?

Or he's banging his clone  :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Lizardmatum on 06/28/17 at 1:18 pm

Single. Haven't had a proper partner in ages!!!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/28/17 at 1:36 pm


Or he's banging his clone  :D


;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/28/17 at 1:38 pm


I don't want any pointers on how to play the field. ::)


Oh, I don't have an interest in sports.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/28/17 at 2:12 pm

The average age for losing one's virginity is...

Males: Age 16.9

Females: Age 17.4

These numbers are probably worldwide. The average for worldwide that is.

For Americans, the average age to lose one's virginity is age 18.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/28/17 at 2:28 pm


The average age for losing one's virginity is...

Males: Age 16.9

Females: Age 17.4

These numbers are probably worldwide. The average for worldwide that is.

For Americans, the average age to lose one's virginity is age 18.


I lost mine at 11 ;D

I think in India and China it's 22/23. That's why I love Asians!  8) ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/28/17 at 2:32 pm


I lost mine at 11 ;D

I think in India and China it's 22/23. That's why I love Asians!  8) ;D


Seriously???  :-X  :-X  :-X  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/28/17 at 2:33 pm

Britney Spears lost hers at age 14!  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/28/17 at 2:49 pm


Seriously???  :-X  :-X  :-X  :-X


Well, it was oral sex, so I'm not sure if it counts. I was a kid so I didn't know what anal sex was. If I did, I totally would've done it.

It was Hamilton, Ontario... That city is infamous haha... My school was extremely trashy, there were orgies at school when we were only 10/11. From what my friends tell me, I'm pretty sure a lot of girls were pregnant by 15 and I knew a few of them. My Toronto middle school was pretty bad too, pretty sure everyone had sex with everyone there by the time they were 13, but I was the only gay kid there as far as I knew, so no action for me. My Toronto high school was much better though. There were a lot more immigrants, so it was a lot more conservative. People focused on their education. I liked that. Didn't even have to take a date to prom, I just went with a group of friends and we picked up girls there for dancing anyway 8)

I think places like that are skewing the average down big time. Depending on how you grew up, you could lose it at 10 or 30. They're both acceptable to me.  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/28/17 at 2:57 pm


Well, it was oral sex, so I'm not sure if it counts. I was a kid so I didn't know what anal sex was. If I did, I totally would've done it.

It was Hamilton, Ontario... That city is infamous haha... My school was extremely trashy, there were orgies at school when we were only 10/11. From what my friends tell me, I'm pretty sure a lot of girls were pregnant by 15 and I knew a few of them. My Toronto middle school was pretty bad too, pretty sure everyone had sex with everyone there by the time they were 13, but I was the only gay kid there as far as I knew, so no action for me. My Toronto high school was much better though. There were a lot more immigrants, so it was a lot more conservative. People focused on their education. I liked that. Didn't even have to take a date to prom, I just went with a group of friends and we picked up girls there for dancing anyway 8)

I think places like that are skewing the average down big time. Depending on how you grew up, you could lose it at 10 or 30. They're both acceptable to me.  :)


Man, you're Middle school was freaky and wild!  ;D  ;D  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/28/17 at 2:59 pm


Well, it was oral sex, so I'm not sure if it counts. I was a kid so I didn't know what anal sex was. If I did, I totally would've done it.

It was Hamilton, Ontario... That city is infamous haha... My school was extremely trashy, there were orgies at school when we were only 10/11. From what my friends tell me, I'm pretty sure a lot of girls were pregnant by 15 and I knew a few of them. My Toronto middle school was pretty bad too, pretty sure everyone had sex with everyone there by the time they were 13, but I was the only gay kid there as far as I knew, so no action for me. My Toronto high school was much better though. There were a lot more immigrants, so it was a lot more conservative. People focused on their education. I liked that. Didn't even have to take a date to prom, I just went with a group of friends and we picked up girls there for dancing anyway 8)

I think places like that are skewing the average down big time. Depending on how you grew up, you could lose it at 10 or 30. They're both acceptable to me.  :)

Having sex at 10 is acceptable to you? :o

Orgies by middle schoolers is OK to you? :o :o :o :o :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/28/17 at 3:23 pm


Why not? ::)


I already know about the birds and bees. ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/28/17 at 3:24 pm


Prostitution?


No, F**kbuddies.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/28/17 at 3:25 pm


The average age for losing one's virginity is...

Males: Age 16.9

Females: Age 17.4

These numbers are probably worldwide. The average for worldwide that is.

For Americans, the average age to lose one's virginity is age 18.


I'll be 44 next year and how come I haven't lost mine yet?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/28/17 at 3:30 pm


I'll be 44 next year and how come I haven't lost mine yet?


At least you've been on a date, I haven't yet!  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/28/17 at 3:40 pm


At least you've been on a date, I haven't yet!  :(


Don't worry your time will come.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/28/17 at 3:45 pm


Man, you're Middle school was freaky and wild!  ;D  ;D  ;D


I hated it.  :-X (at least my Toronto one). Kids grew up too fast.


Having sex at 10 is acceptable to you? :o

Orgies by middle schoolers is OK to you? :o :o :o :o :o


LOL. ;D Touché. Okay, maybe not acceptable, but understandable.


At least you've been on a date, I haven't yet!  :(


Online dating, man! You'll find somebody.  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: DesiredUsernameWasTaken on 06/28/17 at 3:49 pm


I'll be 44 next year and how come I haven't lost mine yet?


Serious?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/28/17 at 10:11 pm

At... 11?

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/--WVuM6poEKg/UdskuASN6RI/AAAAAAAARYs/h49l08Td6uA/s320/wtf4.gif

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/28/17 at 10:21 pm


At... 11?

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/--WVuM6poEKg/UdskuASN6RI/AAAAAAAARYs/h49l08Td6uA/s320/wtf4.gif

Same...I had the same reaction ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/28/17 at 10:23 pm


Same...I had the same reaction ;D.


Trollpoke's been to some strange schools! :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/28/17 at 10:25 pm


Trollpoke's been to some strange schools! :-\\

Definitely! :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/28/17 at 10:36 pm


I'll be 44 next year and how come I haven't lost mine yet?


I thought you were a player, Howard? What happened!


I already know about the birds and bees. ::)


http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/flash/960/birdsbees.jpg


Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/28/17 at 10:41 pm


At... 11?

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/--WVuM6poEKg/UdskuASN6RI/AAAAAAAARYs/h49l08Td6uA/s320/wtf4.gif


When I was 11 I was playing with blocks and had braces.  :-[  :-[  :-[

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/28/17 at 10:43 pm


At... 11?

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What? 11... Isn't that when most people start puberty ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/28/17 at 10:45 pm


What? 11... Isn't that when most people start puberty ;D

No, most people start puberty around the ages of 7-9. However, that doesn't matter...having orgies at age 11? WTF? :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/28/17 at 10:56 pm


No, most people start puberty around the ages of 7-9. However, that doesn't matter...having orgies at age 11? WTF? :o


So what did kids at your middle school do? It wasn't full of hormones?  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/28/17 at 11:03 pm


So what did kids at your middle school do? It wasn't full of hormones?  :-X

Some had sex or got blowjobs but they didn't have orgies. Also, most kids at my middle school didn't have sex....we just dreamed of sex :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/28/17 at 11:24 pm


Some had sex or got blowjobs but they didn't have orgies.


Maybe they had them but you didn't know :o

Also, most kids at my middle school didn't have sex....we just dreamed of sex :P.


;D That's a good thing honestly.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/28/17 at 11:45 pm




Maybe they had them but you didn't know :o

Woah....you could be right but I don't wanna think about that :(.


;D That's a good thing honestly.

True ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Sir Rothchild on 06/29/17 at 12:42 pm


So what did kids at your middle school do? It wasn't full of hormones?  :-X


Well, my middle school classmates weren't horny to have extreme PDA in class. We just dreamed of having sex, including me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/29/17 at 12:44 pm


Well, my middle school classmates weren't horny to have extreme PDA in class. We just dreamed of having sex, including me.

Yep.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 06/29/17 at 1:59 pm


I strongly agree with the bolded. People make such a big deal out of nothing. Not everyone judges their self worth by how much sex they're getting, it's very degrading when people judge others using this criteria. It says more about them than anyone else, and not in a good way.

Also, I don't see why dating would get harder as you get older. Older men have more money, more job experience, more education, are more mature, usually better looking and more muscular, the whole package. Unless by older you're talking 50+


I believe they are referring to people who've never dated before. The thing is, I don't know who's right and who's wrong. All I know is that the thought that I've lost before I've even started, or than no one will ever love me makes me sick inside.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 06/29/17 at 2:26 pm


I believe they are referring to people who've never dated before. The thing is, I don't know who's right and who's wrong. All I know is that the thought that I've lost before I've even started, or than no one will ever love me makes me sick inside.
and those who have dated, but haven't succeeded in earning a relationship. It is true though that it does get difficult as one ages. Yeah, people know what they want in a companion, but the problem is that the others are mainly taken. I mean how many single late 20s and 30s are there compared to single college students and mid 20s?

OTT,  I really you do find a loveable companion though. Being single is not the business,  and it gets boring.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/29/17 at 2:57 pm


Serious?


does foreplay with clothes on count? ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/29/17 at 2:58 pm


I thought you were a player, Howard? What happened!

http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/flash/960/birdsbees.jpg


just can't find the right girl to get down and do the nasty with. :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/29/17 at 3:18 pm


I believe they are referring to people who've never dated before. The thing is, I don't know who's right and who's wrong. All I know is that the thought that I've lost before I've even started, or than no one will ever love me makes me sick inside.


It depends on who's saying it. Is it an older guy that's never dated before that's saying it? Then he's probably just projecting, or looking for something to blame.  :-X

Don't feel too bad. Concentrate on what you can change. You're not going to get any younger. But you can still do things like hit the gym, work on your education/career, volunteer at an animal shelter (chicks dig that). This will make you more attractive with age. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/29/17 at 3:41 pm

When I was 12, I thought those other 14 year old girls on Maury were glamorous!  8)  8)  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/29/17 at 3:42 pm


When I was 12, I thought those other 14 year old girls on Maury were glamorous!  8)  8)  8)

Glamorous or attractive? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/29/17 at 3:42 pm


When I was 12, I thought those other 14 year old girls on Maury were glamorous!  8)  8)  8)


Maury... Maury Povich? The baby daddy show?  ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/29/17 at 3:43 pm


Glamorous or attractive? ???


Glamorous!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/29/17 at 3:43 pm


Maury... Maury Povich? The baby daddy show?  ???


Yes.  :(  :(  :-[  :-[  :-[

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/29/17 at 3:44 pm


Yes.  :(  :(  :-[  :-[  :-[


Erm... no comment.  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/29/17 at 3:47 pm


Erm... no comment.  :-X


I wanted a more 'intense' and 'rebellious' look.  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/29/17 at 3:48 pm


I wanted a more 'intense' and 'rebellious' look.  :)


Don't you think that's a bit too rebellious? ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 06/29/17 at 3:51 pm


Don't you think that's a bit too rebellious? ;D


I wanted the 'messy' and 'unkempt' look.  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/29/17 at 4:45 pm


I wanted the 'messy' and 'unkempt' look.  8)


Hmm, I kinda like that look on guys, so maybe I shouldn't be talking. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 06/29/17 at 10:32 pm


just can't find the right girl to get down and do the nasty with. :(


Shouldn't be too hard when you look like one of the Reservoir Dogs. 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/30/17 at 3:19 pm


When I was 12, I thought those other 14 year old girls on Maury were glamorous!  8)  8)  8)


Did you want to date them?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/30/17 at 3:21 pm


I wanted the 'messy' and 'unkempt' look.  8)



I want the hot rich look.
https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-E70It_F9JFw/Vjm6Vg4ralI/AAAAAAAAAfE/gn08t1Mr-B0/w500-h750/RichWomen.jpg

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: CatwomanofV on 07/02/17 at 12:39 pm

I am VERY happily married.


For all you straight men out there who want to a woman-do ONE thing: LEARN TO DANCE!!!! You may think I am crazy but it is true. You can literally sweep women off their feet and they will LOVE you!

For you gay men out there, sorry can't help you. Don't really know what men want-only what women do. But, who knows. Maybe my advice could work on gay men, too.



Cat

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/02/17 at 12:44 pm


I am VERY happily married.


For all you straight men out there who want to a woman-do ONE thing: LEARN TO DANCE!!!! You may think I am crazy but it is true. You can literally sweep women off their feet and they will LOVE you!

For you gay men out there, sorry can't help you. Don't really know what men want-only what women do. But, who knows. Maybe my advice could work on gay men, too.



Cat

That's great. I am happy for you and your husband! :).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/02/17 at 1:29 pm


I am VERY happily married.


For all you straight men out there who want to a woman-do ONE thing: LEARN TO DANCE!!!! You may think I am crazy but it is true. You can literally sweep women off their feet and they will LOVE you!

For you gay men out there, sorry can't help you. Don't really know what men want-only what women do. But, who knows. Maybe my advice could work on gay men, too.



Cat


That's great advice, Cat! :D

And you and Carlos make a great couple!  ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: CatwomanofV on 07/02/17 at 3:35 pm


That's great advice, Cat! :D

And you and Carlos make a great couple!  ;)



Thanks. I think so.


Cat

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 07/03/17 at 7:42 pm

that's a nice way to think of yourself

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/03/17 at 7:44 pm


I'm such a f*ck up at life.


:o

I don't know you too well but I hope you're doing okay.  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/03/17 at 7:50 pm

I see so many beautiful women on Instagram....I never knew so many hot women existed. However, pretty much none of them will like a guy like me who is more nerdish (though I'm not really nerd), short, timid and not so attractive.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: DesiredUsernameWasTaken on 07/03/17 at 7:53 pm


I see so many beautiful women on Instagram....I never knew so many hot women existed. However, pretty much none of them will like a guy like me who is more nerdish (though I'm not really nerd), short, timid and not so attractive.


I don't even have a social life, I just sit on my ass all day completely obsessed with defining decades.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 07/03/17 at 7:55 pm


I'm such a f*ck up at life.


Have you ever been on this site, with another username??  ???  ???  ???

Something about your vibe is familiar. I might be waaay off though!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: DesiredUsernameWasTaken on 07/03/17 at 7:58 pm


Have you ever been on this site, with another username??  ???  ???  ???

Something about your vibe is familiar. I might be waaay off though!


Who are you thinking of?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 07/03/17 at 8:03 pm


Who are you thinking of?


Meh, I'm probably just overthinking things!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: DesiredUsernameWasTaken on 07/03/17 at 8:17 pm


Meh, I'm probably just overthinking things!


By the way, why do you have a picture of Britney Spears?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/03/17 at 8:22 pm


I don't even have a social life, I just sit on my ass all day completely obsessed with defining decades.


You said you were 19, right? How about applying to uni? I've met hundreds of amazing people there. If not that, there's always hobbyist meetups.


I see so many beautiful women on Instagram....I never knew so many hot women existed. However, pretty much none of them will like a guy like me who is more nerdish (though I'm not really nerd), short, timid and not so attractive.


That sucks :( Hopefully you get one of them one day. I believe in you man.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 07/03/17 at 8:22 pm


By the way, why do you have a picture of Britney Spears?


Anyone here, by now should know, I'm a Britney Spears fan.

I'll admit, she's past her peak from 1999 to 2004, so I get why you're asking!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 07/03/17 at 8:29 pm

It's so hot outside. So many hot people outside.https://vignette3.wikia.nocookie.net/earthbound/images/5/5a/Negative_Man.png/revision/latest?cb=20110706055700 https://vignette1.wikia.nocookie.net/earthbound/images/a/af/Neg_Man_2.png/revision/latest?cb=20110706055804

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 1:34 am


That sucks :( Hopefully you get one of them one day. I believe in you man.

Thanks. My posts on this thread may sound depressing but overall...I'm happy. I just sometimes have an feeling of emptiness and loneliness. However, I keep my head up....right now, I'm not necessarily looking for "the one" but just "someone".

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 07/04/17 at 3:05 am


I don't even have a social life, I just sit on my ass all day completely obsessed with defining decades.


Do you have any hobbies? Those might help you get more social!


I see so many beautiful women on Instagram....I never knew so many hot women existed. However, pretty much none of them will like a guy like me who is more nerdish (though I'm not really nerd), short, timid and not so attractive.


The best thing to do is stop visiting Instagram altogether. Very toxic site! Don't forget that many (probably most) of these women have millions of filters set up and pounds and pounds of make up on their faces just to hide up little imperfections. They're probably either very insecure and need to resort to Instagram for attention or are very shallow and not people you wanna deal with.


Thanks. My posts on this thread may sound depressing but overall...I'm happy. I just sometimes have an feeling of emptiness and loneliness. However, I keep my head up....right now, I'm not necessarily looking for "the one" but just "someone".


Glad you're keeping your head up!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 9:06 am


The best thing to do is stop visiting Instagram altogether. Very toxic site! Don't forget that many (probably most) of these women have millions of filters set up and pounds and pounds of make up on their faces just to hide up little imperfections. They're probably either very insecure and need to resort to Instagram for attention or are very shallow and not people you wanna deal with.

I'm just admiring or crushing on them. Also, I think it's unfair to say that most of them are shallow. I see beautiful women on Instagram who are just regular women and don't have millions. Also, pretty much all of the famous and rich women on Instagram that I see or follow have good to great personalities (based on what I can tell). Of course they are some shallow ones but those ones I can spot pretty easily and don't pay attention to them. Either way, you can find shallow people online or in real life...so it doesn't really matter. I'm still going to admire the beautiful women in this world.


Glad you're keeping your head up!

Yeah, it's nothing really, lol :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/04/17 at 10:46 am

Instagram makes people look like film stars *__*

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 12:13 pm


Instagram makes people look like film stars *__*

Not me though...not matter what filter...I look like crap :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/04/17 at 12:22 pm


Thanks. My posts on this thread may sound depressing but overall...I'm happy. I just sometimes have an feeling of emptiness and loneliness. However, I keep my head up....right now, I'm not necessarily looking for "the one" but just "someone".


I came to this conclusion to. If I see a girl that appeals to me, I'll just ask her if we can be friends. I just need someone to talk to, female to be specific.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 12:23 pm


I came to this conclusion to. If I see a girl that appeals to me, I'll just ask her if we can be friends. I just need someone to talk to, female to be specific.

Yeah man, same here.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/04/17 at 1:12 pm


Not me though...not matter what filter...I look like crap :P.


This was my jam when I was 18.

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My favourite filters are Nashville, Clarendon, Gingham, Sierra, Rise, and Hudson, roughly in that order. Sometimes you have to make faces that look strange in a regular photo, but they look amazing when you put on a filter. Know your Instagram filters! ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 1:15 pm


This was my jam when I was 18.

T4kpYZf9QwQ

My favourite filters are Nashville, Clarendon, Gingham, Sierra, Rise, and Hudson, roughly in that order. Sometimes you have to make faces that look strange in a regular photo, but they look amazing when you put on a filter. Know your Instagram filters! ;D

I was half-joking ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/04/17 at 1:35 pm


I was half-joking ;D.


I wasn't.  :-X

Just kidding. It was my then 5/6 year old sisters' jam. I put it on or sang it to piss people off though. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/04/17 at 3:05 pm


I see so many beautiful women on Instagram....I never knew so many hot women existed. However, pretty much none of them will like a guy like me who is more nerdish (though I'm not really nerd), short, timid and not so attractive.


Then I'll take them if you don't mind. ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 3:08 pm


Then I'll take them if you don't mind. ;)

I don't think that any of them want an old man ;) ;D ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/04/17 at 3:25 pm


I don't think that any of them want an old man ;) ;D ;D.


Hey I'm not an old man! >:(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 3:27 pm


Hey I'm not an old man! >:(

You aren't? ;) ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/04/17 at 7:20 pm


I just want to know the current status of your date life.....whether you're single, dating or married :o.

As of the making of this thread, I am SINGLE.


Me too. In fact, I have never actually dated anyone in the almost 37 years I have been alive. http://www.inthe00s.com/Smileys/4thJuly/shocked.gif

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 7:48 pm


Me too. In fact, I have never actually dated anyone in the almost 37 years I have been alive. http://www.inthe00s.com/Smileys/4thJuly/shocked.gif

Wow...really? :o

Are you aromantic or asexual?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/04/17 at 7:52 pm


Wow...really? :o

Are you aromantic or asexual?

I'm not sure... but over the years there have been gals I've been interested in. I mean, I've had plenty of young lady friends, and I often enjoy socializing with them. There is one in particular that I seem to enjoy hangin' out with, as of late. (Hopefully someday I can invite her to my house for a meal or something like that.)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 7:56 pm


I'm not sure... but over the years there have been gals I've been interested in. I mean, I've had plenty of young lady friends, and I often enjoy socializing with them. There is one in particular that I seem to enjoy hangin' out with, as of late. (Hopefully someday I can invite her to my house for a meal or something like that.)

OK, that's good. I hope that all goes well my friend :).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 07/04/17 at 8:00 pm


I'm not sure... but over the years there have been gals I've been interested in. I mean, I've had plenty of young lady friends, and I often enjoy socializing with them. There is one in particular that I seem to enjoy hangin' out with, as of late. (Hopefully someday I can invite her to my house for a meal or something like that.)


I use to be like that, I was 34-35 and never dated. Then one day I decided to do some online dating because I felt lonely. That's how I met Lee. Thankfully it will be 2 years for us in October.  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/04/17 at 8:01 pm


OK, that's good. I hope that all goes well my friend.

Thank you. In fact, I have shared, on this site, the fact that I've had plenty of lady friends, some of whom have "come and gone" so to speak.

This young woman I mentioned in my previous post, I know for a fact that she is single. I first met her in late 2005 when we were undergrads at Cal State University Northridge...but after that I didn't see her again until August 2013, a good 7 1/2 years later; that's when I found out that she and her parents attend the same church as me. And she's a very sweet person.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 8:02 pm


I use to be like that, I was 34-35 and never dated. Then one day I decided to do some online dating because I felt lonely. That's how I met Lee. Thankfully it will be 2 years for us in October.  :)

Yay! :).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/04/17 at 8:02 pm


I use to be like that, I was 34-35 and never dated. Then one day I decided to do some online dating because I felt lonely. That's how I met Lee. Thankfully it will be 2 years for us in October.  :)

That's good.  :) I haven't tried online dating as of yet.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 8:04 pm


Thank you. In fact, I have shared, on this site, the fact that I've had plenty of lady friends, some of whom have "come and gone" so to speak.

This young woman I mentioned in my previous post, I know for a fact that she is single. I first met her in late 2005 when we were undergrads at Cal State University Northridge...but after that I didn't see her again until August 2013, a good 7 1/2 years later; that's when I found out that she and her parents attend the same church as me. And she's a very sweet person.

OK. It's nice that you've known her for so long. Do you potentially want to start a family or no?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/04/17 at 8:08 pm


OK. It's nice that you've known her for so long. Do you potentially want to start a family or no?

I do not know yet.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 8:11 pm


I do not know yet.

OK...once again - best of luck!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 07/04/17 at 8:12 pm


I do not know yet.


That's ok. I remember asking you if you wanted to go out on a date with me  ;D it was sweet!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/04/17 at 8:15 pm


OK...once again - best of luck!

And once again - thank you. O0

There are also a few other young lady friends of mine that I currently see around on a semi-regular basis (but for two of them, I don't know their last names, or if they're even on Facebook). Still, this one in particular is a dear friend; last year she thanked me on FB for a nice Christmas gift I gave her.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/04/17 at 8:15 pm


That's ok. I remember asking you if you wanted to go out on a date with me  ;D it was sweet!

Yes, I remember that too. :) Hopefully someday we can meet in person!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 07/04/17 at 8:18 pm


Yes, I remember that too. :) Hopefully someday we can meet in person!


Yes definitely!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/04/17 at 8:21 pm


Yes definitely!

Do you plan to visit California anytime soon?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 8:23 pm

Aww, this is such a cute convo between Nally and Jessica :).

Also, I want to visit California but I don't have the money to :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 07/04/17 at 8:28 pm


Do you plan to visit California anytime soon?


I would love to! I don't know when exactly, but I want it to be next year.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 07/04/17 at 11:06 pm


I'm just admiring or crushing on them. Also, I think it's unfair to say that most of them are shallow. I see beautiful women on Instagram who are just regular women and don't have millions. Also, pretty much all of the famous and rich women on Instagram that I see or follow have good to great personalities (based on what I can tell). Of course they are some shallow ones but those ones I can spot pretty easily and don't pay attention to them. Either way, you can find shallow people online or in real life...so it doesn't really matter. I'm still going to admire the beautiful women in this world.

Yeah, it's nothing really, lol :)


You've got some good points! Some of them are shallow and some of them aren't. There is definitely nothing wrong with admiring beautiful women just as long as it doesn't make you depressed!


Yeah, it's nothing really, lol :)


Good to hear! ;)


I use to be like that, I was 34-35 and never dated. Then one day I decided to do some online dating because I felt lonely. That's how I met Lee. Thankfully it will be 2 years for us in October.  :)


It's good things worked out for you guys! :)


Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/04/17 at 11:23 pm


You've got some good points! Some of them are shallow and some of them aren't. There is definitely nothing wrong with admiring beautiful women just as long as it doesn't make you depressed!

Good to hear! ;)

I just love women! :D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 07/04/17 at 11:46 pm


I just love women! :D.


Me too! 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/05/17 at 12:01 am


Me too! 8)

Nice! 8).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/05/17 at 12:02 am


Me too. In fact, I have never actually dated anyone in the almost 37 years I have been alive. http://www.inthe00s.com/Smileys/4thJuly/shocked.gif


I didn't expect that from you, Jeff. You're so good looking! :o But if you're just not looking, that's understandable. :)


I use to be like that, I was 34-35 and never dated. Then one day I decided to do some online dating because I felt lonely. That's how I met Lee. Thankfully it will be 2 years for us in October.  :)


That's awesome how things worked out for you two. :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/05/17 at 11:48 am


I would love to! I don't know when exactly, but I want it to be next year.

Cool! That'd be great.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/05/17 at 11:49 am


I didn't expect that from you, Jeff. You're so good looking! :o But if you're just not looking, that's understandable. :)



Oh, I probably am good looking. And lots of gals might think that of me. They also must see how good I am inside as well.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 07/05/17 at 12:09 pm



It's good things worked out for you guys! :)




That's awesome how things worked out for you two. :D


Thank you!  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/05/17 at 3:05 pm


You aren't? ;) ::)



just call it "middle-aged".

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/05/17 at 3:06 pm


Me too. In fact, I have never actually dated anyone in the almost 37 years I have been alive. http://www.inthe00s.com/Smileys/4thJuly/shocked.gif


I've went out with 2 women, one in 1997 and another in 2004.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/05/17 at 3:08 pm


That's good.  :) I haven't tried online dating as of yet.


I haven't done it either.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/05/17 at 3:09 pm


That's ok. I remember asking you if you wanted to go out on a date with me  ;D it was sweet!


I would. ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/05/17 at 3:10 pm


I just love women! :D.


same here.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/07/17 at 4:04 pm


I've went out with 2 women, one in 1997 and another in 2004.

Oh yes, I remember in 2004 you were discussing your then-girlfriend on here. Ah, memories...

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: c_keenan2001@hotmail.com on 07/07/17 at 8:26 pm

Date life.  Huh! What's that?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 07/07/17 at 11:55 pm


I want my straight friends to marry me. I don't need love or sex or any or that gay stuff. I just want to play video games for 10 days straight, burp at the dinner table, clog toilets, and be celebrated for it.


Are you saying you want to live in a isolated sex cult?  :-\\  :-\\  :(  :(  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/08/17 at 12:27 am


Are you saying you want to live in a isolated sex cult?  :-\\  :-\\  :(  :(  :(


Lol I probably shouldn't have posted that. I'm a bit tipsy ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 07/08/17 at 12:32 am


Lol I probably shouldn't have posted that. I'm a bit tipsy ;D


Nope. You're fine. Tipsy pink one!  ;D  ;D  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/08/17 at 7:29 am


Oh yes, I remember in 2004 you were discussing your then-girlfriend on here. Ah, memories...


can't believe it's been 9 years since I last saw her.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/08/17 at 2:16 pm

I just thought of this. I hope I get to experience partner experimenting. I want to hold my girl's hand, slowly walking her as she's blind folded. Eventually, I'd sneak a kiss. Haha

To all of you, experimenting is one of the best things existence can offer and you can analyze potentially endless like varieties in your head.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 07/09/17 at 7:56 pm

I wish I lived in a world in which I could casually chat with another woman anywhere and perhaps hope to see it blossom into a romance. Most people have that luxury, but I have no option except to hope some miracle arrives at my doorstep.

I hate associating myself with the venomous mainstream lesbian community so much that I'm honestly more able to relate to Rachel Stevens on a sexual level than actual lesbians, just because she's evidently unafraid to call other women sexy, despite being happily married to a man and never actually dating other females in the past. I don't know, I just feel like I take so much more comfort in perceiving sexuality as a spectrum, rather than "straight" and "gay" labels that categorize me with a group of people that have treated me so insidiously. I would say I'm a 5 out of 6 on the Kinsey scale anyway instead of a full on 6, meaning I can still only really see myself in a stable relationship with another woman and not a man, but I can at least empathize emotionally more with a far greater chunk of other women than those who simply identify as lesbians.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/09/17 at 9:06 pm


I wish I lived in a world in which I could casually chat with another woman anywhere and perhaps hope to see it blossom into a romance. Most people have that luxury, but I have no option except to hope some miracle arrives at my doorstep.

I hate associating myself with the venomous mainstream lesbian community so much that I'm honestly more able to relate to Rachel Stevens on a sexual level than actual lesbians, just because she's evidently unafraid to call other women sexy, despite being happily married to a man and never actually dating other females in the past. I don't know, I just feel like I take so much more comfort in perceiving sexuality as a spectrum, rather than "straight" and "gay" labels that categorize me with a group of people that have treated me so insidiously. I would say I'm a 5 out of 6 on the Kinsey scale anyway instead of a full on 6, meaning I can still only really see myself in a stable relationship with another woman and not a man, but I can at least empathize emotionally more with a far greater chunk of other women than those who simply identify as lesbians.


