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Subject: 3 kids found starved in Texas

Written By: ninny on 07/23/09 at 8:14 am

DALLAS —  Three children were kept in a hotel bathroom for about a year and were "horribly emaciated" when police found them earlier this month, authorities said. One claimed to have been repeatedly sexually assaulted.

The children's mother, 30-year-old Abneris Santiago, is charged with injury to a child. Her 37-year-old live-in boyfriend, Alfred Santiago, is charged with aggravated sexual assault and continuous sexual abuse.

The extended stay hotel where the Santiagos lived sits alongside one of Dallas' busiest freeways. It has daily and weekly rates and offers maid service for an extra cost, though it wasn't clear if hotel employees had entered the unit where the children were found.

An attorney for the hotel chain said there were no complaints from other guests and employees about the unit.

"When law enforcement and management arrived ... the unit was very, very clean," said Steven Stefani, senior counsel for a Budget Suites of America. "What became apparent is these people worked very hard in concealing these children in the back bathroom."

The Santiagos remained jailed Wednesday. Abneris Santiago was being held on $50,000 bail, while Alfred Santiago was being held on $125,000 bail. Her initial court appearance is not expected until Aug. 3, said her attorney, James Jamison.

His attorney, Richard Carrizales, declined to comment.

According to an arrest affidavit, Abneris Santiago called police on July 2 and asked for help getting her children and belongings from the hotel. Officers found a healthy 1-year-old girl — the child of the Santiagos, Jamison said — in a crib.

Inside the bathroom, they found an 11-year-old girl, a 10-year-old boy and a 5-year-old boy — Abneris Santiago's children from other relationships, Jamison said. It was apparent the children suffered from "serious physical, emotional and mental neglect," according to the affidavit.

The 10-year-old was covered in bruises and all three were "horribly emaciated, underweight and malnourished," the affidavit said.

The 11-year-old told authorities that their mother left them with her boyfriend while she worked. She said they were allowed to leave the bathroom only when he took a shower and that they were regularly beaten and rarely fed.

The girl told police she had been sexually abused by her mother's boyfriend for at least three years. She described numerous rapes and said she was forced to perform oral sex on him. She also said the boyfriend threatened to kill her if she told her mother about the assaults.

The children were initially hospitalized for 10 days. The 10-year-old was hospitalized again recently, said Child Protective Services spokeswoman Marissa Gonzales. All four children are now in temporary foster care.

Abneris Santiago told police that Alfred Santiago did not care for her children because, according to him, "they were not his responsibility," the affidavit said.

"She just had a history of making poor judgments about her male companions," Jamison said. "I think ultimately the evidence will show that this man was controlling her and controlling the children."


This is just sad, how could someone treat their kids (or let someone else) like that.

Subject: Re: 3 kids found starved in Texas

Written By: danootaandme on 07/23/09 at 9:05 am




"She just had a history of making poor judgments about her male companions," Jamison said. "I think ultimately the evidence will show that this man was controlling her and controlling the children."




I am sick of that excuse. CRAPCRAPCRAP    >:(

Subject: Re: 3 kids found starved in Texas

Written By: ninny on 07/23/09 at 10:46 am


I am sick of that excuse. CRAPCRAPCRAP    >:(

I agree, she's not a robot...she can I assume think for herself...just that she was thinking with her *kitty* not her head :-\\

Subject: Re: 3 kids found starved in Texas

Written By: ladybug316 on 07/23/09 at 7:17 pm

8-P People make me so sick sometimes.  Controlling my big fat $*^!!!  She chose a man over the well being of her children and let this happen.

Subject: Re: 3 kids found starved in Texas

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 07/27/09 at 11:12 pm

It's horrifying, revolting, and despicable...

but there are a lot of motel rooms and a lot of sick people out there.  I just wonder how many horrific scenes remain hidden...

:o

Subject: Re: 3 kids found starved in Texas

Written By: Dagwood on 07/28/09 at 7:49 am


8-P People make me so sick sometimes.  Controlling my big fat $*^!!!  She chose a man over the well being of her children and let this happen.


Same here.  You need to protect your kids while they can't protect themselves.  Having a man/woman is not worth the damage to your kids. 

Subject: Re: 3 kids found starved in Texas

Written By: Reynolds1863 on 08/05/09 at 8:19 am

The kids are of school age.  Most states require that kids either go to school or be registered home schoolers. Why weren't questions raised?  I have to agree that it's disgraceful when you chose a man over the safety and sanity of your kids. 

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