You might could find one male that could end all of your struggles but you just can't change what your attracted to.

Females are amazing though. Haha I'm glad I was born a male. So I can pony them. Haha

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/09/17 at 9:38 pm


Females are amazing though. Haha I'm glad I was born a male. So I can pony them. Haha

What does that mean? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/09/17 at 9:59 pm


What does that mean? ???


;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/09/17 at 10:43 pm

It was my boyfriend's 20th birthday today. He's a full adult now, his childhood is over. I'm no longer robbing the cradle ;D


;D


LOL wow. We're getting too excited now. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/09/17 at 10:49 pm


I wish I lived in a world in which I could casually chat with another woman anywhere and perhaps hope to see it blossom into a romance. Most people have that luxury, but I have no option except to hope some miracle arrives at my doorstep.

I hate associating myself with the venomous mainstream lesbian community so much that I'm honestly more able to relate to Rachel Stevens on a sexual level than actual lesbians, just because she's evidently unafraid to call other women sexy, despite being happily married to a man and never actually dating other females in the past. I don't know, I just feel like I take so much more comfort in perceiving sexuality as a spectrum, rather than "straight" and "gay" labels that categorize me with a group of people that have treated me so insidiously. I would say I'm a 5 out of 6 on the Kinsey scale anyway instead of a full on 6, meaning I can still only really see myself in a stable relationship with another woman and not a man, but I can at least empathize emotionally more with a far greater chunk of other women than those who simply identify as lesbians.


Do you mean you wish you lived in a world where you can just go up to any woman and ask them out, like a straight man can? I'm kind of confused by your first paragraph.

It's unfair that the lesbian community treats you like that. Before, I had a difficult time understanding what you meant by "the LGBTQ community isn't accepting of diversity". But a few other people have talked to me about this, and I think I'm starting to understand. There's a sort of "ideal gay/lesbian" that everyone tries pigeonhole themselves into, and anyone that diverges from it is not treated as desirable. And it's incredibly painful to try to have to change yourself to become something you're not, but most the community tells you to just suck it up. I think that's the gist of it, correct me if I'm wrong.

It's not a way to treat people. I wish as a community, we would be the first to recognize when someone feels left out, and not insult and dehumanize them for being different. We should be ground zero for this stuff. But sadly, it can be one of the most competitive and insular communities around, especially since it's so small. I think the fight for true acceptance and pride rages on. We have to look at how we treat each other as much as how other people treat us.

I hope despite all the toxicity in the lesbian community, you can still find someone that suits you. I can't relate 100% obviously, but we can provide you our social support. So thanks for sharing this post with us, I know it's deeply emotional. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: #Infinity on 07/09/17 at 11:09 pm


Do you mean you wish you lived in a world where you can just go up to any woman and ask them out, like a straight man can? I'm kind of confused by your first paragraph.


Yes, that's exactly it. Straight men can, for the most part, make small talk with other women they come across in person and just let things naturally flow from there. That's the type of conversation that I personally feel more suited to, depending on the environment. It would make the development of a mutual attraction a lot smoother and more flowing to me. I dislike being forced to use dating sites, where instead of talking to others in the moment, I have to bite my teeth waiting for them to get back to my messages, all while not being able to fully express myself through use of emotions, anyway.

It's unfair that the lesbian community treats you like that. Before, I had a difficult time understanding what you meant by "the LGBTQ community isn't accepting of diversity". But a few other people have talked to me about this, and I think I'm starting to understand. There's a sort of "ideal gay/lesbian" that everyone tries pigeonhole themselves into, and anyone that diverges from it is not treated as desirable. And it's incredibly painful to try to have to change yourself to become something you're not, but most the community tells you to just suck it up. I think that's the gist of it, correct me if I'm wrong.

That's precisely it. Plenty of people I've met in person actually do tell me they think I'm attractive, but I never get the same response within what should be my actual dating pool, because that small population is so overwhelmingly comprised of shallow, pompously rebellious, overly dog and OitNB-obssessed, disinterested trendies who just don't get me, nor can I really feel anything in them.

It's not a way to treat people. I wish as a community, we would be the first to recognize when someone feels left out, and not insult and dehumanize them for being different. We should be ground zero for this stuff. But sadly, it can be one of the most competitive and insular communities around, especially since it's so small. I think the fight for true acceptance and pride rages on. We have to look at how we treat each other as much as how other people treat us.

I can't believe, back in high school, how much I had imagined the LGBT community being this oasis of incredibly friendly, open-minded, loving people. I assumed that, because they knew what it was like to feel marginalized and overlooked for who they were, that they would sympathize with my struggles more naturally than most people. It turns out that, with a few major exceptions (particularly certain gay males), the opposite has been the case; instead, most lesbians I've come across seem to hide their insecurities by piling up a narrow-minded, cliquey, exclusionary culture of their own, too cynical to have any patience for types like me, who listen to S Club 7, wear dresses, and would rather go running and take it easy than spend the afternoon at a dog beach before drinking booze.

I hope despite all the toxicity in the lesbian community, you can still find someone that suits you. I can't relate 100% obviously, but we can provide you our social support. So thanks for sharing this post with us, I know it's deeply emotional. :)

I think my self-confidence might slowly be developing to the point where I can put myself out in public social places enough that I won't have to worry about getting too depressed within the first few minutes. I'm hoping it'll make a huge difference if I, at the very least, express a bit more glamour and self-esteem as part of my demeanor. I still feel like spotting a compatible match is like finding a needle in a haystack, but I'm hoping things will finally start moving in the right direction soon.

I'm actually strongly considering using a matchmaking service. I was hesitant before due to it costing thousands of dollars, but I'm inheriting money from my late grandmother, who specifically wanted me to use it on something special, and I'm thinking a matchmaking service would be perfect, especially if I can get refunds until I find a service that's able to find somebody for me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 07/09/17 at 11:38 pm


Yes, that's exactly it. Straight men can, for the most part, make small talk with other women they come across in person and just let things naturally flow from there. That's the type of conversation that I personally feel more suited to, depending on the environment. It would make the development of a mutual attraction a lot smoother and more flowing to me. I dislike being forced to use dating sites, where instead of talking to others in the moment, I have to bite my teeth waiting for them to get back to my messages, all while not being able to fully express myself through use of emotions, anyway.

That's precisely it. Plenty of people I've met in person actually do tell me they think I'm attractive, but I never get the same response within what should be my actual dating pool, because that small population is so overwhelmingly comprised of shallow, pompously rebellious, overly dog and OitNB-obssessed, disinterested trendies who just don't get me, nor can I really feel anything in them.

I can't believe, back in high school, how much I had imagined the LGBT community being this oasis of incredibly friendly, open-minded, loving people. I assumed that, because they knew what it was like to feel marginalized and overlooked for who they were, that they would sympathize with my struggles more naturally than most people. It turns out that, with a few major exceptions (particularly certain gay males), the opposite has been the case; instead, most lesbians I've come across seem to hide their insecurities by piling up a narrow-minded, cliquey, exclusionary culture of their own, too cynical to have any patience for types like me, who listen to S Club 7, wear dresses, and would rather go running and take it easy than spend the afternoon at a dog beach before drinking booze.

I think my self-confidence might slowly be developing to the point where I can put myself out in public social places enough that I won't have to worry about getting too depressed within the first few minutes. I'm hoping it'll make a huge difference if I, at the very least, express a bit more glamour and self-esteem as part of my demeanor. I still feel like spotting a compatible match is like finding a needle in a haystack, but I'm hoping things will finally start moving in the right direction soon.

I'm actually strongly considering using a matchmaking service. I was hesitant before due to it costing thousands of dollars, but I'm inheriting money from my late grandmother, who specifically wanted me to use it on something special, and I'm thinking a matchmaking service would be perfect, especially if I can get refunds until I find a service that's able to find somebody for me.

Thanks for sharing. Your post is the exact reason why I created this thread. I wish you all the best and one day you will find a woman to match your infectious and wonderful personality. I don't know many females that can tell me so much about British music in the late '90s and early '00s while also telling me interesting info on certain musical genres like New Jack Swing and Synthpop ;). Stay awesome! 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/12/17 at 10:42 am


And once again - thank you. O0

There are also a few other young lady friends of mine that I currently see around on a semi-regular basis (but for two of them, I don't know their last names, or if they're even on Facebook). Still, this one in particular is a dear friend; last year she thanked me on FB for a nice Christmas gift I gave her.

And yesterday she posted a nice birthday greeting on my FB feed. :) 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/20/17 at 8:49 pm

I was bored so I went to take a quick walk. I just came from the store not long ago and as I was leaving, I seen a girl that appealed to me with her family. I couldn't help but wait, even if I wasn't making any purchase. As they were waiting for the receipt, I went for it. Only, she was 16 but looked 21. Her brother was cool but their mom blew it out of proportions.

It really triggered the loner affect in me. I was doing pretty decent before though.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 08/20/17 at 8:55 pm


Thank you. In fact, I have shared, on this site, the fact that I've had plenty of lady friends, some of whom have "come and gone" so to speak.

This young woman I mentioned in my previous post, I know for a fact that she is single. I first met her in late 2005 when we were undergrads at Cal State University Northridge...but after that I didn't see her again until August 2013, a good 7 1/2 years later; that's when I found out that she and her parents attend the same church as me. And she's a very sweet person.


An update on my aforementioned young lady friend from church... today I got to hang around with her and her family a little while longer; this afternoon the church was hosting a barbecue luncheon in the hall, and so we sat together. I didn't get a chance to ask her about any get-together, though. :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/20/17 at 9:10 pm

haven't seen any growth yet

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/20/17 at 9:41 pm


I was bored so I went to take a quick walk. I just came from the store not long ago and as I was leaving, I seen a girl that appealed to me with her family. I couldn't help but wait, even if I wasn't making any purchase. As they were waiting for the receipt, I went for it. Only, she was 16 but looked 21. Her brother was cool but their mom blew it out of proportions.

It really triggered the loner affect in me. I was doing pretty decent before though.

Well...at least you went through and thus gave yourself a chance. Howvever, many 16 year olds nowadays are looking a bit older than they used to.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/20/17 at 10:33 pm


Well...at least you went through and thus gave yourself a chance. Howvever, many 16 year olds nowadays are looking a bit older than they used to.


The mom was cold. I couldn't even understand why she had the attitude. I even had already asked the brother if his sister was his girl before he told me they were related. Then, I asked the sister how old was she and walked away. Like, it was fast, man. About 5 seconds and I was gone.

I appreciate the thrill of it, not to completely look at its negative side. I definitely got something out of it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/20/17 at 10:40 pm


The mom was cold. I couldn't even understand why she had the attitude. I even had already asked the brother if his sister was his girl before he told me they were related. Then, I asked the sister how old was she and walked away. Like, it was fast, man. About 5 seconds and I was gone.

I appreciate the thrill of it, not to completely look at its negative side. I definitely got something out of it.

I mean...I can understand how both the mother and the daughter reacted :P.

However, just keep rockin' and something will happen.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/20/17 at 11:18 pm


I mean...I can understand how both the mother and the daughter reacted :P.

However, just keep rockin' and something will happen.


Haha No, dude. If only you seen it. The daughter didn't overact. The mom did. I just asked a question.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/20/17 at 11:51 pm


Haha No, dude. If only you seen it. The daughter didn't overact. The mom did. I just asked a question.

I didn't say that the daughter overreacted...all I said was that I understand how both of them felt (you did say that the daughter walked away after you asked her how old she was). Also, the my mother saw an older man asking out her underage daugther...I perfectly understand how the mother felt.

Just continue on and eventually you will find someone.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: wixness on 08/21/17 at 4:37 am

Single. Starting to believe that there are no straight girls out there, and that there's no reason for us guys to exist as we are right now. Even then I'm confused over who I like since I've been watching porn so much.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/21/17 at 9:13 am


I didn't say that the daughter overreacted...all I said was that I understand how both of them felt (you did say that the daughter walked away after you asked her how old she was). Also, the my mother saw an older man asking out her underage daugther...I perfectly understand how the mother felt.

Just continue on and eventually you will find someone.


Amazing.

Let's be real. You can't get any girl if you don't have confidence. The daughter didn't! walk away. I! walked away. It was badass. The mom was a ** I'm being serious with you. If you actually saw how she reacted, you would change your views. When I asked the daughter her age, it was basically a *** compliment. The mom didn't even see me. I already went to the back of the store as she was getting the receipt. Just that, she heard my voice and when she turned around, I was gone like Batman.

I'm so sick of that righteousness. As if it isn't already known. Its common that you'll hear girls giving themselves to older men because their rich. Its not really ok but its already happening. Dude, I remember watching an episode of Jerry Springer that featured this homeless girl picked up off the streets by a dude in his 40s, except that, he was cool and laid back. It blew me away. I'm not saying this is the route I wanna go but sh!t gives me hope sometimes.

I'm not bragging but, I'm a pretty handsome dude and I been body building since 2015. Just, my life is complex.
Single. Starting to believe that there are no straight girls out there, and that there's no reason for us guys to exist as we are right now. Even then I'm confused over who I like since I've been watching porn so much.


No, dude. You don't know what your getting yourself into. Porn actually increases depression.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/21/17 at 9:15 am


Amazing.

Let's be real. You can't get any girl if you don't have confidence. The daughter didn't! walk away. I! walked away. It was badass. The mom was a ** I'm being serious with you. If you actually saw how she reacted, you would change your views. When I asked the daughter her age, it was basically a *** compliment. The mom didn't even see me. I already went to the back of the store as she was getting the receipt. Just that, she heard my voice and when she turned around, I was gone like Batman.

I'm so sick of that righteousness. As if it isn't already known. Its common that you'll hear girls giving themselves to older men because their rich. Its not really ok but its already happening. Dude, I remember watching an episode of Jerry Springer that featured this homeless girl picked up off the streets by a dude in his 40s, except that, he was cool and laid back. It blew me away. I'm not saying this is the route I wanna go but sh!t gives me hope sometimes.

Now, I'm just confused by this whole situation :-X.

Anyways, just continue on.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: wixness on 08/21/17 at 9:31 am

No, dude. You don't know what your getting yourself into. Porn actually increases depression.

Thought the only real side effect was that it made you feel entitled to sex. I'd only keep watching porn to annoy the social conservatives that want to control our lives.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/21/17 at 3:37 pm


Single. Starting to believe that there are no straight girls out there, and that there's no reason for us guys to exist as we are right now. Even then I'm confused over who I like since I've been watching porn so much.


I'm single too. http://www.clicksmilies.com/s1106/aktion/action-smiley-030.gif

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/21/17 at 5:36 pm


Thought the only real side effect was that it made you feel entitled to sex. I'd only keep watching porn to annoy the social conservatives that want to control our lives.


That's understandable. I don't mess with it though because I'm still not the one getting laid.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/21/17 at 9:48 pm


That's understandable. I don't mess with it though because I'm still not the one getting laid.


Try VR. Soon, real sex will be obsolete. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/21/17 at 9:50 pm


Try VR. Soon, real sex will be obsolete. ;D

Is that a joke? :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/21/17 at 10:04 pm


Is that a joke? :-X


I heard if you have toys, it's almost better than the real thing. ;D

They're making dolls and robots to go with the experience LOL.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/21/17 at 10:19 pm


I heard if you have toys, it's almost better than the real thing. ;D

They're making dolls and robots to go with the experience LOL.

Oh god. Humanity's darkest days are near :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/21/17 at 10:35 pm


Oh god. Humanity's darkest days are near :(.


I'm rather optimistic about it. Hopefully it automates the sex industry and kills of the trafficking, and maybe reduce rates of sexual assaults (if it truly becomes better than the real thing).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/21/17 at 10:40 pm


I'm rather optimistic about it. Hopefully it automates the sex industry and kills of the trafficking, and maybe reduce rates of sexual assaults (if it truly becomes better than the real thing).

Um...I'm all for reducing sex trafficking but sex with machines...no way for me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 08/22/17 at 1:02 am

I guess this is good for when you wanna get nasty but your signifcant other pulls the whole headache thing on you -- just go and grab the robot. :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 08/22/17 at 1:26 am


That's understandable. I don't mess with it though because I'm still not the one getting laid.


I used to be addicted to porn from the age of 15-21. Looking back on it, I can safely say that it's had a negative effect on me. I felt like crap most of the time, just seeing other people getting to have sex, and knowing in the real world that everyone was experiencing something that I didn't get to. Now I can't look at porn without getting jealous or just feeling unhappy in general. I'm fed up with watching someone else's fantasies getting fulfilled.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 08/22/17 at 1:31 am


I'm rather optimistic about it. Hopefully it automates the sex industry and kills of the trafficking, and maybe reduce rates of sexual assaults (if it truly becomes better than the real thing).


That's easy for you to say. You got to experience real dating and sex at the average age. 

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 08/22/17 at 1:39 am

I refuse to let anyone think they are better than me because they have had dating/sexual experience. It makes me so angry knowing their idiotic attitudes are the norm. I wish I could make them feel the way I feel now.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/22/17 at 1:41 am

I plan on joining the United States Marine Corps after I graduate from college. Will I get the chicks then? ;D :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 08/22/17 at 1:47 am


Try VR. Soon, real sex will be obsolete. ;D


Not funny.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: wixness on 08/22/17 at 2:25 am


I used to be addicted to porn from the age of 15-21. Looking back on it, I can safely say that it's had a negative effect on me. I felt like crap most of the time, just seeing other people getting to have sex, and knowing in the real world that everyone was experiencing something that I didn't get to. Now I can't look at porn without getting jealous or just feeling unhappy in general. I'm fed up with watching someone else's fantasies getting fulfilled.

What if I got off the porn addiction, but couldn't get into the sex stuff, for things like religious reasons? I don't know how some people can live without porn, especially if they're not religious.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/22/17 at 7:17 am


That's understandable. I don't mess with it though because I'm still not the one getting laid.


never got laid either.  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/22/17 at 7:18 am


I heard if you have toys, it's almost better than the real thing. ;D

They're making dolls and robots to go with the experience LOL.


I don't want to have sex with a robot or a doll.  ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/22/17 at 7:20 am


I guess this is good for when you wanna get nasty but your signifcant other pulls the whole headache thing on you -- just go and grab the robot. :P


Yeah sure that'll help!  ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/22/17 at 9:32 am


Um...I'm all for reducing sex trafficking but sex with machines...no way for me.


It definitely has its positives. Like one of the things Slowpoke listed. They can reduced sexual harassment rates. I can see my self banging an android. No. They wouldn't replace real women for me and I really hope they won't end up looked at as replacements from us to our women.
I used to be addicted to porn from the age of 15-21. Looking back on it, I can safely say that it's had a negative effect on me. I felt like crap most of the time, just seeing other people getting to have sex, and knowing in the real world that everyone was experiencing something that I didn't get to. Now I can't look at porn without getting jealous or just feeling unhappy in general. I'm fed up with watching someone else's fantasies getting fulfilled.


That's what porn does to me. My bros still watch it for some reason even after having a healthy laid life. Its a selfish method that disses you. I really don't like seeing women attractive to me in porn, man.

Its bad for me to where, even fictional porn screws with me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/22/17 at 9:56 am


It definitely has its positives. Like one of the things Slowpoke listed. They can reduced sexual harassment rates. I can see my self banging an android. No. They wouldn't replace real women for me and I really hope they won't end up looked at as replacements from us to our women.

Yeah, I agree.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/22/17 at 10:57 am


That's easy for you to say. You got to experience real dating and sex at the average age.


Nah dude  I was 22 when that happened and you're 23 right now. I mean, there was that three week fling when I was 11, but growing up in a homophobic culture, I was more ashamed of it than anything and wanted to forget the whole thing.  :-
Not funny.


I'm sorry.  :(


I plan on joining the United States Marine Corps after I graduate from college. Will I get the chicks then? ;D :P


Probably has more chicks than computer science, so it will be an improvement.  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/22/17 at 12:06 pm


Probably has more chicks than computer science, so it will be an improvement.  :P

LOL, I guess so :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/22/17 at 1:02 pm


It definitely has its positives. Like one of the things Slowpoke listed. They can reduced sexual harassment rates. I can see my self banging an android. No. They wouldn't replace real women for me and I really hope they won't end up looked at as replacements from us to our women.
That's what porn does to me. My bros still watch it for some reason even after having a healthy laid life. Its a selfish method that disses you. I really don't like seeing women attractive to me in porn, man.

Its bad for me to where, even fictional porn screws with me.


I don't want to bang an android, What happens if I get too excited? ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 08/22/17 at 2:21 pm

I'd rather not get it on with a robot, either. That's just about as weird as all these guys into cartoons and sh!t.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/22/17 at 2:44 pm


I'd rather not get it on with a robot, either. That's just about as weird as all these guys into cartoons and sh!t.


What did you say about my waifu?

I just realized waifu's would be (virtually) real in the future. I can finally put that DS game down.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 08/22/17 at 3:14 pm


What did you say about my waifu?

I just realized waifu's would be (virtually) real in the future. I can finally put that DS game down.


Oh yeah, I'm glad Nintendo is finally catering to that part of their fanbase now. ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/22/17 at 3:31 pm


I'd rather not get it on with a robot, either. That's just about as weird as all these guys into cartoons and sh!t.

You wouldn't like being charged up? ;) ;D ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/22/17 at 3:35 pm

pppppppppppp

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/22/17 at 3:42 pm


pppppppppppp

Um...what was that? :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/22/17 at 3:44 pm

oh nothing

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/23/17 at 4:17 pm


I'd rather not get it on with a robot, either. That's just about as weird as all these guys into cartoons and sh!t.


You can always go to realdoll.com and buy a real authentic doll to make passionate love to but you're going to be paying up to $5,000 for one doll, How about it Jordan?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: c_keenan2001@hotmail.com on 08/23/17 at 5:18 pm


I'd rather not get it on with a robot, either. That's just about as weird as all these guys into cartoons and sh!t.


In the words of Homer Simpson "you'd have to be pretty desperate to get it on with a robot." ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/23/17 at 5:23 pm


Oh yeah, I'm glad Nintendo is finally catering to that part of their fanbase now. ::)


I saw this today.

RYNdiLrvwzA

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/23/17 at 5:34 pm


I saw this today.

RYNdiLrvwzA

It's apart of an evolution:
http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/110/768/df8.jpg

;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 08/23/17 at 10:06 pm


You can always go to realdoll.com and buy a real authentic doll to make passionate love to but you're going to be paying up to $5,000 for one doll, How about it Jordan?


Yeah, I'm sure my wife would love that! :P ::)


In the words of Homer Simpson "you'd have to be pretty desperate to get it on with a robot." ;D


Homer's never been so right. ;D


I saw this today.

RYNdiLrvwzA


Add this to the list of "things that shouldn't exist."



Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/24/17 at 7:43 am


In the words of Homer Simpson "you'd have to be pretty desperate to get it on with a robot." ;D


;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/24/17 at 7:44 am


Yeah, I'm sure my wife would love that! :P ::)

Homer's never been so right. ;D

Add this to the list of "things that shouldn't exist."



give her the male version. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 08/24/17 at 3:33 pm



give her the male version. ;D


Now that's something I won't allow! ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/25/17 at 4:41 pm


Now that's something I won't allow! ;D


I bet she don't want the real thing?  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/25/17 at 5:00 pm


I bet she don't want the real thing?  ;D


Hide yo wives from Roboto Robert and Android Andrei, they're the hottest thing in town.  :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 08/25/17 at 10:54 pm


I bet she don't want the real thing?  ;D


HA! If you think I'm foolish enough to go any further into this conversation, you're nuts! My wife's cooking something right now but if she came over here and saw me posting anything relating to that stuff, I'd be dead!! ::)


Hide yo wives from Roboto Robert and Android Andrei, they're the hottest thing in town.  :D


I'm more desirable to the female population. 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/25/17 at 11:15 pm

I hate being a manlet. If there is one thing I wouldn't wish upon another male is that they become a manlet like me. It f*cking sucks being one >:(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 08/25/17 at 11:16 pm


I hate being a manlet. If there is one thing I wouldn't wish upon another male is that they become a manlet like me. It f*cking sucks being one >:(.


I don't think being short is the end of the world. :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/25/17 at 11:22 pm


I don't think being short is the end of the world. :P

Yeah, that's what most guys say until you actually feel what it's like to be a manlet :-X.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 08/25/17 at 11:35 pm


I hate being a manlet. If there is one thing I wouldn't wish upon another male is that they become a manlet like me. It f*cking sucks being one >:(.


Let me guess, you've been reading Bodybuilding.com!  ;D  ;D  ;D  :-X  :-X

Honestly, to me, I've been attracted to short men before (no, I'm not hitting on you), and height just isn't a big deal to me.

You seem very smart and mentally acute, I'd use that to attract a girl.  ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/26/17 at 12:37 am


Let me guess, you've been reading Bodybuilding.com!  ;D  ;D  ;D  :-X  :-X

Yeah, you got me ;D.


Honestly, to me, I've been attracted to short men before (no, I'm not hitting on you), and height just isn't a big deal to me.

You seem very smart and mentally acute, I'd use that to attract a girl.  ;)

Thank you and that's very nice of you to say :).

If only more girls would feel this way about me :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/26/17 at 7:40 am


Hide yo wives from Roboto Robert and Android Andrei, they're the hottest thing in town.  :D


;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/26/17 at 7:41 am


HA! If you think I'm foolish enough to go any further into this conversation, you're nuts! My wife's cooking something right now but if she came over here and saw me posting anything relating to that stuff, I'd be dead!! ::)

I'm more desirable to the female population. 8)


;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/26/17 at 7:41 am


I hate being a manlet. If there is one thing I wouldn't wish upon another male is that they become a manlet like me. It f*cking sucks being one >:(.


What are those?  ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/26/17 at 10:11 am


What are those?  ???

A manlet is a person like me:

"A short man, who's too short to be considered a "man", but too tall to be considered a "dwarf". There's no consensus as to how short a person has to be to be a manlet, but more or less it is anyone under 6' tall."

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 08/26/17 at 5:41 pm

So this October, on the 17th, it will be two years of our relationship for Lee and I. We haven't talked about getting married recently but I definitely know it will happen someday! He has given me many hints that he wants to marry me.  It's been so wonderful being with him these two years so far. And even though he is much younger than I am, I found that he understands me a great deal. This is the first place I will post about us being engaged or getting married when the time comes! And then Facebook of course, lol.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/26/17 at 5:43 pm


So this October, on the 17th, it will be two years of our relationship for Lee and I. We haven't talked about getting married recently but I definitely know it will happen someday! He has given me many hints that he wants to marry me.  It's been so wonderful being with him these two years so far. And even though he is much younger than I am, I found that he understands me a great deal. This is the first place I will post about us being engaged or getting married when the time comes! And then Facebook of course, lol.

That's wonderful! Congrats to you and Lee (when the time comes :)).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/26/17 at 5:45 pm


So this October, on the 17th, it will be two years of our relationship for Lee and I. We haven't talked about getting married recently but I definitely know it will happen someday! He has given me many hints that he wants to marry me.  It's been so wonderful being with him these two years so far. And even though he is much younger than I am, I found that he understands me a great deal. This is the first place I will post about us being engaged or getting married when the time comes! And then Facebook of course, lol.


congratulations Jessica. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 08/26/17 at 5:50 pm


That's wonderful! Congrats to you and Lee (when the time comes :)).



congratulations Jessica. :)


I can't wait to see how we will celebrate our two year relationship! I WILL post about it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/26/17 at 5:52 pm


I can't wait to see how we will celebrate our two year relationship! I WILL post about it.


take Lee out to dinner. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/26/17 at 6:33 pm


So this October, on the 17th, it will be two years of our relationship for Lee and I. We haven't talked about getting married recently but I definitely know it will happen someday! He has given me many hints that he wants to marry me.  It's been so wonderful being with him these two years so far. And even though he is much younger than I am, I found that he understands me a great deal. This is the first place I will post about us being engaged or getting married when the time comes! And then Facebook of course, lol.


That's awesome Jessica! I'm happy for you and Lee. :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 08/26/17 at 6:36 pm


So this October, on the 17th, it will be two years of our relationship for Lee and I. We haven't talked about getting married recently but I definitely know it will happen someday! He has given me many hints that he wants to marry me.  It's been so wonderful being with him these two years so far. And even though he is much younger than I am, I found that he understands me a great deal. This is the first place I will post about us being engaged or getting married when the time comes! And then Facebook of course, lol.

Good luck with that!



I can't wait to see how we will celebrate our two year relationship! I WILL post about it.

That will call for a celebration, I'm sure. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 08/27/17 at 4:46 pm


take Lee out to dinner. :)


Yes..I think I will. He's taking me out on my birthday, so yeah I should probably treat us on our 2 year anniversary.


That's awesome Jessica! I'm happy for you and Lee. :D


Thank you!!


Good luck with that!

That will call for a celebration, I'm sure. :)


Definitely!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/28/17 at 7:13 am


Yes..I think I will. He's taking me out on my birthday, so yeah I should probably treat us on our 2 year anniversary.

Thank you!!

Definitely!



That's so sweet, enjoy. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/28/17 at 11:31 am

This is how it is:
http://i.imgur.com/qvZO0wG.jpg

RIP to me :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/28/17 at 7:20 pm


This is how it is:
http://i.imgur.com/qvZO0wG.jpg

RIP to me :(.


110% chance this was made by someone who's 5' 10/11". I'm pretty sure 6 foot is the minimum ;D

But you're most likely overthinking it. There are countless men your size who've found women. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/28/17 at 9:29 pm


110% chance this was made by someone who's 5' 10/11". I'm pretty sure 6 foot is the minimum ;D

But you're most likely overthinking it. There are countless men your size who've found women. :)

I was being a bit silly ;D.

However, I honestly don't care much any more. If some woman out there wants me....then great. If not then....I'll consider suicide...er, I mean stay forever alone :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 08/28/17 at 10:25 pm


I was being a bit silly ;D.

However, I honestly don't care much any more. If some woman out there wants me....then great. If not then....I'll consider suicide...er, I mean stay forever alone :P.


Just be excellent dude and the right woman will come along! 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/28/17 at 10:41 pm


Just be excellent dude and the right woman will come along! 8)

I'll try my best and hopefully that happens 8).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 08/28/17 at 11:01 pm


Just be excellent dude and the right woman will come along! 8)



I keep telling myself that too.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/29/17 at 8:50 am


I was being a bit silly ;D.

However, I honestly don't care much any more. If some woman out there wants me....then great. If not then....I'll consider suicide...er, I mean stay forever alone :P.


I didn't think you would put this out there, man. I get that you posted this as more of a joke but it has just as a message behind it. That's how it always is. I find my self thinking about that type of solution everyday basically. I ain't gotta worry bout nothin'

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/29/17 at 9:40 am


I didn't think you would put this out there, man. I get that you posted this as more of a joke but it has just as a message behind it. That's how it always is. I find my self thinking about that type of solution everyday basically. I ain't gotta worry bout nothin'

Well, I'm glad that you know that :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/29/17 at 12:23 pm

I finally found a web site that list some plants that grow in AHS heat zone 9.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/29/17 at 12:56 pm


I finally found a web site that list some plants that grow in AHS heat zone 9.

Um....OK ???.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/29/17 at 1:15 pm


Um....OK ???.


Its safe to say, that user doesn't take this site seriously.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/29/17 at 2:45 pm


I was being a bit silly ;D.

However, I honestly don't care much any more. If some woman out there wants me....then great. If not then....I'll consider suicide...er, I mean stay forever alone :P.


I used to date, in 1997 I dated a woman with Down Syndrome and in 2004 I dated a woman with Asperger's.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/29/17 at 2:46 pm


I'll try my best and hopefully that happens 8).


What's your preference?  ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/29/17 at 2:47 pm


I used to date, in 1997 I dated a woman with Down Syndrome and in 2004 I dated a woman with Asperger's.

Yeah, I know...you said that months ago.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/29/17 at 2:47 pm


What's your preference?  ???

What do you mean by that? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/29/17 at 3:14 pm


Yeah, I know...you said that months ago.


Sorry my mind goes once in a while, that is something a woman doesn't want to hear you say.  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/29/17 at 3:15 pm


What do you mean by that? ???


blond, brunette, redhead... that kind of preference.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/29/17 at 3:18 pm


blond, brunette, redhead... that kind of preference.

Oooh, that's a tough question. I don't really have a preference but I would say that I like brunettes and blondes. Redheads are hit or miss, IMO.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/29/17 at 3:19 pm


Sorry my mind goes once in a while, that is something a woman doesn't want to hear you say.  ;D

Yep :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 08/29/17 at 10:48 pm


I'll try my best and hopefully that happens 8).



I keep telling myself that too.


Don't worry, dudes. Keep your heads up and good things will happen! 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/30/17 at 5:46 am


Oooh, that's a tough question. I don't really have a preference but I would say that I like brunettes and blondes. Redheads are hit or miss, IMO.


I don't have a preference, I don't mind dating any type of race, religion or creed.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/30/17 at 9:20 am


I don't have a preference, I don't mind dating any type of race, religion or creed.

Well, on the basis of that statement I am in agreement.

However, I'm not comfortable with dating a female who is not Christian or Jewish. She doesn't have to be religious but if she at least identifies as such then that's fine.

I'm not comfortable with dating women who's religion isn't Judeo-Christian because I'm a Christian. Also, I literally can't be with a Muslim woman...unless she's "Muslim in Name Only". It's not because I don't find any Muslim women to be attractive (in fact I find many of them be be very pretty) but it's because of their religion.

That's just me though.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/30/17 at 1:38 pm

beautiful orange butterfly stopped by

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/30/17 at 2:30 pm


beautiful orange butterfly stopped by

This thread is about dating...not random statements :-X.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: wixness on 08/30/17 at 2:34 pm

In terms of who I want to date, I don't really want to date a social conservative. I don't really want to miss out on being appreciated through recreational sex, and I sure don't want to define my life by my career, although I don't want children as well.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/30/17 at 3:20 pm

No matter how attractive a women is I couldn't be with her if she was a complete social conservative. If she likes "fiscal responsibility" or even if she is "unsure" on the issue of abortion then fine but if she believes that "BLM and Antifa are the same as the KKK", "Obama is a Kenyan Muslim terrorist", "the illegals/Mexicans must be forced out of the country", "Gays and f*ggots are being shoved down our throats", "Dreamers (DACA recipients) should turn their parents in for breaking our immigration laws", "America is a post-racial society...so stop bringing up the race card", "Racism barely exists", "Democrats and Liberals are Communists/Socialists", "There should be no regulations of guns whatsoever because that doesn't stop criminals from getting guns", "ONLY a good guy with a gun can stop a bad guy with a gun", etc.

I could go on and on but I won't. I just can't be with a women who feels that way. I was watching a segment on CNN in June when they interviewed people in an Atlanta suburb for the then upcoming special election for Georgia's 6th Congressional district. They interviewed some people and asked them about who they were gong to vote for. There was this couple in their 60s who's house was divided (their votes were split). That's because the man is a registered Democrat and said that he would vote for Jon Ossoff and the woman is a registered Republican and said that she would be voting for Karen Handel. Like what? How does that even work? :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/30/17 at 4:30 pm


Well, on the basis of that statement I am in agreement.

However, I'm not comfortable with dating a female who is not Christian or Jewish. She doesn't have to be religious but if she at least identifies as such then that's fine.

I'm not comfortable with dating women who's religion isn't Judeo-Christian because I'm a Christian. Also, I literally can't be with a Muslim woman...unless she's "Muslim in Name Only". It's not because I don't find any Muslim women to be attractive (in fact I find many of them be be very pretty) but it's because of their religion.

That's just me though.


I don't think Jewish or Muslim women are allowed to marry outside their faith. Howard probably knows more about the Jewish customs.

My boyfriend is apolitical and that's probably a good thing in 2017 ;D I took him to a climate/pro-science march and a environmentalist beer festival though. Hopefully my bad influence doesn't rub off on him.  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/30/17 at 4:37 pm


I don't think Jewish or Muslim women are allowed to marry outside their faith. Howard probably knows more about the Jewish customs.

I know and that's what I said.

When it comes to Jewish girls...yes, Judaism doesn't allow interfaith marriages but it's common anyways, lol :P. Also, Jews and Christians are 97-98% similar and in the U.S., a lot of Jewish women are only culturally Jewish but not religious (or not that religious) aka "Jewish in Name Only".


My boyfriend is apolitical and that's probably a good thing in 2017 ;D I took him to a climate/pro-science march and a environmentalist beer festival though. Hopefully my bad influence doesn't rub off on him.  ;D

I bet it already has ;).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/30/17 at 9:06 pm


This thread is about dating...not random statements :-X.


I love nature though.  Cant an annimal marry a butterfly?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/30/17 at 10:11 pm


I love nature though.  Cant an annimal marry a butterfly?

Um......I.....I don't know :-\\.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/30/17 at 10:21 pm

I know a fly can marry a bumble bee

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/30/17 at 10:46 pm


I know a fly can marry a bumble bee

https://media.giphy.com/media/EzGslrzAb5AxG/giphy.gif

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/31/17 at 7:46 am


Well, on the basis of that statement I am in agreement.

However, I'm not comfortable with dating a female who is not Christian or Jewish. She doesn't have to be religious but if she at least identifies as such then that's fine.

I'm not comfortable with dating women who's religion isn't Judeo-Christian because I'm a Christian. Also, I literally can't be with a Muslim woman...unless she's "Muslim in Name Only". It's not because I don't find any Muslim women to be attractive (in fact I find many of them be be very pretty) but it's because of their religion.

That's just me though.


http://www.topnews.in/law/files/wear-hijab-face-sack.jpg

http://www.abc.net.au/news/image/1153402-3x2-940x627.jpg

Would you date women wearing hijabs? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/31/17 at 7:47 am


This thread is about dating...not random statements :-X.



I agree.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/31/17 at 7:48 am


I don't think Jewish or Muslim women are allowed to marry outside their faith. Howard probably knows more about the Jewish customs.

My boyfriend is apolitical and that's probably a good thing in 2017 ;D I took him to a climate/pro-science march and a environmentalist beer festival though. Hopefully my bad influence doesn't rub off on him.  ;D



I know a little bit, I used to date a woman who was Ashkenazi.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/31/17 at 9:48 am


http://www.topnews.in/law/files/wear-hijab-face-sack.jpg

http://www.abc.net.au/news/image/1153402-3x2-940x627.jpg

Would you date women wearing hijabs? ???

I can't date a woman who is Muslim...so the answer is no.

Also, only the top picture features a woman in a hijab. The bottom one features women in a niqab. There's a difference between them.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/31/17 at 2:52 pm


I can't date a woman who is Muslim...so the answer is no.

Also, only the top picture features a woman in a hijab. The bottom one features women in a niqab. There's a difference between them.


Would it scare you that wearing their outfits is a part of their religion? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/31/17 at 3:50 pm


Would it scare you that wearing their outfits is a part of their religion? ???

No dude...I can't be with them BECAUSE of their religion.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Longaotian00 on 08/31/17 at 3:52 pm


No dude...I can't be with them BECAUSE of their religion.


Can they not date people who aren't muslim?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/31/17 at 3:56 pm


Can they not date people who aren't muslim?

Yes. Islam FORBIDS Muslim women from being in a relationship with a non-Muslim man.

However, if a Muslim man wants to be with a non-Muslim woman (in particular, Christian and Jewish women)...it's perfectly acceptable.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: c_keenan2001@hotmail.com on 08/31/17 at 9:33 pm


http://www.topnews.in/law/files/wear-hijab-face-sack.jpg

http://www.abc.net.au/news/image/1153402-3x2-940x627.jpg

Would you date women wearing hijabs? ???


The head scarf without the face covering is called a hijab.  The face covering is called a niquab.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/31/17 at 9:46 pm


The head scarf without the face covering is called a hijab.  The face covering is called a niquab.

Yep. I also told him that earlier.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 08/31/17 at 11:30 pm


Yes. Islam FORBIDS Muslim women from being in a relationship with a non-Muslim man.

However, if a Muslim man wants to be with a non-Muslim woman (in particular, Christian and Jewish women)...it's perfectly acceptable.

That is interesting. I never knew that before.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/31/17 at 11:32 pm


That is interesting. I never knew that before.

Me either...I just learned this a few months ago.

There is also no such thing as "dating" in Islam.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 08/31/17 at 11:33 pm


Me either...I just learned this a few months ago.

There is also no such thing as "dating" in Islam.

Always interesting to learn new stuff like that.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 08/31/17 at 11:34 pm


Always interesting to learn new stuff like that.

Yep.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 09/01/17 at 5:35 pm


No dude...I can't be with them BECAUSE of their religion.


I wouldn't mind dating them like My Mother always says, you just have to be happy with yourself and if she's happy then you will be too.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 09/01/17 at 6:27 pm


I wouldn't mind dating them like My Mother always says, you just have to be happy with yourself and if she's happy then you will be too.

Howard you CAN'T date a Muslim woman because:

1. You're not a Muslim.
2. Dating is not allowed in Islam.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 09/02/17 at 7:27 am


Howard you CAN'T date a Muslim woman because:

1. You're not a Muslim.
2. Dating is not allowed in Islam.


But I'm Jewish, why does it matter?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 09/02/17 at 10:50 am


But I'm Jewish, why does it matter?

Um...Howard...you know what...nevermind.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: JordanK1982 on 09/02/17 at 10:51 am

LOL!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 09/02/17 at 1:59 pm


Um...Howard...you know what...nevermind.


Sorry if that was a tough question to answer, let's move on.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AL-B Mk. III on 12/19/17 at 8:59 pm

I may have just broken out of a long slump.  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 12/19/17 at 9:05 pm

yummy

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AL-B Mk. III on 12/19/17 at 9:14 pm


yummy


https://media.giphy.com/media/J8WR3aDHJevnO/giphy.gif

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 12/19/17 at 9:34 pm

poop to fill now  poop to fill

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/19/17 at 10:22 pm


I may have just broken out of a long slump.  :)


Get the beer out.....now!!!  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AL-B Mk. III on 12/19/17 at 10:33 pm


Get the beer out.....now!!!  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D


Cracking one open now.  :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/19/17 at 10:57 pm


I may have just broken out of a long slump.  :)


Cuffing season will #bless us all :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/20/17 at 12:40 am


Cuffing season will #bless us all :D

Not me :-X :(.

Though in the past few months, I've noticed that more females have started staring at me or are looking at me until I look until I look at them. I don't know if this because I'm really good looking....OR really ugly ;D :-X :-\\.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/20/17 at 1:12 am


Not me :-X :(.

Though in the past few months, I've noticed that more females have started staring at me or are looking at me until I look until I look at them. I don't know if this because I'm really good looking....OR really ugly ;D :-X :-\\.


I don't think I could stare for too long at an ugly person. It's almost certainly the former  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/20/17 at 2:07 am


I don't think I could stare for too long at an ugly person. It's almost certainly the former  ;D

Most likely you're correct.

It's probably my self esteem because I couldn't believe that any girl would take interest in me of all people :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 12/20/17 at 7:23 am


I may have just broken out of a long slump.  :)


Who is the lucky girl, Al? :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 12/20/17 at 7:24 am


Not me :-X :(.

Though in the past few months, I've noticed that more females have started staring at me or are looking at me until I look until I look at them. I don't know if this because I'm really good looking....OR really ugly ;D :-X :-\\.


Then don't look at them!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/20/17 at 11:00 am


Then don't look at them!

What? ???. They are the ones looking at me...not the other way around.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/20/17 at 11:05 am


Not me :-X :(.

Though in the past few months, I've noticed that more females have started staring at me or are looking at me until I look until I look at them. I don't know if this because I'm really good looking....OR really ugly ;D :-X :-\\.


If you're not Quasimodo, I have no reason to believe it's because you're hideous.  :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 12/20/17 at 11:57 am


Most likely you're correct.

It's probably my self esteem because I couldn't believe that any girl would take interest in me of all people :P.


And it feels great. You actually feel wanted. I know from experience. I was passing an older women once with thighs like what and I kind of got immense in  them. As we passed each other, I had to look back and she did to and caught me. Haha I gave the peace hand sign and she nodded her head. I actually work out so I know its a positive.

Both of you locking eyes as your passing each other is also amazing. You will constantly remember the moment it happened until you fall asleep.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/20/17 at 12:18 pm


And it feels great. You actually feel wanted. I know from experience. I was passing an older women once with thighs like what and I kind of got immense in  them. As we passed each other, I had to look back and she did to and caught me. Haha I gave the peace hand sign and she nodded her head. I actually work out so I know its a positive.

Both of you locking eyes as your passing each other is also amazing. You will constantly remember the moment it happened until you fall asleep.


Nice! How long have you been working out? I started 2 months ago and I think i notice girls staring for a millisecond longer, but it might all be in my head. ;D

It fixed up my hunch back posture though. So I definitely look more confident even if I'm not. 8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/20/17 at 2:23 pm


If you're not Quasimodo, I have no reason to believe it's because you're hideous.  :o

Thanks for that ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/20/17 at 2:24 pm


And it feels great. You actually feel wanted. I know from experience. I was passing an older women once with thighs like what and I kind of got immense in  them. As we passed each other, I had to look back and she did to and caught me. Haha I gave the peace hand sign and she nodded her head. I actually work out so I know its a positive.

Both of you locking eyes as your passing each other is also amazing. You will constantly remember the moment it happened until you fall asleep.

Yeah, sometimes stuff like that happens.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 12/20/17 at 2:52 pm


What? ???. They are the ones looking at me...not the other way around.


Then you should feel flattered, Do you feel insecure about your body? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/20/17 at 3:40 pm


Then you should feel flattered, Do you feel insecure about your body? ???

Not my body. I feel insecure about my height (or lack there of) and my face.

Honestly, I'm more insecure about my height than anything else. I wish I was 3-4 inches taller but the chances of me growing that much is less than 1%.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 12/20/17 at 6:02 pm


Nice! How long have you been working out? I started 2 months ago and I think i notice girls staring for a millisecond longer, but it might all be in my head. ;D

It fixed up my hunch back posture though. So I definitely look more confident even if I'm not. 8)


I been working out since 2015. My arms are toned and I wear muscle shirts and varieties of basketball shorts that make me look more fit. I also eat and drink beet juice, carrots and try not to eat sweets.

You could lack in a lot of other qualities but, a girl can still like you for your body. Muscles make you fascinating.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 12/21/17 at 7:53 am


Not my body. I feel insecure about my height (or lack there of) and my face.

Honestly, I'm more insecure about my height than anything else. I wish I was 3-4 inches taller but the chances of me growing that much is less than 1%.


You can always buy those things you put in your shoes to make you look taller.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/21/17 at 3:32 pm


You can always buy those things you put in your shoes to make you look taller.


I'll take that advice.  :-X  :-X  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/21/17 at 6:53 pm


I'll take that advice.  :-X  :-X  :-X


You're already tall.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 12/22/17 at 8:09 am


You're already tall.


So I guess he doesn't need those things? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/22/17 at 5:36 pm


So I guess he doesn't need those things? ???


No. He's 5'11". If he bought tall shoes he'd be like 6'3" or 6'4".

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/22/17 at 5:57 pm


No. He's 5'11". If he bought tall shoes he'd be like 6'3" or 6'4".


;D  ;D  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/22/17 at 8:42 pm

I wish that I was "NBA short".

NBA short means that you're 6'0" to 6'3" (average height of NBA players is 6'5").

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/22/17 at 8:49 pm


I wish that I was "NBA short".

NBA short means that you're 6'0" to 6'3" (average height of NBA players is 6'5").


I noticed that most men want to be between 6'0" to 6'2". I guess that's the 'ideal' height for a male
in today's society.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/22/17 at 8:55 pm


I noticed that most men want to be between 6'0" to 6'2". I guess that's the 'ideal' height for a male
in today's society.

It is.

It's also the height range that most women find to be the most appealing.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/22/17 at 8:57 pm


I wish that I was "NBA short".

NBA short means that you're 6'0" to 6'3" (average height of NBA players is 6'5").


I made a stop at the Amsterdam airport in 2009 and felt like a midget. Granted, I was still 16, but I only reached up to most men's elbows. The average height in the Netherlands is 183 cm/6'1". AVERAGE.

Pro-tip: move to Mexico.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/22/17 at 8:58 pm


It is. Over 85% of business executives are 6'0" to 6'4".

It's also the height range that most women find to be the most appealing.


Yes, 5'11" to 6'3" is the range I hear most!  :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 12/22/17 at 9:00 pm

I'm to short.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/22/17 at 9:05 pm


I made a stop at the Amsterdam airport in 2009 and felt like a midget. Granted, I was still 16, but I only reached up to most men's elbows. The average height in the Netherlands is 183 cm/6'1". AVERAGE.

Pro-tip: move to Mexico.

Yeah, Dutch men are some giants :o.

I'm not moving to Mexico though :P ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/22/17 at 9:06 pm


Yes, 5'11" to 6'3" is the range I hear most!  :D

LOL, not really 5'11". Anything below 6'0" is considered "not manly enough" ;D.

I understand that you're 5'11" so you had to sneak that in there...I gotcha ;).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/22/17 at 9:10 pm


LOL, not really 5'11". Anything below 6'0" is considered "not manly enough" ;D.

I understand that you're 5'11" so you had to sneak that in there...I gotcha ;).


In metric countries, 180 cm+ is considered 'ideal', which is 5'11". He's just gotta move to Québec.  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/22/17 at 9:13 pm


LOL, not really 5'11". Anything below 6'0" is considered "not manly enough" ;D.

I understand that you're 5'11" so you had to sneak that in there...I gotcha ;).


Aannnnnnnnnnd there goes my self esteem.  :D  :D  :D

https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTrvD_9x6hPq3qD9Cd_iFjyxEb4M_HRjWQMAJ6trMIIApMVFRzZ5g

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/22/17 at 9:35 pm


In metric countries, 180 cm+ is considered 'ideal', which is 5'11". He's just gotta move to Québec.  ;D

Maybe, he should.

5'11" or 180 cm is considered average height for an American male...so in the US, he's just average :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/22/17 at 9:36 pm


Aannnnnnnnnnd there goes my self esteem.  :D  :D  :D

https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTrvD_9x6hPq3qD9Cd_iFjyxEb4M_HRjWQMAJ6trMIIApMVFRzZ5g

Can you imagine how my self esteem must be? :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/22/17 at 10:57 pm


Maybe, he should.

5'11" or 180 cm is considered average height for an American male...so in the US, he's just average :P.


Isn't the average in the US 175cm / 5'9"? I didn't feel that short when I went to Florida. (I felt really small though... dat American obesity rate  :-X)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/22/17 at 11:08 pm


Isn't the average in the US 175cm / 5'9"? I didn't feel that short when I went to Florida. (I felt really small though... dat American obesity rate  :-X)


Yes, roughly 5'9 and 6/10"!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/22/17 at 11:09 pm


Isn't the average in the US 175cm / 5'9"? I didn't feel that short when I went to Florida. (I felt really small though... dat American obesity rate  :-X)


Eat that Cheeseburger in your hand, pink one!  >:(  >:(  >:(  ;D  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/22/17 at 11:35 pm


Isn't the average in the US 175cm / 5'9"? I didn't feel that short when I went to Florida. (I felt really small though... dat American obesity rate  :-X)

The US average height for males is 5 ft 10.5 in (basically 5'11").

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 12/22/17 at 11:35 pm


The US average height for males is 5 ft 10.5 in (basically 5'11").

I am approximately that height myself.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/23/17 at 12:08 am


I am approximately that height myself.

Lucky for you. I'm a few inches shorter :(.

My father is that height though (5'10").

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/23/17 at 12:11 am


The US average height for males is 5 ft 10.5 in (basically 5'11").


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_average_human_height_worldwide

It's 175.7 cm (5'9") in the US.  In Canada it's 175.1 cm. I should check my height again, it was 175 cm when I was 18, I might have grown. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 12/23/17 at 12:47 am


Lucky for you. I'm a few inches shorter :(.

My father is that height though (5'10").

So is mine.

My mom is only 5'1".

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 12/23/17 at 7:36 am


No. He's 5'11". If he bought tall shoes he'd be like 6'3" or 6'4".


Maybe I could use them, I'd up my height by just a few inches.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 12/23/17 at 7:38 am


Maybe, he should.

5'11" or 180 cm is considered average height for an American male...so in the US, he's just average :P.


I'm 6ft tall is that considered average?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/23/17 at 7:39 am


So is mine.

My mom is only 5'1".

Oh wow. My mom is 5'2".

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 12/23/17 at 7:40 am


So is mine.

My mom is only 5'1".


My Mother is about 5'4".

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 12/23/17 at 11:22 am


I wish that I was "NBA short".

NBA short means that you're 6'0" to 6'3" (average height of NBA players is 6'5").


Your going to be more miserable if you limit yourself to height. Just hit the gym.

I hear height can be intimidating to women if your just a random dude.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/23/17 at 11:37 am


Your going to be more miserable if you limit yourself to height. Just hit the gym.

"Just hit the gym" is the universal answer that almost every guy who is not short tells a short guy. We're tired of having to "hit the gym", a 6'1" guy can be skinny or even slightly overweight and will have more dating opportunities than a buff and in shape 5'6" guy, in general.

I'm short but with a naturally muscular-ish and lean body. I do some exercises but I don't "hit the gym" (some of my friends do).


I hear height can be intimidating to women if your just a random dude.

Well, of course. It can also be intimidating to other men. However, as long as you are not actually a bully, murderer or asshole then being a 6'0" to 6'3" is the most ideal height to be as a male.

That's the height range that is most appealing to most women. There are exceptions but this is generally the case.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/23/17 at 12:10 pm


So is mine.

My mom is only 5'1".


Same. My dad is 5'8".


"Just hit the gym" is the universal answer that almost every guy who is not short tells a short guy. We're tired of having to "hit the gym", a 6'1" guy can be skinny or even slightly overweight and will have more dating opportunities than a buff and in shape 5'6" guy, in general.

I'm short but with a naturally muscular-ish and lean body. I do some exercises but I don't "hit the gym" (some of my friends do).
Well, of course. It can also be intimidating to other men. However, as long as you are not actually a bully, murderer or asshole then being a 6'0" to 6'3" is the most ideal height to be as a male.

That's the height range that is most appealing to most women. There are exceptions but this is generally the case.


Every dude should hit the weights tbh. Women are *hard-wired* to be attracted to muscle, it's completely involuntary. If you want them to look past your height, then kicking their animal hormones into over drive is probably the way to do it.

Also it's easier to build muscle if you're short. Use your one true advantage.  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 12/23/17 at 12:46 pm


"Just hit the gym" is the universal answer that almost every guy who is not short tells a short guy. We're tired of having to "hit the gym", a 6'1" guy can be skinny or even slightly overweight and will have more dating opportunities than a buff and in shape 5'6" guy, in general.

I'm short but with a naturally muscular-ish and lean body. I do some exercises but I don't "hit the gym" (some of my friends do).
Well, of course. It can also be intimidating to other men. However, as long as you are not actually a bully, murderer or asshole then being a 6'0" to 6'3" is the most ideal height to be as a male.

That's the height range that is most appealing to most women. There are exceptions but this is generally the case.


I'm not exactly tall either dude. I'm about the same height as the girl who prefer a taller mate, average. I'm not exactly fit also but, my body is showing results when you don't count my f'd up stamina. I didn't mean actually hit the gym. Just workout. You can work with whatever you have at home. A private workout is the best anyway. It may seem pointless but, its generally beneficial. Muscles make you fascinating. The skinny or slightly overweight dudes have more dating opportunities because they have game.

I'll say this, I don't regret it. I'm really glad I put in energy building my self.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/23/17 at 1:21 pm


I'm not exactly tall either dude. I'm about the same height as the girl who prefer a taller mate, average. I'm not exactly fit also but, my body is showing results when you don't count my f'd up stamina. I didn't mean actually hit the gym. Just workout. You can work with whatever you have at home. A private workout is the best anyway. It may seem pointless but, its generally beneficial. Muscles make you fascinating. The skinny or slightly overweight dudes have more dating opportunities because they have game.

I'll say this, I don't regret it. I'm really glad I put in energy building my self.


I workout with a pair of dumbbells at home. I don't regret it either. It's actually really fun, I love being stronger. I have to do a lot of heavy lifting because my sister has mobility issues, so the extra strength has made my life a lot easier.

I've only been at it for 2 months, but I look great with my shirt off. Now I need to look great with my shirt on ;D

The first compliment I got was that my shoulders look broader. Right off the bat you start looking manlier :o

Another thing that was fixed was my posture. People who don't workout usually have their neck forward like a giraffe. Doing a Farmer's Carry or a split stance hammer curl fixed that sh*t right up for me. I'm pretty sure I look 10x more confident now that I walk upright. (you also look taller :P)

Another compliment I got was that my handshake felt more firm. Seriously, if you're not lifting, you're not at your peak manliness ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 12/23/17 at 1:32 pm


Your going to be more miserable if you limit yourself to height. Just hit the gym.

I hear height can be intimidating to women if your just a random dude.


I thought women liked tall men? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/23/17 at 1:56 pm


I thought women liked tall men? ???


Yeah, they like taller men. There's no sugar coating it. But there are some things you can still do to put yourself ahead like good looks, confidence, fashion, muscle, money etc. 

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/23/17 at 2:01 pm


I workout with a pair of dumbbells at home. I don't regret it either. It's actually really fun, I love being stronger. I have to do a lot of heavy lifting because my sister has mobility issues, so the extra strength has made my life a lot easier.

I've only been at it for 2 months, but I look great with my shirt off. Now I need to look great with my shirt on ;D

The first compliment I got was that my shoulders look broader. Right off the bat you start looking manlier :o

Another thing that was fixed was my posture. People who don't workout usually have their neck forward like a giraffe. Doing a Farmer's Carry or a split stance hammer curl fixed that sh*t right up for me. I'm pretty sure I look 10x more confident now that I walk upright. (you also look taller :P)

Another compliment I got was that my handshake felt more firm. Seriously, if you're not lifting, you're not at your peak manliness ;D


To me, the shirt off is more important. Like when you go to the beach. I'm not there yet.  :(  :(  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 12/23/17 at 2:21 pm


To me, the shirt off is more important. Like when you go to the beach. I'm not there yet.  :(  :(  :(


In Canada shirt on is definitely more important. Don't you live in Nebraska? There are beaches there? ;D

I don't have a beach body yet. It's only been two months! I have a female tennis player kind of body at the moment (without the breasts), not bad for a person who started with a marathon runner body. :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 12/23/17 at 4:12 pm


Every dude should hit the weights tbh. Women are *hard-wired* to be attracted to muscle, it's completely involuntary. If you want them to look past your height, then kicking their animal hormones into over drive is probably the way to do it.

Also it's easier to build muscle if you're short. Use your one true advantage.  :P



I'm not exactly tall either dude. I'm about the same height as the girl who prefer a taller mate, average. I'm not exactly fit also but, my body is showing results when you don't count my f'd up stamina. I didn't mean actually hit the gym. Just workout. You can work with whatever you have at home. A private workout is the best anyway. It may seem pointless but, its generally beneficial. Muscles make you fascinating. The skinny or slightly overweight dudes have more dating opportunities because they have game.

I'll say this, I don't regret it. I'm really glad I put in energy building my self.

I'm already muscular and lean but that's mostly due to my good genetics (in terms of physique :P). I do some exercises like push ups and pull ups at home but I don't feel the need to go the gym.

Also, as short guys...we have to do other things to in order to attract women. A tall guy just has to be tall and he automatically has more dating opportunities with women (has nothing to do with their "game") than a short guy like me, in general.

Obviously, not all tall guys have luck with women and not all women prefer tall or taller guys but in most cases what I said is true.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: GH1996 on 12/24/17 at 2:34 am

Was single before i moved to australia earlier this year, met a pretty cool chick on a snowboarding trip in july which she happened to live in melbourne where i was living, have been dating really since then.. i have a 2 year holiday/working visa here.

didn't really date much when i was living in canada (home).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: HazelBlue99 on 12/24/17 at 4:34 am


Was single before i moved to australia earlier this year, met a pretty cool chick on a snowboarding trip in july which she happened to live in melbourne where i was living, have been dating really since then.. i have a 2 year holiday/working visa here.

didn't really date much when i was living in canada (home).


That's good to hear.

Just out of curiosity, how are you finding it living in Australia? :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 12/24/17 at 5:31 am


To me, the shirt off is more important. Like when you go to the beach. I'm not there yet.  :(  :(  :(


So you don't have abs yet? I guess it's time to develop them now.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 12/24/17 at 11:05 am


In Canada shirt on is definitely more important. Don't you live in Nebraska? There are beaches there? ;D

I don't have a beach body yet. It's only been two months! I have a female tennis player kind of body at the moment (without the breasts), not bad for a person who started with a marathon runner body. :P


No, I just meant that if a person goes swimming that it's probably better to look
good, shirtless. Whether at a swimming pool, or the beach.  ;D  ;D  ;D

I agree that, ideally, everybody wants to look good with both their shirts on, and off.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: GH1996 on 12/24/17 at 12:41 pm


That's good to hear.

Just out of curiosity, how are you finding it living in Australia? :)


Loving it here, everyone is more friendly here than they are in canada.

Still getting used to the "Australian summer" (North American winter) kinda weird seeing christmas decorations when its +30c outside

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 01/07/18 at 9:33 pm

No weird sh!t but it did give me hope.

About a week ago, I went to Wal-Mart. When I'm there, one of the main purposes is to check the video game section. Haha As I went that way, I seen a nice Mexican descent, Latina literally beside the same section. I feel like, I noticed her before she noticed me, even though she noticed me instant. It was like a race. I was mesmerized. She took the basket, pushed and went into a isle of the video game section by her family. I went in to and went to look at the glassed shelf of games. I had to. Haha As I saw them leave, I played it off and went back the same way. As I see them in the distance in front me, I'm still blown away. I get to the upper isles close to the front of Wal-Mart and inevitably ended up passing and noticed her at the last second and looked back as she was standing at the end of the isle as her family were more in the isle, distracted. By this point, she know I'm mesmerized. She could literally see me go to the front and continually play it off. As I waited in the same spot, watching people wait in lines, she passed me by to where, we were an inch apart. It was really heartfelt. It was as if she intentionally went around the isle just to come close and tag me and went to catch up with her family, by then it was as if she forgot about my existence.

Sh!t was amazing though.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 01/17/18 at 5:35 pm

I'm single too, but I'm crushing on someone. The thing is though, we've been friends since about the third grade and I don't know why I'm crushing on him just now. I remember having a crush on him almost three years ago, but I got over it, but it was only in about December 2017 when I started liking him again and I don't know why. Everytime he texts me I get butterflies in my stomach. It's the same when I see him in person. I've been thinking about him a lot more than I usually would. I haven't told him I had a crush on him yet.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 01/20/18 at 11:53 am


I'm single too, but I'm crushing on someone. The thing is though, we've been friends since about the third grade and I don't know why I'm crushing on him just now. I remember having a crush on him almost three years ago, but I got over it, but it was only in about December 2017 when I started liking him again and I don't know why. Everytime he texts me I get butterflies in my stomach. It's the same when I see him in person. I've been thinking about him a lot more than I usually would. I haven't told him I had a crush on him yet.


You both still talk, right? You gotta make your way into the subject as your both having a conversation. You got his contacts, which was the next step anyway. Sometimes, the girls gotta make the first move. The clock is ticking.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 01/20/18 at 12:26 pm


You both still talk, right? You gotta make your way into the subject as your both having a conversation. You got his contacts, which was the next step anyway. Sometimes, the girls gotta make the first move. The clock is ticking.

Yeah, I have his phone number and I text him. But it's just hard for me to tell him that I like him.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 02/08/18 at 11:53 pm

I'm not going to lie, today I felt very depressed and embittered towards people who've got to experience romantic relationships. There are times where I feel my knuckles clenching, that's how frustrated I've been feeling. It seems like girls nowadays are either into those trashy dudebro fratboy scumbags who blast their sh***y or those stupid goddamn pretentious trendy hipster types. I REFUSE to be like either types of those guys. I will NOT prove them right. And I'm tired. I'm really tired of trying to be "nice" or "good". What has that gotten me? Feeling isolated and alone from todays s***thole society, pretending to be friendly towards idiots I have nothing in common with. I don't know how much more of this I can handle. I'm not asking for society to be perfect! I just want a place where I can belong, and not have to constantly feel like I'm going to explode. Last week I almost got into a fight with someone at school. I had to walk away, because I knew that one or both of us could get hurt and get into serious trouble. I couldn't risk getting suspended or kicked out of campus. The weird part is that I instigated the fight, because I was jealous. I saw him with a girl, and I felt this sense of hatred towards him. It also doesn't help that the girls seem to be into all this activist crap.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/09/18 at 12:35 am


I'm not going to lie, today I felt very depressed and embittered towards people who've got to experience romantic relationships. There are times where I feel my knuckles clenching, that's how frustrated I've been feeling. It seems like girls nowadays are either into those trashy dudebro fratboy scumbags who blast their sh***y or those stupid goddamn pretentious trendy hipster types. I REFUSE to be like either types of those guys. I will NOT prove them right. And I'm tired. I'm really tired of trying to be "nice" or "good". What has that gotten me? Feeling isolated and alone from todays s***thole society, pretending to be friendly towards idiots I have nothing in common with. I don't know how much more of this I can handle. I'm not asking for society to be perfect! I just want a place where I can belong, and not have to constantly feel like I'm going to explode. Last week I almost got into a fight with someone at school. I had to walk away, because I knew that one or both of us could get hurt and get into serious trouble. I couldn't risk getting suspended or kicked out of campus. The weird part is that I instigated the fight, because I was jealous. I saw him with a girl, and I felt this sense of hatred towards him. It also doesn't help that the girls seem to be into all this activist crap.

Don't let your lack dating success make you become angry and paranoid because you might end up becoming another Elliot Rodger :-X :(.

I don't have any success when it comes to dating so far but I'm not letting myself become angry or paranoid over it. Just continue to live life and live life for YOU not anyone else. Who knows...maybe soon enough both of us will find ourselves in a relationship. Keep your head up! :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 02/09/18 at 11:14 am


Don't let your lack dating success make you become angry and paranoid because you might end up becoming another Elliot Rodger :-X :(.

I don't have any success when it comes to dating so far but I'm not letting myself become angry or paranoid over it. Just continue to live life and live life for YOU not anyone else. Who knows...maybe soon enough both of us will find ourselves in a relationship. Keep your head up! :)

Same with me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 02/09/18 at 12:31 pm

I don't have any success when it comes to dating so far but I'm not letting myself become angry or paranoid over it. Just continue to live life and live life for YOU not anyone else. Who knows...maybe soon enough both of us will find ourselves in a relationship. Keep your head up! :)


This is a universal answer. He IS continuing to live life but, reminder of a missing romantic partner will mess with you. He wants to experience what its like because, its new, exciting and something is given out of it. Even if the experience is short lived, its still worth it for beginners.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/09/18 at 12:46 pm


This is a universal answer. He IS continuing to live life but, reminder of a missing romantic partner will mess with you. He wants to experience what its like because, its new, exciting and something is given out of it. Even if the experience is short lived, its still worth it for beginners.

It's a universal answer because it's really the ONLY answer. You don't think that I also would like to experience being in a romantic relationship? Of course I would but I'm not going to become paranoid and crazy and start attacking a random person because I'm angry that they are in a relationship and I'm not.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: c_keenan2001@hotmail.com on 02/09/18 at 12:49 pm

I'm 5 ft 7 In and I won't go much taller than 6 ft tall because it's just not worth it to me to have to hyperflex my neck just to kiss someone on the cheek.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/09/18 at 3:22 pm


Don't let your lack dating success make you become angry and paranoid because you might end up becoming another Elliot Rodger :-X :(.

I don't have any success when it comes to dating so far but I'm not letting myself become angry or paranoid over it. Just continue to live life and live life for YOU not anyone else. Who knows...maybe soon enough both of us will find ourselves in a relationship. Keep your head up! :)

I've had success but I think for now I'll take a woman just as friends.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/09/18 at 4:35 pm


I've had success but I think for now I'll take a woman just as friends.

Friends...with benefits? ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 02/09/18 at 8:03 pm

I didn't eat any last night

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: musicguy93 on 02/10/18 at 3:40 am


Don't let your lack dating success make you become angry and paranoid because you might end up becoming another Elliot Rodger :-X :(.

I don't have any success when it comes to dating so far but I'm not letting myself become angry or paranoid over it. Just continue to live life and live life for YOU not anyone else. Who knows...maybe soon enough both of us will find ourselves in a relationship. Keep your head up! :)


I could have sworn I canceled my previous post, but I guess I didn't. Part of me really wishes I hadn't posted that comment. Because now everyone on this site probably thinks I'm some psycho. On the other hand, I guess it's better that I get it out of my system here. When I was typing all that, I was just really frustrated. I honestly wasn't thinking straight, and I felt like my head was going to explode. Now I'm feeling a bit better and realize that I'm just reinforcing the negative crap inside of me. Now I'm sick. I'm sick of all these negative emotions taking control of me practically 24/7. Today I've realized how exhausted I've made myself. It's easy to tell myself to not worry about it. But then something happens that reminds me that I still haven't had a girlfriend or been on a single date. Whether it be some guy talking about his girlfriend, or even ex-girlfriends, or their sex lives, etc. There are times where I really feel like there's something wrong with me. That's why I sometimes rage on some other posts. It doesn't make me feel good afterwards, and there are certainly some posts that I do regret. I know for a fact there are people on this site who hate me for some of these posts. I'm tired of being angry, but I just feel so trapped sometimes. Trapped in a period in history where I'm completely out of place. That's why I feel resentful towards the so-called "dudebros" and "hipsters". It's because things seem to be going in their favor right now, including getting girlfriends. What I want to prove to myself is that I don't need to be like them to find my sense of belonging. That I don't need to be like them to pursue my dreams, or to find love. I know I'm rambling, but it's late here, and I should probably be getting some sleep and get my head cleared up.

Thank you for your support. It helps to have a friendly response  :).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/10/18 at 7:37 am


Friends...with benefits? ;)


Well, just as long as I can screw them one night and then they can go on their merry way afterwards and that I never have to see them ever again, No commitments & no emotional ties.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/10/18 at 10:12 am


I could have sworn I canceled my previous post, but I guess I didn't. Part of me really wishes I hadn't posted that comment. Because now everyone on this site probably thinks I'm some psycho. On the other hand, I guess it's better that I get it out of my system here. When I was typing all that, I was just really frustrated. I honestly wasn't thinking straight, and I felt like my head was going to explode. Now I'm feeling a bit better and realize that I'm just reinforcing the negative crap inside of me. Now I'm sick. I'm sick of all these negative emotions taking control of me practically 24/7. Today I've realized how exhausted I've made myself. It's easy to tell myself to not worry about it. But then something happens that reminds me that I still haven't had a girlfriend or been on a single date. Whether it be some guy talking about his girlfriend, or even ex-girlfriends, or their sex lives, etc. There are times where I really feel like there's something wrong with me. That's why I sometimes rage on some other posts. It doesn't make me feel good afterwards, and there are certainly some posts that I do regret. I know for a fact there are people on this site who hate me for some of these posts. I'm tired of being angry, but I just feel so trapped sometimes. Trapped in a period in history where I'm completely out of place. That's why I feel resentful towards the so-called "dudebros" and "hipsters". It's because things seem to be going in their favor right now, including getting girlfriends. What I want to prove to myself is that I don't need to be like them to find my sense of belonging. That I don't need to be like them to pursue my dreams, or to find love. I know I'm rambling, but it's late here, and I should probably be getting some sleep and get my head cleared up.

Thank you for your support. It helps to have a friendly response  :).

No problem. You're welcome! :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 02/14/18 at 8:56 pm

Did any of you see anyone?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: LooseBolt on 02/14/18 at 9:11 pm

Happily married for nearly a year.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/14/18 at 9:38 pm


Happily married for nearly a year.


That's wonderful *_*

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: LooseBolt on 02/14/18 at 9:43 pm

Believe me when I say it wasn't an easy road to get here. From the time I was 12 until I was nearly 20, I had terrible, terrible luck with women. When I met my now-wife, I was about to give up entirely.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AmericanGirl on 02/14/18 at 10:30 pm


Happily married for nearly a year.


Wonderful!  Early Happy Anniversary!  :D

I'm happily married, too.  (Almost 20 years...)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/14/18 at 11:26 pm


Happily married for nearly a year.

Congrats to you and your wife! :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/14/18 at 11:27 pm


Believe me when I say it wasn't an easy road to get here. From the time I was 12 until I was nearly 20, I had terrible, terrible luck with women. When I met my now-wife, I was about to give up entirely.

Interesting. I have just under a year and a half until I turn 20 :P.

I haven't given up entirely though.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 02/14/18 at 11:48 pm


Happily married for nearly a year.

Happy pre-anniversary. O0

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: LooseBolt on 02/15/18 at 5:19 am

Thank you, everyone! It has been a journey.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/15/18 at 5:33 am


Did any of you see anyone?


I haven't been on a date for 10 years and the last girl I was out with she virtually cheated on me behind my back.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/15/18 at 5:33 am


Happily married for nearly a year.


congratulations Loose. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/15/18 at 10:58 am


Wonderful!  Early Happy Anniversary!  :D

I'm happily married, too.  (Almost 20 years...)


That's beautiful too 😍 Congratulations.


Interesting. I have just under a year and a half until I turn 20 :P.

I haven't given up entirely though.


How's the dating scene at uni? Is Computer Science the sausage fest I told you it was going to be? ;D

Pro-tip: Take a biology or chemistry elective and go to the study groups ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 12:58 pm


How's the dating scene at uni?

No luck so far. However, it's ridiculous how many pretty to beautiful girls that I've seen. Do they come from a factory and why do the factory makers feel the need to torture me? :\'(


Is Computer Science the sausage fest I told you it was going to be? ;D

Pro-tip: Take a biology or chemistry elective and go to the study groups ;)

I haven't started the classes for my major yet. I'm just taking core classes now :P.

I'm thinking of changing my major though. Comp. Sci seems hard as f*ck :-\\.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/15/18 at 1:11 pm


No luck so far. However, it's ridiculous how many pretty to beautiful girls that I've seen. Do they come from a factory and why do the factory makers feel the need to torture me? :\'(


Haha, I bet there are!


I haven't started the classes for my major yet. I'm just taking core classes now :P.

I'm thinking of changing my major though. Comp. Sci seems hard as f*ck :-\\.


Damn, that sucks. Yeah, Computer Science is one of those majors where you have to have an interest in what you're doing or else you'll have a bad time  :-\\

I find what always helps in learning programming concepts is making my own applications. So if I wanted to get better at Java, I'd try learning more of it, enough to make a, say, a diary application,or maybe an application that tells what time it is in different time zones etc. Just any little mini-app that you'd actually find useful. It's surprising how much you can learn doing a small project, and since it's something you actually want to make, you tend to be motivated to do it. I remember that I've been up until 5AM programming some of the hobby applications that I had been working on, I completely lost track of time and it didn't even feel like studying ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 2:35 pm




Haha, I bet there are!

Yep and in the words of Tupac, "You gotta keep ya head up!" :P.


Damn, that sucks. Yeah, Computer Science is one of those majors where you have to have an interest in what you're doing or else you'll have a bad time  :-\\

I find what always helps in learning programming concepts is making my own applications. So if I wanted to get better at Java, I'd try learning more of it, enough to make a, say, a diary application,or maybe an application that tells what time it is in different time zones etc. Just any little mini-app that you'd actually find useful. It's surprising how much you can learn doing a small project, and since it's something you actually want to make, you tend to be motivated to do it. I remember that I've been up until 5AM programming some of the hobby applications that I had been working on, I completely lost track of time and it didn't even feel like studying ;D

Thanks for this!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 02/15/18 at 4:14 pm


I'm not going to lie, today I felt very depressed and embittered towards people who've got to experience romantic relationships. There are times where I feel my knuckles clenching, that's how frustrated I've been feeling. It seems like girls nowadays are either into those trashy dudebro fratboy scumbags who blast their sh***y or those stupid goddamn pretentious trendy hipster types. I REFUSE to be like either type of those guys. I will NOT prove them right. And I'm tired. I'm really tired of trying to be "nice" or "good". What has that gotten me? Feeling isolated and alone from today's s***thole society, pretending to be friendly towards idiots I have nothing in common with. I don't know how much more of this I can handle. I'm not asking for society to be perfect! I just want a place where I can belong, and not have to constantly feel like I'm going to explode. Last week I almost got into a fight with someone at school. I had to walk away because I knew that one or both of us could get hurt and get into serious trouble. I couldn't risk getting suspended or kicked out of campus. The weird part is that I instigated the fight because I was jealous. I saw him with a girl, and I felt this sense of hatred towards him. It also doesn't help that the girls seem to be into all this activist crap.
Although my response is late, I agree with you. I rather am my own person than be those types of guys you mentioned. I never understood either why women tend to go for the D-bag men than go with someone who treats her like a person. It's really confusing.

I hope you find someone soon who likes you for you and rather be with genuine guys than the A-wipe men. Do you know any girl personally who you could hook up with and make it to the dating stage and/or do you also use dating apps as well?


No luck so far. However, it's ridiculous how many pretty to beautiful girls that I've seen. Do they come from a factory and why do the factory makers feel the need to torture me? :\'(.
Damn man, you're not lying at all. I couldn't believe the same thing. There are so many ladies in college who are like perfect 10s or close.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/15/18 at 4:30 pm


Although my response is late, I agree with you. I rather am my own person than be those types of guys you mentioned. I never understood either why women tend to go for the D-bag men than go with someone who treats her like a person. It's really confusing.


I notice this is true for younger girls, but past a certain age this isn't really true anymore.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 4:36 pm


Damn man, you're not lying at all. I couldn't believe the same thing. There are so many ladies in college who are like perfect 10s or close.

It hurts...
https://media.giphy.com/media/mBaNKEmk9SUKs/giphy.gif

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 02/15/18 at 5:12 pm


Although my response is late, I agree with you. I rather am my own person than be those types of guys you mentioned. I never understood either why women tend to go for the D-bag men than go with someone who treats her like a person. It's really confusing.

I hope you find someone soon who likes you for you and rather be with genuine guys than the A-wipe men. Do you know any girl personally who you could hook up with and make it to the dating stage and/or do you also use dating apps as well?
Damn man, you're not lying at all. I couldn't believe the same thing. There are so many ladies in college who are like perfect 10s or close.


Because it's the cool thing to do for young women under age 22, or something. People tend to be followers when they're teenagers.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/15/18 at 5:15 pm


Because it's the cool thing to do for young women under age 22, or something. People tend to be followers when they're teenagers.


I think, when you're younger, it's the high school jock and college frat bros that have the highest social standing, and girls naturally gravitate towards them. When you're older, it's intelligent, educated, wealthy men who climb up the social ladder and women start gravitating towards them instead.

It might sound a bit simplistic, but I know a lot of my engineering friends who didn't have much luck in high school/uni who go out on a lot of dates now, so I think it's true. Now give me my sociology degree  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 02/15/18 at 5:20 pm


I think, when you're younger, it's the high school jock and college frat bros that have the highest social standing, and girls naturally gravitate towards them. When you're older, it's intelligent, educated, wealthy men who climb up the social ladder and women start gravitating towards them instead.

It might sound a bit simplistic, but I know a lot of my engineering friends who didn't have much luck in high school/uni who go out on a lot of dates now, so I think it's true. Now give me my sociology degree  :-X


I still go for the jock/athletic male types. What's wrong with me? :-X  :-X  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 02/15/18 at 5:26 pm

I think guys with glasses are hot too, though.

NSFW:

https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/ia8AAOSwVm5Y~nUV/s-l300.jpg

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 02/15/18 at 5:34 pm


I notice this is true for younger girls, but past a certain age, this isn't really true anymore.
Most likely because they have gone through terrible experiences, and would like to have a genuine person.


It hurts...
https://media.giphy.com/media/mBaNKEmk9SUKs/giphy.gif
...So much


I think, when you're younger, it's the high school jock and college frat bros that have the highest social standing, and girls naturally gravitate towards them. When you're older, it's intelligent, educated, wealthy men who climb up the social ladder and women start gravitating towards them instead.

It might sound a bit simplistic, but I know a lot of my engineering friends who didn't have much luck in high school/uni who go out on a lot of dates now, so I think it's true. Now give me my sociology degree  :-X
Actually, you're right! That is one of the main reasons. I knew a lot of girls like that who would go for men with the highest status. Now, they go for the second group although some of them still go for the D-bags unfortunately, they go for the poor, intelligent, educated ones.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/15/18 at 5:34 pm


I still go for the jock/athletic male types. What's wrong with me? :-X  :-X  :-X


As a professor of sociology, I can say that gay relationships are not influenced by gender roles the same way. This is the same as being a straight dude and wanting a beautiful trophy wife, or you just place a higher importance on looks.

^^ I think that pic is a bit NSFW. I remember I was browsing this forum at a school library and bchris02's post with the band members of All Time Low stripped to their undies came up. I hope no one saw that LOL it was more NSFL ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 5:37 pm

Many young girls want a guy who is adventurous and "gives them butterflies in their stomachs". Unfortunately, for most of us normal guys, we aren't so adventurous and wild. The jocks and bad boys make a lot of women feel wanted...normal guys to most girls are "boring".

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 02/15/18 at 5:42 pm


As a professor of sociology, I can say that gay relationships are not influenced by gender roles the same way. This is the same as being a straight dude and wanting a beautiful trophy wife, or you just place a higher importance on looks.

^^ I think that pic is a bit NSFW. I remember I was browsing this forum at a school library and bchris02's post with the band members of All Time Low stripped to their undies came up. I hope no one saw that LOL it was more NSFL ;D


Should I delete it?  :(  :(  :(

To me, it just looks like a guy that's getting ready to go swimming!  :-X 

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 02/15/18 at 5:42 pm


I haven't been on a date for 10 years and the last girl I was out with she virtually cheated on me behind my back.

Sorry to hear of that... hopefully you'll get another opportunity someday.

I've still never actually been out on a date.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/15/18 at 5:43 pm


Should I delete it?  :(  :(  :(

To me, it just looks like a guy that's getting ready to go swimming!  :-X


Put it behind a spoiler tag with an NSFW warning.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 02/15/18 at 5:45 pm


Although my response is late, I agree with you. I rather am my own person than be those types of guys you mentioned. I never understood either why women tend to go for the D-bag men than go with someone who treats her like a person. It's really confusing.


I wouldn't blame this completely on the women. Everyone has fetishes. I honestly like a girl with some coldness to her, I know she wouldn't ultimately mean. As I give her the update, she'd give me the middle finger, which would add to the thrill. Haha I gotta remind you dudes, nice is boring. You gotta add some spice/jerkiness to it.


It hurts...
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Facts. This is my exact reaction after seeing the women of my epitome slip away.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 5:47 pm


Facts. This is my exact reaction after seeing the women of my epitome slip away.

#WeAreInThisTogether :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 02/15/18 at 5:51 pm


Many young girls want a guy who is adventurous and "gives them butterflies in their stomachs". Unfortunately, for most of us normal guys, we aren't so adventurous and wild. The jocks and bad boys make a lot of women feel wanted...normal guys to most girls are "boring".



I wouldn't blame this completely on the women. Everyone has fetishes. I honestly like a girl with some coldness to her, I know she wouldn't ultimately mean. As I give her the update, she'd give me the middle finger, which would add to the thrill. Haha, I gotta remind you, dudes, nice is boring. You gotta add some spice/jerkiness to it.

Facts. This is my exact reaction after seeing the women of my epitome slip away.
Well, it's one thing to be adventurous, but it's another to be a jerk. The two shouldn't be together when dating a person.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 02/15/18 at 5:58 pm


I've still never actually been out on a date.
how's that one lady coming along? I remember you mentioned that are friends with her I think.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 02/15/18 at 6:00 pm


how's that one lady coming along? I remember you mentioned that are friends with her I think.

Yes, we are "dear" friends. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 6:01 pm


Well, it's one thing to be adventurous, but it's another to be a jerk. The two shouldn't be together when dating a person.

Well, we're men not women, so of course we're looking at those guys differently. Those jerks are "fun" for many young women because they "aren't boring normal guys".

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 6:02 pm


Yes, we are "dear" friends. :)

You're in the FRIEND ZONE :P :-X.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 02/15/18 at 6:05 pm


You're in the FRIEND ZONE :P :-X.

Whatevah! You can look at it any way you want.

I did see her this past Sunday at church, gave her a nice valentine card and a couple of heart-shaped chocolates. She appreciates that.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 02/15/18 at 6:06 pm


Well, we're men not women, so of course, we're looking at those guys differently. Those jerks are "fun" for many young women because they "aren't boring normal guys".
Well you can still be a sweet and adventurous person to a young lady. One doesn't honestly have to be a D-bag.


I did see her this past Sunday at church, gave her a nice valentine card and a couple of heart-shaped chocolates. She appreciates that.
That's good! :) I hope you win her one day. Seems like a potential match for you.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 02/15/18 at 6:11 pm


Well, it's one thing to be adventurous, but it's another to be a jerk. The two shouldn't be together when dating a person.


Your overlooking it, man. I'm not talking about that kind of "jerk." I'm talking about the playful jerk. Don't worry about losing the girl. Don't give a f.

Have her sit on your lap, wrestle her around, sneak and instantly kiss her as she's arguing with you. Etc.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 6:13 pm


Whatevah! You can look at it any way you want.

I did see her this past Sunday at church, gave her a nice valentine card and a couple of heart-shaped chocolates. She appreciates that.

I was being tongue in cheek :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 02/15/18 at 6:15 pm


You're overlooking it, man. I'm not talking about that kind of "jerk." I'm talking about the playful jerk. Don't worry about losing the girl. Don't give an f.

Have her sit on your lap, wrestle her around, sneak and instantly kiss her as she's arguing with you. Etc.
So you mean to tease her a little bit?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 6:15 pm


Well you can still be a sweet and adventurous person to a young lady. One doesn't honestly have to be a D-bag.

Not adventurous enough and to a lot of girls you'd still be "boring".

Many women (not all) like the thrill that bad boys give them and sometimes they ignore the crassness of the guy just because they like the thrill. Normal guys don't give them a thrill or at least not in the same way.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 6:16 pm


So you mean to tease her a little bit?

Yes, many women like to be teased.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: LooseBolt on 02/15/18 at 6:38 pm

Man, you guys. The reason younger girls sometimes (I'm even reluctant to say "tend to be") are attracted to d-bag guys at that age is because those guys have confidence. Be honest with yourselves: would you want to be with someone who you felt was always dragging you down? No, you too want to be with someone who is confident because confidence is sexy. Unfortunately, at that age many of the confident guys are also self-absorbed and selfish.

All you young nice guys out there are probably not even noticing some nice, quiet, and maybe less confident girl who would love if a nice guy swept her off her feet. I don't mean lower your standards because asking out that quiet girl who's not a perfect ten is by no means lowering your standards; it's just a change of priorities to the things that really matter. It took many rough years for me to learn that lesson and to get off my high horse. Just be yourself and maybe re-evaluate your standards.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 7:10 pm


Man, you guys. The reason younger girls sometimes (I'm even reluctant to say "tend to") be attracted to d-bag guys at that age is because those guys have confidence. Be honest with yourselves: would you want to be with someone who you felt was always dragging you down? No, you too want to be with someone who is confident because confidence is sexy. Unfortunately, at that age many of the confident guys are also self-absorbed and selfish.

All you young nice guys out there are probably not even noticing some nice, quiet, and maybe less confident girl who would love if a nice guy swept her off her feet. I don't mean lower your standards because asking out that quiet girl who's not a perfect ten is by no means lowering your standards; it's just a change of priorities to the things that really matter. It took many rough years for me to learn that lesson and to get off my high horse. Just be yourself and maybe re-evaluate your standards.

I mostly agree with you.

However, it's not always "confidence". Many nice guys have confidence but don't get any love from women. Also, not everyone is going to have confidence.

I think that more women should ask out/approach men because that would level the playing field a bit.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 02/15/18 at 7:11 pm

I was honestly kind of depressed on Valentines Day. I was planning on getting my crush something for Valentines because I really liked him and I finally had the courage to do it, only to find out that he likes someone else and got them a gift. I heard him say to someone else that he likes another girl and wanted to get her a gift. So I just spent the day like I would any other day. It just made me quite sad, especially when I saw others who had a Valentine.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 7:13 pm


I was honestly kind of depressed on Valentines Day. I was planning on getting my crush something for Valentines because I really liked him and I finally had the courage to do it, only to find out that he likes someone else and got them a gift. I heard him say to someone else that he likes another girl and wanted to get her a gift. So I just spent the day like I would any other day. It just made me quite sad, especially when I saw others who had a Valentine.

I didn't even have a Valentine either. That sucks and I don't know what to say :(.

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#WeAreInThisTogether

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 02/15/18 at 7:17 pm


I didn't even have a Valentine either. That sucks and I don't know what to say :(.

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#WeAreInThisTogether

;D ;D
You don't really have to say anything tbh. I just see Valentines Day like I would any other day mostly.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 7:18 pm


;D ;D
You don't really have to say anything tbh. I just see Valentines Day like I would any other day mostly.

But you prepared something for your crush...do you do this everyday? ;D :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 02/15/18 at 7:29 pm


But you prepared something for your crush...do you do this everyday? ;D :D

I mostly see Valentines Day as a normal day, but this year since I liked him I wanted to get him something on that day. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/15/18 at 7:39 pm


I mostly see Valentines Day as a normal day, but this year since I liked him I wanted to get him something on that day. ;D

Gotcha! ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AmericanGirl on 02/15/18 at 8:19 pm


...All you young nice guys out there are probably not even noticing some nice, quiet, and maybe less confident girl who would love if a nice guy swept her off her feet...


Agreed 100%.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 02/15/18 at 8:51 pm


So you mean to tease her a little bit?


Thank you! Yes. This is important to a healthy relationship. You gotta have some mystery. Seem like a player but, you actually aren't.


All you young nice guys out there are probably not even noticing some nice, quiet, and maybe less confident girl who would love if a nice guy swept her off her feet. I don't mean lower your standards because asking out that quiet girl who's not a perfect ten is by no means lowering your standards; it's just a change of priorities to the things that really matter. It took many rough years for me to learn that lesson and to get off my high horse. Just be yourself and maybe re-evaluate your standards.


I'm not saying I'm picky. Its really not like that. I just have my own epitome of women I like. Women I see as the ideal, definitive and female by default. Its complicated otherwise. Attraction is perspective anyway. I couldn't date a overweight or skinny chick. I can't. It wouldn't work.
I was honestly kind of depressed on Valentines Day. I was planning on getting my crush something for Valentines because I really liked him and I finally had the courage to do it, only to find out that he likes someone else and got them a gift. I heard him say to someone else that he likes another girl and wanted to get her a gift. So I just spent the day like I would any other day. It just made me quite sad, especially when I saw others who had a Valentine.


You made a move. Maybe you moved too late. Now you have experience. Use it to your benefit from today.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/16/18 at 7:47 am


Because it's the cool thing to do for young women under age 22, or something. People tend to be followers when they're teenagers.


What about when women get older? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/16/18 at 7:50 am


Many young girls want a guy who is adventurous and "gives them butterflies in their stomachs". Unfortunately, for most of us normal guys, we aren't so adventurous and wild. The jocks and bad boys make a lot of women feel wanted...normal guys to most girls are "boring".


most women want guys who have jobs.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/16/18 at 7:53 am


Your overlooking it, man. I'm not talking about that kind of "jerk." I'm talking about the playful jerk. Don't worry about losing the girl. Don't give a f.

Have her sit on your lap, wrestle her around, sneak and instantly kiss her as she's arguing with you. Etc.


then go in for the kill

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/16/18 at 7:54 am


So you mean to tease her a little bit?


tickle her. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Philip Eno on 02/16/18 at 10:36 am


tickle her. ;D
Is that still allowed these days?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/16/18 at 1:52 pm


Is that still allowed these days?


just as long as it's done in a friendly way.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 02/16/18 at 5:02 pm

I am with someone else now. I don't know if anyone here is familiar with him, his name is Lewis Smith and he's an actor. He is in that movie "The Man Who Fell To Earth" 1987 film. Well we found each other on Twitter. I am going to Los Angeles to meet up with him next month! Can not wait. Will definitely post about how it goes for everyone ro read.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 02/16/18 at 6:05 pm


I am with someone else now. I don't know if anyone here is familiar with him, his name is Lewis Smith and he's an actor. He is in that movie "The Man Who Fell To Earth" 1987 film. Well we found each other on Twitter. I am going to Los Angeles to meet up with him next month! Can not wait. Will definitely post about how it goes for everyone ro read.

oh goody, you'll be coming to the general area where I live! :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 02/16/18 at 6:14 pm


Not adventurous enough and to a lot of girls you'd still be "boring".

Many women (not all) like the thrill that bad boys give them and sometimes they ignore the crassness of the guy just because they like the thrill. Normal guys don't give them a thrill or at least not in the same way.
There are so many ways to be adventurous. You can take them to the mountains, go skiing, skydiving, travel etc.


Yes, many women like to be teased.



Thank you! Yes. This is important to a healthy relationship. You gotta have some mystery. Seem like a player but, you actually aren't.
Yeah, I agree that teasing is good but I also think there should be a balance on how much a guy can tease a girl.


Man, you guys. The reason younger girls sometimes (I'm even reluctant to say "tend to be") are attracted to d-bag guys at that age is that those guys have confidence. Be honest with yourselves: would you want to be with someone who you felt was always dragging you down? No, you too want to be with someone who is confident because confidence is sexy. Unfortunately, at that age, many of the confident guys are also self-absorbed and selfish.

All you young nice guys out there are probably not even noticing some nice, quiet, and maybe less confident girl who would love if a nice guy swept her off her feet. I don't mean lower your standards because asking out that quiet girl who's not a perfect ten is by no means lowering your standards; it's just a change of priorities to the things that really matter. It took many rough years for me to learn that lesson and to get off my high horse. Just be yourself and maybe re-evaluate your standards.
Well, a guy can still be respectful, honest, and have confidence. One doesn't have to be a jerk to attract women.

As for the second statement, I have met ladies who are/were not perfect tens, but they told me they only liked me as a friend.


However, it's not always "confidence". Many nice guys have confidence but don't get any love from women. Also, not everyone is going to have confidence.

I think that more women should ask out/approach men because that would level the playing field a bit.
This! Yes, confidence is a huge plus, but there's more than just that trait that will land a girl.

I agree with this as well. There should be a balance between asking out people. Men shouldn't have to do all the work.


I am with someone else now. I don't know if anyone here is familiar with him, his name is Lewis Smith and he's an actor. He is in that movie "The Man Who Fell To Earth" 1987 film. Well, we found each other on Twitter. I am going to Los Angeles to meet up with him next month! Can not wait. Will definitely post about how it goes for everyone to read.
Oh awesome! I hope it works out for you. :) And what happened to the other guy you were with? Are you still friends with him?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: LooseBolt on 02/16/18 at 6:30 pm

As for the second statement, I have met ladies who are/were not perfect tens, but they told me they only liked me as a friend.

To clarify, I'm not saying "go for less attractive girls with less confidence because it's easier to get with them." Far from it. My point was as much as guys complain about girls they're attracted to not noticing them, be mindful that you're probably not noticing plenty of other girls. And you never know if those girls you're ignoring may be a better match in the end.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/16/18 at 7:01 pm

If a girl stares at you or glances at you constantly...does that mean that she is attracted to you?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AmericanGirl on 02/16/18 at 10:47 pm


If a girl stares at you or glances at you constantly...does that mean that she is attracted to you?


I'm no expert - but if I keep glancing at a guy I don't know it probably means either 1) he's got spinach stuck in his teeth ( ;D ), 2) he reminds me of someone, or 3) I'm thinking, hmm, interesting.  The latter two are more likely - and either is usually a good positive sign (unless you remind her so much of that someone else that she thinks you're him...).  Anyway, you're noticed - which usually only helps (with the exception of being noticed for acting like a jerk).  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: c_keenan2001@hotmail.com on 02/16/18 at 10:49 pm

The only time I ever glare at anybody is when I get embarrassed.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 02/16/18 at 11:27 pm


The only time I ever glare at anybody is when I get embarrassed.

yeah, same with me. Or if they say/do something at me that seems offensive.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/16/18 at 11:42 pm


The only time I ever glare at anybody is when I get embarrassed.



yeah, same with me. Or if they say/do something at me that seems offensive.

I said glance and/or stare not glare. Also, certain girls have stared or glanced at me like they want to devour me or something...it feels both weird and great at the same time :-\\.

Is that how girls feels when guys stare or glance at them in a lustful way? :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 02/17/18 at 12:24 am


I said glance and/or stare not glare. Also, certain girls have stared or glanced at me like they want to devour me or something...it feels both weird and great at the same time :-\\.



Oh yes, glancing is fine. I do that from time to time. Not a problem at all.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/17/18 at 12:51 am


Oh yes, glancing is fine. I do that from time to time. Not a problem at all.

What about when woman do it you?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/17/18 at 1:03 am


If a girl stares at you or glances at you constantly...does that mean that she is attracted to you?


Ask her. Or start talking to her and find out. ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 02/17/18 at 1:12 am

I just got home from watching Black Panther and something amazing happened. I feel really happy with a mix of negative feeling because I saw a lot of cute girls and some killer couples.

Black Panther was great though. The villain. That's me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/17/18 at 1:44 am


Ask her. Or start talking to her and find out. ;)

It's not just one girl though....it's MULTIPLE :-[ :-\\.

It happens when I'm walking, when I'm on the bus, the train, in class, everywhere basically. Is this just me being paranoid or am I that attractive (to these females at least)? ;D  :-[ :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/17/18 at 5:43 am


I am with someone else now. I don't know if anyone here is familiar with him, his name is Lewis Smith and he's an actor. He is in that movie "The Man Who Fell To Earth" 1987 film. Well we found each other on Twitter. I am going to Los Angeles to meet up with him next month! Can not wait. Will definitely post about how it goes for everyone ro read.


What happened to Lee? Aren't you two still together? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/17/18 at 5:46 am


If a girl stares at you or glances at you constantly...does that mean that she is attracted to you?


could probably mean she is flirting with you.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/17/18 at 5:48 am


What about when woman do it you?


It probably means that they want to talk to you.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: LooseBolt on 02/17/18 at 6:26 am


It's not just one girl though....it's MULTIPLE :-[ :-\\.

It happens when I'm walking, when I'm on the bus, the train, in class, everywhere basically. Is this just me being paranoid or am I that attractive (to these females at least)? ;D  :-[ :-X


Talk to one of them and find out! (I mean, don't ask "why are you staring at me," just introduce yourself and whatnot.)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/17/18 at 7:55 am


Talk to one of them and find out! (I mean, don't ask "why are you staring at me," just introduce yourself and whatnot.)

99% of these woman are just random women I see in passing or just for a temporary amount of time...I can't just go up to them ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 02/17/18 at 10:09 am

The users with actual success, live for yourself posts are so uninteresting. Haha


99% of these woman are just random women I see in passing or just for a temporary amount of time...I can't just go up to them ;D.


I can relate to this. You can't exactly approach them if their just passing you. Its forcing. You just gotta have the confidence to glance at them if their standing, etc and hope they catch the signal.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 02/17/18 at 10:30 am


If a girl stares at you or glances at you constantly...does that mean that she is attracted to you?


It means she wants you.  8)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/17/18 at 12:15 pm


It means she wants you.  8)

IMPOSSIBLE! :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/17/18 at 12:16 pm


I can relate to this. You can't exactly approach them if their just passing you. Its forcing. You just gotta have the confidence to glance at them if their standing, etc and hope they catch the signal.

Yeah basically.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/17/18 at 1:40 pm


It's not just one girl though....it's MULTIPLE :-[ :-\\.

It happens when I'm walking, when I'm on the bus, the train, in class, everywhere basically. Is this just me being paranoid or am I that attractive (to these females at least)? ;D  :-[ :-X


If it's in class I'd go up to them. On the bus/train you can stare back and see where that leads to. I've locked eyes a few times with people and they usually start talking to me then.

This reminds me of an 'incident' on the bus I saw a month or two ago. A lady sat beside a dude on the bus even though there were other free seats. The lady was probably new to Canada so she probably didn't know that that's a really weird thing to do here. Dude had to get off for his stop, so she moved over. The guy said "thank you" and kept beaming a smile at her every time she looked up from her phone, but she didn't notice and went back to her phone. Dude was really good looking and dressed very sharp, I bet he was wealthy considering the stop he was getting off at. Silly girl missed her chance. I felt so sorry for the guy LOL he tried it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 02/17/18 at 2:09 pm


What about when woman do it you?

Sometimes that would spark curiosity.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 02/17/18 at 2:09 pm


What happened to Lee? Aren't you two still together? ???

I was wondering about that too..

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/17/18 at 2:14 pm


I am with someone else now. I don't know if anyone here is familiar with him, his name is Lewis Smith and he's an actor. He is in that movie "The Man Who Fell To Earth" 1987 film. Well we found each other on Twitter. I am going to Los Angeles to meet up with him next month! Can not wait. Will definitely post about how it goes for everyone ro read.


Is it going to be a long distance relationship? I thought you lived in Rhode Island.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/17/18 at 3:24 pm


If it's in class I'd go up to them. On the bus/train you can stare back and see where that leads to. I've locked eyes a few times with people and they usually start talking to me then.

I don't have that confidence/courage unfortunately. Not everyone has the same amount of confidence.


This reminds me of an 'incident' on the bus I saw a month or two ago. A lady sat beside a dude on the bus even though there were other free seats. The lady was probably new to Canada so she probably didn't know that that's a really weird thing to do here. Dude had to get off for his stop, so she moved over. The guy said "thank you" and kept beaming a smile at her every time she looked up from her phone, but she didn't notice and went back to her phone. Dude was really good looking and dressed very sharp, I bet he was wealthy considering the stop he was getting off at. Silly girl missed her chance. I felt so sorry for the guy LOL he tried it.

LOL, I feel sorry for that lady and I don't even know her ;D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 02/17/18 at 5:56 pm


I don't have that confidence/courage unfortunately. Not everyone has the same amount of confidence.


Your still way younger so you got time. Get improved by your 20s or you will miss out my dude.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/17/18 at 8:27 pm


I don't have that confidence/courage unfortunately. Not everyone has the same amount of confidence.
LOL, I feel sorry for that lady and I don't even know her ;D.


Bruh, I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder and slowly crawled myself out of that hole. :P It's always scary for all of us, but if you don't do it you miss your chance!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AmericanGirl on 02/17/18 at 9:19 pm

This might sound like ancient history but here goes.  In my early 20's I met one of my long-term boyfriends (prior to my husband) as we were both patrons of a fast food establishment.  I may have mentioned before that I sew.  I was in line at a crowded downtown sandwich shop at lunchtime.  My to-be beau was in line behind me and I think he mentioned something about the crowd.  I probably smiled at him, maybe chuckled.  Then he mentioned that he saw me before I came in the restaurant and said he noticed the dress I was wearing.  I appreciated that because I'd made the dress.  We talked a little more and exchanged phone numbers, and it went well from there.  We dated several years.  So, you never know...  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: LooseBolt on 02/17/18 at 9:42 pm

I met my wife by disposing of a mouse from a trap she set in her room. So that happened.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/18/18 at 12:03 am


Your still way younger so you got time. Get improved by your 20s or you will miss out my dude.

I know that I have time. Anyways, what do you mean by get improved?

Also, how old are you? Aren't you like 25 or 26?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/18/18 at 7:49 am


99% of these woman are just random women I see in passing or just for a temporary amount of time...I can't just go up to them ;D.



just give them a wink.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/18/18 at 7:50 am


IMPOSSIBLE! :D


She probably means she wants to flirt.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 02/18/18 at 8:42 am


I know that I have time. Anyways, what do you mean by get improved?


Get confident. Watch YouTube videos of people giving advice if you need to. Read advice forums.


Also, how old are you? Aren't you like 25 or 26?


I'm 27 now. Broke from social anxiety at 25. That sh!t feels like I went beyond my self. Life gets more interesting, dude. I can literally go up to any girl I want now.


Bruh, I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder and slowly crawled myself out of that hole. :P It's always scary for all of us, but if you don't do it you miss your chance!


Motivational quote right here.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: mxcrashxm on 02/18/18 at 1:48 pm


99% of these women are just random women I see in passing or just for a temporary amount of time...I can't just go up to them ;D.



I can relate to this. You can't exactly approach them if they're just passing you. It's forcing. You just gotta have the confidence to glance at them if their standing, etc and hope they catch the signal.
I agree with both of you. To the women, it could be creepy that you are approaching them while they are taking care of business and they might not even want to talk to anyone. 

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/18/18 at 3:04 pm


This might sound like ancient history but here goes.  In my early 20's I met one of my long-term boyfriends (prior to my husband) as we were both patrons of a fast food establishment.  I may have mentioned before that I sew.  I was in line at a crowded downtown sandwich shop at lunchtime.  My to-be beau was in line behind me and I think he mentioned something about the crowd.  I probably smiled at him, maybe chuckled.  Then he mentioned that he saw me before I came in the restaurant and said he noticed the dress I was wearing.  I appreciated that because I'd made the dress.  We talked a little more and exchanged phone numbers, and it went well from there.  We dated several years.  So, you never know...  :)


That's a beautiful story! You really never know. A small interaction can turn into something bigger. :)


Motivational quote right here.


Haha, thanks. Yeah I was a mute as a teenager and was terrified of even talking to people who were really friendly to me. People would ask me "How come you're so quiet?", "Do you have friends?"  and when they did see me talking they'd say things like "Oh my God, you can talk? I never knew that."  :-[ ;D

But at uni, I went to frosh orientation week, made a lot of friends, joined clubs (even made my own!), went to a few parties (though they weren't really my thing), even joined Toastmasters (public speaking club). In 2014 my New Year's Resolution was to have 600 Facebook friends, I think I had something like 300 in the beginning, and I passed with flying colours. I had to put myself out there and of course I was terrified and had my insecurities but I don't regret a thing about it.  8)

I met my ex at 22 in class. We were friends for a few months before he came out to me. I know if it was my 16 year old self there, he would've been terrified the minute my ex said hi to me. "Oh no, my voice cracked when I said hi back, he's figured out I'm a real weirdo." and I would've avoided him and nothing ever would've came of that (not even the friendship portion). That was 16 year old me ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 02/21/18 at 4:52 pm

I'm married! If anyone is curious google Lewis Smith the actor. He's not very well known but he has been in a various movies that are well known.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/21/18 at 5:07 pm


I'm married! If anyone is curious google Lewis Smith the actor. He's not very well known but he has been in a various movies that are well known.

Wait, what? I'm confused ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/21/18 at 5:11 pm


I'm married! If anyone is curious google Lewis Smith the actor. He's not very well known but he has been in a various movies that are well known.


I'm confused – didn't you say you weren't meeting up with him until next month? And now you're married? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 02/21/18 at 5:17 pm


I'm confused – didn't you say you weren't meeting up with him until next month? And now you're married? ???

Yeah, this ^^^

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 02/21/18 at 7:24 pm

Does anyone here know how to tell your crush that you've been friends with since elementary school that you have a crush on them without feeling nervous or anything? I really want to tell him but I'm just too nervous like the words just won't come out of my mouth. What makes me really nervous is that I don't know if he and the girl are dating already since he got her Valentine's Gift and I don't want the girl to get jealous or anything.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 02/21/18 at 7:36 pm


Does anyone here know how to tell your crush that you've been friends with since elementary school that you have a crush on them without feeling nervous or anything? I really want to tell him but I'm just too nervous like the words just won't come out of my mouth. What makes me really nervous is that I don't know if he and the girl are dating already since he got her Valentine's Gift and I don't want the girl to get jealous or anything.


I have a friend (from uni) who had an EXTREME crush on this one girl, it practically drove him to depression. He found out from Facebook that she had a BF already. I told him not to tell her about his crush since it would be weird, but he talked to a counsellor who told him to tell her how he feels. He did that and it went really badly. At first she was nice about it and they were friends, but later she started avoiding him (but he was in denial about it) and later she sent him a text saying something along the lines of "I'm really busy nowadays, I barely have time for my real friends. I need to learn to prioritize my time ", and that really broke his heart.

Take that story as you will. If I were you I'd first find out if he has a GF or not  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 02/21/18 at 8:02 pm


I have a friend (from uni) who had an EXTREME crush on this one girl, it practically drove him to depression. He found out from Facebook that she had a BF already. I told him not to tell her about his crush since it would be weird, but he talked to a counsellor who told him to tell her how he feels. He did that and it went really badly. At first she was nice about it and they were friends, but later she started avoiding him (but he was in denial about it) and later she sent him a text saying something along the lines of "I'm really busy nowadays, I barely have time for my real friends. I need to learn to prioritize my time ", and that really broke his heart.

Take that story as you will. If I were you I'd first find out if he has a GF or not  :-X

Yeah, I was going to ask if he had a girlfriend already. I was going to ask him if the girl liked his Valentine's Gift, what her reaction was and what they both did on that day. I don't want to seem like the type of girl who wants to know every single thing though.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 02/22/18 at 6:12 am


I'm married! If anyone is curious google Lewis Smith the actor. He's not very well known but he has been in a various movies that are well known.


congratulations Jessica.  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 02/22/18 at 9:45 am


I have a friend (from uni) who had an EXTREME crush on this one girl, it practically drove him to depression. He found out from Facebook that she had a BF already. I told him not to tell her about his crush since it would be weird, but he talked to a counsellor who told him to tell her how he feels. He did that and it went really badly. At first she was nice about it and they were friends, but later she started avoiding him (but he was in denial about it) and later she sent him a text saying something along the lines of "I'm really busy nowadays, I barely have time for my real friends. I need to learn to prioritize my time ", and that really broke his heart.

This is extremely brutal. Telling someone you like them really does make transitions. Dude should have really accepted that she was taken. He would have been way better off with dignity.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Jessica on 03/02/18 at 10:34 am

It's fine. My husband doesn't approve of it though. :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 03/02/18 at 1:41 pm


It's fine. My husband doesn't approve of it though. :D


but you're married, Why should he approve?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Jessica on 03/02/18 at 4:46 pm


but you're married, Why should he approve?


Oh Howard, I missed your joke killing. :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 03/02/18 at 5:04 pm


but you're married, Why should he approve?


http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/012/132/thatsthejoke.jpg

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Jessica on 03/02/18 at 5:08 pm

In the spirit of the thread, I don't date because I'm married. I've been with the same guy for 15 years this coming October. I actually met him on this message board. :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 03/03/18 at 7:33 am


Oh Howard, I missed your joke killing. :D


If you're married then he shouldn't approve, wouldn't that make him jealous?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 03/03/18 at 7:33 am


In the spirit of the thread, I don't date because I'm married. I've been with the same guy for 15 years this coming October. I actually met him on this message board. :o


Wow, that's wonderful Jessica. O0

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 03/24/18 at 6:24 pm

Single again.  8)

No serious relationships for me for at least another 2 years. I'm making rules for myself (cue Dua Lipa song) ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 03/24/18 at 6:49 pm


Single again.  8)

No serious relationships for me for at least another 2 years. I'm making rules for myself (cue Dua Lipa song) ;D

You and your now ex-boyfriend didn't work out, huh? :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: piecesof93 on 03/24/18 at 7:03 pm

Single. When I was 23, an acquaintance told me I needed to hurry up and find someone because I was running out of time.  ???  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 03/24/18 at 7:17 pm

I've been chatting with one of my crushes friends on Facetime lately. The last time I saw him was in middle school, but wow. He definitely had a glow up. He looks kind of cute now, especially when he smiles (he has the perfect teeth) and he's single too. http://www.inthe00s.com/Smileys/valentine/tongue.gif he's a really caring friend that doesn't let his friends do stupid stuff. I love his personality.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 03/24/18 at 7:19 pm

I've had 2 crushes before but i don't plan on dating girls in middle school since I'm only 13.  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 03/24/18 at 7:23 pm


I've had 2 crushes before but i don't plan on dating since I'm only 13.  :P

I currently have two crushes and both of them are taken sadly.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 03/24/18 at 7:23 pm


Hell no! Last time I let someone borrow a game (Mario Party 8) he traded it in for a Vita! A fricken' Vita! I mean I didn't even like that game but hey man... It was my game. And he could've bought something better than a Vita. This was at launch too, so it was completely overpriced and had zero games (same as now but worse). Mess.

I won't forget the symbolism of trading in a Nintendo item for a Sony item either. Complete betrayalton. He offended my religion. Who does that?

I'd be really pissed if someone traded my NINTENDO GAME for a SONY game.  >:(
You don't wanna know what I'll do if someone did that.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 03/24/18 at 7:28 pm


I currently have two crushes and both of them are taken sadly.

I had crush on one girl in 7th grade because she asked me to be her gym partner and she looked cute.
Anyways I wouldn't tell a girl i had a crush on her since i I'll look stupid.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 03/24/18 at 7:33 pm


I had crush on one girl in 7th grade because she asked me to be her gym partner and she looked cute.
Anyways I wouldn't tell a girl i had a crush on her since i I'll look stupid.

I don't really tell people I have a crush on them either since I'm too nervous to.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 03/24/18 at 7:40 pm


I don't really tell people I have a crush on them either since I'm too nervous to.

Same.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 03/24/18 at 7:46 pm

About 80-85% of active members are single :D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 03/24/18 at 7:47 pm


You and your now ex-boyfriend didn't work out, huh? :P


Nnnope. :P


Single. When I was 23, an acquaintance told me I needed to hurry up and find someone because I was running out of time.  ???  ;D


LOL that's what my mom says everyday. Multiple times a day actually: breakfast and dinner ;D


I'd be really pissed if someone traded my NINTENDO GAME for a SONY game.  >:(
You don't wanna know what I'll do if someone did that.


I know right? Not just a Sony game but a Sony SYSTEM, and not just any Sony system, a f*cking Vita. Needless to say, I don't talk to him anymore.


I've been chatting with one of my crushes friends on Facetime lately. The last time I saw him was in middle school, but wow. He definitely had a glow up. He looks kind of cute now, especially when he smiles (he has the perfect teeth) and he's single too. http://www.inthe00s.com/Smileys/valentine/tongue.gif he's a really caring friend that doesn't let his friends do stupid stuff. I love his personality.


Mmm is it Danny? He seems popular with the ladies lol.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 03/24/18 at 7:49 pm



I know right? Not just a Sony game but a Sony SYSTEM, and not just any Sony system, a f*cking Vita. Needless to say, I don't talk to him anymore.

That's good because i would've been extra mad.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 03/24/18 at 7:56 pm


Mmm is it Danny? He seems popular with the ladies lol.

The guy I’m chatting with? No.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 03/24/18 at 9:26 pm


Single. When I was 23, an acquaintance told me I needed to hurry up and find someone because I was running out of time.  ???  ;D

Hey, people go through life at their own pace, especially when it comes to relationships. I'm 37 and I still don't have a steady yet. :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: piecesof93 on 03/24/18 at 11:25 pm


Hey, people go through life at their own pace, especially when it comes to relationships. I'm 37 and I still don't have a steady yet. :-\\

I just don't understand why anyone would say that to a 23 year old.  ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 03/25/18 at 12:17 am


I just don't understand why anyone would say that to a 23 year old.  ???

Possibly a suggestion to not worry if you don't hurry up and find someone? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: prodanny288 on 03/25/18 at 12:22 pm


Does anyone here know how to tell your crush that you've been friends with since elementary school that you have a crush on them without feeling nervous or anything? I really want to tell him but I'm just too nervous like the words just won't come out of my mouth. What makes me really nervous is that I don't know if he and the girl are dating already since he got her Valentine's Gift and I don't want the girl to get jealous or anything.

Are you talking about me....?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 03/25/18 at 12:34 pm


Are you talking about me....?

No sorry ;D it was this one kid who used to attend the elementary school before you came in fourth grade. He went to a different middle school than us but I still see him sometimes at the store. I actually saw him again back in late 2016 when we entered high school. He goes to the same high school as me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: prodanny288 on 03/25/18 at 12:39 pm


No sorry ;D it was this one kid who used to attend the elementary school before you came in fourth grade. He went to a different middle school than us but I still see him sometimes at the store. I actually saw him again back in late 2016 when we entered high school. He goes to the same high school as me.

Ah ok, I see. His experiences sound very familiar to mines, haha. Just making sure. ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 03/25/18 at 12:43 pm


Ah ok, I see. His experiences sound very familiar to mines, haha. Just making sure. ;)

He's very quiet though. He only has a small group of friends and hardly talks.
He has a best friend that is very caring though and that's his friend that I've been talking to.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: prodanny288 on 03/25/18 at 12:50 pm


He's very quiet though. He only has a small group of friends and hardly talks.
He has a best friend that is very caring though and that's his friend that I've been talking to.

Ok I see. He seems like a good friend.
You should tell him one day. He’s quiet anyway so he probably won’t tell.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 03/25/18 at 12:52 pm


Ok I see. He seems like a good friend.
You should tell him one day. He’s quiet anyway so he probably won’t tell.

True, but I'm just still too nervous to do so for some reason.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 03/25/18 at 3:03 pm


About 80-85% of active members are single :D.



I'm single and loving it. The last time I dated was about 10 years ago and I was with her for about 4 1/2 years. I was working for Pathmark at the time doing part time and she was full time and sometimes while at work as I kept busy being a cart attendant, I wouldn't know what she would be doing so I remember going through some Jewish dating sites she told me about as I found her picture on most sites she had belonged to during 2005 and 2006 and what I also remember was that this girl was so stupid that she went guy hunting doing speed dating while my back was turned but eventually she broke up with me February 12th, 2008 cause Her And I had financial arguments and she found a guy.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 03/25/18 at 5:46 pm



I'm single and loving it. The last time I dated was about 10 years ago and I was with her for about 4 1/2 years. I was working for Pathmark at the time doing part time and she was full time and sometimes while at work as I kept busy being a cart attendant, I wouldn't know what she would be doing so I remember going through some Jewish dating sites she told me about as I found her picture on most sites she had belonged to during 2005 and 2006 and what I also remember was that this girl was so stupid that she went guy hunting doing speed dating while my back was turned but eventually she broke up with me February 12th, 2008 cause Her And I had financial arguments and she found a guy.


I agree Howard who needs them dirty hoes.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 03/25/18 at 5:49 pm


I agree Howard who needs them dirty hoes.

Well if they're dirty hoes, then I guess the shower would need them. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 03/26/18 at 6:11 am


I agree Howard who needs them dirty hoes.


She was the one to blame cause she virtually cheated on me while I was working and this was just part time while she was full time, Her And Her parents were worried about our future and her disability played a part in our relationship.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 03/26/18 at 6:12 am


Well if they're dirty hoes, then I guess the shower would need them. ;D


She wasn't a dirty hoe.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 03/26/18 at 8:20 am


She was the one to blame cause she virtually cheated on me while I was working and this was just part time while she was full time, Her And Her parents were worried about our future and her disability played a part in our relationship.


Yeah, I remember you telling us. Her parents are really mean.  :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheKid99 on 03/26/18 at 8:25 am

What date life?  ;D ;D ;D :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 03/26/18 at 8:49 am


What date life?  ;D ;D ;D :-\\

Same :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 03/27/18 at 7:54 am


Yeah, I remember you telling us. Her parents are really mean.  :-\\



They cared for her future and How I needed to take care of Her And I.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 03/27/18 at 11:09 am


What date life?  ;D ;D ;D :-\\

Same :P.

I know the feeling

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 03/27/18 at 2:44 pm

After weight lifting for 5 months my catch rate on online dating has improved by leaps and bounds :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 03/27/18 at 2:55 pm


After weight lifting for 5 months my catch rate on online dating has improved by leaps and bounds :o

Yep, lifting can significantly change your dating prospects for both straight and gay men.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/05/18 at 11:31 pm

I got rejected today and I did it to my self. My voice was accidentally off and I guess I looked to much like a solo-er, even though me and my bro were supposed to meet up.

After just one rejection, its crazy how it can make my positive approaches hard to believe they ever happened. Like, why did these girls let me approach them? Why did they give me positive signals? I feel like I'm a threat to them now.

There's nothing good that comes from refection.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: piecesof93 on 04/05/18 at 11:56 pm


I got rejected today and I did it to my self. My voice was accidentally off and I guess I looked to much like a solo-er, even though me and my bro were supposed to meet up.

After just one rejection, its crazy how it can make my positive approaches hard to believe they ever happened. Like, why did these girls let me approach them? Why did they give me positive signals? I feel like I'm a threat to them now.

There's nothing good that comes from refection.

It's all a learning process. It only makes you stronger.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/06/18 at 10:08 am


It's all a learning process. It only makes you stronger.


I wish I could be more like you. I only approach girls I really like and when I can't have them, rejection, will f with you. In these matters, your either the best or worst version of yourself and, you never want to be the worst version of yourself.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/06/18 at 10:44 am


I wish I could be more like you. I only approach girls I really like and when I can't have them, rejection, will f with you. In these matters, your either the best or worst version of yourself and, you never want to be the worst version of yourself.

Millennium is a female.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/06/18 at 10:48 am


I wish I could be more like you. I only approach girls I really like and when I can't have them, rejection, will f with you. In these matters, your either the best or worst version of yourself and, you never want to be the worst version of yourself.


Worse yet is getting rejected twice in a row. Thinking about it rationally, you know it's statistically possible, but it messes with your head.  :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/06/18 at 11:13 am


Millennium is a female.


I know.
Worse yet is getting rejected twice in a row. Thinking about it rationally, you know it's statistically possible, but it messes with your head.  :-\\


I find my self re-analyzing an approach for any positive glimpse. I just NEED to feel wanted. Haha

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/06/18 at 10:00 pm

In all honesty, while I don't really care if I remain single for the rest of my life, I'm worried that if I do find someone then it'll be awkward. I have this condition called hyperhidrosis, which is excessive sweating and I mainly have it in my hands, underarms, and feet. Even when I'm not hot, my hands and especially feet will sweat excessively, and it's like I can never really hold hands with someone without feeling at least a bit sweaty and scared that my hands will start to sweat and it will become awkward to the other person. I sweat excessively at least once at a week.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/07/18 at 2:18 am


In all honesty, while I don't really care if I remain single for the rest of my life, I'm worried that if I do find someone then it'll be awkward. I have this condition called hyperhidrosis, which is excessive sweating and I mainly have it in my hands, underarms, and feet. Even when I'm not hot, my hands and especially feet will sweat excessively, and it's like I can never really hold hands with someone without feeling at least a bit sweaty and scared that my hands will start to sweat and it will become awkward to the other person. I sweat excessively at least once at a week.


Aw, no one cares about that. ;D Telling someone that that's an insecurity of yours is actually quite endearing :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/07/18 at 8:25 pm


Aw, no one cares about that. ;D Telling someone that that's an insecurity of yours is actually quite endearing :P

How though?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/07/18 at 8:48 pm


How though?


IDK, it's adorable how you're worried about it :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/07/18 at 8:50 pm

Females often stress about a lot of things that most guys don't care about.

For example, as long as your hair is not dirty or frizzy, most guys don't care how it looks. However, a lot of girls freak out about their hair and are worried about guys judging them, lol.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/07/18 at 8:55 pm


Females often stress about a lot of things that most guys don't care about.

For example, as long as your hair is not dirty or frizzy, most guys don't care how it looks. However, a lot of girls freak out about their hair and are worried about guys judging them, lol.

But I'm not stressing about how I look, I'm stressing more about my condition. I feel like it'd be a huge turnoff for a guy if they found out I sweat easily especially on my hands.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/07/18 at 8:56 pm


IDK, it's adorable how you're worried about it :P

http://blacksportsonline.com/home/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Ok-Meme.jpg

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/07/18 at 9:00 pm


But I'm not stressing about how I look, I'm stressing more about my condition. I feel like it'd be a huge turnoff for a guy if they found out I sweat easily especially on my hands.


Nah, they won't care.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/07/18 at 9:01 pm


Nah, they won't care.

How would you know though?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/07/18 at 9:05 pm


How would you know though?


Would you break up with someone for having sweaty hands?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/07/18 at 9:07 pm


Would you break up with someone for having sweaty hands?

I mean it's not that I'm afraid they'll break up with me, but it'd be uncomfortable holding hands with them. That's the problem.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/07/18 at 9:10 pm


I mean it's not that I'm afraid they'll break up with me, but it'd be uncomfortable holding hands with them. That's the problem.


Oh I see. I mean, you don't have to hold hands if you don't want to. You could just lock hands instead, or maybe wear gloves lol.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: GH1996 on 04/07/18 at 9:10 pm

Recently just got engaged with my girlfriend that i've met here in australia, would say date life is going pretty well!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/07/18 at 9:12 pm


Recently just got engaged with my girlfriend that i've met here in australia, would say date life is going pretty well!


That's awesome! Congrats man! :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/07/18 at 9:13 pm


Oh I see. I mean, you don't have to hold hands if you don't want to. You could just lock hands instead, or maybe wear gloves lol.

But that's just weird for me to wear gloves, especially in warm weather. It's like my hands are always sweaty and there's no hope. I don't know what causes me to have this problem. I've tried antiperspirant but it didn't really work.  :-\\

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/07/18 at 9:20 pm


But that's just weird for me to wear gloves, especially in warm weather. It's like my hands are always sweaty and there's no hope. I don't know what causes me to have this problem. I've tried antiperspirant but it didn't really work.  :-\\


I don't think it's worth worrying about until you get to it. You and your partner will work something out, all couples do. It's not anywhere near a deal breaker or anything to worry about. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: GH1996 on 04/07/18 at 9:26 pm


That's awesome! Congrats man! :D


thanks!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/07/18 at 9:27 pm


I don't think it's worth worrying about until you get to it. You and your partner will work something out, all couples do. It's not anywhere near a deal breaker or anything to worry about. :)

I know, but it just worries me how my future partner would react if they found out. I guess they wouldn't make a really big deal out of it, but I do feel like they'd be a bit uncomfortable at first. It's hard not to think about it when I have to hold hands with someone, which makes the sweating worse.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/07/18 at 9:33 pm


thanks!


You're really living it up! Moving to Australia, snowboarding all day, finding love and getting engaged. :D Send some of that sunshine and warmth back to your homeland :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/07/18 at 9:44 pm


I know, but it just worries me how my future partner would react if they found out. I guess they wouldn't make a really big deal out of it, but I do feel like they'd be a bit uncomfortable at first. It's hard not to think about it when I have to hold hands with someone, which makes the sweating worse.

As long as there isn't mini rivers flowing out of your hand, you'll be fine.

If a guy rejects because of your condition then they're not worth your time, attention and love. Simple.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/07/18 at 9:45 pm


Recently just got engaged with my girlfriend that i've met here in australia, would say date life is going pretty well!

Congrats! :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/07/18 at 9:45 pm


I know, but it just worries me how my future partner would react if they found out. I guess they wouldn't make a really big deal out of it, but I do feel like they'd be a bit uncomfortable at first. It's hard not to think about it when I have to hold hands with someone, which makes the sweating worse.


I can see why you're worried but it's not as big of a deal as you think it is. I'm sure you'll work out something with him when the time comes. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/07/18 at 9:49 pm


As long as there isn't mini rivers flowing out of your hand, you'll be fine.

If a guy rejects because of your condition then they're not worth your time, attention and love. Simple.


I can see why you're worried but it's not as big of a deal as you think it is. I'm sure you'll work out something with him when the time comes. :)

I guess that is true. I just hope my partner doesn't mind my condition and that they truly love me for who I am, and doesn't mind holding my hand no matter how sweaty it gets.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 04/07/18 at 10:11 pm

The only thing i want my partner to be is a Nintendo fan and she can't play or like Xbox and Sony

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/07/18 at 10:25 pm


The only thing i want my partner to be is a Nintendo fan and she can't play or like Xbox and Sony

Wow, that's next level.

You probably shouldn't have those ridiculous requirements.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 04/07/18 at 10:27 pm


Wow, that's next level.

You probably shouldn't have those ridiculous requirements.

I was joking  ;D







































































But for real she has to atleast like Nintendo.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 1999 Baby, 2000s Kid on 04/07/18 at 10:27 pm


The only thing i want my partner to be is a Nintendo fan and she can't play or like Xbox and Sony


That's an interesting prerequisite for someone to become your partner. ;D

But hey, I'd prefer if my future partner was into video games as well (it seems pretty rare for a girl to be really into gaming though), I wouldn't care what console companies they preferred though.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/07/18 at 10:40 pm


I was joking  ;D







































































But for real she has to atleast like Nintendo.

Fair enough :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/07/18 at 10:41 pm


That's an interesting prerequisite for someone to become your partner. ;D

But hey, I'd prefer if my future partner was into video games as well (it seems pretty rare for a girl to be really into gaming though), I wouldn't care what console companies they preferred though.

I agree 100%.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/07/18 at 11:53 pm


The only thing i want my partner to be is a Nintendo fan and she can't play or like Xbox and Sony


All 2-4 of my partners (depending on how you count it) were Nintendo fans. Not a coincidence. ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: GH1996 on 04/08/18 at 12:41 am


You're really living it up! Moving to Australia, snowboarding all day, finding love and getting engaged. :D Send some of that sunshine and warmth back to your homeland :P


Ha thats what my mom said! its known that spring on the west coast of canada isn't always that nice and dry...

Wouldn't have thought when i arrived here that my life would be like this now, it's fall now here in Melbourne so things have been cooling down a bit.. think i might make this place home for good!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/08/18 at 7:49 am


Females often stress about a lot of things that most guys don't care about.

For example, as long as your hair is not dirty or frizzy, most guys don't care how it looks. However, a lot of girls freak out about their hair and are worried about guys judging them, lol.


some guys like washed hair on women and just a dab of perfume.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/08/18 at 7:50 am


Would you break up with someone for having sweaty hands?


I wouldn't.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/08/18 at 7:51 am


Recently just got engaged with my girlfriend that i've met here in australia, would say date life is going pretty well!


Congratulations GH. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: GH1996 on 04/08/18 at 5:06 pm


Congratulations GH. :)


Thanks Howard!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/08/18 at 7:18 pm

I'm talking to a super hot dream boat from Québec in my terrible French. Too bad he's in Québec.  :\'( He said he'll come to Ontario "si tu m'invites"  :D

The Quebec guys are the hottest, actually my first boyfriend was Franco-Ontarian. I was born in the wrong province.  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: karen on 04/09/18 at 5:55 pm


Yeah, they like taller men. There's no sugar coating it. But there are some things you can still do to put yourself ahead like good looks, confidence, fashion, muscle, money etc.


I am way out of date in this thread and I am probably not going to read all of it so I'll just say this.

I am about 5'8'' and my husband is about this height, probably a little under.  And pretty much every guy I dated was around my height or even slightly shorter than me.  SO it's not true that all women like taller men

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/18/18 at 9:10 pm

I'm sick of seeing couples. Haha Saw one today. I thought I was alright until I was sitting in the student center of university. As I watched them walk up the stairs, the girl ended up a step ahead of the dude, held out her hand for him, and went through the exit.

It was really painful to see.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Dr. Mario on 04/18/18 at 9:39 pm

I'm 16 and I don't plan on dating anyone until college.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/18/18 at 9:41 pm

I still like my crush, but I haven't told him that I liked him yet. I'm still too nervous to.  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 04/18/18 at 9:44 pm


I'm 16 and I don't plan on dating anyone until college.

Same kind of.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Dr. Mario on 04/18/18 at 9:46 pm


Same kind of.

What do you mean "kind of"?

Do you have crush on girl!?

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/OFAK-CWP44E/hqdefault.jpg

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/18/18 at 9:50 pm

My ex's best friend committed suicide, so he called his second best friend (me) crying. I'm supposed to meet him on the weekend. My New Years resolution was to not drink, so I don't think anything crazy will happen, but I have New Rules on repeat nonetheless :o

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/18/18 at 9:51 pm

I'm still single as a pringle :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/18/18 at 9:51 pm


My ex's best friend committed suicide, so he called his second best friend (me) crying. I'm supposed to meet him on the weekend. My New Years resolution was to not drink, so I don't think anything crazy will happen, but I have New Rules on repeat nonetheless :o

Wow, that's sad. I send my condolences to your ex.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 04/18/18 at 10:01 pm


What do you mean "kind of"?

Do you have crush on girl!?

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/OFAK-CWP44E/hqdefault.jpg

Nah no. I said kind of since i can see my self going out with a girl before college.  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/18/18 at 10:21 pm


Wow, that's sad. I send my condolences to your ex.


Yeah, the way he went out was extremely brutal too  :\'(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/18/18 at 11:44 pm


Yeah, the way he went out was extremely brutal too  :\'(

Absolutely terrible :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/19/18 at 3:34 pm


I'm 16 and I don't plan on dating anyone until college.


I'm 44 and I don't plan on dating anyone at the moment.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/19/18 at 3:34 pm


I still like my crush, but I haven't told him that I liked him yet. I'm still too nervous to.  :(


What are you waiting for?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/19/18 at 3:36 pm


I'm still single as a pringle :P.


same here, still single.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Elor on 04/19/18 at 4:02 pm

https://s6.postimg.cc/wolqunwdt/10376069_954849841211136_7759038039161739098_n.jpg
Oh well... But I haven't given up yet. ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/19/18 at 4:21 pm


https://s6.postimg.cc/wolqunwdt/10376069_954849841211136_7759038039161739098_n.jpg
Oh well... But I haven't given up yet. ;)

Same :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/19/18 at 5:52 pm


What date life?  ;D ;D ;D :-\\

This I can still relate to, except the emoticons would be different for me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/19/18 at 5:58 pm


This I can still relate to, except the emoticons would be different for me.

What emoticons would you use?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/19/18 at 6:01 pm


What emoticons would you use?

The ones expressing sadness or something similar.  :( :( :-[ :-[

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/19/18 at 6:02 pm


The ones expressing sadness or something similar.  :( :( :-[ :-[

I feel you :P.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/19/18 at 6:04 pm

At this stage of my life I actually prefer being single. A relationship I feel requires too much time and holds me back on other things I should be doing (or maybe it's a better way to waste time than inthe00s ;D). One thing I like about it though is you always have someone spend time with. Especially once you get passed your school years, your friends get too busy to hang out.  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/19/18 at 6:06 pm


I feel you :P.

yes, I am using them this time for a particular reason.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/19/18 at 6:08 pm


yes, I am using them this time for a particular reason.


What is that particular reason?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/19/18 at 6:12 pm


What is that particular reason?

I suspect my dear friend, whom I've discussed in here, may be seeing another guy. :-[

The good news, however, is that her "Relationship Status" on FB is still listed as "Single."

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/19/18 at 6:24 pm


I suspect my dear friend, whom I've discussed in here, may be seeing another guy. :-[

The good news, however, is that her "Relationship Status" on FB is still listed as "Single."

Damn :-[

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/19/18 at 6:26 pm


At this stage of my life I actually prefer being single. A relationship I feel requires too much time and holds me back on other things I should be doing (or maybe it's a better way to waste time than inthe00s ;D). One thing I like about it though is you always have someone spend time with. Especially once you get passed your school years, your friends get too busy to hang out.  :(

This is what I want the most from a relationship.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/19/18 at 7:05 pm


At this stage of my life I actually prefer being single. A relationship I feel requires too much time and holds me back on other things I should be doing (or maybe it's a better way to waste time than inthe00s ;D). One thing I like about it though is you always have someone spend time with. Especially once you get passed your school years, your friends get too busy to hang out.  :(


I don't exactly want a serious relationship either. I just want a girl to hold. I want to be liked. I want to be the one. I want her to reach her hand out for me. Its my turn. I want this experience.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/20/18 at 7:36 am


Same :P.


I've given up for a while now. :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/20/18 at 7:40 am


At this stage of my life I actually prefer being single. A relationship I feel requires too much time and holds me back on other things I should be doing (or maybe it's a better way to waste time than inthe00s ;D). One thing I like about it though is you always have someone spend time with. Especially once you get passed your school years, your friends get too busy to hang out.  :(


I'm almost in my mid 40's and in this stage of my life I'll just date a girl as a friend or maybe just a "one night stand" have sex with them then just leave them, no attachments, no nothing to worry about and when you start falling in love with them then you wind up having feelings for them and same goes for the woman.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/20/18 at 10:59 am


Damn :-
At this stage of my life I actually prefer being single. A relationship I feel requires too much time and holds me back on other things I should be doing (or maybe it's a better way to waste time than inthe00s ;D). One thing I like about it though is you always have someone spend time with. Especially once you get passed your school years, your friends get too busy to hang out.  :(

I guess I feel this way too (I can relate to the sentences I highlighted in bold).

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: GH1996 on 04/20/18 at 4:24 pm


Especially once you get passed your school years, your friends get too busy to hang out.  :(


Extremely true, all my good friends from school have gone their own ways and have lost touch with them. things got pretty boring quick, saved up my money and moved to a different country but here i am with a whole new set of friends.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/21/18 at 8:10 pm

Made another approach. It was a rather instant rejection. What gives me the glimpse, she hesitated to respond to me. Or maybe I'm being too negative?

Either way, I really liked the girl. She was 20. I mean, if she's over 18, that's good right?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/21/18 at 8:13 pm


Made another approach. It was a rather instant rejection. What gives me the glimpse, she hesitated to respond to me. Or maybe I'm being too negative?

Either way, I really liked the girl. She was 20. I mean, if she's over 18, that's good right?

Need a hug? :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/21/18 at 9:00 pm


Need a hug? :P


Gotta decline, bro. Girls only.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/21/18 at 9:03 pm


Gotta decline, bro. Girls only.

But it's a bro hug? :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/22/18 at 1:53 am

So I met my ex, erm, twice (two days) in a row. We're not getting back together, but I think he's a good friend (for the most part) :)


Made another approach. It was a rather instant rejection. What gives me the glimpse, she hesitated to respond to me. Or maybe I'm being too negative?

Either way, I really liked the girl. She was 20. I mean, if she's over 18, that's good right?


27 and 20 is not a massive difference. 27/2 + 7 = 20.5, and I prefer to round down ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/22/18 at 8:42 am


But it's a bro hug? :(


I know, dude. Hugs are just impacting when its from a female to me.
So I met my ex, erm, twice (two days) in a row. We're not getting back together, but I think he's a good friend (for the most part) :)

27 and 20 is not a massive difference. 27/2 + 7 = 20.5, and I prefer to round down ;D


Before I fully woke up, I was actually thinking of this topic and remembered my unc's recent. She was like 29 and my unc is like, late 40s. Its just something to give me glimpses and what ifs.

Only negative, she looked good but was crazy.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/22/18 at 7:30 pm


I know, dude. Hugs are just impacting when its from a female to me.


I feel exactly the same way.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/22/18 at 8:46 pm


I feel exactly the same way.

Me too.

I know the feeling is slightly different :(.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/22/18 at 8:49 pm

Learn French and move to Québec. Guys and girls always hug there and then a kiss on each cheek. Bisou bisou !

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/22/18 at 8:57 pm


Learn French and move to Québec. Guys and girls always hug there and then a kiss on each cheek. Bisou bisou !

Je vais épouser une femme québécoise alors :D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/22/18 at 9:01 pm


Me too.

I know the feeling is slightly different :(.


Learn French and move to Québec. Guys and girls always hug there and then a kiss on each cheek. Bisou bisou !

That's interesting. However, I usually prefer hugs; not much for kissing.


By the way we do have a thread about hugs on here, but it has been sitting idle for about ten years.
http://www.inthe00s.com/index.php?topic=27556.0

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/22/18 at 9:10 pm


Me too.

I know the feeling is slightly different :(.


When girls hugged me in the past, they feel soft and magical. Haha

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/22/18 at 9:36 pm


When girls hugged me in the past, they feel soft and magical. Haha

Yeah, I know what you're talking about.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/22/18 at 11:25 pm


When girls hugged me in the past, they feel soft and magical. Haha

That was my initial thought when I first began receiving hugs from girls, at age 16. (I think I even discussed this story in the aforementioned thread which I linked to in my above post.) That's more than 20 years ago now.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Elor on 04/23/18 at 5:19 am


That was my initial thought when I first began receiving hugs from girls, at age 16. (I think I even discussed this story in the aforementioned thread which I linked to in my above post.) That's more than 20 years ago now.

Might that have something to do with them funny humps they have? ;) :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/23/18 at 5:38 am


Me too.

I know the feeling is slightly different :(.



Hey, I hug my Uncle And Father, nothing wrong with that.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/23/18 at 5:40 am


When girls hugged me in the past, they feel soft and magical. Haha


When they hugged me I was the one feeling soft and magical ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 04/23/18 at 8:16 am



Hey, I hug my Uncle And Father, nothing wrong with that.

Who said there was anything wrong with that? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 04/23/18 at 8:23 am


Learn French and move to Québec. Guys and girls always hug there and then a kiss on each cheek. Bisou bisou !
I know that as beso-beso.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/23/18 at 8:32 am


I know that as beso-beso.


That's interesting, I didn't know it was a common greeting in the Philippines as well. Do you get a lot of beso beso from hot guys?  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 04/23/18 at 8:33 am

Nah, it's mostly a girly thing, and a girls and boys thing.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 04/23/18 at 8:34 am


Nah, it's mostly a girly thing, and a girls and boys thing.


Ah same as Quebec then.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/23/18 at 8:38 am


That was my initial thought when I first began receiving hugs from girls, at age 16. (I think I even discussed this story in the aforementioned thread which I linked to in my above post.) That's more than 20 years ago now.


Aye, I haven't received a hug from a non relative girl since 2008.
Who said there was anything wrong with that? ???


Bruh, I swear. All of dude's posts feels like he repeats him self. Haha

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/23/18 at 10:46 am


Might that have something to do with them funny humps they have? ;) :D

No. ;)


Anyways I still do not have a date life yet.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/23/18 at 11:07 am

Honestly, I lost hope.

I'm just still going to approach because I like the thrill of it. I need empathy from girls to live. I just want them to know I exist Haha If I successfully approach, accidentally end up with one, I'll be mind blown. If not, this is one of the last few things I enjoy in life.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/24/18 at 7:35 am


Who said there was anything wrong with that? ???


nobody did, I just said that there's nothing wrong with it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: CupidTheStupid on 04/27/18 at 11:14 pm

Been in a relationship for almost a year now. We're both really good & content with each other.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/27/18 at 11:19 pm

Everyone in relationships and I'm just here like "I love inthe00s and Popedia so much".  ;D ;D ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: CupidTheStupid on 04/28/18 at 7:02 am


Everyone in relationships and I'm just here like "I love inthe00s and Popedia so much".  ;D ;D ;D

TBH, Popedia is quiet/inactive.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: HazelBlue99 on 04/28/18 at 8:45 am


TBH, Popedia is quiet/inactive.


Today has actually been one of the most quietest days in a while. It's generally more active than it has been.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 04/28/18 at 8:49 am


TBH, Popedia is quiet/inactive.


I have yet to join because I'm too comfortable with InThe00s. I also don't feel like managing accounts on multiple sites. Haha I got my mind on other things.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: CupidTheStupid on 04/28/18 at 8:51 am


Today has actually been one of the most quietest days in a while. It's generally more active than it has been.

I understand. Seeing as that Popedia is 11 months old, it doesn't surprise me. It takes time to grow a user base.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 04/28/18 at 9:23 am


I understand. Seeing as that Popedia is 11 months old, it doesn't surprise me. It takes time to grow a user base.

Popedia had about 49 members in February. Just two months later, we currently have 74 members. I feel as if Popedia is really growing this year.

Also, thanks for joining Popedia! :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 04/28/18 at 9:47 am


Been in a relationship for almost a year now. We're both really good & content with each other.

Well your username says it all ;D also welcome to inthe00s!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 04/28/18 at 10:18 am

Well i have a crush on this girl that i became friends with the other day.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/28/18 at 3:14 pm


Well i have a crush on this girl that i became friends with the other day.



Do you love her?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 04/28/18 at 3:48 pm



Do you love her?

I have a crush on her.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/28/18 at 11:52 pm


I have a crush on her.

good for you. I am not sure if I ever had a crush on anyone I ever knew, even as a kid, but I'm pretty sure I had a strong fondness for several different girls over time.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/29/18 at 3:10 pm


good for you. I am not sure if I ever had a crush on anyone I ever knew, even as a kid, but I'm pretty sure I had a strong fondness for several different girls over time.


I've always waited till a girl had feelings for me cause I don't know if they felt the same way.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 04/29/18 at 5:05 pm


I've always waited till a girl had feelings for me cause I don't know if they felt the same way.

I know how that is. Now that I think about it, I might've had a minor crush or two, but I cannot say for sure.


By the way, my dear friend was back at church today...with her family. She was happy to see me. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 04/30/18 at 5:00 am


Been in a relationship for almost a year now. We're both really good & content with each other.
Let me just say that I agree with your username.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 04/30/18 at 7:15 am

When I was dating this girl, I enjoyed spending time with her but then months and then had years gone by and I had feelings for her, this was many years ago but the problem was that she hadn't had any feelings for me just yet, maybe it was just an awkward moment for the both of us.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 04/30/18 at 7:24 am

Has anybody else here gotten obsessed with people whom you rationally know are trash anyway?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/01/18 at 2:43 pm

I made a new approach today. I had to follow her out Wal-Mart because I was leaving anyway. She smiled and nodded yes to being taken.

I'm just gonna sit back and analyze the sheesh out of it.

I should have followed with "What if you wasn't?"

Damn.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2000s Nostalgiaist on 05/08/18 at 6:34 am


I was bored so I went to take a quick walk. I just came from the store not long ago and as I was leaving, I seen a girl that appealed to me with her family. I couldn't help but wait, even if I wasn't making any purchase. As they were waiting for the receipt, I went for it. Only, she was 16 but looked 21. Her brother was cool but their mom blew it out of proportions.

It really triggered the loner affect in me. I was doing pretty decent before though.


Holy sheesh I can relate dude!

You must have heard of day game?

That's what I'm doing right now.

It is soooo hard to tell ages, you don't wanna look too much otherwise you get accused of staring, but on the other hand you don't want to approach an ugly or underaged girl.


I've also opened a couple ladies that I thought were borderline on the age thing but turned out they were like 18-21 and the mom turned out to be okay and actually encouraged me!

My worst experience was at a clothing store, said a chick looked cute (she wasn't really great looking but I wanted to make an approach to get in the mood) and she went crazy at me for hitting on her in a "women's wear store" and saying how her Fiancé would "not be best pleased" and asked me not to talk to her again, all before I could say anything.

She was so mad she was shaking, her hand was shaking and one of the shop staff came over and asked me to leave!


Can't let the crazy ones stop you from approaching, you've just gotta keep going, approach, gain experience, feel good.

Like you say it's an adrenaline rush and awesome talking to girls in person in broad daylight and/or when there are other people around!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2000s Nostalgiaist on 05/08/18 at 9:32 am


No luck so far. However, it's ridiculous how many pretty to beautiful girls that I've seen. Do they come from a factory and why do the factory makers feel the need to torture me? :\'(
I haven't started the classes for my major yet. I'm just taking core classes now :P.

I'm thinking of changing my major though. Comp. Sci seems hard as f*ck :-\\.


Haha!

I know the feeling bro!

I made the same mistake at university.

Just like you say, they strut around looking gorgeous but so unattainable.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2000s Nostalgiaist on 05/08/18 at 9:32 am


I'm not going to lie, today I felt very depressed and embittered towards people who've got to experience romantic relationships. There are times where I feel my knuckles clenching, that's how frustrated I've been feeling. It seems like girls nowadays are either into those trashy dudebro fratboy scumbags who blast their sh***y or those stupid goddamn pretentious trendy hipster types. I REFUSE to be like either types of those guys. I will NOT prove them right. And I'm tired. I'm really tired of trying to be "nice" or "good". What has that gotten me? Feeling isolated and alone from todays s***thole society, pretending to be friendly towards idiots I have nothing in common with. I don't know how much more of this I can handle. I'm not asking for society to be perfect! I just want a place where I can belong, and not have to constantly feel like I'm going to explode. Last week I almost got into a fight with someone at school. I had to walk away, because I knew that one or both of us could get hurt and get into serious trouble. I couldn't risk getting suspended or kicked out of campus. The weird part is that I instigated the fight, because I was jealous. I saw him with a girl, and I felt this sense of hatred towards him. It also doesn't help that the girls seem to be into all this activist crap.



I could have sworn I canceled my previous post, but I guess I didn't. Part of me really wishes I hadn't posted that comment. Because now everyone on this site probably thinks I'm some psycho. On the other hand, I guess it's better that I get it out of my system here. When I was typing all that, I was just really frustrated. I honestly wasn't thinking straight, and I felt like my head was going to explode. Now I'm feeling a bit better and realize that I'm just reinforcing the negative crap inside of me. Now I'm sick. I'm sick of all these negative emotions taking control of me practically 24/7. Today I've realized how exhausted I've made myself. It's easy to tell myself to not worry about it. But then something happens that reminds me that I still haven't had a girlfriend or been on a single date. Whether it be some guy talking about his girlfriend, or even ex-girlfriends, or their sex lives, etc. There are times where I really feel like there's something wrong with me. That's why I sometimes rage on some other posts. It doesn't make me feel good afterwards, and there are certainly some posts that I do regret. I know for a fact there are people on this site who hate me for some of these posts. I'm tired of being angry, but I just feel so trapped sometimes. Trapped in a period in history where I'm completely out of place. That's why I feel resentful towards the so-called "dudebros" and "hipsters". It's because things seem to be going in their favor right now, including getting girlfriends. What I want to prove to myself is that I don't need to be like them to find my sense of belonging. That I don't need to be like them to pursue my dreams, or to find love. I know I'm rambling, but it's late here, and I should probably be getting some sleep and get my head cleared up.

Thank you for your support. It helps to have a friendly response  :).



I felt that that between the ages of 21-now actually. 16-21 I was just confused about the whole thing, how some people can seem to get sex so casually and easily, I was confused.

Then the mixture of confusion and hormonal urges turned into something more sinister.

In my early 20s I was very, very angry and embittered.

I made the mistake of studying ICT at university. I could see all these incredibly gorgeous ladies strutting around the campus but the idea of doing what I am doing now, i.e. going up to them and telling them up front that they were pretty, was just terrifying to me!

It's only since I've set myself free by going out in town and approaching a few women a day and having conversations with them that I feel like I've set myself free.

Social anxiety is crippling and the key to having sex or intimacy with women starts from being sociable, which is something it's taken me 12 years to work out.

I've not been on any dates yet because I'm just focusing on approaching random women on the street first to make it feel normal.

Once I've got up to 50 (on 35 at the time of writing) I will then start offering coffee dates etc.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2000s Nostalgiaist on 05/08/18 at 9:33 am


That's understandable. I don't mess with it though because I'm still not the one getting laid.



I used to be addicted to porn from the age of 15-21. Looking back on it, I can safely say that it's had a negative effect on me. I felt like crap most of the time, just seeing other people getting to have sex, and knowing in the real world that everyone was experiencing something that I didn't get to. Now I can't look at porn without getting jealous or just feeling unhappy in general. I'm fed up with watching someone else's fantasies getting fulfilled.


Exactly.

I don't see the point in porn at all.

I want a woman in front of me physically, not on a screen.

From 14-25 I'd only seen a naked woman on a screen.

From 25 until now I will admit I've slept with 14 prostitutes.

It has helped me a lot, I wish I'd done it at 18.

It's shown me that women aren't repulsed by me at least if I've paid them ;D

People that say "don't worry about being judged for being a virgin" are 100% missing the point. I'm speaking for myself here, but I LOVE sex/female intimacy and to not get that as a man is torture.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/08/18 at 9:47 am


Holy sheesh I can relate dude!

You must have heard of day game?

That's what I'm doing right now.

It is soooo hard to tell ages, you don't wanna look too much otherwise you get accused of staring, but on the other hand you don't want to approach an ugly or underaged girl.


I've also opened a couple ladies that I thought were borderline on the age thing but turned out they were like 18-21 and the mom turned out to be okay and actually encouraged me!

My worst experience was at a clothing store, said a chick looked cute (she wasn't really great looking but I wanted to make an approach to get in the mood) and she went crazy at me for hitting on her in a "women's wear store" and saying how her Fiancé would "not be best pleased" and asked me not to talk to her again, all before I could say anything.

She was so mad she was shaking, her hand was shaking and one of the shop staff came over and asked me to leave!


Can't let the crazy ones stop you from approaching, you've just gotta keep going, approach, gain experience, feel good.

Like you say it's an adrenaline rush and awesome talking to girls in person in broad daylight and/or when there are other people around!


I wouldn't approach in those specific places, man. A women in a clothing store will be the least interested since their mind will be completely set on one thing. They won't give a ish about your existence. Their automatically more approachable in Wal-Mart for example. Wal-Mart just sets your mind to multiple expectations. Haha

Some of these younger girls or women really do have bodies though. No weird sh!t. I be seeing them and start to feel like an immortal. Haha

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 05/08/18 at 10:09 am


Haha!

I know the feeling bro!

I made the same mistake at university.

Just like you say, they strut around looking gorgeous but so unattainable.

Yeah, that's basically it :-\\.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2000s Nostalgiaist on 05/08/18 at 12:11 pm

Black Panther you need to make a move bro!

Day game will work perfectly at uni!

Go up to them and introduce yourself in an over the top manner until you get confident.

Just go up and introduce yourself in a comically over the top and rigid way, even put your hand out for a hand shake.

Just treat it as social fun.

Not sure if I could have done it 10 years ago TBH!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 05/08/18 at 12:18 pm


Black Panther you need to make a move bro!

Day game will work perfectly at uni!

Go up to them and introduce yourself in an over the top manner until you get confident.

Just go up and introduce yourself in a comically over the top and rigid way, even put your hand out for a hand shake.

Just treat it as social fun.

Not sure if I could have done it 10 years ago TBH!

Nah, my lack of height and introverted personality can't make me do that :-[.

I wish I did have the confidence but I don't feel "adequate" enough :-[.

I sometimes feel as if I'm still an 11 year old boy even though everything else about me is 18.9 years old (my actual age) :-\\.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/08/18 at 3:52 pm


Exactly.

I don't see the point in porn at all.

I want a woman in front of me physically, not on a screen.

From 14-25 I'd only seen a naked woman on a screen.

From 25 until now I will admit I've slept with 14 prostitutes.

It has helped me a lot, I wish I'd done it at 18.

It's shown me that women aren't repulsed by me at least if I've paid them ;D

People that say "don't worry about being judged for being a virgin" are 100% missing the point. I'm speaking for myself here, but I LOVE sex/female intimacy and to not get that as a man is torture.


I agree with this.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/08/18 at 9:22 pm


Black Panther you need to make a move bro!

Day game will work perfectly at uni!

Go up to them and introduce yourself in an over the top manner until you get confident.

Just go up and introduce yourself in a comically over the top and rigid way, even put your hand out for a hand shake.

Just treat it as social fun.

Not sure if I could have done it 10 years ago TBH!


I have a uni 2016 approach I still look back to because its like taking notes. I wish I just asked her for the digits, not ultimately wasting her time in the end. When you get a girl to notice you though, that sh!t feels incredible. I actually pulled it off once. They will follow with you to see what you up to and tag you back. No weird sh!t. The surrounding need to be right, like in a public place.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Lyndialy on 05/08/18 at 9:32 pm

I haven't dated my entire life.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 05/08/18 at 10:04 pm


I haven't dated my entire life.

Um, nothing wrong with that. You're only 12 years old :-X.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 05/08/18 at 10:50 pm


Um, nothing wrong with that. You're only 12 years old :-X.

When I was that age I think I started showing a true interest in girls.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 05/08/18 at 10:57 pm


In 7th grade, almost four years ago, my friend got nudes from another female classmate.  8-P He was the first boy in are class to start exchanging nudes. In freshman year, he used to have a load of nudes from teenage girls on his phone, he showed them to me. His phone was taken away for a while, and he didn't tell me why, but I'm pretty sure it was because of the nudes. ;D



When I was that age I think I started showing a true interest in girls.

She said "I haven't dated my entire life". She's only 12, that is 100% normal.

It would be very weird to have dated before the age of 12 :o.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 05/08/18 at 11:07 pm


She said "I haven't dated my entire life". She's only 12, that is 100% normal.

I completely agree; I never said it wasn't normal.




It would be very weird to have dated before the age of 12 :o.

True.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AmericanGirl on 05/08/18 at 11:40 pm

To the young men on this thread -

Let me remind you of something: if a girl is straight (and most are) she is hardwired to be attracted to guys.  That's just how it is.  How a guy looks, talks, or acts can make her more or less attracted - but girls do like guys.

While in college, I went to dance parties - alone, sometimes, or I might meet friends there.  (This was the Disco era.)  I'd move about the room - a favorite song would commence as I was "circling" (my M.O.) and some guy would grab my hand and we'd dance.  Most often, a stranger.  No pressure - if preferred, we'd just dance.  But frequently I'd chat with my dance partner a little to find out who he is.  Again, no pressure.  But I met at least one steady boyfriend that way.

I think I mentioned it before, but I also met a (different) steady boyfriend (later) as we were both in line at a crowded sandwich shop - he just made a little small talk with me, and we hit it off.

Sometimes, it's the little unplanned moments that can pay big dividends.  ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 05/08/18 at 11:54 pm


To the young men on this thread -

Let me remind you of something: if a girl is straight (and most are) she is hardwired to be attracted to guys.  That's just how it is.  How a guy looks, talks, or acts can make her more or less attracted - but girls do like guys.

While in college, I went to dance parties - alone, sometimes, or I might meet friends there.  (This was the Disco era.)  I'd move about the room - a favorite song would commence as I was "circling" (my M.O.) and some guy would grab my hand and we'd dance.  Most often, a stranger.  No pressure - if preferred, we'd just dance.  But frequently I'd chat with my dance partner a little to find out who he is.  Again, no pressure.  But I met at least one steady boyfriend that way.

I think I mentioned it before, but I also met a (different) steady boyfriend (later) as we were both in line at a crowded sandwich shop - he just made a little small talk with me, and we hit it off.

Sometimes, it's the little unplanned moments that can pay big dividends.  ;)

I appreciate your anecdote and advice :).

However, I just don't have that confidence. I have so much confidence approaching girls in my dreams but not in real life :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/09/18 at 9:31 am


I appreciate your anecdote and advice :).

However, I just don't have that confidence. I have so much confidence approaching girls in my dreams but not in real life :P


You just made me remember the dream world plan from Naruto. Haha That idea would take so much stress off my conscious.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/09/18 at 2:54 pm


When I was that age I think I started showing a true interest in girls.


In 1986 I wasn't into girls just yet.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 05/09/18 at 2:57 pm


Why not? Do you have any insecurities? ???

She's only 12 Howard. C'mon.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/09/18 at 3:13 pm


She's only 12 Howard. C'mon.


Sorry, my mistake.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 05/09/18 at 3:22 pm

LOL

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 05/09/18 at 6:12 pm


In 1986 I wasn't into girls just yet.

Oh yes, that was your 12-year-old year.

I'm just sayin', for me, when I was that age (1992-93) I gradually started to develop an interest in them. It took a while; it's not something that *instantly* occurs.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 05/09/18 at 7:49 pm

I got interested into girls since 11 lol.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 05/09/18 at 9:59 pm

I'm in a place in my life where I'm ready to start to date.  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/10/18 at 5:45 am


I got interested into girls since 11 lol.


probably for me, during my late teens.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/10/18 at 5:46 am

I'd rather not date at the moment, they'll probably virtually cheat on me later on just because I don't have a full time job!  ::)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: karen on 05/10/18 at 11:59 am


I'd rather not date at the moment, they'll probably virtually cheat on me later on just because I don't have a full time job!  ::)


Just because one girl did, don't assume they all will Howard

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 05/10/18 at 5:49 pm


I'd rather not date at the moment, they'll probably virtually cheat on me later on just because I don't have a full time job!  ::)

I don't have a full time job either, but I'm not necessarily gonna get rejected just for that.



Just because one girl did, don't assume they all will Howard

right!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/10/18 at 9:42 pm

All of you dudes still in school have no idea how good you still have it. If your a student, the girls are just right around you. Where's after you graduate, you have to go look for them, risking to destroy your image.

Knew I should have went my lazy a$$ to college.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/11/18 at 8:26 am


Just because one girl did, don't assume they all will Howard


I know, that was just the way I was thinking back then.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/12/18 at 11:18 am

I can definitely relate to Infinity at full capacity now. I was biased as f.

I don't know. I occasionally see this older women when I walk to Wal-Mart and we hit eyes on full glance. I really feel there's more to it and, she got body.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/12/18 at 3:23 pm


I can definitely relate to Infinity at full capacity now. I was biased as f.

I don't know. I occasionally see this older women when I walk to Wal-Mart and we hit eyes on full glance. I really feel there's more to it and, she got body.


Have you tried talking to her? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/14/18 at 11:36 am

It really feels when she notices your existence. When you look at them and they look supposedly as long as you did. A girl waved at me yesterday I kind of missed, I just didn't return so I don't look weird. I was most likely too older anyway.

Seen this established couple in Wal-Mart, who's partner also seen me. I wouldn't say it has meaning though. She looks lit!

Dude has it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: karen on 05/14/18 at 1:29 pm


I know, that was just the way I was thinking back then.


But its how you are still thinking Howard.  I can tell from your posts on the subject.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/15/18 at 7:36 am


But its how you are still thinking Howard.  I can tell from your posts on the subject.


maybe I'll start off as just friends first.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AmericanGirl on 05/15/18 at 9:13 pm


maybe I'll start off as just friends first.


Not that it always goes this way - but for the record, I was friends with my hubby for several years before we dated/got married.  Something to consider...

I must add, we're still best friends  :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2000s Nostalgiaist on 05/16/18 at 9:23 am


To the young men on this thread -

Let me remind you of something: if a girl is straight (and most are) she is hardwired to be attracted to guys.  That's just how it is.  How a guy looks, talks, or acts can make her more or less attracted - but girls do like guys.

While in college, I went to dance parties - alone, sometimes, or I might meet friends there.  (This was the Disco era.)  I'd move about the room - a favorite song would commence as I was "circling" (my M.O.) and some guy would grab my hand and we'd dance.  Most often, a stranger.  No pressure - if preferred, we'd just dance.  But frequently I'd chat with my dance partner a little to find out who he is.  Again, no pressure.  But I met at least one steady boyfriend that way.

I think I mentioned it before, but I also met a (different) steady boyfriend (later) as we were both in line at a crowded sandwich shop - he just made a little small talk with me, and we hit it off.

Sometimes, it's the little unplanned moments that can pay big dividends.  ;)


Thanks for the advice but I am nearing 30 now and I'm just starting to approach women.

My preferred age is 17-25.

I let those years slip by me being too shy, now I want to make up for it by getting with women of that age.

Ironically, I care less what people think now than I did then when it would have been acceptable!

I was a "young man" between 2006 and 2015, I'm not anymore though.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/16/18 at 10:17 am


Thanks for the advice but I am nearing 30 now and I'm just starting to approach women.

My preferred age is 17-25.

I let those years slip by me being too shy, now I want to make up for it by getting with women of that age.

Ironically, I care less what people think now than I did then when it would have been acceptable!

I was a "young man" between 2006 and 2015, I'm not anymore though.


Its alright, dude. Your not a monster. Its up to the girl to decide if she approval you anyway. The girls have more power than they realize.

I still blend in with college students but I'm usually about 7 years are over with most girls I see they may have no idea of and I feel lost as f now because of it.

I'm not a creep. Nigga just lonely.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/16/18 at 3:22 pm


Not that it always goes this way - but for the record, I was friends with my hubby for several years before we dated/got married.  Something to consider...

I must add, we're still best friends  :D


How long you've been married? My parents dated as friends first and next year will mark 50 years together!  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AmericanGirl on 05/16/18 at 9:58 pm


How long you've been married? My parents dated as friends first and next year will mark 50 years together!  :)


50 years - awesome!  :D  Congrats to your parents!

As for me, we celebrated 20 years just a couple months ago...

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/17/18 at 5:36 am


50 years - awesome!  :D  Congrats to your parents!

As for me, we celebrated 20 years just a couple months ago...


congratulations on 20 years. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/23/18 at 9:26 pm

I seen a couple today in Wal-Mart. The girl was really cuddled up against the guy. She even continually stayed wrapped around his chest as they walked passed me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: apollonia1986 on 05/23/18 at 10:02 pm

Still single out here. Seems like no one is interested at all.
I've contemplated taking out a billboard with my photo and phone number.
I will literally take anyone breathing at this point.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AL-B Mk. III on 05/23/18 at 10:16 pm

Somehow, I've managed to make it 6 months into a relationship.  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/24/18 at 5:59 am


Still single out here. Seems like no one is interested at all.
I've contemplated taking out a billboard with my photo and phone number.
I will literally take anyone breathing at this point.


I'm sure you'll find someone. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 05/24/18 at 9:32 am

It's amazing how much someone could fracture you, and when they are out of your life, they somehow still leave you singing, ''Baby you're the one, you still turn me on, you can make me whole again." Such is the nature of addiction.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/24/18 at 10:27 am


It's amazing how much someone could fracture you, and when they are out of your life, they somehow still leave you singing, ''Baby you're the one, you still turn me on, you can make me whole again." Such is the nature of addiction.


Facts!

There are random girls I seen while out, never to be seen again, I have yet to get out of my system. Its like, what are they up to? Where did they go? What were their names?

The time they gave me in the approach were pretty spectacular that sums them up in my perspective.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: apollonia1986 on 05/24/18 at 11:17 am


I'm sure you'll find someone. :)

Thanks, I hope.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Lyndialy on 05/24/18 at 4:16 pm

People in my school are dating. I wonder when I get my first date.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 05/24/18 at 4:18 pm


People in my school are dating. I wonder when I get my first date.

It will happen sometime, i suggest making a friend and talk to that person and let them get to actually know you ect. Anyways i'm not a expert at dating.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Lyndialy on 05/24/18 at 4:19 pm


It will happen sometime, i suggest making a friend and talk to that person and let them get to actually know you ect. Anyways i'm not a expert at dating.

What should my first words be?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 05/24/18 at 4:25 pm


What should my first words be?

You mean telling them about your feelings?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Lyndialy on 05/24/18 at 4:27 pm


You mean telling them about your feelings?

No, my first impression.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 05/24/18 at 4:30 pm


No, my first impression.

Maybe words like what's your name, How's your day or just introduce yourself by telling them your name.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Lyndialy on 05/24/18 at 4:35 pm


Maybe words like what's your name, How's your day or just introduce yourself by telling them your name.

Would it be a good idea to offer help, and start from there?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 05/24/18 at 4:46 pm

As for me, the wasp left as soon as I ran out of flowers to give him

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 05/24/18 at 4:48 pm


Would it be a good idea to offer help, and start from there?

Yeah that would be nice!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/24/18 at 8:35 pm

I seen a lesbian couple today, that's the impression they gave me. Hopefully it wasn't a jab at Infinity.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 05/24/18 at 8:46 pm


I seen a lesbian couple today, that's the impression they gave me. Hopefully it wasn't a jab at Infinity.

Inifnity's lesbian?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/24/18 at 8:58 pm


Inifnity's lesbian?


Yeah. She wrote posts earlier in this topic explaining her dilemma. She has it tougher than me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/25/18 at 9:05 am


People in my school are dating. I wonder when I get my first date.


It takes time, start out as friends first before you get to know someone.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: karen on 05/25/18 at 11:30 am


What should my first words be?


Hello. Is it me you're looking for?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 05/30/18 at 9:32 pm

Seeing a couple hugged up in the park as your walking your distance is one of the worst things you can see.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 05/31/18 at 8:04 am


Seeing a couple hugged up in the park as your walking your distance is one of the worst things you can see.


It doesn't bother me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Philip Eno on 05/31/18 at 8:06 am


Seeing a couple hugged up in the park as your walking your distance is one of the worst things you can see.
I have had my time of cuddling before, and feel happy to see others.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/02/18 at 10:27 pm

I'm really grateful for the selectives that didn't see me as weird. Its amazing. I constantly noticed a girl earlier today but she literally avoided it. I just hopelessly sat there in remorse. I didn't exist. Man that sh!t is cold. It wasn't like that tho. I just needed a positive.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: CupidTheStupid on 06/03/18 at 2:16 pm

Can’t wait for the first full week of summer break. Going on a vacation with my boyfriend & his family for a week. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 06/03/18 at 2:26 pm


Can’t wait for the first full week of summer break. Going on a vacation with my boyfriend & his family for a week. :)

Relationship goals  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/03/18 at 2:34 pm

I am good friends (without benefits) with my ex now and that is how I prefer it, but I might be falling for him again ;D

But srsly, being single is awesome. Don't underestimate it.  :-X

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 06/03/18 at 2:35 pm


Dates? I like 6/3/18 better than 6/2/18, but we'll have to see about 6/4/18.

June 3rd, 2002 is the best date ever. ;)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/03/18 at 2:49 pm


Can’t wait for the first full week of summer break. Going on a vacation with my boyfriend & his family for a week. :)


Enjoy. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/03/18 at 3:22 pm


I am good friends (without benefits) with my ex now and that is how I prefer it, but I might be falling for him again ;D

But srsly, being single is awesome. Don't underestimate it.  :-X


Only if you had previous relationships.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 06/03/18 at 6:26 pm


Can’t wait for the first full week of summer break. Going on a vacation with my boyfriend & his family for a week. :)

Nice!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/16/18 at 9:17 pm

Damn. Two women noticed me in Wal-Mart today, enough to where I could see positives but failed to move because they were freakin acquainted.

Frustrating.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/16/18 at 10:02 pm


Damn. Two women noticed me in Wal-Mart today, enough to where I could see positives but failed to move because they were freakin acquainted.

Frustrating.


Why didn't you make a move?

They were probably waiting for you to pop up on Tinder lol.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 06/16/18 at 11:33 pm


Damn. Two women noticed me in Wal-Mart today, enough to where I could see positives but failed to move because they were freakin acquainted.

Frustrating.

Damn dude, i honestly feel bad for you.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/17/18 at 7:31 am


Damn. Two women noticed me in Wal-Mart today, enough to where I could see positives but failed to move because they were freakin acquainted.

Frustrating.


So you didn't say "hello" to them? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/17/18 at 8:52 am


Why didn't you make a move?

They were probably waiting for you to pop up on Tinder lol.


I know. It didn't matter if they were acquainted, I was supposed to not give a f and put my self out there.
Damn dude, i honestly feel bad for you.


Its ok. Be honest.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: apollonia1986 on 06/17/18 at 4:44 pm

Still hunting, no one seems interested though. I'll take anything with a pulse. I'd like to at least get asked out before I die.  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Elor on 06/17/18 at 4:54 pm


Still hunting, no one seems interested though. I'll take anything with a pulse. I'd like to at least get asked out before I die.  :(
Same here... :-[

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/17/18 at 7:51 pm


Same here... :-[

I still have a long time to go but same here x3.

Although, most females don't like asking out males.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/18/18 at 7:29 am


Still hunting, no one seems interested though. I'll take anything with a pulse. I'd like to at least get asked out before I die.  :(


How about virtual dates?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/18/18 at 7:30 am


I still have a long time to go but same here x3.

Although, most females don't like asking out males.


It could be the other way around.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/18/18 at 8:49 am


It could be the other way around.

Um...OK. It usually and normally HAS been the other way around.

That doesn't mean that a woman can't approach a man.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/18/18 at 4:27 pm

I am dating Emmanuel Macron.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/18/18 at 4:32 pm


I am dating Emmanuel Macron.

You guys are dating each other En Marche :D.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: apollonia1986 on 06/18/18 at 5:17 pm


How about virtual dates?


Nothing. I'm at the point where if I could afford it, I'd plaster my face ad phone number on a billboard. Like in the Beverly Hillbillies movie.  :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/19/18 at 8:31 pm

Hyped and mind blown!

I approached a employee at the games section today. I asked her rather if she only dated latina guys and she responded "it doesn't really matter buuuut" and she continued with "why". I said I don't know. I guess you appealed to me and she smiled and I parted. Holy s**

Its when you get a full positive and you feel even MORE lonely and confused. Haha I'm happy tho.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/19/18 at 8:46 pm


Hyped and mind blown!

I approached a employee at the games section today. I asked her rather if she only dated latina guys and she responded "it doesn't really matter buuuut" and she continued with "why". I said I don't know. I guess you appealed to me and she smiled and I parted. Holy s**

Its when you get a full positive and you feel even MORE lonely and confused. Haha I'm happy tho.

Um...what? ???

So, you just left? Also, she didn't answer your question clearly. It was a subtle answer that kind of indicated that she does date only certain backgrounds.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/19/18 at 8:50 pm


Hyped and mind blown!

I approached a employee at the games section today. I asked her rather if she only dated latina guys and she responded "it doesn't really matter buuuut" and she continued with "why". I said I don't know. I guess you appealed to me and she smiled and I parted. Holy s**

Its when you get a full positive and you feel even MORE lonely and confused. Haha I'm happy tho.


Why did you leave? Lol. That's pretty cool though nonetheless. Keep it up bruh, I believe in you :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/19/18 at 8:59 pm


Um...what? ???

So, you just left? Also, she didn't answer your question clearly. It was a subtle answer that kind of indicated that she does date only certain backgrounds.


You don't know every type of shyness, dude. It was sudden but well timed. I'm taking it as a positive. Some girls like a chase.


Why did you leave? Lol. That's pretty cool though nonetheless. Keep it up bruh, I believe in you :D


ReignMan didn't see the approach. Haha As I left, she didn't only smile. She basically blushed to. I might try to talk to her tomorrow because I'm bored as hell.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 06/19/18 at 9:03 pm


You don't know every type of shyness, dude. It was sudden but well timed. I'm taking it as a positive. Some girls like a chase.

ReignMan didn't see the approach. Haha As I left, she didn't only smile. She basically blushed to. I might try to talk to her tomorrow because I'm bored as hell.

Well...OK ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/20/18 at 8:46 am


engage in a conversation with her and see what happens.


http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/000/554/picard-facepalm.jpg

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/20/18 at 2:20 pm


http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/000/554/picard-facepalm.jpg


Did I say something wrong?  ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/20/18 at 8:16 pm

She wasn't on shift today, f. I'm really interested in what could be. Hopefully she'll be through tomorrow.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/24/18 at 2:33 pm

Approached another girl today, us both in Mcdonalds. I noticed her first and had to sit down to decide rather. When I finally approached, she was surprisingly cold. I hinted to her why I approached, apologized and left. I went up to her holding my phone because it just looks badass. Haha

I still feel more better about my self than bad tho. Its always good to know than not knowing. I don't need her anyway.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/24/18 at 2:55 pm


Approached another girl today, us both in Mcdonalds. I noticed her first and had to sit down to decide rather. When I finally approached, she was surprisingly cold. I hinted to her why I approached, apologized and left. I went up to her holding my phone because it just looks badass. Haha

I still feel more better about my self than bad tho. Its always good to know than not knowing. I don't need her anyway.



So nothing happened afterwards? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/27/18 at 8:35 pm

Ok. The girl's still absent which is really making me wish I had the instinct to continue the approach when she smiled but this older women I usually walk pass, we looked at each other HARD.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 06/27/18 at 11:31 pm

I was supposed to meet somebody tomorrow but he said he doesn't play video games so I ghosted him. Or something like that.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: karen on 06/28/18 at 11:20 am


Ok. The girl's still absent which is really making me wish I had the instinct to continue the approach when she smiled <snip>.


I don't get why you didn't take the conversation further when you first spoke to her. Sounds like she was interested to me

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/28/18 at 3:18 pm


I don't get why you didn't take the conversation further when you first spoke to her. Sounds like she was interested to me


I frozed and my mind didn't know what else to say. I blame the job shift. Haha At least it wasn't awkward.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 06/28/18 at 10:27 pm


Hyped and mind blown!

I approached a employee at the games section today. I asked her rather if she only dated latina guys and she responded "it doesn't really matter buuuut" and she continued with "why". I said I don't know. I guess you appealed to me and she smiled and I parted. Holy s**

Its when you get a full positive and you feel even MORE lonely and confused. Haha I'm happy tho.


Ok, I finally got the confirmation and BOY was it worth it. I mean, I got something out of it.

Went to Walmart like I usually do and I saw her. I'm like finally she's on shift. As I was walking to that isle tho, I was also wishing I wouldn't. You know like that feeling "I'd rather it just stay like this so I can look back on it as a positive and feel good" My heart started to race and I went sat at the mcdonalds. After about 15 minutes, I went back and she was gone. I went and sat back at the mcdonalds and was butthurt as hell because I thought she finished her shift. I almost left but I really needed to get the confirmation over with. After about 20 more minutes, I went back and she was there. I had to play it off a bit. Haha Went in the men's clothing isle for a few minutes. Looked at some shorts, shoes and slippers. I didn't want to start feeling awkward and etc negative so I eventually went back into the gaming section. Oh god. Hahahaha It was as if she was waiting for me because she could see me as I walked down the shelf-ted games as I continually played it off. She had to see through it. Haha My hearts racing as she continually looked at a item on the shelf with her hand on it. I finally made it to her and spoke "Yo" She turned around and I continued with "Do you remember me?" She replied with "Yeah" This immediately felt lit to. Haha I replied "I know you might be busy but is it possible we can continue where we left off?" She went "Like conversation or..?" I replied with conversation. She replied with "No, sorry." I replied with "Its because your busy right?" She replied "Yeah." Or something like that. It was definitely a positive. I kinda flinched but not to where it was noticeable and I had to continue. I spoke "I meant, I would like to get to know you better." She replied like "I'm not interested in a relationship right now." I replied "What if you were? Do I look..?" She replied with "Presentable?" I'm like "Yeah" and she replied "Yeah." and I was like "Cool" As we almost parted, my instincts kicked, something is missing I need to say. I continued "Miss, one more thing." She turned back facing me and I continued with "This isn't to much, right?" She replied with "No." I replied with "Can I talk to you again? Whenever I come here?" She replied "If there isn't employees around" and I added "people then, don't" and she replied "Yeah." I gave a thumbs up as I parted and I could see her look back at me as she parted. Haha I left the game section and went home.

What really completes my day, she responded to my hints just right also showing positives with her body language. It really can't get no better than this  ;D




Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 06/29/18 at 10:06 am


I frozed and my mind didn't know what else to say. I blame the job shift. Haha At least it wasn't awkward.


It's OK, we all go through that sometimes.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/02/18 at 9:54 am

By tomorrow it will be since last Thursday I talked to the girl. Gotta have that space. I plan to return to her job Tuesday with NO expectations. I want to exchange contacts tho so I won't risk her losing her job.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/03/18 at 9:24 pm


By tomorrow it will be since last Thursday I talked to the girl. Gotta have that space. I plan to return to her job Tuesday with NO expectations. I want to exchange contacts tho so I won't risk her losing her job.


I seen her today but employees were too present. I attempted to play it off, skimmed through this god of war 4 guide book and left.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/04/18 at 3:07 pm


I seen her today but employees were too present. I attempted to play it off, skimmed through this god of war 4 guide book and left.


So you ignored her?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/05/18 at 10:50 am

I think I'm losing interest in the girl. I don't know. Maybe I need to see her body again. Haha Its sad and complicated. I still remember girls I approached in 2016, 2017 I still have complete interest in.

My heartbreak thread is looking to be more of a treasure everyday.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/05/18 at 9:15 pm

As I was leaving, I had to go back in today. I already had my bag of can goods so I asked one of the employees to hold it for innocent reasons. It took me about 20 minutes to build courage. I started to feel suspect so I had to approach regardless of who she was with. I went up to her and surprisingly she was pretty wiggling to listen. She said no to my question rather if she only dated a specific group as she parted. As I left, I told the employee who sort of became my look out after explaining why I was in the isle so long, it was over.

I feel badass, devastated and like, I lost my appetite. I know its important to just enjoy the thrill of it but I'M SICK OF THIS S**.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/06/18 at 10:19 am


As I was leaving, I had to go back in today. I already had my bag of can goods so I asked one of the employees to hold it for innocent reasons. It took me about 20 minutes to build courage. I started to feel suspect so I had to approach regardless of who she was with. I went up to her and surprisingly she was pretty wiggling to listen. She said no to my question rather if she only dated a specific group as she parted. As I left, I told the employee who sort of became my look out after explaining why I was in the isle so long, it was over.

I feel badass, devastated and like, I lost my appetite. I know its important to just enjoy the thrill of it but I'M SICK OF THIS S**.


You asked her the same question? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/06/18 at 11:09 am


You asked her the same question? ???


This was a different girl. See my post above the most recent one you replied to. Its like the girl that works in the game section, I can't wait on her. The girl that rejected me yesterday, I feel like I was supposed to continue to speak to her as she was parting. Its a instinct I'm getting.

This the third time this s** happened. It leaves you lost and confused.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/06/18 at 6:31 pm


I suspect my dear friend, whom I've discussed in here, may be seeing another guy. :-[

The good news, however, is that her "Relationship Status" on FB is still listed as "Single."


And lately (past few days) I've found more posts from her with this guy. For this reason, I've not wanted to read my newsfeed on FB lately. :-[

Each time I see such a post, it bothers me. I can't help but think to myself: What's he got that I haven't got?!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/07/18 at 9:45 pm


And lately (past few days) I've found more posts from her with this guy. For this reason, I've not wanted to read my newsfeed on FB lately. :-[

Each time I see such a post, it bothers me. I can't help but think to myself: What's he got that I haven't got?!


I totally compare my self to other people. Hahaha I wouldn't read it anymore either, man. Its like she doesn't know you exist anymore.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 07/07/18 at 9:46 pm

Since I'm going to highschool, any tips?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/07/18 at 10:01 pm


Since I'm going to highschool, any tips?


Don't miss hints like we did. When she speaks to you with your name at the end and assists to help you with class work, go in. I'm serious.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/08/18 at 6:31 pm


I totally compare my self to other people. Hahaha I wouldn't read it anymore either, man. Its like she doesn't know you exist anymore.

That's not totally true. She DOES know that I exist. She's always happy with my company. She DOES think well of me.

I am just having a hard time coping with this other guy.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/08/18 at 6:36 pm


Since I'm going to highschool, any tips?


Pay attention in class and do your homework (srs)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/08/18 at 7:29 pm


That's not totally true. She DOES know that I exist. She's always happy with my company. She DOES think well of me.

I am just having a hard time coping with this other guy.


What I said addresses both scenarios your looking into, man.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/08/18 at 10:33 pm


What I said addresses both scenarios your looking into, man.

Whatever. I guess she and I are just friends, regardless of her true relationship status. It's just that I have only gotten to really know her over the last five years (when I discovered she attended the same church as me), and she never really expressed dating anyone until just recently; that is, in the last few months.

But the bottom line is that she values my friendship.

If she does bring up the topic of him again (when we interact in-person), I probably won't be happy about it, but what am I gonna say? I've thought it over, and the best thing I've come up with thus far is, "I don't know what to make of this." I don't wanna say anything that's going to offend her, but at the same time I wanna express how I feel, just in a non-offensive way. Dealing with heartbreak is difficult.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/09/18 at 9:43 am


Whatever. I guess she and I are just friends, regardless of her true relationship status. It's just that I have only gotten to really know her over the last five years (when I discovered she attended the same church as me), and she never really expressed dating anyone until just recently; that is, in the last few months.

But the bottom line is that she values my friendship.

If she does bring up the topic of him again (when we interact in-person), I probably won't be happy about it, but what am I gonna say? I've thought it over, and the best thing I've come up with thus far is, "I don't know what to make of this." I don't wanna say anything that's going to offend her, but at the same time I wanna express how I feel, just in a non-offensive way. Dealing with heartbreak is difficult.


I wouldn't. Think about it, its been 5 years dude. As what you stated, your both really good friends. As far as letting her know, there's a time limit to that. If you confess now, the risk is extremely high.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/09/18 at 10:18 am


I wouldn't. Think about it, its been 5 years dude. As what you stated, your both really good friends.

And I totally agree. And I don't intend to ever get rid of her. She's a good person, and clearly thinks well of me too.



As far as letting her know, there's a time limit to that. If you confess now, the risk is extremely high.

So you think it's a lose-lose situation for me then?
Either way, I am still going to talk about it with my parents. They know her too, because I introduced her to them in August of 2013 as well; they think well of her, and vice-a-versa.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/09/18 at 12:15 pm

So you think it's a lose-lose situation for me then?

It is. If she doesn't feel the same, the tension you two had won't be the same. She probably won't want to talk to you again either. Unless you both will be cool with a awkward relationship. Hahaha

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/09/18 at 6:24 pm


It is. If she doesn't feel the same, the tension you two had won't be the same. She probably won't want to talk to you again either. Unless you both will be cool with a awkward relationship. Hahaha

I will have to disagree with part of this. Unless you think maybe I shouldn't openly express my discontent (for lack of a better word) about this guy (iow, just accept it and move on (but that's gonna take a while).).

Let me say this again: She has thought of me as a dear friend; she has given me small gifts to show that she values my friendship (in fact, I should show a picture of them so that you'll see what I'm talking about).


Modified to add:
In late 2016/early 2017 she presented me with a WillowTree "Friendship" ceramic figurine:

https://d26iejr7yj7kfh.cloudfront.net/product-images/000/464/377/detail/friendship.jpg

In late 2017 she gave me another small ceramic figurine, which looks something like this:

https://sc02.alicdn.com/kf/HTB1rzRmQVXXXXbQXpXXq6xXFXXX1.jpg


If you ask me, I think that says a lot.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: GH1996 on 07/10/18 at 12:21 am

I'm getting married on February 9th!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/10/18 at 7:40 am


I'm getting married on February 9th!


Congratulations. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 07/10/18 at 6:02 pm


I'm getting married on February 9th!

Congratz O0

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: AmericanGirl on 07/10/18 at 9:50 pm


I'm getting married on February 9th!


Great!  Congratulations!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: GH1996 on 07/11/18 at 2:20 am

Thanks!

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/11/18 at 7:54 am


Thanks!


Where do you plan to go on your honeymoon?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/11/18 at 3:54 pm

Its a really dysfunctional scenario. When I first approach a girl, I most likely won't ask for contacts when it does go positive because I feel like I manipulated them. I don't know. I don't know how to properly set my voice that'll make it sound believable.

I'm also at the point, its incomprehensible when a girl likes me back since it became like a dream only thing.


Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: GH1996 on 07/14/18 at 4:12 am


Where do you plan to go on your honeymoon?


We haven't picked a place yet but there's a few we're looking at that are still in Australia, we're both pretty big into winter sports so we may even come to Canada (Whistler/Banff) to escape the summer here.. also I'd get the chance to see the family too

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 07/14/18 at 3:31 pm


We haven't picked a place yet but there's a few we're looking at that are still in Australia, we're both pretty big into winter sports so we may even come to Canada (Whistler/Banff) to escape the summer here.. also I'd get the chance to see the family too


Enjoy! :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/23/18 at 6:20 pm

Went in H-E-B today, a type of grocery store similar to the like. I seen some employees and made my way to some. The first was very positive and the second, she clearly wasn't interested but man those employees that have on the employee shirt and jeans.

https://vignette.wikia.nocookie.net/dragonballfanon/images/e/e0/Goku-1468196291.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20160711001811&path-prefix=es

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 07/28/18 at 9:26 pm


Ok. The girl's still absent which is really making me wish I had the instinct to continue the approach when she smiled but this older women I usually walk pass, we looked at each other HARD.


Ironically, I was considering going to the games isle today in Walmart, the girl I approached suddenly came to the McDonalds section. I was sitting on the outside part where I usually sit and I did look at her for bits because I didn't think I would ever be there at the same time as she was. It was as if she avoided me but after she made her order, she came sat directly behind from where I was sitting and It felt spectacular but I just didn't speak to her for some reason. She was gone before I completely realized I guess due to her shift. Its not something to over exaggerate but I'm confident enough to say there was definitely something more to it. I know because I stopped going to the section she works but before then, I was going to the section for her.

No games out I want right now. Haha

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 07/29/18 at 10:12 pm

ikpkS9ynULk  Ugh, note to self: keep this song's lyrics in mind.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 07/29/18 at 10:23 pm

told you, I don't eat dates

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 07/31/18 at 3:50 pm


ikpkS9ynULk  Ugh, note to self: keep this song's lyrics in mind.


What a blast from the past ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 08/02/18 at 9:26 am


What a blast from the past ;D
So you remember them even though they lacked popularity in North America?  :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 08/03/18 at 5:35 am


Went in H-E-B today, a type of grocery store similar to the like. I seen some employees and made my way to some. The first was very positive and the second, she clearly wasn't interested but man those employees that have on the employee shirt and jeans.

https://vignette.wikia.nocookie.net/dragonballfanon/images/e/e0/Goku-1468196291.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20160711001811&path-prefix=es
Yesterday at the supermarket, I saw this bunch of three good-looking brothers from abroad. All I could think about was, "OMG, did the Photobucket album come to life?"  :D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/03/18 at 3:34 pm

I wasn't blowing anyone a kiss,  I was just covering my mouth before I coughed

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/03/18 at 7:46 pm


So you remember them even though they lacked popularity in North America?  :P


I'm definitely familiar with them. I spent my childhood summers in Asia/Europe. Must've heard them then :P


Yesterday at the supermarket, I saw this bunch of three good-looking brothers from abroad. All I could think about was, "OMG, did the Photobucket album come to life?"  :D


LOL

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 08/04/18 at 4:20 am


ikpkS9ynULk  Ugh, note to self: keep this song's lyrics in mind.
One of the songs I listened to out of sheer humiliation that day. Along with the likes of 7 Things and Hung Up.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/09/18 at 4:07 pm

I'm seeing somebody :)

He's a bit older than me (36 years old) but we have a lot in common and it's fun hanging out with him. :D

I'm not sure he feels the same way about me though, nothing's official yet.  :-X but we've been on two dates and I get to see him every weekend morning when we go bike riding together. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/09/18 at 5:09 pm


I'm seeing somebody :)

He's a bit older than me (36 years old) but we have a lot in common and it's fun hanging out with him. :D

I'm not sure he feels the same way about me though, nothing's official yet.  :-X but we've been on two dates and I get to see him every weekend morning when we go bike riding together. :)


Interesting.

Your both over the legal age to drink for example so all is good. I mean, if he's cool, you can't help it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 08/09/18 at 5:33 pm


Interesting.

Your both over the legal age to drink for example so all is good. I mean, if he's cool, you can't help it.


Yeah the age gap is pretty big, but there's something comforting about it. My ex was 20 while I was 25 so I'm no stranger to age gaps (19 is the legal drinking age here, so we still pass your rule :P)

He's doing a PhD in robotics. When he told me I fell in love right there and then ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/09/18 at 8:49 pm


Yeah the age gap is pretty big, but there's something comforting about it. My ex was 20 while I was 25 so I'm no stranger to age gaps (19 is the legal drinking age here, so we still pass your rule :P)

He's doing a PhD in robotics. When he told me I fell in love right there and then ;D


Its a plus for everyone, when both are above the legal drinking mark. Whenever you both are committed, go experiment.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/10/18 at 7:49 am


I'm seeing somebody :)

He's a bit older than me (36 years old) but we have a lot in common and it's fun hanging out with him. :D

I'm not sure he feels the same way about me though, nothing's official yet.  :-X but we've been on two dates and I get to see him every weekend morning when we go bike riding together. :)


good luck to you both. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 08/10/18 at 8:06 am


ikpkS9ynULk  Ugh, note to self: keep this song's lyrics in mind.
Like, I think of this song as um, a letter from my future self (hopefully with better taste than I do now) to my current self. :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 80sfan on 08/10/18 at 11:57 am


I'm seeing somebody :)

He's a bit older than me (36 years old) but we have a lot in common and it's fun hanging out with him. :D

I'm not sure he feels the same way about me though, nothing's official yet.  :-X but we've been on two dates and I get to see him every weekend morning when we go bike riding together. :)


I bet he has a hairy chest!  ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/10/18 at 12:21 pm

well the jester hat didn't work so now I'm trying a dance dress and to be bad.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/11/18 at 1:43 pm

I think its beautiful when I ask a girl rather if she just dates a specific ethnicity and she responds with "Why" Haha There's also a huge positive around it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/11/18 at 2:24 pm


I think its beautiful when I ask a girl rather if she just dates a specific ethnicity and she responds with "Why" Haha There's also a huge positive around it.


You shouldn't need to ask a girl that question, Why bother? Maybe she can answer that herself.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/11/18 at 4:02 pm

why would I bother to answer that?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/11/18 at 4:10 pm


You shouldn't need to ask a girl that question, Why bother? Maybe she can answer that herself.


Its a compliment of obvious approach and fun mystery. I'm not taking ANY advice from you. Haha


why would I bother to answer that?


Because I wouldn't approach you.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/11/18 at 4:20 pm

You wont dare?  Don't you care?  how's my hair?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/11/18 at 9:34 pm


You wont dare?  Don't you care?  how's my hair?


It was a joke.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: annimal on 08/11/18 at 9:49 pm

so is my parody you poor little fool :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Lyndialy on 08/12/18 at 7:32 pm

My first day of school begins August 15. I'm going to 8th grade. I want to start talking to boys.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 08/12/18 at 8:24 pm


My first day of school begins August 15. I'm going to 8th grade. I want to start talking to boys.

good luck in the 8th grade! I'm starting as a freshman this year i go back on the 4th of September.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/13/18 at 6:03 am


My first day of school begins August 15. I'm going to 8th grade. I want to start talking to boys.


good luck with that. :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/20/18 at 8:50 pm

Seen an older women in the store today that appealed to me. We kind of locked eyes and the energy was positive. That's all I got out of it.

I'm in that lonely phase again.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: meesa on 08/20/18 at 9:06 pm

but I would not want it any other way.... ;D ;D
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Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/21/18 at 7:33 am


Seen an older women in the store today that appealed to me. We kind of locked eyes and the energy was positive. That's all I got out of it.

I'm in that lonely phase again.


Spyro, you should've talked to her, what made you not want to talk to her? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/21/18 at 7:33 am


but I would not want it any other way.... ;D ;D
https://media.mnn.com/assets/images/2016/06/tumbleweed-on-road.jpg.653x0_q80_crop-smart.jpg


You're dating a tumbleweed? ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/21/18 at 10:13 am


Spyro, you should've talked to her, what made you not want to talk to her? ???


She was with someone.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 08/21/18 at 11:37 am

I was watching alot of To Catch a Cheater videos and it's really messed up how people who are in a relationship would cheat on one another, if i had a girlfriend i would never cheat on her.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/21/18 at 11:50 am


I was watching alot of To Catch a Cheater videos and it's really messed up how people who are in a relationship would cheat on one another, if i had a girlfriend i would never cheat on her.


I seen some of those. Haha Your probably just saying this now tho. Cheating is based on hormones. You can get a girlfriend and might find your self liking two people. I can definitely see my self doing it, as f up as it is. I'm not expecting my girl not to cheat on me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Wobo on 08/21/18 at 11:52 am


I seen some of those. Haha Your probably just saying this now tho. Cheating is based on hormones. You can get a girlfriend and might find your self liking two people. I can definitely see my self doing it, as f up as it is. I'm not expecting my girl not to cheat on me.

True, people can find their girl unattractive and hold feelings for another one even though it it messed up, if i ever cheated in my life i would feel really ashamed, the only thing imo is that i don't see anything wrong for thinking another girl is hot while dating somebody as long as you don't step over the boundaries of cheating.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/21/18 at 3:40 pm


I was watching alot of To Catch a Cheater videos and it's really messed up how people who are in a relationship would cheat on one another, if i had a girlfriend i would never cheat on her.


When I was in a relationship, I never cheated at all but she was the one who cheated behind my back. She was a girl who would do stupid things behind my back because I didn't have a full time job like she did and this was the time when I was working at Pathmark in 2007. Sometimes she would go speed dating on the weekends or search for guys on a dating website plus also her parents would tell her to break up with me because to them I was a moron. Her And I weren't financially compatible so we broke up the week of Valentine's Day 2008.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/21/18 at 10:20 pm


True, people can find their girl unattractive and hold feelings for another one even though it it messed up, if i ever cheated in my life i would feel really ashamed, the only thing imo is that i don't see anything wrong for thinking another girl is hot while dating somebody as long as you don't step over the boundaries of cheating.


That's the idea. Unless you don't have a heart. Haha If your especially school age, everyone is experimenting. Its inevitable.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/30/18 at 9:40 pm

I'm so **ckin lonely, dude.

Made another approach today. The girl was cool and seemly interested, mind blowing-ly enough. She gave me the permission, I asked and she was 13 when she looked at least 16, I thought. Its such a terrifying conclusion how the next generation has grown up upon me. So I guess I just been seeing below 13 year olds now?

The positivity made me feel better tho.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 08/31/18 at 8:01 am


I'm so **ckin lonely, dude.

Made another approach today. The girl was cool and seemly interested, mind blowing-ly enough. She gave me the permission, I asked and she was 13 when she looked at least 16, I thought. Its such a terrifying conclusion how the next generation has grown up upon me. So I guess I just been seeing below 13 year olds now?

The positivity made me feel better tho.



So you now know the next time you approach a girl.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 08/31/18 at 8:30 am



So you now know the next time you approach a girl.


That's almost like saying the like for any girl since its such a massive illusion.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 09/08/18 at 9:50 pm

Seen an older women today. She acknowledged my existence as I'm desperate for hope, the girl was with her mate who has a car. No chance for me.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 09/09/18 at 2:52 pm


Seen an older women today. She acknowledged my existence as I'm desperate for hope, the girl was with her mate who has a car. No chance for me.


Why older women? why not a younger one? ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 09/12/18 at 10:00 am


Why older women? why not a younger one? ???


Look at what your saying. Younger women are students where's I'm basically beyond the age gap. I would work with a younger women if she's interested but that's unlikely.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: TheReignMan99 on 09/12/18 at 10:08 am


Look at what your saying. Younger women are students where's I'm basically beyond the age gap. I would work with a younger women if she's interested but that's unlikely.

He means women around your age.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 09/12/18 at 10:41 am


He means women around your age.


This is hard to answer. I'm assuming the women I ran into who has a mate, was my age. If not 27, 28.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 09/12/18 at 2:47 pm


He means women around your age.


Oh OK, I get what he's saying now.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 09/12/18 at 8:45 pm

Just left the store but before I did, I seen a women in shorts and man was she. I played it off a bit and stayed in the isle. She eventually caught my look and returned it and played it off but It still wasn't worth it tho. She looked like she had her self together to where I could really see it and she looked taken. I have some regret in me while I'm mostly proud of my self for not getting immense. She also reminded me of the girl I thought was cool but was cruel.

Can't approach 'em all.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 09/14/18 at 12:06 pm

Who here has ever had Facebook friends liking all their pictures?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 09/14/18 at 9:35 pm

What the **?! So today I went out again the best way I could. You all know the game's isle employed girl I talked to the most, right? When I got to the section, I turned into the exact isle as she was smiling and talking to another dude who also works in the same section. I looked at them as the dude seem he was happy she was supposedly getting into him, hidden behind the furtherst isle. I played it off for like a couple more seconds and I got outta there quick as if I ran for my life. That sh!t hurt like hell and its confusing because I thought I got over her? Why the f do I even still care?! It must come from the fact that I couldn't talk to her like he can. I don't even see a point in speaking to her anymore now. That sh!t really fudgeed with me.

I'm glad I just ate Wendy's afterwards because I fudgein needed it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 09/15/18 at 4:21 am


Who here has ever had Facebook friends liking all their pictures?
Should I assume something if a person does that? :P

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: karen on 09/15/18 at 5:26 am


Should I assume something if a person does that? :P


Possibly.  Though I have a friend who likes everyone's posts - she does it to mean she's seen it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Philip Eno on 09/15/18 at 5:38 am


Possibly.  Though I have a friend who likes everyone's posts - she does it to mean she's seen it.
Simply, if you do not like the post, you simply do not like it...

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 09/15/18 at 1:28 pm


Who here has ever had Facebook friends liking all their pictures?


One friend that liked your pics all at once?

I usually hit like on everything on Instagram, so if someone shared 5 pics in a row I might hit like on all of them. Is that what you mean?


Possibly.  Though I have a friend who likes everyone's posts - she does it to mean she's seen it.


I do that too, unless I obviously dislike it or don't want them to know I've seen it ;D


What the **?! So today I went out again the best way I could. You all know the game's isle employed girl I talked to the most, right? When I got to the section, I turned into the exact isle as she was smiling and talking to another dude who also works in the same section. I looked at them as the dude seem he was happy she was supposedly getting into him, hidden behind the furtherst isle. I played it off for like a couple more seconds and I got outta there quick as if I ran for my life. That sh!t hurt like hell and its confusing because I thought I got over her? Why the f do I even still care?! It must come from the fact that I couldn't talk to her like he can. I don't even see a point in speaking to her anymore now. That sh!t really fudgeed with me.

I'm glad I just ate Wendy's afterwards because I fudgein needed it.


Maybe she's nice to everybody? It is her job after all. Also, not to sound sexist, but I noticed every time I go to a video game store, the female employees are really flirty. I think they want loner gamers to pre-order games – it probably works ;D

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 09/15/18 at 3:29 pm

Maybe she's nice to everybody? It is her job after all. Also, not to sound sexist, but I noticed every time I go to a video game store, the female employees are really flirty. I think they want loner gamers to pre-order games – it probably works ;D

There was more to it, not even trying to be negative. That was plot heavy and deep. You won't catch me in the isle again.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 09/18/18 at 8:56 pm

Made another approach today. She was seemly cool with my approach, at first stating she wasn't taken, than once I asked how old was she, she smiled and stated she's married. Guess I immediately screwed my self over.

Even though I'm happy to be confident of women now, it was still painful the rest of my time out.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 09/19/18 at 7:42 am


Made another approach today. She was seemly cool with my approach, at first stating she wasn't taken, than once I asked how old was she, she smiled and stated she's married. Guess I immediately screwed my self over.

Even though I'm happy to be confident of women now, it was still painful the rest of my time out.


maybe you shouldn't have asked her how old she was. ???

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 09/19/18 at 8:10 am


maybe you shouldn't have asked her how old she was. ???


Your probably right, to. Haha I'm still a leaner.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: wsmith4 on 09/19/18 at 10:28 am

Me married

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 09/19/18 at 2:02 pm


Your probably right, to. Haha I'm still a leaner.


It's always good to never ask a woman's age, you wait till she says it.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 10/20/18 at 9:44 am

Well, it had its ups and downs. I'm single now but I know I will find the right person for me.  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: 2001 on 10/20/18 at 11:17 am

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Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 10/20/18 at 2:09 pm


Well, it had its ups and downs. I'm single now but I know I will find the right person for me.  :)


Wait, What happened to Lee?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 10/20/18 at 3:04 pm


Wait, What happened to Lee?


Nothing happened to him. It isn't working out.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 10/21/18 at 2:17 pm


Nothing happened to him. It isn't working out.


I'm sorry to hear that. :(

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: nally on 10/22/18 at 12:30 pm


Well, it had its ups and downs. I'm single now but I know I will find the right person for me.  :)

I like to remain hopeful about that too, for myself.



Wait, What happened to Lee?

Nothing happened to him. It isn't working out.

I'm sorry to hear that. :(

Ditto, I'm sorry to hear about that too.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 11/06/18 at 6:58 pm

Approached a girl at university today. I went unexpected of how the approach could have went and asked was she taken. She smiled and repeated my say and I replied "Yeah." She responded "she was taken" and I came back with, "if you wasn't taken, I guess it still wouldn't matter for me, right? She continually smiled and replied "Why?" I was a bit hit off guard and brilliantly ended the approach and went my separate way. Its like I tapped into how to "game" and didn't know what to do with it.

This is why I have no potential to get a girlfriend because I'm always rejecting my self for the girl in the end or fail sh!t tests.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: aja675 on 11/12/18 at 4:06 am


ikpkS9ynULk  Ugh, note to self: keep this song's lyrics in mind.
"I don't know why I used to fall in love with the wrong kind." http://www.escforum.net/img/Smileys/ISC_Flags/rip.gif

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: KatanaChick on 11/12/18 at 8:28 pm


Approached a girl at university today. I went unexpected of how the approach could have went and asked was she taken. She smiled and repeated my say and I replied "Yeah." She responded "she was taken" and I came back with, "if you wasn't taken, I guess it still wouldn't matter for me, right? She continually smiled and replied "Why?" I was a bit hit off guard and brilliantly ended the approach and went my separate way. Its like I tapped into how to "game" and didn't know what to do with it.

This is why I have no potential to get a girlfriend because I'm always rejecting my self for the girl in the end or fail sh!t tests.

You're just going up to strangers asking them if  they're taken or not? That tends to make me super uncomfortable and I'm sure it makes some of them uneasy as well. It's just too much all at once. Potential for a date happens when you at least know the person some. Become acquaintances first at least and if you have enough in common or enough chemistry then see about hanging out or having a casual date somewhere.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: SpyroKev on 11/12/18 at 10:01 pm


You're just going up to strangers asking them if  they're taken or not? That tends to make me super uncomfortable and I'm sure it makes some of them uneasy as well. It's just too much all at once. Potential for a date happens when you at least know the person some. Become acquaintances first at least and if you have enough in common or enough chemistry then see about hanging out or having a casual date somewhere.


I have no idea how else to go about it. I have ZERO game and I'm extremely limited at the university since I'm a guest anyway. They may not know it but I use it as a strategy gimmick of indication that I Want to get to know them without actually being too strong. Any other phrases would actually make me feel like I'm just in it for one thing as they would have the right to see through it.

Also, @ReighMan. You were right, dude. I managed to approach slightly taller girls and I could instantly read they want a taller dude by the end of the approach. I felt worthless in the process.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: KatanaChick on 11/14/18 at 4:56 am


I have no idea how else to go about it. I have ZERO game and I'm extremely limited at the university since I'm a guest anyway. They may not know it but I use it as a strategy gimmick of indication that I Want to get to know them without actually being too strong. Any other phrases would actually make me feel like I'm just in it for one thing as they would have the right to see through it.

Also, @ReighMan. You were right, dude. I managed to approach slightly taller girls and I could instantly read they want a taller dude by the end of the approach. I felt worthless in the process.

Zero game? Game?! Stop taking advice from pickup artists and start interacting with women as people, not only as potential partners and you may get farther. The opposite sex isn't as different as you think.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 11/19/18 at 12:20 pm

Well, I am officially single. After 3 years Lee and I decided it was time to end the relationship. I'm not sad about it, thankfully.

Oh well, I'm sure there is someone better for me out there. Keeping it positive!  :)

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 11/19/18 at 2:28 pm


Well, I am officially single. After 3 years Lee and I decided it was time to end the relationship. I'm not sad about it, thankfully.

Oh well, I'm sure there is someone better for me out there. Keeping it positive!  :)


Was there any animosity between you and him?

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: violet_shy on 11/25/18 at 2:49 pm

Met a really nice guy, we've been talking a lot for a while. We have a date the first week of December.

The thing is I like him very much, but he is 21 years old. Waaaay to young for me. I will give him a chance seeing that he is very mature for his age. So, it's a date for us! ❤

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Rainbowz on 11/25/18 at 4:07 pm

I have a small crush on a guy in my history class. I followed him on Instagram and he followed me back. Then he put his Snapchat username in his Instagram bio and I decided to add him and text him for the very first time. I texted him on Snapchat that I recognized him and asked if we could sit next to each other (because we don't have assigned seats in that class) and he said "If you want". So we did but we never talked in person. And even to this day we still never talked in person and I want to talk to him in class so it doesn't feel awkward anymore. The thing is, I don't know how to start the conversation, or what to say. I've been sitting next to him ever since. And the very first time I sat next to him I felt extremely awkward, sweaty, a little red-faced, my voice was shaky, and I feel like people around me knew I liked him, even if there is a good chance that they don't really care.

I decided to bring the conversation onto Instagram and we texted a lot during Thanksgiving break and got to know each other a lot better. He's an immigrant from Paraguay and he's only lived here for three months (it will be four months on November 28th, since he said he moved here on July 28th) he's still learning English. Sometimes he understands what I'm saying and sometimes he doesn't. Sometimes I understand what he's trying to say and sometimes I don't. So I'll usually try to kindly correct him if he makes any mistakes. He's only five months older than me which is perfect. He believes in God and for some reason draws Santanic symbols on his notebook. He's a hardcore Lil Peep fan and he says he wants to look like Lil Peep. He thinks Lil Peep is perfect. I told him he looks good the way he is and he was like "Thanks but no". Then eventually I got so comfortable texting him that I literally had the audacity to ask him if he's a virgin (I don't plan on having sex) and he said no. I asked him if he knew what virgin meant and he said it means sex. So he apparently lost his virginity already. What shocked me was that he said his father loves Trump, and when I asked him how he thinks Trump is doing, he said "Better than others". So he might be a Trump supporter, which would be a huge turn off for me. ;D I know it's not really recommended to talk about politics and stuff but I just somehow got really comfortable texting him, like a friend basically.

A week ago, I texted him on Snapchat if there was any homework for history to start up a conversation and I was left on delivered for a week, until he finally responded with a Snapchat selfie of himself with the dog filter on. It was completely unexpected. So I did the same and put my caption as "Just putting up the Christmas tree" and I was left on read.  ;D But that doesn't bother me though.

I have school tomorrow and I'm going to have to sit next to him in class after knowing a lot about him. Maybe I could ask him for a piece of paper or something and go from there. I've heard his voice before, but only because he said "Yeah" to the teacher.

Subject: Re: How is your date life going?

Written By: Howard on 11/26/18 at 5:34 am


Met a really nice guy, we've been talking a lot for a while. We have a date the first week of December.

The thing is I like him very much, but he is 21 years old. Waaaay to young for me. I will give him a chance seeing that he is very mature for his age. So, it's a date for us! ❤


Good Luck Jessica, hope things work out with you and him. :) </